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bohemiangel
True Blue Farmgirl
2087 Posts
Bridget
Ligonier
pa
USA
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 Posted - Mar 24 2008 : 11:31:06 AM
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I know I sound like prob the most negative FG here...just this year has been a year of trials and tribulations. So as you all well know I had a breakup...well the guy came to me and wanted me back so to speak. We tried it for a week and it was perfect better than before...then he pulled back. Now I'm like trying to move on but all I want is him. It's so hard and frustrating. I'm trying to move on and there is a nice guy that wants me but I don't know. I'm so tired of guys not knowing what they want!!! I feel like all I was meant to do in life is be a wife and mother. I give myself to whoever and whatever and I love help others. I'm sorry to complain it has just been on my mind and I tried not to let it get into here but I am just beside myself. It's also that issue with others insulting my way of living lately. I know rise above it all. TRYING!!! I love you gals and if all you do is read this and say a lil prayer for me I'll appreciate it!!! Thanks for just letting me get it out.
**~~Farmgirl Sister #60~~**
"... to thine ownself be true."
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CabinCreek-Kentucky
True Blue Farmgirl
8529 Posts
Frannie
Green County
Kentucky
USA
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Posted - Mar 24 2008 : 12:07:38 PM
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honey doo ... know that YOU are ENOUGH!!! and if you have wonderful children .. well, you got icing on the cake! AND if the man who is meant to be in your life and make you happy (and vice versa) .. well, jus' trust that he will come along .. especially when you least expect it!
sounds like it might be helpful at this point in your life without any men to clutter up your feelings. concentrate on YOU! i promise this works! xo, frannie
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Tina Michelle
True Blue Farmgirl
6948 Posts
Tina
sunshine state
FL
USA
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Posted - Mar 24 2008 : 1:25:18 PM
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I agree with Frannie. I think you need some time just to really get away from guys/guy issues for about 6 months to actually really fully discover yourself and who you are..then..once you feel a good bit grounded..then allow your heart to be open to the possibility of a relationship. If a guy is worth his weight in gold..he'll wait for you .But from what I can tell from what you write here..you need some time just for yourself. To tap into yourself and discover more about who you really are and what you really want out of this whole thing called life.
Right now with guys around it sounds like it causes confusion and clutter for you. And a little space and time to breath and clear the air and your head has never hurt anybody.
Good luck.
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pinkroses
True Blue Farmgirl
2350 Posts
Sheila
Virginia
USA
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Posted - Mar 24 2008 : 1:29:31 PM
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I know exactly what you mean and going through
When I was in my 20's and just out of high school,
I got so tired of going out with guys that only took advantage of me
I finally told God I was fed up with it all
I prayed that He would send me the right man to marry,
and He did
Funny thing is my Hubby live down the road and across a hill
We met in a parking lot, at a Flea Market of all places
We have been together for 31 years.
Don't give up hope keep searching, Pinkroses
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CountryBorn
True Blue Farmgirl
1545 Posts
Mary Jane
New York
USA
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Posted - Mar 24 2008 : 3:35:06 PM
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Bridget, I totally agree with Frannie and Tina. I saw my own daughter go through this. From the time she was a teenager she always had a guy in her life. She backed off from men and just lived for herself and her kids(I know that kids are not part of your picture). It worked, she got in tune with herself and what she really wanted. Was quite comfortable having her own home and being independent. She put her marriage behind her and just moved forward. Sure enough just like Shelia said, along came Mr. Right. He was a guy she had played with as a kid and his Mom and I are best friends. She is with someone now that she can be completely herself with. She still keeps her own identity and her own money and it has been eight years now they have been married. Just take a break honey and be Bridget, find out what you want to do with your life and take care of yourself first and foremost. Make yourself a good life. Then when the right man comes along, great,but you will be complete yourself first.That is so very important. You can't rely on or expect other people to complete you, that can only come from you.
MJ
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Aunt B
True Blue Farmgirl
108 Posts
Terri
Chillicothe
OH
USA
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