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LuckyMommyof5
True Blue Farmgirl
500 Posts
Suzanne
OH
USA
500 Posts |
 Posted - Sep 11 2012 : 05:45:41 AM
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Lori,
I am praying for your health and your work situation to improve. I have experienced a work situation like that before. Years ago I got what I thought was my dream job and was very happy and had a great boss and no problems for the first six months. Only, the boss who hired me left and I was SHOCKED when my new boss was a woman I had worked with in a totally different place previously who HATED me for no reason I could ever figure out. When she became my new boss my dream job was over - she criticized everything I said or did and wrote completely nasty memos about me to HR. She did this to a few others in the office, too, and we all complained to HR, but no one cared. Eventually, we all just quit. I look back and think I should have tried harder to stick up for myself because what she was doing was wrong. You hang in there and don't give up.
I hope you feel better, get plenty of rest and see the doctors you need to see. Don't let what she's doing consume you.
Farmgirl Sister #3243
"The real things haven't changed. It is still best to be honest and truthful; to make the most of what we have; to be happy with simple pleasures; and have courage when things go wrong." - Laura Ingalls Wilder |
Edited by - LuckyMommyof5 on Sep 11 2012 05:51:31 AM |
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crafter
True Blue Farmgirl
2313 Posts
lori
Fort Atkinson
Wisconsin
USA
2313 Posts |
Posted - Sep 11 2012 : 10:13:07 AM
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Suzanne- that is exactly what happen here- my first boss, who hired me- always said how great I am with patients and trying to build a team..the new boss has worked here also in a different position and whammy... I have a emailed the VP to see what direction I should go with HR- he gave me a different name in HR and said if I need anything further to contact him directly and we will go over my notes and documentation I have..
Thanks again sisters- thanks doesn't seem enough, but I am truly grateful for your support and help!!
Lori
Gernerosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need! |
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ptroupe
True Blue Farmgirl
1752 Posts
Portia
Johnson City
NY
USA
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Posted - Sep 11 2012 : 7:34:56 PM
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Good for you! Take things with full force and tell the VP about your illness. Allude to the fact that this boss is not helping your condition---which is true. Get the VP scared. I hate to say it, but if the VP thinks you might pursue a court case, things might change. I hate to sound ugly, but you may have to resort to this tactic. We live in a society that is sue-crazy, but sometimes it works in your favor if they are scared enough. Prayers are with you. Keep us posted. Just remember that the VP doesn't want people to feel ill toward his/her company. Bad reputation=no business!!!
Hugs,
Portia
Wishing for the country life! |
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
13055 Posts |
Posted - Sep 11 2012 : 9:11:09 PM
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I'm smiling at your choice. Great for you. Be calm, bring any notes you took, etc... I'll be praying for you. Sending you lots of hugs.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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ddmashayekhi
True Blue Farmgirl
4740 Posts
Dawn
Naperville
Illinois
USA
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Posted - Sep 12 2012 : 09:11:43 AM
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I agree, document everything and don't ever lose your temper! Hard to do, but you will benefit greatly if you can stay in control of your temper.
You are in my prayers. I'm so sorry you are dealing with all of this, especially at the same time. Best of luck to you.
Dawn in IL |
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
7626 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
7626 Posts |
Posted - Sep 13 2012 : 9:33:38 PM
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My prayers are there for you Lori for your heart and medical problems as well as for your job situation.
You take care and give it to God.
hugs and love
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer |
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
13055 Posts |
Posted - Sep 16 2012 : 5:03:05 PM
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Lori, how are you doing? I pray things at work are better for you.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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crafter
True Blue Farmgirl
2313 Posts
lori
Fort Atkinson
Wisconsin
USA
2313 Posts |
Posted - Apr 06 2013 : 09:55:28 AM
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I am asking for some more prayers here...I need to find a new job. I can't take the bulling anymore. It messes with my head and heart and my family life is suffering because this person is cutting me down as much and as often as possible. My depression is kicking in full force and I am exhausted. Any prayers that anyone would like to share, I'm certainly grateful!!
Love to all-
Lori
God has promised strength for the day, rest for the labor, light for the way, grace for the trials, help from above, unfailing sympathy and undying love.
We are here to love each other, serve each other and uplift each other. |
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
7626 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
7626 Posts |
Posted - Apr 06 2013 : 11:06:10 AM
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Lori
I will put you in my prayers for changing jobs. Maybe careers too. I bet you can get a great job and love it better so you can have peace of mind. Did you report her? Go to the labor board for harrassment.
Any way take care, take deep breaths, go sit outside with nature, and listen to the birds and bugs and bee's, and the wind in the trees. It does wonders. God is there for sure
Take care ok
love
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... |
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crafter
True Blue Farmgirl
2313 Posts
lori
Fort Atkinson
Wisconsin
USA
2313 Posts |
Posted - Apr 07 2013 : 4:52:36 PM
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These people have become like poison to my life- I just dread going into work tomorrow. I have been hitting the pavement to find something that will hopefully be a better fit for me and my family.
Lord, please grant me peace!
Lori
God has promised strength for the day, rest for the labor, light for the way, grace for the trials, help from above, unfailing sympathy and undying love.
We are here to love each other, serve each other and uplift each other. |
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
7626 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
7626 Posts |
Posted - Apr 07 2013 : 5:52:32 PM
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My prayers are with you Lori. Be strong.
Take care
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... |
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Fiddlehead Farm
True Blue Farmgirl
4562 Posts
Diane
Waupaca
WI
USA
4562 Posts |
Posted - Apr 08 2013 : 03:53:12 AM
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Prayers to you Lori. Don't let them win.
http://studiodiphotosite.shutterfly.com/
farmgirl sister #922
I am trying to be the person my dogs think I am.
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
13055 Posts |
Posted - Apr 09 2013 : 10:53:19 AM
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Lori, praying for you Sweetie!
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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crafter
True Blue Farmgirl
2313 Posts
lori
Fort Atkinson
Wisconsin
USA
2313 Posts |
Posted - Apr 09 2013 : 1:14:05 PM
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I am having one heck of an anxiety attack right now...too bad I don't work in a health field where someone give two cents!
God has promised strength for the day, rest for the labor, light for the way, grace for the trials, help from above, unfailing sympathy and undying love.
We are here to love each other, serve each other and uplift each other. |
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
7626 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
7626 Posts |
Posted - Apr 09 2013 : 2:08:47 PM
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Pray Lori
It will help your anxiety attacks. I am praying there along with you.
Take care and God be with you on a new job soon.
Blessings
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... |
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
13055 Posts |
Posted - Apr 09 2013 : 6:49:44 PM
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Lori, be positive Sweetie. Don't choose to let them break you down. If you need to chat, I can manage some time to call you. Continued prayers. Hugs.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: Needs some prayers please/update |
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Needs some prayers please/update
