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Parenting & Farm Kids:  Little Oliver can't see  |
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mellaisbella
True Blue Farmgirl
1862 Posts
melanie
living on Anne of Green
Gables land
Canada
1862 Posts |
 Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 05:24:46 AM
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As some of you may have known, dear hubby and I adopted our first child 3 months ago. We named our bundle of joy Oliver. We took dear sweet Oliver to the Dr's for his 2 month check up. Dr asked how long had Olivers eyes been roaming and does he focus his eyes. I, as a new mom, thought that that was something that a babies eyes did until they were stonger. Anyway fast forward one month....
We had Oliver to a very good childrens hospital 3 provinces away and afte 6 hours of testing we were told that little Oliver has little or no vision. we are still trying to let this all soak in. we are sooooooo very thankful that there are no tumors or anything that will cause him any physical pain.
Hubby and i firmly believe that sweet little Oliver must have been put in our lives for a reason, in the meantime...we will kiss and hug him and figure things out one day at a time.
"learn to watch snails" SARK |
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soapmommy60543
True Blue Farmgirl
2197 Posts
Ann
Oswego
IL
USA
2197 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 05:35:18 AM
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Mel, he was given to you because God knew you'd love him no matter what, and that you would be strong enough to deal with the challenges a special needs child will face. He is still the same person whether he can see or not! Our love and prayers to you.
Ann in Oswego
http://suburbanprairiehouse.wordpress.com
Times may be tough, but farmgirls are tougher!
Craft Fasting since October 21, 2008 |
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mellaisbella
True Blue Farmgirl
1862 Posts
melanie
living on Anne of Green
Gables land
Canada
1862 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 05:45:27 AM
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It may sound funny, but I think I love him more now that I know he has special needs.
Thanks for your kind words Ann:)
"learn to watch snails" SARK |
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soapmommy60543
True Blue Farmgirl
2197 Posts
Ann
Oswego
IL
USA
2197 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 05:54:27 AM
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It doesn't sound funny at all - spoken like a real mom.
Ann in Oswego
http://suburbanprairiehouse.wordpress.com
Times may be tough, but farmgirls are tougher!
Craft Fasting since October 21, 2008 |
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sunshine
True Blue Farmgirl
4877 Posts
Wendy
Utah
USA
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electricdunce
True Blue Farmgirl
2544 Posts
Karin
Belmont
ME
USA
2544 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 06:57:19 AM
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I have been thinking about you often since this wonderful child came to join your family...I'm sure there is a reason you were given this baby, he is obviously very loved and in the right place. Many challenges ahead, but I'm sure you will all do well...
Karin
Farmgirl Sister #153
"Give me shelter from the storm" - Bob Dylan
http://moodranch.blogspot.com
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Nancy Gartenman
True Blue Farmgirl
9093 Posts
Nancy
West Seneca
New York
USA
9093 Posts |
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mikesgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
3659 Posts
Sherri
Elma
WA
USA
3659 Posts |
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dutchy
True Blue Farmgirl
4427 Posts
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Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 10:49:22 AM
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Little Oliver sure is one little boy. Spoken not as a mum, but as a person with one blind eye. Hug him, love him as I know you already do. God has given Oliver to you because He knows what you can do.
God bless you and hubby. And prayers too
Hugs from Marian/Dutchy, a farmgirl from the Netherlands :)
My personal blog:
http://just-me-a-dutch-girl.blogspot.com/
Again new creations added, too cute lol. Come and check it out!!
http://princess-of-pink-creations.blogspot.com/
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K-Falls Farmgirl
Chapter Leader
2096 Posts
Cheryl
Klamath Falls
Oregon
USA
2096 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 11:48:25 AM
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Little Oliver is a gift you have been blessed with. Love him and face each challenge positively. You were chosen to be his parents. God Bless you all..
http://www.k-fallsfarmgirl.blogspot.com/
Cheryl #309
Farm girl sister
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kmbrown
True Blue Farmgirl
459 Posts
Misty
Waynesboro
Pennsylvania
USA
459 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 12:03:53 PM
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| God bless you as you continue your journey...maybe a different pathway....but the same journey with your precious new son. He is truly blessed to have been placed in a home where love is ever present...even with this unexpected news. Hugs to you, your hubby and your little fellow. |
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jpbluesky
True Blue Farmgirl
6066 Posts
Jeannie
Florida
USA
6066 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 4:32:11 PM
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Melanie - you have been on this site for a long time, and please know that your sisters are here for you. Your little guy MAY see one day....who knows? But until then, all is well. He is loved, and cared for, and you are blessed. But then, I know you are aware of all those things. He is a lucky fellow, he will get the best with you as parents.
Farmgirl Sister # 31
www.blueskyjeannie.blogspot.com
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ddmashayekhi
True Blue Farmgirl
4739 Posts
Dawn
Naperville
Illinois
USA
4739 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 6:26:33 PM
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Little Oliver is in my thoughts and prayers too. I am 48 years old and have had very bad eyesight my entire life. Fortunately my eye problems were detected when I was a baby and I received excellent eye care. My visions is around 20/30 to 20/40 with glasses or contacts. I don't have depth perception or peripheral vision but I get around it. I really hope Oliver's eye problems can be dealt with too and perhaps he'll be able to see with treatment as he gets older.
Dawn in IL |
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
22941 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 7:20:37 PM
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Melanie-
I am so glad that Oliver has you and your husband for parents. Things will be a little different, but he is bound to have a fantastic life with parents like you!
Alee
Farmgirl Sister #8
www.awarmheart.com
Please come visit Nora and me on our blog: www.farmgirlalee.blogspot.com
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Aunt Jenny
True Blue Farmgirl
11381 Posts
Jenny
middle of
Utah
USA
11381 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 10:51:57 PM
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Like so many others have said, Oliver is so lucky to have just the right parents...and I know what you mean about loving him even more knowing he needs you more. With my adopted children I have felt the same way. You are all in my prayers. Give him a cuddle from Aunt Jenny!!
Jenny in Utah
Proud Farmgirl sister #24
Inside me there is a skinny woman crying to get out...but I can usually shut her up with cookies
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Lainey
True Blue Farmgirl
2401 Posts
Elaine
Waco
Kentucky
USA
2401 Posts |
Posted - Nov 24 2008 : 06:40:38 AM
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Melanie,
God bless you and your family. Oliver has been fortunate to find such a loving home. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Farmgirl Sister #25
http://countrygirldreams.blogspot.com/ |
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Mumof3
True Blue Farmgirl
3890 Posts
Karin
Ellenwood
GA
USA
3890 Posts |
Posted - Nov 24 2008 : 07:25:12 AM
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Melanie- You are the perfect parents for little Oliver. Amd I know exactly how you feel about him. Our second child has disabilities. He is a strong, caring young man now. He believes that if he wants to achieve something, he will (and does). He makes friends wherever he goes, he has never met a stranger. His joy for life is contagious and I know that little Oliver will be the same way because he has you both for his mom and dad. Give him a little kiss from me!!
Karin
Farmgirl Sister
# 18 :)
www.perfectlittlemiracle.blogspot.com
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melanie47601
True Blue Farmgirl
1949 Posts
Melanie
Boonville
IN
USA
1949 Posts |
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mellaisbella
True Blue Farmgirl
1862 Posts
melanie
living on Anne of Green
Gables land
Canada
1862 Posts |
Posted - Nov 26 2008 : 05:11:58 AM
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thank you all so much for your kind, loving words, and your thoughts and prayers.
We have been given a prescription for glasses for Oliver. The Dr's think that it might help focus things a wee bit and help strengthen the muscles in his eyes. It's not a for sure thing, but it could help.
"learn to watch snails" SARK |
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
22941 Posts |
Posted - Nov 26 2008 : 08:22:33 AM
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Melanie- I am imagining a cute little baby in glasses. I have seen babies in them before and they seem perfectly happy. It is really great that they caught this so early. Thanks for the update! I have been hoping for one! :D
Alee
Farmgirl Sister #8
www.awarmheart.com
Please come visit Nora and me on our blog: www.farmgirlalee.blogspot.com
Put your pin on the farmgirl map! www.farmgirlmap.blogspot.com |
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mellaisbella
True Blue Farmgirl
1862 Posts
melanie
living on Anne of Green
Gables land
Canada
1862 Posts |
Posted - Nov 26 2008 : 3:22:13 PM
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When the Dr's were trying to find a frame that fit him we tried several different pairs. I didn't know wether to laugh or cry when I saw them on him. He did look so cute. I will take picutres when I get the glasses and if I can figure out how to post them, I gladly will
"learn to watch snails" SARK |
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jpbluesky
True Blue Farmgirl
6066 Posts
Jeannie
Florida
USA
6066 Posts |
Posted - Nov 26 2008 : 4:35:43 PM
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I think your little guy will see fine someday. I just have a feeling.....until then he might look like Clark Kent, a superhero in disguise.
Farmgirl Sister # 31
www.blueskyjeannie.blogspot.com
Psalm 51: 10-13 |
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Tina Michelle
True Blue Farmgirl
6948 Posts
Tina
sunshine state
FL
USA
6948 Posts |
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
22941 Posts |
Posted - Nov 26 2008 : 6:13:35 PM
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Melanie- If there is one thing that Nora has taught me... if there is the option to laugh or cry- choose to laugh. It relieves stress and helps gain perspective! *hugs* I agree! Oliver's nickname can be Clark Kent! :D
Alee
Farmgirl Sister #8
www.awarmheart.com
Please come visit Nora and me on our blog: www.farmgirlalee.blogspot.com
Put your pin on the farmgirl map! www.farmgirlmap.blogspot.com |
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dkelewae
True Blue Farmgirl
1310 Posts
Diana
Saint Peters
MO
USA
1310 Posts |
Posted - Nov 26 2008 : 8:16:51 PM
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Melanie-I truly believe that God brought Oliver into your lives because He knew that Oliver would be loved unconditionally by you, and in return he will be such a blessing to you and your family.
No matter what challenges may lie ahead for all of you, just remember that God is in control, and He has a purpose for everything.
There is nothing that cannot be overcome where there is love :)
Diana
Farmgirl Sister #272
St. Peters MO
Country Girl trapped in the city!
http://farmgirldreams.blogspot.com/ |
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LivingWell4You
True Blue Farmgirl
1411 Posts
Karen
Hillsboro
MO
USA
1411 Posts |
Posted - Nov 27 2008 : 06:42:10 AM
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I couldn't say it any better than Diana just did. And I love the Clark Kent analogy! It will be fun watching it play out as Oliver grows up.
I thought I'd posted earlier because I've been following this thread since it started. Maybe I just couldnt' find the right words at the time. Just know that your family is on my prayer list and you're being held in God's loving hands.
God bless -
Karen ~ Chickherder & Farmgirl Sister #311 |
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