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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up:  Prayers for our family URGENT - UPDATE 6/6  |
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hudsonsinaf
True Blue Farmgirl
3162 Posts
Shannon
Rozet
Wyoming
USA
3162 Posts |
 Posted - May 21 2015 : 4:34:29 PM
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We have been having issues with a neighbor recently. Today she threatened to get her gun and "take care of" me that way, after spraying me with a garden hose. Simply put, I am petrified to live here, to have my children outside... Because my children were the only witnesses, the police can only write a report. To top it off, I had a report written against me for harassment, for hammering in nails into the fence between her yard and ours (they were coming out). I am so scared!
UPDATE: I have made it outside once, other than going to the car to leave, since all this happened! This is a HUGE praise! I have also stopped having anxiety attacks as soon as we enter the development! My kids are still struggling. My 4 yo prays every day that we do not get shot. Nightmares still happen. My 6 yo will not get out of the car on the side nearest that neighbor, but rather climbs over the other seats to go out the other side. BUT it truly is getting better! The kids have played outside a little, with their daddy right next to them. The dog has adjusted to not being let outside except when hubby is home. But perhaps the best news is we have a rental lined up! We are moving on the 6th of july. Anyone want to help? LOL. We would appreciate prayers regarding us moving - that we do not get injured, as I am 6 months or so pregnant and hubby has a really bad back (more herniated discs and surgery has to wait until AFTER the medical board the AF is doing!). Also that we can quickly sell our house after we move, as we have no clue how we are going to pay both rent and a mortgage - but we do know that God will provide and we need to get out of this house!
~ Shannon
http://hudson-everydayblessings.blogspot.com/ |
Edited by - hudsonsinaf on Jun 05 2015 6:48:29 PM |
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melody
True Blue Farmgirl
3329 Posts
Melody
The Great North Woods in the Land of Hiawatha
USA
3329 Posts |
Posted - May 21 2015 : 4:56:13 PM
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Is there somewhere you can go until she cools off? Family? Friend?
I'd leave for a while if I were you....
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DandeeRose
True Blue Farmgirl
1509 Posts
Alicia
Charlestown, IN
1509 Posts |
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hudsonsinaf
True Blue Farmgirl
3162 Posts
Shannon
Rozet
Wyoming
USA
3162 Posts |
Posted - May 21 2015 : 5:44:16 PM
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We are looking at listing our house ASAP, and then renting a place for awhile. There is a gentleman from church that has offered his "farm" for a couple nights. It is too late to pack up all the kids and go tonight, so we are eating real quick and then heading to bed. Hubby has off until Tuesday... not sure what i am going to do on Tuesday!
~ Shannon
http://hudson-everydayblessings.blogspot.com/ |
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DandeeRose
True Blue Farmgirl
1509 Posts
Alicia
Charlestown, IN
1509 Posts |
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hudsonsinaf
True Blue Farmgirl
3162 Posts
Shannon
Rozet
Wyoming
USA
3162 Posts |
Posted - May 21 2015 : 7:01:55 PM
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I would be scared to have you and the kids here Alicia! So I am not sure what to tell you! I have a feeling it is going to be a loooooong night! I think tomorrow we are going to go on our planned field trip tomorrow and then start packing and doing stuff around the house to get it ready to sell. I have some work to do, and Brad's back prevents him from doing too much, but I have to get my kids out of here!
~ Shannon
http://hudson-everydayblessings.blogspot.com/ |
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ceejay48
Farmgirl Legend/Schoolmarm/Sharpshooter
13664 Posts
CeeJay (CJ)
Dolores
Colorado
USA
13664 Posts |
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DandeeRose
True Blue Farmgirl
1509 Posts
Alicia
Charlestown, IN
1509 Posts |
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
7715 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
7715 Posts |
Posted - May 22 2015 : 12:03:34 AM
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Oh Shannon how horrible, I will put you all in my prayers.
blessings
darlene
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Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
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hudsonsinaf
True Blue Farmgirl
3162 Posts
Shannon
Rozet
Wyoming
USA
3162 Posts |
Posted - May 22 2015 : 01:20:00 AM
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Thank you ladies! I got afewhours of sleep! Yay! So your prayers have honestly helped! The one thing I could greally use right now, are Bible verses... Ones that speak of God's protection... Of His faithfulness... Of trusting Him, not man. Psalm 97 says He will deliver His saints out of the hand of the wicked... While the wicked is probably more Satan than man, he still works through people... So I am clinging to that verse, that God will deliver us from the wickedness we have experienced. I am not trying to call my neighbor wicked, and I am trying to earnestly pray for her, andi ask that you do the same, but I do feel our family is experiencing wickedness at the hands of Satan.
~ Shannon
http://hudson-everydayblessings.blogspot.com/ |
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Song Sparrow
True Blue Farmgirl
1010 Posts
Amy
Talleyville
Delaware
USA
1010 Posts |
Posted - May 22 2015 : 05:29:04 AM
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Oh Shannon, this is so terrible! I pray for you, and I know your faith will go a long way to sustain you. I just wish there was something more we could do. Your neighbor obviously is more than unhappy, she has serious mental health issues, so I pray for her too. But I have to admit I'd also like to punch her in the nose (better pray on that, too!). God bless and protect you and your family.
Peace in our hearts, peace in the world
Amy (Sister#6098) www.danaherandcloud.com
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DandeeRose
True Blue Farmgirl
1509 Posts
Alicia
Charlestown, IN
1509 Posts |
Posted - May 22 2015 : 05:30:14 AM
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Because he hath set his love upon me, therefore will I deliver him: I will set him on high, because he hath known my name. Psalms 91:14
Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the LORD thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee. Deut. 31:6
PS- Deuteronomy has been a fav lately.
Many Blessings- Alicia #5232
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Red Tractor Girl
True Blue Farmgirl
6663 Posts
Winnie
Gainesville
Fl
USA
6663 Posts |
Posted - May 22 2015 : 05:43:15 AM
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Shannon, I am so sorry and appalled at the behavior of your neighbor!! Yes, you and hubby need a place to keep the children safe until a different living situation is possible. I will be praying that you and dh will find some temporary arrangements until a permanent solution is available. In the meantime, hopefully there are public parks and spaces you can take your children everyday for outdoor play and fun. I am glad you called the police and had the incident documented regarding the gun threat. I agree with Amy that your neighbor has some serious mental health issues and you have to protect yourself and family. I hate hearing about all of this ugly stuff happening and while I don't have a Bible verse that comes to mind, I will keep you all in my prayers for safety and resolution to the many big problems that are currently on your plate!
Winnie #3109
Red Tractor Girl
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sherone_13
True Blue Farmgirl
2460 Posts
Sherone
Evanston
WY
USA
2460 Posts |
Posted - May 22 2015 : 06:25:04 AM
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Hope this helps!
Isaiah 40:31 - But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
Sherone
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ceejay48
Farmgirl Legend/Schoolmarm/Sharpshooter
13664 Posts
CeeJay (CJ)
Dolores
Colorado
USA
13664 Posts |
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crafter
True Blue Farmgirl
2313 Posts
lori
Fort Atkinson
Wisconsin
USA
2313 Posts |
Posted - May 22 2015 : 09:09:17 AM
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praying for your family!!
God has promised strength for the day, rest for the labor, light for the way, grace for the trials, help from above, unfailing sympathy and undying love.
We are here to love each other, serve each other and uplift each other. |
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
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Posted - May 22 2015 : 2:16:20 PM
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Praying for you and your family. Please, keep us posted.
Hugs.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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prariehawk
True Blue Farmgirl
2914 Posts
Cindy
2914 Posts |
Posted - May 22 2015 : 6:03:58 PM
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That is so scary. I will be praying for you for your safety. I can't believe the police didn't do more about it. I would also call a lawyer pronto. Get a restraining order against her.
Cindy
"Come by the hills to the land where fancy is free; And stand where the peaks meet the sky and the rocks reach the sea.Where the rivers run clear and the bracken is gold in the sun. and cares of tomorrow must wait till this day is done"--Loreena McKennit
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churunga
True Blue Farmgirl
3957 Posts
Marie
Minneapolis
MN
USA
3957 Posts |
Posted - May 23 2015 : 08:03:44 AM
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Restraining orders are difficult to enforce especially if that person is a neighbor. I fear that a restraining order will only make the situation worse. I believe that you do not have to list your home. When you leave, the neighbor will probably turn her attention to someone else thus producing a pattern and THAT will be noticed. I would wait it out. Take care, wherever you go, that the neighbor doesn't continue to harass you by stalking your family. I don't mean to scare, however; from the description you have given, it seems as if this person is obsessed with you and your family. Personally, I feel compassion for this neighbor. Imagine how much pain they must be in to treat you in such a bad fashion. Remember that her behavior is not directed at you but at a circumstance in their life that they cannot control so they are trying to control something else. This is my perception.
Marie, Sister #5142
Farmgirl of the Month May 2014
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hudsonsinaf
True Blue Farmgirl
3162 Posts
Shannon
Rozet
Wyoming
USA
3162 Posts |
Posted - May 23 2015 : 08:26:11 AM
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I honestly think the neighbor has a medical imbalance and has gone off her medications. We have seen her do this to other people in the past... and they have all moved. We are going to do the same. I do not know if the others put in police complaints or not... but i know I cannot let my children outside. As a homeschool family that does not own a television, this is difficult! A lawyer and restraining orders take money we do not have. Going to court takes money we do not have. I stay at home to school my six children wit number 7 on the way. Hubby is active duty military. He works crazy hours and is paid less then minimum wage. We live pay check to pay check. That is the life of enlisted military personnel! But it is one my hubby takes great pride in... I do pray for our neighbor... she is a very bitter woman. I pray for the people that will own this house next. I pray for the rest of the neighbors. But most often, I pray for the safety of my children! Her targets are generally happy marriages of younger children... I just want to get away from her as quick as possible!
~ Shannon
http://hudson-everydayblessings.blogspot.com/ |
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wildflower17
True Blue Farmgirl
3043 Posts
Judy
KY
USA
3043 Posts |
Posted - May 23 2015 : 11:53:35 AM
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Shannon...Even though it's not easy to have to uproot your family so quickly...I am sure that God has many blessings just around the corner for you and your family...I guess the ladies behavior is just evidence of the signs of the times...and your children definitely don't need to live in a place where they and you are afraid for them to even go outside...I once heard Dr. Charles Stanley(First Baptist Church Atlanta Georgia)preaching on television many years ago...He said when you have bitterness and anger inside of you...that it's like a volcano...sooner or later it's going to erupt and not just on you but everyone around you...sounds like this is what may be happening here...Many prayers are going up for you and your loved ones...
Hugs!
Judy
"Until one has loved an animal, a part of one's soul remains unawakened"...
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lovinRchickens
True Blue Farmgirl
3492 Posts
Kelly
Pipe Creek
Texas
USA
3492 Posts |
Posted - May 23 2015 : 12:42:57 PM
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Shannon
I am sending up prayers for your family. This is a horrible situation. I am so sorry.
Farmgirl #5111
Farmgirl of the month October 2014
Blessings
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notathreatinsight
True Blue Farmgirl
626 Posts
Erin
Monroeville
IN
USA
626 Posts |
Posted - May 24 2015 : 03:34:48 AM
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Shannon I'm so sorry this is happening to you! I haven't been on in a few days, and I just saw this. How horrible of her! I'll be praying for you and your family.
Erin
Farmgirl #3762
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hudsonsinaf
True Blue Farmgirl
3162 Posts
Shannon
Rozet
Wyoming
USA
3162 Posts |
Posted - May 26 2015 : 05:26:56 AM
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Thank you all! We spent the weekend searching for a rental and staying away from the house as much as possible. When we were home, we were working on improvement projects and packing. I am hoping to get the kids to a park this week... they need space to run! The hardest part of that will be driving... I have a panic attack as soon as we get close to the neighborhood! Going to look at the inside of a house today... and then start setting up other showings. Everything was closed this weekend with it being a holiday! BUT at least hubby was home! For the most part, we are doing alright. It is more emotional/fear that we are dealing with right now. Last night was the first night none of the kids had nightmares, so a definite improvement!
~ Shannon
http://hudson-everydayblessings.blogspot.com/ |
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DandeeRose
True Blue Farmgirl
1509 Posts
Alicia
Charlestown, IN
1509 Posts |
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Song Sparrow
True Blue Farmgirl
1010 Posts
Amy
Talleyville
Delaware
USA
1010 Posts |
Posted - May 26 2015 : 11:58:59 AM
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It's really wonderful that you are moving forward and taking charge of your situation. That a huge accomplishment considering what you've been subjected too. Good for you, I am awed by you courage! Continuing to pray for for you daily!
Peace in our hearts, peace in the world
Amy (Sister#6098) www.danaherandcloud.com
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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: Prayers for our family URGENT - UPDATE 6/6 |
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Prayers for our family URGENT - UPDATE 6/6
