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Family Matters:  Dughter in laws that dont care for you?  |
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hialtfarmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
72 Posts
Terri
WA.
USA
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 Posted - Nov 20 2012 : 03:45:23 AM
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Do any of you have DIL's that literally dont like you ?
Several of ours do, we have 5 boys that are married and their wives literally wish I were gone forever...ARGH!!!    I have done everythign I can do, apologize, love, give gifts,,,and they still wish I was not around.... dont know what else to do...any suggestions??!!
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Edited by - hialtfarmgirl on Nov 20 2012 03:48:17 AM |
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kysheeplady
True Blue Farmgirl
1291 Posts
Teri
KY
USA
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Posted - Nov 20 2012 : 04:32:10 AM
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sounds like they are the ones with the problem ... there is nothing you can do, people feel the way they want to. Go about YOUR life and let them deal with their issues.
If there are reasons you know about as to why they don't like you, and you are trying to make amends, then just know that you can't buy love or forgivness ... actions always speak louder than words.
Teri
"There are black sheep in every flock"
White Sheep Farm
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
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Posted - Nov 20 2012 : 3:43:57 PM
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Teri: Been there, done that. Teri from Kentucky is right. Let it go. I gave all that to the Lord, I let Him deal with it.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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kysheeplady
True Blue Farmgirl
1291 Posts
Teri
KY
USA
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Posted - Nov 20 2012 : 4:24:27 PM
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Marly, I have been on the other end of it ... My MIL does not like me ... no other reason that I married her son ... silly her! Now we live in KY. and she in MA. who's sorry now.
Teri
"There are black sheep in every flock"
White Sheep Farm
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hialtfarmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
72 Posts
Terri
WA.
USA
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Posted - Nov 20 2012 : 7:37:40 PM
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THANKS !!!
"LOVING" life at 4000 feet..."LOVE" is a very splenderd thing... |
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
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Posted - Nov 20 2012 : 9:05:39 PM
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Sorry to hear that, Teri. I guess one could say it was her lose. Does she visit?
Hugs.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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annielaurel
True Blue Farmgirl
912 Posts
nancy
fernandina beach
florida
USA
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Posted - Nov 21 2012 : 05:27:32 AM
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Yes, Teri, I have a daughter-in-law who really dislikes me. She blames me for all the things my son tells her that made his life growing up so awful. He was never physically abused but suffered emothional abuse from his father who has mild Asberger's. I never held my husband's mother in hatred for all the negative things that happened in his childhood.
Just let it go. Remember that your grandchildren are seeing how their mother treats you. And someday they will call her on it wanting to know why.
Take care and stay loving,
Hugs,
Nancy
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