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Woodswoman
True Blue Farmgirl

512 Posts

Jennifer
Altamont NY
USA
512 Posts

Posted - Apr 03 2009 :  4:48:45 PM  Show Profile
I couldn't even write until now, but we had to have my dog Zena put to sleep about two weeks ago.
She was a stray that we adopted from the pound when she was 9 years old. Apparently, there wasn't alot of interest in a 9 year old, 100 pound pit bull/lab mix! But she turned out to be the sweetest, most gentle dog I've ever owned. I have to figure out how to post them, but somewhere I have pictures of her laying on her dog bed, with our neighbors twin 7 year olds laying on either side of her!
We had been treating her for arthritis for a while, but she went downhill suddenly-could'nt get up, walk, or balance, without us holding her up, and our wonderful vet had used up every idea they could think of. No control at all of her hindquarters-they think it was a combination of the arthritis and nerve issues.
Very, very sad, but I keep telling myself that not all dogs that size live to be 14 years old, and she went very quietly and peacefully with no pain (our vet thinks there was some nerve issues as well).
Anyway, if you could just remember her in your prayers, it would be appreciated. She really was a great dog.

Jennifer
Farmgirl Sister #104

"Nature brings to every time and season some beauties of its own".
-Charles Dickens

Calicogirl
True Blue Farmgirl

5216 Posts

Sharon
Bruce Crossing Michigan
USA
5216 Posts

Posted - Apr 03 2009 :  5:04:41 PM  Show Profile
I am so sorry for your loss Jennifer. The end of December we had to put down our Pup of 15 years for the same thing. It sounds like Zena (and our pup Zokie) lived good long lives :) I will be praying for you and your family for comfort.

~Sharon

By His Grace, For His Glory

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Edited by - Calicogirl on Apr 03 2009 5:06:38 PM
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl

22941 Posts

Alee
Worland Wy
USA
22941 Posts

Posted - Apr 03 2009 :  6:37:43 PM  Show Profile  Send Alee a Yahoo! Message
Oh Jennifer I am so sorry for your loss! I still miss my buddy that we had to put to sleep 2 years ago, but I definitly take solace in the fact that she had a fantastic life and passed in peace with her family around her.

I bet Zena- having been in the pound, appreciated your loving house all the more. *hugs*

Alee
Farmgirl Sister #8
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ponypower
True Blue Farmgirl

68 Posts

Lily
Caspar Ca
USA
68 Posts

Posted - Apr 03 2009 :  9:04:01 PM  Show Profile
So very, very hard to lose a true friend. My heart goes out to you at this trying time. Never gets any easier does it,...that they don't live as long as we do. You have all my sympathy and then some. Try to do something nice for yourself in her memory. Bless your heart a million times for adopting an older dog and being willing to risk your heart on her. I am truly sorry you lost your girl. She sounded real special and so do you.

(((HUGS)))
Lily
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Marybeth
True Blue Farmgirl

6418 Posts

Mary Beth
Stanwood Wa 98292
USA
6418 Posts

Posted - Apr 03 2009 :  9:07:01 PM  Show Profile
Yes it is hard to lose a friend. You gave her a good life and she is that star up in the heavens shining down and thanking you. Smile and be happy for her. MB

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ddmashayekhi
True Blue Farmgirl

4738 Posts

Dawn
Naperville Illinois
USA
4738 Posts

Posted - Apr 03 2009 :  9:26:09 PM  Show Profile
I'm so sorry for your loss Jennifer. Your dog was so lucky to be adopted by a loving family like yours.

Dawn in IL
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Lainey
True Blue Farmgirl

2401 Posts

Elaine
Waco Kentucky
USA
2401 Posts

Posted - Apr 04 2009 :  3:43:32 PM  Show Profile
Jennifer, I'm so sorry to hear about Zena. You and your family will be in my prayers.

Farmgirl Sister #25

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An Angel says, 'Never borrow from the future. If you worry about what may happen tomorrow and it doesn't happen, you have worried in vain. Even if it does happen, you have to worry twice.'
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Woodswoman
True Blue Farmgirl

512 Posts

Jennifer
Altamont NY
USA
512 Posts

Posted - Apr 04 2009 :  4:24:07 PM  Show Profile
Thanks so much for the kind responses. It helps so much to talk to and hear from other people who understand how hard it is to lose a furry friend-it really is like part of the family is missing.
Thanks again.

Jennifer
Farmgirl Sister #104

"Nature brings to every time and season some beauties of its own".
-Charles Dickens
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl

22941 Posts

Alee
Worland Wy
USA
22941 Posts

Posted - Apr 04 2009 :  6:06:55 PM  Show Profile  Send Alee a Yahoo! Message
Oh Jennifer, I agree! After we lost Seanee I kept thinking I heard her following me around the house and I would turn around to give her some loves. *hugs*

Alee
Farmgirl Sister #8
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therusticcottage
True Blue Farmgirl

4439 Posts

Kay
Vancouver WA
USA
4439 Posts

Posted - Apr 05 2009 :  12:16:27 AM  Show Profile
Jennifer I am so sorry that your dog had to be put so sleep. It is so hard to lose a pet - they are just like family.


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farmmom22
True Blue Farmgirl

616 Posts

Tammy
Scottsville KY
USA
616 Posts

Posted - Apr 07 2009 :  08:42:28 AM  Show Profile
Jennifer, I'm so sorry. It hurts so bad to see a member of your family not there anymore. Believe me I know. We lost our Sophie the week of Thanksgiving. We got her as a pup and saved her from the pound, and she was the best girl ever. A lab/chow mix and solid black. She was 10 years old and had cancer. I think I cried for two weeks straight! So I will keep you in my thoughts and just remember all the good times with Zena. Tammy

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Farmgirl Sister #492

Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending. -Carl Bard
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Jami
True Blue Farmgirl

1238 Posts

Jami
Ellensburg WA
USA
1238 Posts

Posted - Apr 07 2009 :  12:33:14 PM  Show Profile
Jennifer, it's a total bummer we have to lose our dear pet friends. It just seems like they never live long enough but it is always my hope that dogs (and horses and a few sheep, etc.) do go to heaven. I've got a pack up there waiting for me.

So glad you and Zena found each other and enjoyed your life together...animal friends are the best! Hugs.

Jami in WA

Farmgirl Sister #266
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janiee
True Blue Farmgirl

820 Posts

Janie
Shawnee Oklahoma
USA
820 Posts

Posted - Apr 07 2009 :  12:52:08 PM  Show Profile
Jennifer, so sorry to hear about Zena! it is so hard to lose someone we love ....our "pets" are part of our families and it is never never never easy to lose them....I lost my first cat almost 9 years ago and I still have a picture of her on my desk at work..I still expect to see her when I get home at night....my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family...God bless you for having such a loving heart!
janiee
farmgirl #390
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twzlrwho
True Blue Farmgirl

199 Posts

christina
dewitt va
USA
199 Posts

Posted - Apr 08 2009 :  1:06:29 PM  Show Profile
Jennifer, I am so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers your way.

Christina


Work like you don't have to, love like you've never been hurt, and dance like nobody is watching :)
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Mother Hen
True Blue Farmgirl

604 Posts

Cindy
Peck ID
USA
604 Posts

Posted - Apr 08 2009 :  11:37:25 PM  Show Profile
Jennifer, that is so heartbreaking ,I know. I'm so very sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.

Cindy

FARMGIRLS CAN DO ANYTHING!!!


I will bless the Lord at all times: his praise shall continually be in my mouth. Psalms 34:1
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paradiseplantation
True Blue Farmgirl

1277 Posts

julie
social springs community Louisiana
USA
1277 Posts

Posted - Apr 14 2009 :  05:30:33 AM  Show Profile
Jennifer, my heart is breaking for you. I am so sorry. My prayers are being said for you!

from the hearts of paradise...
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FebruaryViolet
True Blue Farmgirl

4810 Posts

Jonni
Elsmere Kentucky
USA
4810 Posts

Posted - Apr 14 2009 :  06:40:16 AM  Show Profile
Oh, Jennifer, I so know how your feeling. You just described my Lily to a tee. We experienced the same heartbreak and the same ultimate conclusion--that she would be made whole again, romping in the heavens--she was also 14. It's been 6 years and I cried as I read your story, and am crying as I type this, even now.

I am thinking of you and your lovely girl, and remember, she will always be with you, she has simply changed form.
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl

5602 Posts

Annika

USA
5602 Posts

Posted - Apr 14 2009 :  06:48:27 AM  Show Profile
I had my wonderful Catahoula, Hooligan for 8 wonderful years before cancer got him. I still cry over that dog. I'm so sorry that you've lost your friend and companion. I know that you've got good memories of your
Zena. It's so hard to say good-bye. *hugs*

Annika
Farmgirl & sister #13


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Keeper of the Past
True Blue Farmgirl

925 Posts

Sarita
Battle Creek Michigan
USA
925 Posts

Posted - Apr 14 2009 :  08:31:26 AM  Show Profile
Jennifer, Zena was a lucky dog to have you adopt her and love her. I am sorry for your lost. Zena enriched your life, may the good memories will be with you always. You are in my prayers.

Sarita in Mo.

www.coffmanspinningcfarm.blogspot.com

Contentment is the crown jewel of a happy life.
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Maryjane Lee
True Blue Farmgirl

2195 Posts

Maryjane
CA
USA
2195 Posts

Posted - Apr 15 2009 :  6:57:10 PM  Show Profile
Thinking of you Jennifer. Our pets become a part of us and our family.

Hugs,
Maryjane Lee

Farmgirl #44
Sisters on the Fly #595

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