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Family Matters:  I'm going to let it go starting today....  |
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simplyflowers
True Blue Farmgirl
489 Posts
Jamie
Locust Grove
Virginia
USA
489 Posts |
 Posted - Dec 05 2008 : 12:04:34 PM
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It's official.....I let it go.....and it's gone!! YeeHaw!!!!
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Edited by - simplyflowers on Dec 11 2008 08:12:47 AM |
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dutchy
True Blue Farmgirl
4427 Posts
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MsCwick
True Blue Farmgirl
775 Posts
Cristine
Farmville
Virginia
USA
775 Posts |
Posted - Dec 05 2008 : 12:25:45 PM
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misery loves company, that's what her problem could be. I hear you on the vindictive things. My parents went through that kind of thing, so I totally get what you're saying.
Do what you can, with what you have, right where you are. - Roosevelt
www.thelittlegreenstore.embarqspace.com
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
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ruralfarmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
4309 Posts
Rene'
Prosser
WA
USA
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Posted - Dec 05 2008 : 3:25:36 PM
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Jamie,
I think you are doing the right thing. Letting it "be", or go.... We are all different in different environments, If your hubby has found a "safe place to fall" with you............that he didnt have before, and it works for the both of you.. consider it flattery that they are jealous of that... He must be awesome for them to live in that regret. Maybe it isnt so much his failings but their own that they are projecting!
As for the kids.. Kids are bright, just be you, be happy, make your home happy and they'll make their own minds up...
GREAT job! I think you are on to something!
Rene~Prosser Farmgirl #185
http://farmchicksfarm.blogspot.com/
Circumstances made us FRIENDS; MaryJane's has made us SISTERS :) |
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catscharm74
True Blue Farmgirl
4687 Posts
Heather
Texas
USA
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Posted - Dec 05 2008 : 4:11:44 PM
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I just did this with my family. I FINALLY wrote down my exact feelings in an email and sent it off, since my mother fains not remembering what I said or calling me a liar or just plain ignoring what I said, so she now has it in black and white...and you know what the response was??? They are still going along as if NOTHING is wrong... SO I gave myself permission to finally let it go...all of it. They truly showed me that they don't care and I am no longer going to get worked up over them and waste my time and energy.
Good for you!! Can I get a YEE HAW?!?
Heather
Yee-Haw, I am a cowgirl!!!
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simplyflowers
True Blue Farmgirl
489 Posts
Jamie
Locust Grove
Virginia
USA
489 Posts |
Posted - Dec 05 2008 : 6:14:35 PM
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Thanks Friends....I appreciate it...really.
And Heather........YEE HAW!!!!!!!!
"Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work." -- Thomas Edison
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Beverley
True Blue Farmgirl
2707 Posts
Beverley
atlanta
Michigan
USA
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Posted - Dec 06 2008 : 9:16:18 PM
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People can only bother you if you let them. Just smile at them and like you said let it go. it will keep them guessing. Let them be frustrated for once and not you!!!! hehehehehehehe Good for you!!!
Folks will know how large your soul is by the way you treat a dog....Charles F. Doran
beverley baggett Beverley with an extra E...
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