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Parenting & Farm Kids:  Do you think it is appropriate?  |
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country lawyer
True Blue Farmgirl
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 Posted - Mar 13 2008 : 06:45:02 AM
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My daughter came home from school yesterday and told me about the PG movie that was shown in her class. She is in 1st grade. She does not see PG movies in our home.
It seems highly inappropriate to me for a class of 1st graders to be shown a PG movie.
What is your view on this? I want your honest, open, frank opinions.
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Peanut
True Blue Farmgirl
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Jennifer
Waverly
Virginia
USA
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Posted - Mar 13 2008 : 07:27:35 AM
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I looked up the "Best PG Movies of the Last 20 Years" and it was movies like:
The Parent Trap (the remake)
The Princess Bride
Fly Away Home
I'll be darned if I can find anything objectionable about those movies, so I guess it depends more on the movie.
Which movie was it, Country Lawyer?
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl
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Annika
USA
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Posted - Mar 13 2008 : 07:43:03 AM
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*Big Sigh* I think that it is going to be more and more prevalent in our media bloated world. Appropriate is a home choice. Life is going faster and faster and I think that most people don't even think about it being appropriate when you can see ANYTHING on the internet. You know? I'm sure that the teacher didn't mean to do anything wrong, I think she is just part of the big media world.
I'm a defender of internet neutrality. I think that internet openness is vital to learning and communication and should be a home by home choice as to what content is shown, but NOT informing you that your child was going to be shown PG content was wrong. I'm sorry that the teacher did not think to inform the parents of a minor that there was going to be a PG film...that I would bring up. You have rights here...she is NOT the parent.
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mima
True Blue Farmgirl
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Posted - Mar 13 2008 : 07:49:24 AM
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I'm curious too! What movie was it! You'd think they would have sent home some communication before so as a parent you could decide beforehand whether or not you would want her to see it! Hmmm...
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catscharm74
True Blue Farmgirl
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Heather
Texas
USA
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Posted - Mar 13 2008 : 10:21:14 AM
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Ok...I am only 33 but I will sound old fashioned...we used to have permission slips for movies in school because they wanted it to be ok with the parents that school time was being used for recreational time. We had maybe 2 movies a year- I think 101 Dalmations or something was shown but I was also in 3rd grade or something.
I would talk to the school about it. If someone's parent didn't approve, child could do some art or take recess or something with a supervising adult.
Cheers,
Heather
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electricdunce
True Blue Farmgirl
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Karin
Belmont
ME
USA
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Posted - Mar 13 2008 : 10:40:48 AM
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That sounds inappropriate to me. I'd call the principal or the teacher and talk to them. Let them know how you feel. When my daughter was ten, her history teacher told the class they had to watch the prime time news for two weeks. I told 'Susannah I couldn't watch that for two weeks , and I told her teacher I thought it was a terrible idea and it wasn't going to happen a at my house. Kids are so bombarded with information, and I feel like schools are always trying to get the kids to be little grownups.Sorry for the rant, I just find schools to be disappointing. I home schooled my kids from eightth grade on and they both got their GEDs. Karin
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sleepless reader
True Blue Farmgirl
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CA
USA
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Posted - Mar 13 2008 : 10:46:13 AM
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When my son was attending our local school, they had to send notes home for anything other than "G" ratings. I think that any more most live action movies seem to get at least a "PG". I agree that the school should notify the parents and let them make the decision on what their child may watch.
Sharon
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
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Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
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Posted - Mar 13 2008 : 11:48:02 AM
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I agree with the others, I think that anything above a G rating should have notes sent home- at least until middle school. When I was in elementary school I wasn't allowed to watch PG or PG-13 unless my parents okay'ed it first. PG stands for "Parental Guidance" so I feel that the parents should have a say in it.
I do, however, remember watching "The Princess Bride" in Elementary school. I thought it was a great movie and didn't pick up on all of the adult themes that are in the movie, but that isn't to say that some of the other kids didn't.
I don't blame you for being upset, and I would make it clear to the principal and teacher that in the future you would like to be appraised ahead of time about what media content you child will be exposed to that isn't G rated.
I too am curious as to which movie was shown!
Alee
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Amie C.
True Blue Farmgirl
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Finger Lakes Region
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Posted - Mar 13 2008 : 11:48:16 AM
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There's such a wide variation in PG rated movies. Without knowing the specific movie, I can't really say whether it was an appropriate choice for the age group. I guess the bigger question is what role the movie played in the classroom. Was it a substitute for reading a book or learning a topic directly from the teacher? Or just a fun activity for a special day?
This topic makes me think back to my school days. In elementary school, vcrs were still a new thing and only the special "performing arts" room had one. The teacher showed us "Raiders of the Lost Ark" and "Life of Brian" (we were in 4th grade - those choices seem a little weird to me now).
In junior high, I went to catholic school, where there were no vcrs at all. One teacher had us watch a film strip version of Fritz Lang's "Metropolis" (to illustrate the concept of modernism). Very bizarre!
In high school, my private school made a deal with the devil and allowed the Channel 1 corporation to install a tv and vcr in every classroom. We were contractually obligated to watch a 15 minute newscast (with commercials) every afternoon. The rest of the time, teachers could use the tv/vcrs to show us clips from "Romeo and Juliet" or "Glory". I still remember how much a certain teacher hated turning on that newscast every day! He saw it as a real violation of his teaching environment, but he had no choice.
Country Lawyer, I imagine that multimedia have only become more prevalent as a teaching aid over the years. This is an issue you are probably going to run into every year in one form or another, so I hope you are able to work out a solution that you and the school can live with. |
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PlumCreekMama
True Blue Farmgirl
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Heather
Iowa
USA
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Posted - Mar 13 2008 : 5:55:11 PM
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Wow! I can't believe they showed you Life of Brian in fourth grade! What was their reasoning behind that? I personally love that movie, but I wouldn't show it to a room of fourth graders!
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willowtreecreek
True Blue Farmgirl
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Julie
Russell
AR
USA
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Posted - Mar 13 2008 : 8:23:41 PM
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alee thats funny about Princess Bride because while I love that movie there are SEVERAL swear words in it! I am a school teacher and my personal belief is that teachers should NOT be showing movies. I find little or no educational value in them. There are MANY teachers at my school that show them often. Personally I see it to be a sign of laziness in teaching. most of the time the movies they show are ones the kids have seen 100 times already anyway. If I feel like we need a break i would much rather go outside and play than stick in a video! I LOVE to go out on the playground with the kids. There is no better stress relief than climbing up the slide and sliding down. I wish more teachers would give it a try.
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willowtreecreek
True Blue Farmgirl
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Julie
Russell
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farminmama
True Blue Farmgirl
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Jen
Florida
USA
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Posted - Mar 13 2008 : 8:48:37 PM
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In first grade, anything other than G should require at least a note sent home a night or two before letting parents know that they will be showing...on Thursday...please contact us with any objections. I understand how you feel, I think. Undermined as a parent. You wouldn't have exposed her to PG and feel it shouldn't have been done being your back, without you consent, or at least without knowing until after the fact. I would watch the movie, whatever it was, and KNOW exactly what she saw and heard. Then I could address any issues as they come up.
Jen
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KYgurlsrbest
True Blue Farmgirl
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Jonni
Elsmere
Kentucky
USA
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Posted - Mar 13 2008 : 8:52:21 PM
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Wow. What school did I attend? I don't recall seeing any films...well, ok, Romeo and Juliet (in 7th grade) where the teacher fast forwarded through all the "racy" parts...but we just watched the Electric Company and Sesame Street.
I would go with Julie though, about movies in the classroom--I just really wonder "what for" unless it's something made for PBS.
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farmgirl blessings
True Blue Farmgirl
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Lea
TN
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Posted - Mar 13 2008 : 8:55:49 PM
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Personally, I would be highly disappointed if my 1st grader was shown a PG movie - regardless of what it is. PG - parental guidance - that pretty much summarizes it for me. Where does the teacher get the idea that she can make that call for all of the children? I would definately call that overstepping her boundries.
If it was me, I would certainly gently approach the teacher to voice my concerns to her as well as the principal.
I think Annika said it all when she comment that "Appropriate is a home choice." I don't try to dictate what others choose for their children, but we all deserve the freedom to raise our children according the values held in our homes.
Blessings, Lea
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Aunt Jenny
True Blue Farmgirl
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Jenny
middle of
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Posted - Mar 13 2008 : 9:28:16 PM
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I wouldn't be pleased at all!! I have been very dissapointed to find out that in 6th grade they have shown movies that I wasn't excited about my kids seeing...in first grade I would be furious!! I would talk to both the teacher and the principal.
Jenny in Utah
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country lawyer
True Blue Farmgirl
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Posted - Mar 14 2008 : 07:24:41 AM
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Thank you so much for your voices. This particular issue is one of my (many) soapboxes regarding kids. I was having a "knee-jerk" reaction yesterday. I so enjoy listening to those who are not. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I feel much less "pig-headed" about it now.
Here is what I have decided. Now, know that I have not seen the movie. And, I'd tell you what it is, but that's not the issue for me. I am certain of this. The Ratings Board thinks it deserves a PG rating, so I am sure I would not find it fully appropriate for my 6-year old daughter. I don't think some G movies are appropriate, to tell the truth...So, I have no doubt that I am more conservative with my daughter than the Ratings Board. Now, know that if other parents want to show PG movies to their 1st graders in their home to their kids, fine. Doesn't bother me in the least; whatever works in their family.
So, back to where I am with this. I believe there should be a clear, bright-line rule in the school that first graders will not be shown PG movies at school. That is what I will ask for. I have looked at the definition of a PG rating and in my mind, no PG movie should ever be forced upon a 1st grade child in a classroom setting. Ever. If I can't get that, then I will ask to be notified when a PG movie is scheduled to be shown so that I can pick my daughter up from school early.
I am a "mother bear" when it comes to my daughter. I'm afraid working with so many troubled kids and families for so long made me what some could call "overprotective." That label doesn't bother me in the least...
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Beemoosie
True Blue Farmgirl
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Bonnie
New York
USA
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Posted - Mar 14 2008 : 12:29:47 PM
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I would be unhappy about it too. We were always sent home permission slips. Even G movies, I want to know. That sounds pretty strict, but there are just some things out there that I don't agree with and just because someone else says it appropriate/inappropriate doesn't mean I agree.
Do you feel comfortable asking the teacher to give you prior notice in the future?
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laluna
True Blue Farmgirl
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New York
USA
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Posted - Mar 15 2008 : 5:37:58 PM
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As a middle school English teacher, I have a few things to say about this topic. First, I do in fact see value in showing movies to my students; I often use film versions of texts we've read in order to illustrate or emphasize certain literary elements (setting, mood, etc.). Also, sometimes it's important to show kids why reading the book is often far more fulfilling than watching the movie (and many of them do say they preferred the book when asked to write a comparative analysis essay).  That said, I also have several rather reluctant, struggling readers who really benefit from the visual presentation. I don't often show the entire movie, by the way, often just enough for the students to "get a feel" for it. (One that I do show in it's entirety, however, is Much Ado About Nothing - it really helps my 8th graders "get" Shakespeare while we read the play; not to mention, he's really meant to be seen more than read).
Now to the issue of parental consent/approval, I always send home a letter whenever we watch a movie/excerpt that's not rated G. In middle school, I approach it more as a "for your information" letter, and to be perfectly honest, I've never once had a parent call to complain. Perhaps it's because of the way I frame it ("we'll be watching (an excerpt from) movie "X" as an extension of the literature unit, etc...") or the movies themselves, who knows? If a parent did have a concern, however, I'd be happy to discuss alternative ways of addressing the assignment. (I hope this doesn't sound like all I do is show movies, by the way! I show maybe two a year!  )
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