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Stitching & Crafting Room: Some of you are approaching sewing ALL WRONG! |
tribalcime
True Blue Farmgirl
2963 Posts
lisa
lexington
ky
USA
2963 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 08:38:18 AM
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hmm ?? just got thru spreading 8 bags of horse manure in backyard. Wonder if that qualifies as a perfume to adorn myself with before i sew ??? The kitties think i smell good
LIfe is a witch ~~~ and then ya fly !! My blogspot .http://tribalwitch.blogspot.com/ |
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl
5602 Posts
Annika
USA
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Aunt Jenny
True Blue Farmgirl
11381 Posts
Jenny
middle of
Utah
USA
11381 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 09:23:38 AM
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wow..my how times have changed. I don't EVER wear lipstick (my lips are big enough, thank you very much) and if my hair EVER was neat or I wore a dress when I sewed my family would send in the white coated guys for me. I generally am wearing overalls, barefoot with my hair in a messy ponytail and you can bet that my house dosn't look perfect either.
Jenny in Utah Proud Farmgirl sister #24 Inside me there is a skinny woman crying to get out...but I can usually shut her up with cookies http://www.auntjennysworld.blogspot.com/ visit my little online shop at www.auntjenny.etsy.com |
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tziporra
True Blue Farmgirl
234 Posts
Robin
Seattle
WA
USA
234 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 09:46:58 AM
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Ah, c'mon -- you guys are breaking my heart here.
I mean, of course the advice is charmingly obsolete. But the responses to the thread make me want to give it a real effort anyway.
Because, you know, it's not THAT ridiculous to be nicely dressed with a little makeup on when your husband gets home. Even if you don't make the effort just to sit at your sewing table.
If I went on a "Farmboys" chatroom and found a thread of guys mocking the idea that they should bring their wives flowers on a regular basis, that would make me cry too. Sure, most won't do it on a weekly basis, but that doesn't mean they couldn't see that the basis of such advice was sound.
My husband is in graduate school AND works full time to support our family. And the appreciation he shows when I have a margarita mixed for him, or am wearing his favorite dress, or yes, the dreaded LIPSTICK when he gets home is touching. I'm not saying I don't work my behind off to raise our two-going-on-three children and make our household work on a budget that includes paying for a master's degree. But that everyone is working so hard around here just makes the small efforts that we both put into the marriage that much more important.
And yes, he brings me flowers every week.
Best,
Robin |
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abbasgurl
True Blue Farmgirl
1262 Posts
Rhonda
USA
1262 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 09:57:42 AM
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Now Robin...simmer down. I'm just trying to to help these younger girls understand why their sewing projects might not be turning out the way they should.
I too gussy up a little for my guy...but never even considered doing it for the sewing machine. I should treat my machine better.
Rhonda
I will sing at the top of my lungs, and I will dance even if I'm the only one...
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sleepless reader
True Blue Farmgirl
1022 Posts
CA
USA
1022 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 10:12:49 AM
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I think if my husband came home and found me in a dress and lipstick, he'd think I was having an affair! Perhaps I'll try the clean dishes and maybe some chapstick and see if my sewing improves. Thanks for the "timely" tips! Still laughing, Sharon
Farmgirl Sister #74
Life is messy. Wear your apron! |
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Aunt Jenny
True Blue Farmgirl
11381 Posts
Jenny
middle of
Utah
USA
11381 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 11:30:08 AM
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I didn't mean that I NEVER dress nice or fix my hair..just not in order to sew. Not that I get flowers weekly either, though...lucky you!
Jenny in Utah Proud Farmgirl sister #24 Inside me there is a skinny woman crying to get out...but I can usually shut her up with cookies http://www.auntjennysworld.blogspot.com/ visit my little online shop at www.auntjenny.etsy.com |
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levisgrammy
True Blue Farmgirl
9397 Posts
Denise
Beavercreek
Ohio
USA
9397 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 11:43:19 AM
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Jonni, Vodka and tonic. Is that for him or you? That is too funny. And so what happens when he works from home and you come in from work? LOL
Denise~~
farmgirl sister #43
Kind hearts are gardens Kind thoughts are roots Kind words are blossoms Kind deeds are Fruits
www.torismimi.blogspot.com www.torisgram.etsy.com |
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Bonne
True Blue Farmgirl
3003 Posts
Bonne
Littleton
CO
USA
3003 Posts |
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chessie
True Blue Farmgirl
403 Posts
Karen
Vista
CA
USA
403 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 12:58:43 PM
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Dang, i read the wrong book by the looks of the way i'm dressed! Must have been the hubby's JD Tractor manual... will look for photo of me on tractor to show you later... I do giggle when i wear my big sparkly diamond-like earrings with my overalls... maybe i should wear them all the time - Robin's point is well taken and i am endeavoring to be more like her -Sweet, grateful, tender and kind, while at the same time laughing so hard my eyes are watering. Can't put on mascara till the laughing dies down 'cause i don't have waterproof. love, karen
www.edgehillherbfarm.com "where the name is bigger than the farm, but no one seems to mind" blog http://edgehillherbfarmer.spaces.live.com/default.aspx?wa=wsignin1.0 happy farmgirl #89 |
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
22941 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 1:41:51 PM
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I think it is great that we can appreciate women from all walks of life on this forum. I think it is great that for some it works out to be able to be the brilliant hostess of a more traditional family set up, and I also think it is equally great to be the brilliant busy women!
I have gone through cycles of both, so I can see both sides. Right now I am trying to rehab my house so it is actually livable (how do the chores get so out of hand when both are working?) If you have time to gussy yourself up, I think it is fun to do. But I also know the reality of sewing on a deadline- as in "Hold on Nora! And please don't "go" on the floor! Mommy is almost done hemming your diaper!" LOL
Alee Farmgirl Sister #8 Please come visit Nora and me on our new blog: www.farmgirlalee.blogspot.com |
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Maryjane Lee
True Blue Farmgirl
2195 Posts
Maryjane
CA
USA
2195 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 1:56:43 PM
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That is FUNNY Rhonda! Have things changed since then! Thank Heavens! I don't get pretty for my sewing machine but I do for hubby!
Hugs, Maryjane Lee Farmgirl Sister #44
The Beehive Cottage~est. 1971 Sisters on the Fly #595
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Edited by - Maryjane Lee on Mar 06 2008 2:06:51 PM |
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl
5602 Posts
Annika
USA
5602 Posts |
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nelia48
Farmgirl in Training
43 Posts
Cora
Spring Hill
FL
USA
43 Posts |
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theoanne
True Blue Farmgirl
282 Posts
teddie
CARROLLTON
GA
282 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 7:49:24 PM
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I have to have my other housework caught up or I don't enjoy the sewing. I'm sure this is because my Mother harassed me into this line of thinking. Bless her soul. I do, however,dress for sewing ..... I try to wear the most comfortable clothes that I can that will not attract fabric, thread and fuzz. So , in a way, I guess I'm also dressing for Hubby. He appreciates when I don't leave him covered in thread and fuzz after I have hugged him. He returns the favor by leaving me alone when I'm sewing/crafting. Actually I'm sure he likes it because I am leaving him alone with CNN. LOL This has been a great thread. I really enjoyed everyone's sense of humor.
TEDDIE
Too blessed to be stressed! |
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Tammy Claxton
True Blue Farmgirl
1559 Posts
Tammy
Glen Burnie
Maryland
USA
1559 Posts |
Posted - Mar 07 2008 : 08:53:54 AM
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Hair done and lipstick...no wonder I can't concentrate! I'm just not gussied up enough to tackle a big sewing job! lol Time to put those jeans and T's away, I guess and break out the emergency Donna Reed dress..HA!!
Crafty Bay Farmgirl Chapter
"A friend is someone who does things that count, but never stops to count them"
Farmgirl #152
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RachelLeigh
True Blue Farmgirl
635 Posts
Rachel
Rainier
WA
USA
635 Posts |
Posted - Mar 07 2008 : 10:46:39 AM
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Ohhh my gosh...I about fell out of my chair when I read that. I've never made sure my dishes were clean (because they never all are) and I usually sew dressed like a scrub in sweatpants. Ohhh that's rich!
FARMGIRL SISTER #127 my Etsy shop: http://backwoodsjunction.etsy.com The Catholic Wife: http://www.thecatholicwife.com
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
22941 Posts |
Posted - Mar 10 2008 : 7:27:58 PM
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Well my living room is picked up, and I will do dishes after Nora goes to bed (so more aren't being created!LOL) and Laundry...well... that's my own personal demon, but it's actually 75% done!
So I am almost ready to finish up my last two quilts and start on a new project that I am super excited about (but it's Top Secret! :D)
Alee Farmgirl Sister #8 Please come visit Nora and me on our new blog: www.farmgirlalee.blogspot.com |
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nitere
True Blue Farmgirl
482 Posts
Amy
Hickory
NC
USA
482 Posts |
Posted - Mar 11 2008 : 06:55:36 AM
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this is so funny. i would like to add "make sure you have a shower before sewing" i was trying to finish up my daughter's easter dress yesterday and the zipper almost killed me. after i took a shower and came back and did it my way instead of the directions, it worked! i guess the shower cleaned the dust out of my brain, too! :)
farmgirl sister #37
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