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5 acre Farmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
1007 Posts
~~~*Terri*~~~
WA.
USA
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 Posted - Nov 25 2008 : 10:56:39 AM
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When one is old, how will one be?
If one is grumpy and generally all around hateful, critical, and just awful, How will one be when one is old?
If one is this way when young, will one be this way when one is old?
Farmgirl Sister #368
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Firemama
True Blue Farmgirl
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Amanda
Medical Lake
WA
USA
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Posted - Nov 25 2008 : 10:59:02 AM
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Aww Terri, I dont know the answer for everyone. BUT in my experience I have seen both sides. Alot of times people get softer as they get older, and some stay hard and bitter...
Hugs Farmgirl!!
Mama to 2
FarmGirl# 20
People can only make you feel inferior with your permission, and you dont have my permission......
Dont let the chain of love end with you.....
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happymama58
True Blue Farmgirl
1210 Posts
Patti
Missouri
USA
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Posted - Nov 26 2008 : 4:58:42 PM
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I'm with Amanda, *plus* I've known some people who were sweet and kind but for some reason just couldn't handle the aging process and became extremely bitter.
It sounds like you're having a rough time with someone -- I hope their heart softens.
Some people search for happiness; others create it.
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5 acre Farmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
1007 Posts
~~~*Terri*~~~
WA.
USA
1007 Posts |
Posted - Nov 27 2008 : 10:31:24 PM
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Not having a hard time with anyone,,just thinking about how I will be when I am old,,,
Farmgirl Sister #368
Please visit my new blog....We are looking at the question..."Are we as women really created to be his Helpmeet?"
http://thecontentedwoman.blogspot.com
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K-Falls Farmgirl
Chapter Leader
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Cheryl
Klamath Falls
Oregon
USA
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Posted - Dec 02 2008 : 5:13:05 PM
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Teri, I have thought about this before.... and I swear I will never be a crotchity old lady. I am however kinda controling with life matters & what I like & don't like to have around me..But I accept other people for who they are and respect other opinions. All I ask is the same in return. Growing old does give you some priveleges..like discounts at discount stores ad restaraunts and movies..My gramma was the sweetest old lady around and a real lady. I want to be just like her when I get Old...Btw how old are we talking here.....?
http://www.k-fallsfarmgirl.blogspot.com/
Cheryl #309
Farm girl sister
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True Blue Farmgirl
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Victoria
Chester
Vermont
USA
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Posted - Dec 07 2008 : 5:15:29 PM
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I think as one gets older you can get happier. You don't sweat the small stuff and you don't care as much what others think of you.There are definitely physical challenges. I have two wonderful women neighbors who are both 85 and the nicest people you would want to meet as well as being very energetic!Its important at any age to feel young at heart. |
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StitchinWitch
True Blue Farmgirl
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Judith
Galt
CA
USA
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Posted - Dec 07 2008 : 5:32:42 PM
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Yes -- I can honestly say I am much happier now at 66 than I ever have been. Not sure why; I'm in more pain now, maybe it's because I know there is less of life left and the best way to enjoy it is to be happy.
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Marybeth
True Blue Farmgirl
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Mary Beth
Stanwood
Wa 98292
USA
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kissmekate
True Blue Farmgirl
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Kate
Delano
Minnesota
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Posted - Dec 07 2008 : 7:46:50 PM
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I am with Amanda,
My Grandpa was the crankiest and orneriest person my Mom/Aunt/Uncles Cousins and I knew growing up. As he got older, and finally had a Great Grandchild, he was the biggest pushover/softy by then.
He was sooo proud of my son Josh.
Ironically, he always treated my Grandma like she was a Queen. Never a harsh word, and lived in fear of upsetting her. Looking back, I think it was kind of cute.
My Dad is a softy, but is tending to be more ornery, contrary and crochety as he gets older.
Don't miss out on a blessing, just because it isn't packaged the way you expected. ~MaryJo Copeland |
Edited by - kissmekate on Dec 07 2008 7:50:09 PM |
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