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Across the Fence:  What Do You Do Just For You?  |
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therusticcottage
True Blue Farmgirl
4439 Posts
Kay
Vancouver
WA
USA
4439 Posts |
 Posted - Jan 05 2007 : 12:03:57 AM
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What one (or two) little thing (s) do you do for yourself every day? Something that is just yours to pamper yourself a little bit.
My morning coffee is my bliss. I buy a really good brand of coffee, have a special mug to drink it from, and have my hazelnut creamer. Pure heaven in a cup. I get up 30 minutes before every one else just so that I can enjoy that first sip all by myself. I also love having special soap -- handmade, of course -- to use for my bath with a nice fluffy washcloth. That's an every day ritual I've done for years. Love it!
The Rustic Cottage Etsy Shop http://therusticcottage.etsy.com
http://nwfarmerette.blogspot.com http://rcpicaday.blogspot.com
She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands -Proverbs 31:13
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ByHzGrace
True Blue Farmgirl
348 Posts
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Posted - Jan 05 2007 : 02:14:33 AM
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Beemoosie
True Blue Farmgirl
2077 Posts
Bonnie
New York
USA
2077 Posts |
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Horseyrider
True Blue Farmgirl
1045 Posts
Mary Ann
Illinois
1045 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2007 : 04:41:40 AM
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Kay, this is going to sound awful, but pretty much my whole life is pampering me! I get up early and have my morning cup of outstanding coffee (black, first of the day, and blistering hot) while sitting at my laptop on the couch, my dog at my feet. Then I go out and take care of MY horses (I'm the only one who rides, so that qualifies as pampering). I get to do pretty much whatever I want with my horses, and it reminds me of when I was a child and had a Barbie with all the accessories. I have luxury saddles, great grooming tools, bed them as deep in shavings as I like, etc. It's so fun! I get to cook whatever I want because my hubby's very easygoing about what I make; he likes everything. I get to garden whichever way I like, and do whatever I like. My time is my own, and that's the best pampering of all.
Shoot, you made me realize that the real pampering going on is how my hubby pampers me! Not only does he never give me any flak about my horsey habit, he helps me every night with chores. Last night we were out there together, feeding and cleaning stalls. He never says Boo about it; he just helps. I don't have to work, I don't have to do hardly anything I don't want to do. Yeah, I'm *so* pampered, every single minute of the day.  |
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mima
True Blue Farmgirl
1573 Posts
1573 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2007 : 06:12:15 AM
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| um.... can I sign up for that? |
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momto6
True Blue Farmgirl
134 Posts
Valerie
Goltry
OK
USA
134 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2007 : 06:12:49 AM
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Your question made me realize how much "it really is all about me", as my daughters tell each other!!
Strange as it sounds, my time for crafting is probably the biggest thing I do for myself. I really enjoy what I'm doing, and everyone else here thinks it is silly! I, too have a special mug, but I fill it with homemade hot chocolate and sip on it while I read through this forum. I'd have to say that besides reading my Bible, the forum and getting to know everyone here is the best thing I do for myself on a daily basis.
Val |
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Marybeth
True Blue Farmgirl
6418 Posts
Mary Beth
Stanwood
Wa 98292
USA
6418 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2007 : 06:47:29 AM
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That question took me back for a moment. What do I do for myself? Hmmmm... I am 24/7 caregiver for a stroke victim. Brain damage is an awful thing, so I think I really enjoy any time I get outside. One thing I do in the morning is feed the horses and I do enjoy that. Out to the barn to play with the cats and load up some hay and take it out to the horses and talk to them for a while. They are my friends. I can't wait till Spring and right now i am poking around looking for any sign of early Crocus. Playing on the computer is fun for me too. We had a little touch of snow last night so I am waiting for daylight to take some pictures. Another fun thing...pictures. I am truly blessed. Take care MB
www.strawberryhillsfarm.blogspot.com
www.day4plus.blogspot.com
"Life may not be the party we hoped for...but while we are here we might as well dance!" |
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BarefootGoatGirl
True Blue Farmgirl
1495 Posts
Corrine
North Carolina
USA
1495 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2007 : 09:02:07 AM
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For me there is expensive organic teas (a diffrent flavor each time and I do share with hubby), but I have it down to a science of how to get 2 great cups and 3 good cups from 2 bags. To keep up my strenth, I spend time in prayer and Bible study each day. I try to exersize everyday, but often it is more like 3 days a week. Then there are my "girls". Milking is a great time for reflection, prayer, and singing praises. I cannot wait for freshening next month.
trina
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Be thou diligent to know the state of thy flocks, and look well to thy herds. Proverbs 27:23 |
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grace gerber
True Blue Farmgirl
2804 Posts
grace
larkspur
colorado
USA
2804 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2007 : 09:35:42 AM
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A bath is a great timeout for me. My ice climbing son Nick has a has a organic bath products business and he has made several bath salt combination just for me - so when we have propane I give my self a gift of a bath with his salts and a book. Soaking these muscles after shoveling is the ticket. My inner pamper is the time I spend at my spinning wheel. I call it my soul strings and this centers my inner thoughts. Mary Beth I know what that is like to be a 24/7 caregiver (I was that for so long before my husband passed) Be kind to yourself when you can. Big Hugs to you ladies and stay warm.
Grace Gerber
Larkspur Funny Farm and Fiber Art Studio
Where the spirits are high and the fiber is deep
http://www.larkspurfunnyfarm.etsy.com
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Bridge
True Blue Farmgirl
814 Posts
Bridgette
Southern
Indiana
USA
814 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2007 : 10:19:27 AM
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Things I do for "ME"....
Special teas, time with my kitties, and nice hand lotion.
Trina, I sure would like to know your "science" on the tea.......?????
~~Bridge's Boutique~~
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pinkroses
True Blue Farmgirl
2350 Posts
Sheila
Virginia
USA
2350 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2007 : 11:48:09 AM
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I find prayer and meditation , listening to up lifiting music.
I play the piano and read music.
I like to write insprational poems ( Mostly Christian) devotionals and short stories.
I also love love, love to do needlework. knitting, crocheting, sewing,quilting, cro-tatting, counted cross stitch. hand embrodiery,and making jewerly.
I find quite moments with God to be very helpful.
I love to have quite moments when no one is around to bother me. Thee hee. pinkroses. |
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Aunt Jenny
True Blue Farmgirl
11381 Posts
Jenny
middle of
Utah
USA
11381 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2007 : 11:51:53 AM
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needlework, quiet time and spending my prayer time with Mona. I totally recharge when I am up late sewing on a quiet night. I indulge myself with books and fabric.
Jenny in Utah
Inside me there is a skinny woman crying to get out...but I can usually shut her up with cookies
http://www.auntjennysworld.blogspot.com/ visit my little online shop at www.auntjenny.etsy.com |
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newheart
True Blue Farmgirl
471 Posts
Margie
Owings Mills
Maryland
USA
471 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2007 : 12:03:41 PM
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My morning cup of coffee, just sitting on Patio and watching daylight approach,and my crafts...Knitting, very new at Embroidery and reading...They are my things for myself and my thoughts and Prayers.....
I have had a rough year with the Heart Attack and surgery,so I have made my peace with Him.
and of course my friends here.....
NEWHEART
Love of friends and family makes the world go round..and always a little Chocolate.
margie
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junebug
True Blue Farmgirl
2421 Posts
Sue
West Plains,
Mo.
USA
2421 Posts |
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happymama58
True Blue Farmgirl
1210 Posts
Patti
Missouri
USA
1210 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2007 : 4:01:40 PM
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I read. I always have at least 2 books I'm reading, always one nonfiction (that just started a few years ago) and the other either another nonfiction or a novel. Reading has been my "escape" since I began reading when I was 4.
I also love to journal or write letters. Both reading and writing are my "personal passions".
Some people search for happiness; others create it.
http://happymama58.typepad.com/my_weblog/
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lamarguerite farm
True Blue Farmgirl
649 Posts
missy
Battle Ground
Wa
USA
649 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2007 : 4:31:27 PM
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My time for "creating" means a lot to me. Whether it be my new addiction, knitting, or soapmaking, painting, drawing, paper art, salvage art. Probably the time when I feel closest to the Lord and most peaceful is through music and gardening. I love it in the summer when I can get up before everyone else and water and play with my flowers and watch the garden grow. Last year we finally got the green house done and I LOVE being in there all alone in the quiet. My fat cat Buster usually joins me and rubs on my legs and rolls on the ground while I work. I also love to watch my chickens in their little world. Once in awhile I treat myself to a spa day and soak in the bath and use my salt scrubs and lotions and paint my toenails red. There was a period of time where I forgot myself and ultimately lost myself. I'll never let that happen again!
A friend of mine recently told me, "you can't pour anything out of an empty vessel". Don't forget to fill yourselves up first so that you have something to give out to others!!
Blessings,
Missy
If you have a dream, even if you don't feel qualified to accomplish it, just try your hardest.-Maggie Jensen
http://18happyhens.blogspot.com
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Bluewrenn
True Blue Farmgirl
1122 Posts
Erin
Texas
USA
1122 Posts |
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doglady
True Blue Farmgirl
435 Posts
Tina
Howard
Ohio
USA
435 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2007 : 8:17:44 PM
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Every now and then I buy myself something that I don't normally buy. Such as today, I order myself some Honey Bell Tagarines and grapefruit from Florida. I can't wait to taste them. Usually, though, quiet time with no phone sewing, embroidery, or grooming and training my dogs and talking to them. They "can" keep a secret, you know ; )
Tina
The dogs own the house but the people pay the mortgage!
www.kennelcreations.com |
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therusticcottage
True Blue Farmgirl
4439 Posts
Kay
Vancouver
WA
USA
4439 Posts |
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westernhorse51
True Blue Farmgirl
1681 Posts
michele
farmingdale
n.j.
USA
1681 Posts |
Posted - Jan 06 2007 : 06:04:04 AM
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GARDENING makes me happy. I love digging in the dirt and after Im dirty & sweaty the best is to take a LONG hot shower w/ natural bath products that smell like the garden. Then I lotion up, put on something feminine, make a cup of tea and read. That to me, is a perfect block of time. Love being outside, it's soothing.
she selects wool and flax and works with eager hands Prov.31:13 |
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Cindy Lee
True Blue Farmgirl
510 Posts
Cindy
Sparks
Nevada
USA
510 Posts |
Posted - Jan 06 2007 : 06:26:17 AM
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You know, after reading what everyone wrote, I think that for the most part, we all have pretty great lives! Much to give thanks for!
To those that are struggling....Bless You! cindy |
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brightmeadow
True Blue Farmgirl
2045 Posts
Brenda
Lucas
Ohio
USA
2045 Posts |
Posted - Jan 06 2007 : 3:15:29 PM
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Oh, such good ideas. I'm into the morning quiet coffee thing too. I actually worked out flex time in my job schedule so I could sit at my kitchen table and enjoy that first cup of coffee after sunrise (at least in the summer) instead of starting at 7:00 am like everyone else. I often do my Bible study/devotionals then too.
One other thing I do -just for me- is when I get interested in something I will sign up for a class, whether it is a knitting seminar, gardening, or a radio topic, or even something work-related. As my father repeated over and over again, education is something that no one can ever take away from you. Sometimes I even spend travel money to attend these classes.
Right now I need to see if I can find any classes on raising organic apples in an old orchard... LOL- maybe that is too specific!
You shall eat the fruit of the labor of your hands - You shall be happy and it shall be well with you. -Psalm 128.2
Visit my blog at http://brightmeadowfarms.blogspot.com ,web site store at http://www.watkinsonline.com/fish or my homepage at http://home.earthlink.net/~brightmeadow |
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sewgirlie
True Blue Farmgirl
1894 Posts
Sheryl-lyn
Calverton
NY
USA
1894 Posts |
Posted - Jan 06 2007 : 3:28:48 PM
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I sometimes work 14 hours a day, so each day I take a nice hot bath with mineral salts in it. There I will sit and read for a VERY long time sometimes!
I love tea during the day. I also love checking this website a lot too.
Quilting for about 15 minutes or more each day is also something I do for myself.
In the summer when I am off from teaching, I love to sit outside with the dogs for hours at a time. I will read out there, sew out there or just let them swim around in the river while I do nothing. It's all so good.
My first husband died when we were in our early thirties (I was 31, he was 33). As a former full-time caregiver (we also had two little babies at the time), I have really learned that we have to find a little piece of peace some time during each day.
Loved reading all of your messages here.
XXOO Sheryl-lyn |
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vintagegrl
True Blue Farmgirl
280 Posts
Jeanette
NH
USA
280 Posts |
Posted - Jan 07 2007 : 04:55:11 AM
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I wake every morning at 5:00 am. The cats are at that time acting as if they haven't eaten since the last millennium so of course I stumble my way to the kitchen and feed them. While I'm there I make a large cup of coffee, I do a quick PC check, yea you know it this forum is the first one I usually go to after checking my email. I then do my Tai Chi and Qi Gong practice/meditation for 30 minutes. And, I absolutely must do some form of needlework every day, right now I'm on a knitting dishclothes kick but after seeing Nancy Jo's embroidery work on her apron I'm inspired to use the patterns I got from Pattern Bee (another site that was highly recommended here) and start my own inspiration pieces.
I don't think of this as pampering, but as absolutely essential to my mental and physical health. Life is good. |
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Annab
True Blue Farmgirl
2900 Posts
Anna
Seagrove
NC
USA
2900 Posts |
Posted - Jan 07 2007 : 09:25:59 AM
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I go into work an hour early and either diddle of the computer or make diets for the animals. At home there's always something going on or something that requires attention, this way I get total peace
It's really quiet so it's also neat to hear the animals sounds and all the carryon on they do when no one else is around.
Good news is, hubby works at the same place and is also an early riser, so we are able to drive in together and have our "me time" in our own sections
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wovenheart
True Blue Farmgirl
80 Posts
Dona
Washington State
USA
80 Posts |
Posted - Jan 09 2007 : 2:51:20 PM
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I love the quiet of the morning, coffee in hand and in my favorite chair watching an old 1940's movie:)
"It's the beauty that thrills me with wonder...It's the stillness that fill me with peace." |
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