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KYgurlsrbest
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Jonni
Elsmere Kentucky
USA
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Posted - Jan 30 2008 :  09:47:34 AM  Show Profile
My husband is looking for a new job, and has a great opportunity at a nice cafe down the street from my office--it looks very promising. Such a neat place, but he's freaked out because his ex-fiance (from 11 years ago) is the chef, and they ended their relationship so terribly, he thinks she'll put the cabosh on his being hired. He was also really worried about me being "jealous" or uncomfortable with him working so closely with her....Look, ladies, I've seen her and I don't really know what the mystique is all about (she has red hair, which is pretty, but did anyone ever look at her face?)...anyway, I just think it would be REALLY crappy if he didn't get this job because of her and their personal issues, instead of his qualifications. I guess there's not much to do if that does happen--and who would be able to say that's exactly "why" he wasn't hired--I guess I'm just venting...stupid girls

Farmgirl Sister #80, thanks to a very special farmgirl from the Bluegrass..."She was built like a watch, a study in balance ... with a neck and head so refined, like a drawing by DaVinci"...
NY Newsday sportswriter Bill Nack describing filly, Ruffian.
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Firemama
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Amanda
Medical Lake WA
USA
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Posted - Jan 30 2008 :  09:49:11 AM  Show Profile  Send Firemama a Yahoo! Message
I agree most girls stink!! LoL. I hope it all works out for you guys!!

Mama to 2
I am who I am
FarmGirl# 20

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ddmashayekhi
True Blue Farmgirl

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Dawn
Naperville Illinois
USA
4740 Posts

Posted - Jan 30 2008 :  11:39:37 AM  Show Profile
Let's hope that for her their past is "water under the bridge". Hopefully she is professional enough not to let the past interfere with either of their careers. Since their relationship had been so "terrible" I doubt you have to worry about any old flames being rekindled. The important thing is your husband finding the best job for him! Good luck on things turning out for the best!

Dawn in IL
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Hideaway Farmgirl
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Jo
Virginia
USA
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Posted - Jan 30 2008 :  11:55:46 AM  Show Profile
Wishing good luck for your DH, Jonni.

Jo

"Wish I had time to work with herbs all day!"
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KYgurlsrbest
True Blue Farmgirl

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Jonni
Elsmere Kentucky
USA
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Posted - Jan 30 2008 :  12:00:06 PM  Show Profile
thanks, girls. I think it will be fine, afterall most restaurants have a "back of the house" and a "front of the house" and the chef really doesn't get to pick the front of the house. I really am surprised actually, that he hasn't run into her before with the places he's worked.

I never even thought about her until he brought it up, and then I just thought, "seriously? We've been married for 7 years, and she's been married for 10... do you REALLY think she's ever even considered you again?" But, boys are really weird, and I hope, that if he's hired he won't be a freak

Farmgirl Sister #80, thanks to a very special farmgirl from the Bluegrass..."She was built like a watch, a study in balance ... with a neck and head so refined, like a drawing by DaVinci"...
NY Newsday sportswriter Bill Nack describing filly, Ruffian.
http://www.buyhandmade.org/
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Phils Ann
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Ann
Parsonsburg Maryland
USA
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Posted - Jan 31 2008 :  04:59:34 AM  Show Profile
Jonni, I so hope he gets this job! I've been praying for his job situation... And, how did your insurance request go at work? If I missed that, forgive me. I hope you did get it worked out.

Ann
Sairy Hill Thicket
There is a Redeemer.
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Miss Bee Haven
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Janice
Louisville/Irvington Kentucky
USA
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Posted - Jan 31 2008 :  05:11:44 AM  Show Profile  Send Miss Bee Haven a Yahoo! Message
How did it go yesterday? We all still have our fingers crossed....

Farmgirl Sister #50

"If you think you've got it nailed down, then what's all that around it?"
'Br.Dave Gardner'
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KYgurlsrbest
True Blue Farmgirl

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Jonni
Elsmere Kentucky
USA
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Posted - Jan 31 2008 :  06:11:01 AM  Show Profile
Well, good news! He was hired yesterday at ANOTHER restaurant, and actually, I think it will suit him much better, and doesn't come equipped with an ex-fiance . It's a place called Otto's, and like our favorite restaurant in Louisville (Lilly's) relies on fresh, seasonal regional ingredients and local farm fresh meats, etc...casual fine dining without the fuss. I think he's going to be very happy--if the permasmile last night was any indicator

Ann, thank you so much for asking about the insurance...I worked it out with my doctor to find a generic prescription, so I'm now paying $11.00 as compared to $285 a month. That's been a HUGE lift of a burden for us, and now there is some money built up in the account that I can use for other doctor visits, etc...I doubt I'll ever get the benefit of the free and clear deductible, but at least I'm not running through the money before it was even placed into the account by my employer. Thank you for encouraging me to speak up...it worked.

Farmgirl Sister #80, thanks to a very special farmgirl from the Bluegrass..."She was built like a watch, a study in balance ... with a neck and head so refined, like a drawing by DaVinci"...
NY Newsday sportswriter Bill Nack describing filly, Ruffian.
http://www.buyhandmade.org/
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Lainey
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Elaine
Waco Kentucky
USA
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Posted - Jan 31 2008 :  07:00:57 AM  Show Profile
Jonni, I'm glad to hear the good news about your husband and the insurance/co-pay problem.

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Phils Ann
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Ann
Parsonsburg Maryland
USA
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Posted - Feb 04 2008 :  11:09:21 AM  Show Profile
Jonni, there are tears in my eyes, I'm so happy for you.
XOX

Ann
Sairy Hill Thicket
There is a Redeemer.
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Alee
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Alee
Worland Wy
USA
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Posted - Feb 04 2008 :  2:56:57 PM  Show Profile  Send Alee a Yahoo! Message
Jonni! I am so glad for Jus and for the reduction on your prescription $$$!

Alee
Farmgirl Sister #8
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KYgurlsrbest
True Blue Farmgirl

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Jonni
Elsmere Kentucky
USA
4853 Posts

Posted - Feb 05 2008 :  06:52:56 AM  Show Profile
I wouldn't have had the guts to ask if it wasn't for you girls, and Ann in particular. I was satisfied to just be a victim of the system. Never again. Where there is a will there is a way, and it's so wonderful to have friends to light your way!

Farmgirl Sister #80, thanks to a very special farmgirl from the Bluegrass..."She was built like a watch, a study in balance ... with a neck and head so refined, like a drawing by DaVinci"...
NY Newsday sportswriter Bill Nack describing filly, Ruffian.
http://www.buyhandmade.org/
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