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                 Corinnelouise 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
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                Corinne 
                France 
                  
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                       Posted - Aug 24 2009 :  08:33:45 AM
                        
                      
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                      It will be 9 years for us on august 31 th. The hottest day of that year in eastern Canada. Since it was the secound time for both of us and my familly couldn't travel over there, it was just the two of us, my witness  (his sister) and his witness (his favorite cousin) and his wife. We married at the City Hall, I wore a short red dress and it was just as time has been suspended for us. The best day of my life to date. Elizabeth, I also want a real wedding, hopefully next year. Corinne
  Sister # 101 'Heaven on Earth' is a choice you must make, not a place you must find. Dr. Wayne Dyer | 
                     
                    
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                 KayB 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
                540 Posts
   
                Kay 
                Del City 
                Oklahoma 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Aug 24 2009 :  10:13:32 AM
                        
                      
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                      Hubby and I met in 1980 and split up.  We do have a daughter together who is 27.  We went on to marry other people and he divorced her.  The man I married died after 15 years of marriage.  We got together again and low and behold, we've been married 12 years as of April.  We tell everyone we broke up for 15 years.  He still wanted to get married and told my mom how he had waited so long for me to come back into his life.  It took a lot of convincing because I was 43 when we got married and wasn't sure I wanted to do it again.  But here we are and happy as can be.
  Congratulations!!  Love the wedding picture and the fact that you were able to stay together for this long.  
  KayB
 
  Life's a dance you learn as you go | 
                     
                    
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                 DyaLynn53 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                    
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                Dianne 
                Roseburg 
                Oregon 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Aug 24 2009 :  3:18:05 PM
                        
                      
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                      My husband Bob and I got married on March 22, 1975; done a lot of livin, gone down some very bumpy roads, but we'll be together till the very end.  Love is not a feeling it's an act of your will; someone told me that a long time ago and it's worked for me.  After 35 years, for us anyway, the road has smoothed out a lot; it's better-n-better.
 
  Farmgirl Sister #682
  Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without. | 
                     
                    
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                 5 acre Farmgirl 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
                1007 Posts
  
                ~~~*Terri*~~~ 
                  
                WA. 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Aug 28 2009 :  08:32:37 AM
                        
                      
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                      We will be married 20 years in December, the first few were almost unbearable, but, now my DH is my best friend, I learned My place, and it is not His!
  Farmgirl Sister #368 "It is most common for man to value most what has least worth." My Farm and Garden blog.... http://blogonthefarmandgarden.blogspot.com
 
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                 peapicker 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
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                       Posted - Aug 28 2009 :  08:51:09 AM
                        
                      
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                      This Dec. will be 28 years, and its a great marriage. I hope we both make it to old and set in our ways, sitting on the porch and drinking coffee together.
  Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things. Robert Brault | 
                     
                    
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                 Prairie Flower 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                     
                208 Posts
  
                Linda 
                Sterling 
                Ks. 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Aug 28 2009 :  9:33:10 PM
                        
                      
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                      I am enjoying so much your love stories. It is amazing how some of you had rough beginnings, but you stayed for the long haul and you have made it. God Bless you all! So many of you are a wonderful example of what commitment means. Blessings ladies, Linda
  Enter and leave with a happy heart! | 
                     
                    
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                 happydaze 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                    
                136 Posts
  
                lorraine 
                atlanta 
                ni 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Sep 04 2009 :  5:54:38 PM
                        
                      
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                      | 42 years ago I married my pen pal-10 days after meeting him for the first time in person.Left my family and friends back in Arizona, moved to Michigan where he lives and never looked back. | 
                     
                    
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                 Prairie Flower 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                     
                208 Posts
  
                Linda 
                Sterling 
                Ks. 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Sep 04 2009 :  6:14:24 PM
                        
                      
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                      quote: Originally posted by happydaze
  42 years ago I married my pen pal-10 days after meeting him for the first time in person.Left my family and friends back in Arizona, moved to Michigan where he lives and never looked back.
 
  
  You go girl! What a wonderful commitment! Isn't it amazing if we just love, we can make it. I am sure you have more to your story. I love what you just told me. 42 years. I love it. Thank you for telling us your love story. IT is wonderful! Blessings,  Linda
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                 ceejay48 
                Farmgirl Legend/Schoolmarm/Sharpshooter 
                      
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                CeeJay (CJ) 
                Dolores 
                Colorado 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Sep 05 2009 :  2:05:40 PM
                        
                        
                      
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                      41 years coming up on December 28, 2009!!!
  We got married 3 days after Christmas in a horrendous snow storm here in SW Colorado.   I was living in Phoenix, sharing an apt. with a girlfriend.  Bill was still going to college, living in the dorm. We drove through TERRIBLE weather . . . and that is when my Arizona born "desert rat" husband-to-be learned that you don't just drive across 15 inches of new snow.  I told him it was like quick sand . . .sure enough!!  But we got help right away.
  Anyway, we had a snowy Christmas and a snowy wedding . . . 
  We lived in Phoenix for a few years (where both of our children were born), then in Tucson for a few . . . but in 1975 we moved to Colorado where we have lived since.  My dad deeded us 3 acres of the farm I grew up on and we built a log house (did ALL the logging and log preparation work ourselves (this house burned down in an arson fire in July of 1994).  Then we built another house, frame this time and have been there ever since!   Our roots GO DEEP!!!
  Yup . . . 41 years!!! CJ
  ...from the barefoot farmgirl in SW Colorado...sister chick #665 | 
                     
                    
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                 Brenda Kay Groth 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                    
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                Brenda 
                Manton 
                MIch 
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                       Posted - Sep 10 2009 :  06:46:49 AM
                        
                        
                      
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                      38 years last week.
  bloom where you are planted | 
                     
                    
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                 Autumn Leaves 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                     
                463 Posts
  
                Jennifer 
                Northern 
                California 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Sep 11 2009 :  5:24:28 PM
                        
                      
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                      20 years this coming May 1st. Boy does time fly when you're having fun! I must say the last 10 were way better than the first 10. Can't wait to see how the next 10 stack up!
  Jennifer
  Never let yesterday use up too much of today - Will Rogers | 
                     
                    
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                 levisgrammy 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
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                Denise 
                Beavercreek 
                Ohio 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Sep 11 2009 :  5:47:41 PM
                        
                      
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                      We have been married 27 years. I was thinking the other day that I have been married over half my life. Looking forward to growing old together. As peapicker says growing old set in our ways, sitting on the porch and drinking coffee. Well, we do sit on the porch drinking coffee now though.
  God is good....all the time. Denise www.torisgram.etsy.com | 
                     
                    
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                 jpbluesky 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
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                Jeannie 
                  
                Florida 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Sep 11 2009 :  5:53:15 PM
                        
                      
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                      What a wonderful photo, and just the beginning of many years together.  I loved reading that post.  Hubby and I were married in 1977, and so it took me back as well to those years.  And by the way, your hubby had to be a REAL man to say yes to that shirt!  teehee
  Farmgirl Sister # 31
  www.blueskyjeannie.blogspot.com
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                 krissy 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                     
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                Kristen 
                Snohomish 
                WA 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Sep 14 2009 :  11:01:06 AM
                        
                      
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                      I've been married 19 years.  Right before our 12th anniversary, hubby landed in the hospital with cancer.  Ever since then we've had our financial woes, but hey... he's ALIVE and I thank God!!!
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                 homsteddinmom 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                     
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                Brandee 
                bullard 
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                       Posted - Sep 14 2009 :  11:54:25 AM
                        
                        
                      
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                      We have been together 18 years married 14 years of that, and we have 2 kids!
  Homesteading Mom in East Texas. Raising chickens, Rabbits and goats here on my farm! | 
                     
                    
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                 Lynner 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                     
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                Sheri 
                  
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                USA 
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                       Posted - Sep 22 2009 :  3:05:11 PM
                        
                      
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                      We had our 32nd in August, and hoping for another 32.  Two daughters and two granddaughters.  I married my best friend, and it gets better and better every day. Sheri
  Many Hands Make Light Work!
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                 simplyflowers 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                     
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                Jamie 
                Locust Grove 
                Virginia 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Oct 08 2009 :  02:59:12 AM
                        
                      
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                      So neat reading this thread!!!  My DH and I were married on July 29th, 2006.  So 3 years for us!  A wonderful three years as well...  *happy sigh*  :)
  "Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work." -- Thomas Edison
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                 maggie14 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
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                Hannah 
                  
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                USA 
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                       Posted - Oct 11 2009 :  09:44:53 AM
                        
                        
                      
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                      My parents have been happily married for 20 years on September 30th. And there still really inlove with each other. :) Maggie | 
                     
                    
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                 ddmashayekhi 
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                Dawn 
                Naperville 
                Illinois 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Oct 11 2009 :  4:10:42 PM
                        
                      
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                      Today is our 7th anniversary! We spent the weekend with our little boy up in Kohler, WI. Back years ago on our honeymoon we had driven around Lake Michigan for a week and had stayed there. We had always wanted to go back and I'm glad we did. It was a lot chillier then the day we got married though, that day it was 82, today in WI it was 44! Both days were sunny and beautiful though!
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                 maggie14 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
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                Hannah 
                  
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                       Posted - Oct 11 2009 :  6:01:10 PM
                        
                        
                      
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                      Happy anniversary Dawn! Maggie | 
                     
                    
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                 MissLiss 
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                Melissa 
                Corona 
                CA 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Oct 11 2009 :  7:54:14 PM
                        
                      
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                      My DH and I were High School sweethearts - we started dating 11 years ago and will be married for 5 years on January 1, 2010.  We've been through a lot together and we were so afraid that we wouldn't make it through his deployment with our sanity in tact.  But we did, he's out of the military now and we have a beautiful house, a wonderful DD and are trying to expand our brood :-).  Congrats to all you ladies out there, at one year or fifty years!
  Melissa ~ Farmgirl #724 Use it up, Wear it out, Make it do, Or go without! | 
                     
                    
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                 kristin sherrill 
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                kristin 
                chickamauga 
                ga 
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                       Posted - Oct 12 2009 :  08:03:35 AM
                        
                      
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                      31 years Oct. 28. I can hardly believe that. That's a long time. More than half my life. There are alot of long marriages here. Very nice.
  Kris
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                 magnoliakathy 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                     
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                Kathryn 
                Magnolia 
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                USA 
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                       Posted - Oct 12 2009 :  11:10:06 AM
                        
                      
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                      25 years this coming August 16.  We are planning a 10 day cooking tour in Italy to celebrate.  He is my soul mate, my best friend, my lover, and the most wonderful person I know.  He married me with two teenagers to finish raising, my crazy family, and all of my faults.
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                 walkinwalkoutcattle 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
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                Megan 
                Paint Lick 
                KY 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Oct 27 2009 :  12:49:38 PM
                        
                      
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                      One month on the 3rd of November! hahaha!
  Starbucks and sushi to green fried tomatoes and corn pudding-I wouldn't change it for the world. www.cattleandcupcakes.blogspot.com | 
                     
                    
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                 marcy jo 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                     
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                Marcy 
                Wawaka 
                Indiana 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Oct 31 2009 :  08:41:25 AM
                        
                        
                      
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                      Me and my Pete will be married 4 years on Nov 3rd!! Each year has its struggles but is better  than the last!!
  Marcy #257
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