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A Farm of My Own:  Does anyone else get "the look?"  |
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prairie_princess
True Blue Farmgirl
613 Posts
Elizabeth
Carpenter
WY
USA
613 Posts |
 Posted - Aug 04 2009 : 6:35:59 PM
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wow, beth! that's a great inspiration, your story. thanks for sharing. no wonder so many admire you! it gives me something to think about....
yep, i'll be butchering my own chicken next weekend... it will be my first time. i'm a bit ansy, nervous, but excited, too! i look forward to being indoctrinated into this new lifestyle i've chosen!
"Only two things that money can't buy, that's true love and homegrown tomatoes."
- Guy Clark
"The man who has planted a garden feels he has done something for the good of the world."
- Charles Dudley Warner |
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4HMom
True Blue Farmgirl
720 Posts
Kelly
Montana
720 Posts |
Posted - Aug 05 2009 : 08:48:00 AM
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Great story Beth! You've nailed why we do what we do!
Rae, we process all of our wild game, chickens, and rabbits (occasionally). But the pigs are still a little intimidating for me (I think it's all in my head). We take the pigs to a nearby butcher and they kill and process for us. I have them smoke the bacon and ham because my smoker is too small. I do, however, get the fat and trim and I make all of our own sausage (breakfast link, sweet Italian, summer sausage, brats, keilbasa). I mix the pork with the game, so our sausage is not 100% pork.
"Be the change you want to see in the world" -Gandhi |
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Old Spirit
True Blue Farmgirl
1498 Posts
Rae
MN
1498 Posts |
Posted - Aug 05 2009 : 09:01:14 AM
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We have butchered everything ourselves as well. Have a really good summer sausage recipe for our venison, also has pork. We haven't smoked anything yet but would hope to learn.
I have rendered pork fat down into lard, have you? It is really good.
We have done pigs, cattle and deer, partridge. Hubby has done chicken.
Rae
Farm Girl #647
...those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles:...
Isaiah 40:31
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4HMom
True Blue Farmgirl
720 Posts
Kelly
Montana
720 Posts |
Posted - Aug 05 2009 : 10:53:23 AM
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Yeah, I've rendered the fat and keep saying that I'm going to make soap like my Gramma did...just hasn't made it to the top of my list. I have some rendered bear fat in the freezer that I'm thinking would make good soap too. I'd love to see your venison recipe if you'd like to share...I'd be willing to share mine too.
"Be the change you want to see in the world" -Gandhi |
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simone947
Farmgirl in Training
34 Posts
sarah
peru
NY
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Posted - Aug 10 2009 : 12:31:53 PM
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| i got the look (sort of) last week. i was a dr. appt at 11 in the morning- but I showered and changed into non-barn clothes (which i don't have many of) all i did was step into the barn- didn't get in the pasture- didn't step in sh** or their pen and said hello to the girls- maybe i kissed a nose, but that's it. ANYWAY- the dr's aide says to me oh did you just get done riding? and i gave him the look and said- "riding what??" he said horses- i said no and gave him the look again. i realized later that the cow smell has permanantly soaked into my skin and i will never be able to go anywhere with out smelling of bovine. i've been immune to it for years. |
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sharikrsna
True Blue Farmgirl
185 Posts
Shari
Carthage
Illinois
USA
185 Posts |
Posted - Aug 13 2009 : 8:58:20 PM
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Most of my friends think it's pretty cool, the country lifestyle I've adopted. Yhe Southern California folks are a harder sell, but even some of those wish they lived here. I did have one snobby "friend" turn her snout up at our barn bedroom, which was a reading room then, and also at our fifth wheel. Then I invited her to a country campout party, and she has become quite a fan of the place!Perhaps if you have a party, and invite the people who give you "the look" over, they will soon become interested or at least more understanding. I think so many people have simply lost sight of what is truly meaningful, that they don't recognize it when it is right in front of them.
Shari
Farmgirl Sister #607 |
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sharikrsna
True Blue Farmgirl
185 Posts
Shari
Carthage
Illinois
USA
185 Posts |
Posted - Aug 13 2009 : 9:03:10 PM
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OMG! Oatman! I LOVE Oatman! Do you know Yellowhammer? When I lived in Bullhead, I was in Oatman constantly, and go back every time I'm in town, can't get enough of the place. Almost bought Yellowhammer's house!quote:
Originally posted by prairie_princess
oh, monica! i am originally from kingman, az! one of the last times i was home to see the parents, i took my hubby to oatman... it's such a fun town!
karen, i love your overalls idea! i think i should go out and buy some myself. my mom was a bit like you... she told me the story of my parents wedding. as soon as the ceremony was over, she quickly changed out of her wedding dress into her comfortable overalls. i have pictures to prove it! there she is, cutting the cake with my dad - he's still in his formal suit, she in her true-blue overalls! totally cute!
heather - when i was in the navy, i was an AG - meteorological technician.
now i really do feel like i fit in here... i was called laura ingalls wilder not long ago by a high school friend. i was e-mailing him about my plans for my self-sufficient future and telling him about my garden... "oh, you're like on little house on the prairie!"
and, yes, people don't understand why we gals want to make our own products. i think it's funny that now even the simple act of cooking and homaking your own food is out of the ordinary. the hubby and i were dining out with my friend and her fiance at pizza hut. i told the hubby we should make them homeade pizza sometime because it's 10 times better than this stuff. he asked "what, you even make the dough? how do you do that?" i just sigh... what can a farmgirl do but sigh? ha ha!
and good luck to you gals living in the city... i commend your farmgirl heart and spirit!
Shari
Farmgirl Sister #607 |
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Calicogirl
True Blue Farmgirl
5216 Posts
Sharon
Bruce Crossing
Michigan
USA
5216 Posts |
Posted - Aug 14 2009 : 05:27:39 AM
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I love this thread!
I don't get the looks much more, my friends pretty much expect things from me now :)
I have lived in the suburbs in New England to the city in Tucson and finally feel that I am in my element here in SW Colorado surrounded by ranches and farms. I LOVE it!!! My favorite place to shop is the feed store, even for clothes :)
~Sharon
By His Grace, For His Glory
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yarnmamma
True Blue Farmgirl
4247 Posts
Linda
Clarks Summit
PA
USA
4247 Posts |
Posted - Aug 14 2009 : 07:24:56 AM
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lol Sarah, that is so funny!
Linda in Scranton, PA
"I dare you to scare yourself with how beautiful you are."
Rob Brezsny from http://freewillastrology.com/home.shtml
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ZenGoddess
True Blue Farmgirl
613 Posts
Cindy
MO
USA
613 Posts |
Posted - Aug 16 2009 : 12:47:57 PM
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I LOVE THE LOOK & I am proud of it !!! I think they are jealous of all the knowledge we have and the back bone to do things with.
Much to be said for brains and beauty !!! Like the saying goes " Smile it makes people wonder what you're up to " !!
Zens Goddess
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
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Posted - Aug 22 2009 : 3:02:55 PM
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Cindy: I with you on your post. I love to make people wonder!
I went grocery shopping about two hours ago, and I GOT THE LOOK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NO JOKE.
I had shorts, a t-shirt, and red cowgirl boots. One lady ran into a shelf because she was too busy looking at my boots. LOL
When I checked out, the lady was right behind me. She said she envied anyone that could not care to go shopping wearing what I was wearing. I just said, "Isn't this a lovely world? If I die on the way home, I'll die with my boots on."
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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yarnmamma
True Blue Farmgirl
4247 Posts
Linda
Clarks Summit
PA
USA
4247 Posts |
Posted - Aug 23 2009 : 04:29:14 AM
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Marly...I love it! You are my kind of woman!!
Linda in Scranton, PA
"I dare you to scare yourself with how beautiful you are."
Rob Brezsny from http://freewillastrology.com/home.shtml
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Bonnie Ellis
True Blue Farmgirl
2474 Posts
Bonnie
Minneapolis
Minnesota
USA
2474 Posts |
Posted - Aug 29 2009 : 2:42:07 PM
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I get "the look" and I'm 67, ho ho. But I give them the other look. I'm so sorry you don't get it. I love to wear my apron any time I wish since I grew up wearing them. My childhood had great farm memories but I married a teacher and we live in the city. What a hoot when our next door neighbor got chickens. I was thrilled! We have two cats and seven 26" Koi (Japanese fish). We have a large garden too. I love to can.
But I sympathize with those who want a farm and can't have one. I have arthritis, fibromyalgia had 5 shoulder surgeries, two knee surgeries and last fall I broke my leg. Let me tell you, with physical limitations, no amount of wishing can give you the ability and energy to be a full-time farmer. But I do REALLY enjoy those chickens and I will work in the dairy barn in the Moo Booth information station during the Minnesota State Fair next week.
Mary Jane, thank you for putting all of us "farmgirls at heart" together.
Don't ask me how I'm feeling; ask me what I am doing!
Bonnie Ellis
grandmother and orphan farmgirl |
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MotherLodeBeth
True Blue Farmgirl
110 Posts
Beth
Calaveras County
California
USA
110 Posts |
Posted - Aug 29 2009 : 2:59:00 PM
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Working in the garden and talking to my girls (hens) has kept me so healthy and yes, sane. Often get the comment that I look like I stepped out of a book from the 1800's. (laughing) Probably because I wear long 'bloomers' since I had a bee fly up my dress one afternoon when outside, who stung me in a delicate area, so now I wear longer underwear like the 1800's. That and my hat with flowers and pink ribbon with a bow on the back. Men also seem to smile at me more (giggling) and are so respectful. And older women in their eighties and nineties compliment me which makes we warm all over. ~Beth~
~MotherLodebeth- I was born in the wrong era~ |
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Thistle Cove Farm
True Blue Farmgirl
141 Posts
Sandra
Tazewell
VA
USA
141 Posts |
Posted - Aug 30 2009 : 08:56:11 AM
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Not sure if I get the look or not; I'm usually not paying attention -smile-.
Good for you, going for what suits YOU and living a life that's full and meaningful! YOU GO GIRL!
Sandra @ Thistle Cove Farm ~ God's blessings on you, yours and the work of your hands & heart ~
www.thistlecovefarm.com
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MissLiss
Farmgirl Legend Schoolmarm
322 Posts
Melissa
Corona
CA
USA
322 Posts |
Posted - Sep 20 2009 : 7:55:30 PM
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I get the look all the time! We live in Corona (near LA) California and I am SO not a southern California gal! I grew up on a few acres and while it wasn't a "farm" it was just my brother and I. My parents worked in the yard all the time and we had no problems going to town in gardening clothes covered in dust or mud. So now, I get the look when I go to Target (Target even!) in my painting clothes. I also don't wear make-up and keep my hair in a pony-tail most days (majorly un- Hollywood). I wish we could live someplace where we could have a little farm - some of the towns a bit more inland from us are "prime" farm towns and I'm working on my husband so that at some point in a few years we can move to our own little farm. Someday I'll get my chickens! But for now, I'm a farmgirl trapped in a city with a backyard the size of a closet. I wish I had some friends here that were "farmgirls at heart" too. I know what you all mean when you talk about the looks. I actually had someone ask me what a plow was. I said "Excuse me?" She pointed to my MJ bumper sticker that reads "Farmgirl, plowin' thru" and asked again. I just don't have many people around that are into the same things! That 's why this forum is so great! I don't get to see you in person, but I get to hear all your stories and imagine that you girls are right here with me, sipping some iced tea (it's 8pm and 91* outside right now) chit-chatting the night away!
Melissa ~ Farmgirl #724
Use it up, Wear it out, Make it do, Or go without! |
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maggie14
True Blue Farmgirl
6784 Posts
Hannah
Washington
USA
6784 Posts |
Posted - Sep 20 2009 : 8:05:19 PM
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I also get the look too. Thats why I always stick out like a sore thumb. But I am who I am.
Maggie |
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yarnmamma
True Blue Farmgirl
4247 Posts
Linda
Clarks Summit
PA
USA
4247 Posts |
Posted - Sep 21 2009 : 12:54:55 AM
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Hi Melissa, MissLiss. I look forward to getting to know you.
Linda in Scranton, PA
Q: How can you tell that a blonde's been baking chocolate chip cookies?
A: There's M&M shells all over the floor.
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MissLiss
Farmgirl Legend Schoolmarm
322 Posts
Melissa
Corona
CA
USA
322 Posts |
Posted - Sep 21 2009 : 10:37:59 AM
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You too Linda- it's nice to see that there's someone out there who enjoys a good blonde joke! ;-)
Melissa ~ Farmgirl #724
Use it up, Wear it out, Make it do, Or go without! |
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A Farm of My Own: Does anyone else get "the look?" |
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Does anyone else get "the look?"
