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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up:  My first Prayer Request- updated  |
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Windsong
True Blue Farmgirl
309 Posts
LaVonna
Decatur
Tx
309 Posts |
 Posted - Jul 21 2009 : 08:07:34 AM
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On this forum anyway. But I think my problems are something most of you would understand better than a lot of folks would.
Ten years ago I was just like many of you- wishing for a farm of my own. Right out of the blue I was offered a place from a lady who had bought land that had a doublewide on it and she could not afford it. She would owner finance it to me. That was 10 years back and with 10 to go she has run into finacial hard times and must let the note go. With all the new banking regulations I cannot qualify for the loan. Well, maybe I will but it has not been easy. I have been turned down by several.
But it sure is not fair. I am self employed and have a good business. I have never missed a payment. The house I got financed separate of the land but had no idea that it could cost so much to more a double wide. I could move it to the other side my fence and have it on my families property but have been told that it will cost over $10,000. And then there would be a septic system and a water well to drill. So if I lose the land I may have to default on the house. This is so breaking my heart.
And the other thing is my 88 year old mom lives with me and I am her caretaker and support.
Please pray for me.
LaVonna
Just to let you all know...I got a call from the bank today and the banker feels he can work the loan for the land out. I did have the idea that things could still derail but for today it sounds very good. Please do not cancel the prayer request. But I am breathing easier. 
www.windsongwellnessandtherapyshoppe.com
http://sadiesfarm.blogspot.com/ |
Edited by - Windsong on Jul 27 2009 10:48:03 PM |
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Marcy
True Blue Farmgirl
2701 Posts
Marcy
Tiverton
Rhode Island
USA
2701 Posts |
Posted - Jul 21 2009 : 08:10:19 AM
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Hi LaVonna,
What a pretty name! Will keep you in my prayers. Hope that everything works out for you. Please keep us posted. This sounds like such a wonderful thing and I hope you get it.
Farmgirl #170
Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give...Eleanor Roosevelt
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Sitnalta
True Blue Farmgirl
4208 Posts
Jessica
NJ
USA
4208 Posts |
Posted - Jul 21 2009 : 08:12:33 AM
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I will be praying LaVonna!!
hugs
Jessie
Farmgirl Sister #235
"You are my strength when I am weak. You are the treasure that I seek. You are my all in all. Seeking You as a precious jewel; Lord, to give up I'd be a fool. You are my all in all."
Stop by my blog for a visit www.messiejessie2.blogspot.com |
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Hosanna
True Blue Farmgirl
466 Posts
Hosanna
Alton
Virginia
466 Posts |
Posted - Jul 21 2009 : 08:16:00 AM
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| My heart breaks for you in this situation. I pray everything works out for you and your mom. |
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FebruaryViolet
True Blue Farmgirl
4810 Posts
Jonni
Elsmere
Kentucky
USA
4810 Posts |
Posted - Jul 21 2009 : 08:28:55 AM
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Oh, LaVonna, I am so very sorry. It's a terrible row you sow right now. I am certainly praying that you will get your financing (be smart, though--desperation blinds us all!) and I am really praying for you and your mom. It will all work out, whatever happens is what is meant to happen--hopefully it will all be well and good!
Musings from our family in the Bluegrass http://sweetvioletmae.blogspot.com/ |
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melanie47601
True Blue Farmgirl
1949 Posts
Melanie
Boonville
IN
USA
1949 Posts |
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CherryMeDarlin
True Blue Farmgirl
602 Posts
Cherry
Odenville
AL
USA
602 Posts |
Posted - Jul 21 2009 : 09:57:59 AM
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LaVonna, I will most certainly be praying for you and your landlady. Good thoughts and prayers of blessing are being sent your way!
~~Cherry~~
http://cherrymedarlin.blogspot.com
"A thing is as simple or as complicated as you make it." --TT Murphy |
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Corinnelouise
True Blue Farmgirl
957 Posts
Corinne
France
957 Posts |
Posted - Jul 21 2009 : 10:33:02 AM
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Praying for you LaVonna, that all goes the good and easy way for you and the other lady involved in this.
Mothers are precious for sure.
Corinne
Sister # 101
'Heaven on Earth' is a choice you must make, not a place you must find.
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Tanna
True Blue Farmgirl
195 Posts
Tanna
Fort Worth
TX
USA
195 Posts |
Posted - Jul 21 2009 : 12:35:50 PM
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OH LaVonna,
I am so sorry to here this. Do keep us updated. I hope everything works out in the end.
Tanna |
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peapicker
True Blue Farmgirl
716 Posts
texas
USA
716 Posts |
Posted - Jul 21 2009 : 12:55:23 PM
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| This is terrible. Praying there will be a way to work it out. How long do you have before its too late? |
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Windsong
True Blue Farmgirl
309 Posts
LaVonna
Decatur
Tx
309 Posts |
Posted - Jul 21 2009 : 10:52:11 PM
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I do want to thank you all for your input and positive thoughts. It is terribly hard to think about losing all I have worked so hard for but I do totally understand that "sometimes the end of the road is just a bend in the road" and maybe I am not quite where I am supposed to be just now.
My family owns land next to mine and there is a 10 acre area set aside for me to use. And this has always been there. I have wanted to create a berry farm up here. You know, strawberries, blueberries, blackberries, raspberries, pomgranates etc. And I can do it over on the other property. I just lose the investment and OH MY GOODNESS so much work to move.
Today I was given some new ideas for moving my house and maybe that was prayers at work as it was things I had not thought of. My only other idea up to this point was to prepare for a major credit hit and move to a very small portable house. Here in this part of Texas there is a company that makes portable building that can be customized into very small cabins. You see them set up on the roadsides for sale. I just do not know how long I could last in something 14 x 40 feet(with Mom). Great for a weekend get-a-way but not for a long time. If any of you have other ideas on that I would like to hear them.
To answer specific questions the renewal date for the loan is August 9.
Marsha, you offered the thought of a reverse mortgage but I am 53 so do not qualify.
Prayers for my landlady, I do thank you for that. I do understand her position and though things are a bit rough between us at the moment. None of us want this to happen.
Corrine, I loved your signature line and if I do wind up in that little 14 x 40 cabin I am going to make a sign for the door- Heaven on Earth.
www.windsongwellnessandtherapyshoppe.com
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peapicker
True Blue Farmgirl
716 Posts
texas
USA
716 Posts |
Posted - Jul 21 2009 : 11:02:40 PM
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| LaVonne, how much land are you on now? It's just a shame you can't at least get a loan on the house part. |
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Tapestry
True Blue Farmgirl
1223 Posts
Cheryl
Wisconsin
USA
1223 Posts |
Posted - Jul 22 2009 : 03:26:13 AM
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LaVonne, if your landlady is the secondary seller and the bank is the primary( they hold the original mortgage loan)your landlady must not have been taking your payments and paying the mortgage for this situation to happen. Do you have a written and notorized contract between you and your landlady? You might want to check with an attorney and see what recourse you have. It sounds like you've acted in good faith however she hasn't. Perhaps the bank would allow you to take over payments to save foreclosure if she would agree to sign the property over to you. Even though she might not like it, it could save her credit history from taking a huge hit for a foreclosure. Perhaps all is not lost. Keeping you and your mom in my prayers.
Happy farmgirl sister #353
Look for rainbows instead of mud puddles 
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Calicogirl
True Blue Farmgirl
5216 Posts
Sharon
Bruce Crossing
Michigan
USA
5216 Posts |
Posted - Jul 22 2009 : 07:05:55 AM
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Lavonna,
I too am praying for you and the whole situation. I will be praying for the Lord to work it out best for you. I like the idea of naming the cabin if you get it :) In fact I was just reading about choosing names for your dwellings yesterday :) Oh, a berry farm would be wonderful!
Hang in there, God has a plan :)
~Sharon
By His Grace, For His Glory
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Ga Girl
True Blue Farmgirl
2355 Posts
Karen
Meansville
Ga.
USA
2355 Posts |
Posted - Jul 22 2009 : 07:54:11 AM
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Just wanted to let you know I will be lifting up your sitution to the Lord. I just came across this verse hope it helps. Trust in the Lord, and do good; so shall thou dwell in the land,and verily thou shalt be fed. Psalms 37:3
Blessings,Karen
Create in me a pure heart,O God and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Psalms 51:10 http://farmgirlingastyle.blogspot.com/
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Windsong
True Blue Farmgirl
309 Posts
LaVonna
Decatur
Tx
309 Posts |
Posted - Jul 22 2009 : 08:07:34 AM
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Cheryl, My landlady bought a big block of acres and owner financed my part to me 10 years back. She sold the other section and paid that off later on. Her loan is one that renews every 5 years and her circumstances have changed with the down economy and she cannot renew it this time. Not only can she not budget it but her financial statement will not qualify her. On my side the loaning requirements have all been changed (since the banking industry is so messed up)now they look at my debt to income ratio and say I cannot afford it. It does not matter that I have paid every payment on time for 10 years.
Somebody else asked about the house- it is financed separately. But the current estimate to move it- $10,000. Water well, septic, and electric is another 10,000. So I have to magically come up with $20,000 to move the house. If those stats do not change then I have to leave it if the financing for the land does not come through. I have been given some other options though and I hope they pan out.
Thanks again for your support.
LaVonna
www.windsongwellnessandtherapyshoppe.com
http://sadiesfarm.blogspot.com/ |
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peapicker
True Blue Farmgirl
716 Posts
texas
USA
716 Posts |
Posted - Jul 22 2009 : 08:31:43 AM
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Windsong
True Blue Farmgirl
309 Posts
LaVonna
Decatur
Tx
309 Posts |
Posted - Jul 22 2009 : 10:18:50 PM
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Thanks for the thought, Sharlet, but it is not laid out right. I do appreciate the thought though.
I do not know quite how the whole situation got so complicated. Just remember us in our prayers and that things will work out as they should. I will follow that lead.
Thanks again,
LaVonna
www.windsongwellnessandtherapyshoppe.com
http://sadiesfarm.blogspot.com/ |
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Julia
True Blue Farmgirl
1949 Posts
Julia
Shelton
WA
USA
1949 Posts |
Posted - Jul 23 2009 : 4:53:55 PM
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Prayers of blessings ascending!
For tomorrow and its needs I do not pray, but keep me, guide me, love me, Lord just for today.
St. Augustine
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
13055 Posts |
Posted - Jul 23 2009 : 6:22:26 PM
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LaVonna:
My prayers are with you.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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Tapestry
True Blue Farmgirl
1223 Posts
Cheryl
Wisconsin
USA
1223 Posts |
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Sue Feely
True Blue Farmgirl
1044 Posts
Sue
Buffalo
New York
USA
1044 Posts |
Posted - Jul 29 2009 : 12:05:23 PM
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LaVonna -
I am excited for you, does sound good! Before we got this house, we had bid on 2 others but for 1 reason or another we did not get either. Sometimes you just have to chalk it up to: I'll get this if it was meant to be! Wishing you further good luck and certainly please keep us posted!
Sue Feely
Sister #349 |
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
22941 Posts |
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Ga Girl
True Blue Farmgirl
2355 Posts
Karen
Meansville
Ga.
USA
2355 Posts |
Posted - Jul 30 2009 : 05:21:44 AM
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Great news LaVonna, All things are possible with God!!! My prayers are with you! Blessings,karen
Create in me a pure heart,O God and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Psalms 51:10
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Tapestry
True Blue Farmgirl
1223 Posts
Cheryl
Wisconsin
USA
1223 Posts |
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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: My first Prayer Request- updated |
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My first Prayer Request- updated
