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Here's to Your Health:  Colour or let the grey show  |
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl
5602 Posts
Annika
USA
5602 Posts |
 Posted - Nov 23 2007 : 08:59:24 AM
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I had vibrant light red hair all my life until my early 40's when it turned dark and dull YUCK!!!! So I started dying it. I missed my normal hue and it made me feel spritely and girlish again...
I was just looking at my dark auburn roots with the silver strands and worrying about what all of the dye chemicals were doing to my body and wishing that the thick silver hair would all come in at once! I don't so much mind getting older, it's this muddy patch in the middle  that makes me feel rotten. I'm looking for more natural ways to dye my mop now.
So do you/are you going to cover the grey? just curious. I won't tell, honest 
Wishing you joy in small things and peace in your heart
Annika
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NotQuiteJuneCleaver
True Blue Farmgirl
222 Posts
Susan
Shreveport
LA
USA
222 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2007 : 09:27:29 AM
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I don't dye and won't dye. And only partially because of the chemicals. I have earned every grey hair on my head and I wear them with pride! And believe me it is getting more grey by the minute! My husband is very grey as well (his beard is almost white!) and he would NOT like it if I colored my hair. He's an au naturale kinda guy and has said on more than one occasion he didnt like dyed hair so I never really consider it. I am 48 and I figure by 50 it should be almost completely grey considering the rate it is turning.
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DeepsouthMamma
True Blue Farmgirl
1454 Posts
Autumn
Southwest Louisiana
USA
1454 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2007 : 09:32:31 AM
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Yep- Me too.
I've earned em but sometimes they make me sad.
My older kids 32.28 and 22 look like they should have a grey haired momma but my younger ones 17 &14 look like they are with their granny~
They NEVER act embarassed and compliment me often but I DO have a mirror!
The hard part is weddings etc. I will from now on be the Older mom- some of their friends' parents are the ages of some of their siblings!! Humbling to say the least.
Grow old gracefully is my goal- but it takes a bit of humbling with me.
Blessings
Autumn
Isaiah 40:31
But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint. |
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Firemama
True Blue Farmgirl
1731 Posts
Amanda
Medical Lake
WA
USA
1731 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2007 : 09:38:50 AM
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I am only 27,but I was a Gestational Surrogate and unfortunatley put ALOT of hormones and chemicals in my body, that being said, I have a bit of grey.My eyelashes are also mostly white on myleft eye. I do use mascara, but I dont think I'll dye my hair. I have, but I dont think I will again.I have pondered it alot actually lately.But in the end I am chicken. I kind of think I have earned my grey..... Although I would love to have my full on Red again.
Mama to 2
Your FreckleFaced Farm Girl!!
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Canadian farmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
482 Posts
Lori
Ontario
Canada
482 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2007 : 10:06:19 AM
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Hi,
I hate to admit this, but I do dye my hair, despite all the other healthy things I do!
I'm 44 and just don't want to look like my mother yet. My kids are 15, 17 and 19, and I don't want to look like their grandma!
There will come a time when I'll have to stop, but right now I'm not ready. I do wonder how it will look as it's growing out, though. (although I'm not far off my natural colour)
There is a new book out called "Going Gray" by Anne Kreamer that talks about this, she was on TV this week, very interesting.
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Aunt Jenny
True Blue Farmgirl
11381 Posts
Jenny
middle of
Utah
USA
11381 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2007 : 10:13:40 AM
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I am 49 and don't dye mine. I am actually pretty lucky to not have alot of grey...a little in front of my ears and a few mixed in from the top..no streaks or big spots..my hair still appears really dark brown (most people call it black but it isn't really) I don't plan to ever dye it since I figure at 49 if this is all I have it will be awhile before it is alot...I honestly don't know if I would anyhow...I am just not the type.
My younger sister and mom both got grey early and have dyed their hair for years. I guess I take after my grandma on my dad's side. She died at 90 with alot more brown than grey hair. That is my plan..only I think I will live an extra 10 years..haha.
Jenny in Utah
Inside me there is a skinny woman crying to get out...but I can usually shut her up with cookies
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primjillie
True Blue Farmgirl
138 Posts
Jill
Antelope
CA
USA
138 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2007 : 11:10:50 AM
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| I don't have a lot of grey hair yet (I'm 52), but I do color it. My hair is so fine and limp, so coloring gives it texture and body. I also do not like my natural color (mousy brown), so I color it blonde. I do just the highlighting, so I don't have to get it done so often. It is just enough to give my hair body and color. Maybe when I am all grey, it will have the coarseness to give me body, and then I won't have to dye it anymore. I think you should do what makes you feel good, and not worry about other's feeling about it. |
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julia hayes
True Blue Farmgirl
1132 Posts
julia
medical lake
wa
USA
1132 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2007 : 11:33:13 AM
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Ton-O-Grey over here! I have white shocks along my ears and loads and loads of grey all over. Sooooo don't care...so can't be bothered with dying it. I can barely be bothered with cutting it! Sheesh can't even imagine the headaches of dying it. I'm 42 and on several occasions have been asked if I'm my children's grandmother. LOL!!!We are such a society that worships youth and someone's idea of beauty. Can't go there either. It is whatever makes you happy and feel comfy in your skin. For me that is being as natural as possible..If the truth be known, I'm just too lazy to care! hahaha.
Hip-hip-horray for the grey!
Julia Hayes
being simple to simply be |
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Carol Sue
True Blue Farmgirl
4033 Posts
Carol Sue
Washingtonian
USA
4033 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2007 : 6:01:26 PM
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Hey Annika,
I dye mine, it is gr0wing 0ut s0me and we shall see.
B0tt0m line, what makes y0u feel great ab0ut y0u? Then that is what y0u d0. 0ther's 0pini0ns really d0n't matter, what d0 y0u want?
Just my 0pini0n and geezz i seem t0 have en0ugh 0f them.....l0l
CS
listening to the quiet moments
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peggysue
True Blue Farmgirl
267 Posts
Peggy
Tulsa
Oklahoma
267 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2007 : 6:08:14 PM
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i just let my greys shine on.. after all i have earned them all. i don't really mind the grey, it looks like i spent a ton of money having my hair frosted at the salon for now.
Life is too short to be narrow minded. |
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl
5602 Posts
Annika
USA
5602 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2007 : 6:36:08 PM
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Meh, I'll continue to lighten my do for now...thanks ladies, I am eternally curious and I love all of your self confidence!
Wishing you joy in small things and peace in your heart
Annika
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MsCwick
True Blue Farmgirl
775 Posts
Cristine
Farmville
Virginia
USA
775 Posts |
Posted - Nov 23 2007 : 9:32:55 PM
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emsmommy5
True Blue Farmgirl
1547 Posts
Angie
Buckley
WA
USA
1547 Posts |
Posted - Nov 24 2007 : 06:29:07 AM
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Let mine go a while back. It's just to hard to keep up with dying it. So it's salt and pepper now and depending on the light MORE salt than pepper. I am really, really grateful to have white-gray rather than yellow-gray hair. I cut it really short, but now am growing it back out so I can put it in a pony tail. The length is driving me crazy more than the color!
Lord, keep your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth! |
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl
5602 Posts
Annika
USA
5602 Posts |
Posted - Nov 24 2007 : 07:36:22 AM
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LOL, I did the same thing...I HATE growing my hair out , but really didn't like it short this time. There was the point that no matter what I did with it it would curl into my eyes, nose, mouth. It's chin length now and I like it . I'm glad that my hair is coming in thick and silver, not yellow grey too =)
Wishing you joy in small things and peace in your heart
Annika
http://panzymoon.wordpress.com/ |
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Aunt Jenny
True Blue Farmgirl
11381 Posts
Jenny
middle of
Utah
USA
11381 Posts |
Posted - Nov 24 2007 : 10:06:45 AM
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Has anyone else noticed that the greys are twice as thick as the regular color hair?? I already had thick hair, but boy those greys are making my hair even bigger! haha
Jenny in Utah
Inside me there is a skinny woman crying to get out...but I can usually shut her up with cookies
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl
5602 Posts
Annika
USA
5602 Posts |
Posted - Nov 24 2007 : 10:36:33 AM
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HEEHEE, I'm gonna need a rake to get through my silver thicket one day...wish it would all turn at oncebut mine is at least twice as thick as the red and wirey too
Wishing you joy in small things and peace in your heart
Annika
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Dixie_Amazon
True Blue Farmgirl
125 Posts
Dennise
Baton Rouge
LA
USA
125 Posts |
Posted - Nov 24 2007 : 3:20:19 PM
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I am in the process of growing mine out. My hair is dye resistant and it was just too irritating to keep up. I am considering highlighting to help the grown out portion blend in a little.
Dennise |
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DeepsouthMamma
True Blue Farmgirl
1454 Posts
Autumn
Southwest Louisiana
USA
1454 Posts |
Posted - Nov 24 2007 : 7:47:12 PM
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Oh yeah- those grey hairs have a mind of their own!!!
Everybody says mine looks "so natural-where did ya get it done"?
HA!HA!
I have "big" hair too - the longer it is the better- more weight makes it not so bad. I wear it in a MJ braid on the side most of the time- sure wish my locks were as long as hers!
Blessings
Autumn
By the way- WELCOME to another Louisiana girl!!Glad youre here Dennise
Isaiah 40:31
But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint. |
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catscharm74
True Blue Farmgirl
4687 Posts
Heather
Texas
USA
4687 Posts |
Posted - Nov 24 2007 : 8:16:45 PM
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| I just cut mine off this summer and after some debate, decided to keep it short. It is "au natural" but I do use products to make it shiny and healthy. I also got a natural gloss done at a local "healthy" salon. It made it really shiny and perty!! I also had some natural hi-lights come out in the sun over the summer, which was a suprise to me since I haven't seen my natural hair color since I was 16. LOL!!! |
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abbasgurl
True Blue Farmgirl
1262 Posts
Rhonda
USA
1262 Posts |
Posted - Nov 26 2007 : 11:02:21 AM
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I am terribly adventurous and a teeny bit vain. Been coloring my hair for years and have had everything from hot pink to calico kitty! LOL But in all seriousness...I color because it gives me a "boost". I feel pretty with my blonde locks, as opposed to my mousy brown natural color. Thankfully no gray yet, but I have vowed to "never go gray"- if ya know what I mean. 
Rhonda
I'm a one girl revolution. |
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kissmekate
True Blue Farmgirl
890 Posts
Kate
Delano
Minnesota
890 Posts |
Posted - Nov 27 2007 : 10:02:32 PM
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I inherited my Dad's hair, and it is going grey pretty fast. He was completely grey by fifty. (thanks to me!!)LOL!
I do color mine and I am growing it out too. I will never go short again. (never NEVER get a hair cut on a hot day when you are frustrated by a bad hair day)
Over the past year, I have noticed every time I "refresh" the color, my poor scalp goes nuts and itches like crazy, so I am thinking I have to give up coloring it.
On the flip side, if my hair is half as beautiful as my Dad's silvery-white grey, then I will be thrilled.
Now if it would just grow!
Don't miss out on a blessing, just because it isn't packaged the way you expected. ~MaryJo Copeland |
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Phils Ann
True Blue Farmgirl
1095 Posts
Ann
Parsonsburg
Maryland
USA
1095 Posts |
Posted - Nov 28 2007 : 10:48:19 AM
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Like Kate, my scalp itched like crazy right after each dye. My natural color is dark brown, and the gray (White) is in the front and top. Kinda like a skunk! However, it troubled me that I was going in the direction of natural and organic other than my hair, plus I really didn't think the brown would look good on my aging face. Due to health problems which might have been due to chemical issues, I decided to quit... and had a diluted dye applied for about a year, then quit and got my hair cut into layers at the same time. It's all natural now, and I don't miss the color a bit. My DH always liked gray hair, so it's great as far as he's concerned.
Ann
Sairy Hill Thicket
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jenbove
Moderator
320 Posts
Jennifer
Calico Rock
AR
USA
320 Posts |
Posted - Nov 28 2007 : 8:48:26 PM
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I used to dye my hair with all-natural henna (to rev up the red), and I was thinking of trying it again - the grays are growing more numerous these days, but I'm not ready to give up on auburn just yet! So, I was checking into online sources for natural hair dyes and found a few y'all might be interested in...
Comparison of natural tint options (and online buying)
http://www.naturalhairdye.com/decision.html
Herbatint Permanent Haircolor Gel
http://www.mothernature.com/Shop/Brands/index.cfm/b/11697
"For healthy living, switch from harsh chemical products to botanicals"
http://www.sababotanical.com/
If anybody tries a natural dye, let us know how you like it! I think I might try the Surya Henna since it's pre-mixed and claims to cover gray. We shall see...
Jen
Expedition Leader, MaryJanesOutpost
www.maryjanesoutpost.com
The View From My Boots
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brightmeadow
True Blue Farmgirl
2045 Posts
Brenda
Lucas
Ohio
USA
2045 Posts |
Posted - Nov 29 2007 : 6:03:04 PM
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I'm 51, and I see a lot of gray around my face and in my part every time my roots grow out. I go to the hair salon and let my stylist worry about the chemicals. I get them once every six weeks, she has to worry about them several times a day.
I've thought about letting it grow out, but as long as I am working in a youth-oriented job (I was told a few weeks ago that the average age of someone in the IT profession is about 36) I can't afford to go around looking older than I feel. And I feel like I am about 26 most of the time. Except when my knees hurt and I feel like I am 80.
You shall eat the fruit of the labor of your hands - You shall be happy and it shall be well with you. -Psalm 128.2
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Past Blessings
True Blue Farmgirl
1083 Posts
Brenda
Orchard Prairie
WA
USA
1083 Posts |
Posted - Dec 02 2007 : 5:00:27 PM
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I am still in the "debating" Stage. I colored my hair blonde for most of my adult life. Last year I let it go natural . . . am shocked at how dark it became over the years . . . but it also came with a lot of gray. I still haven't decided whether to color the gray or not. It isn't too bad yet, but I am not sure I am ready to be a salt and pepper lady at 44! If it is too solid, I may opt for some highlights, then you can't tell what is gray and what is highlights. But I do love not worrying about the stupid "dye line" anymore like I had to worry about every few weeks before. I am more comfortable with who I am than in the past, so the idea of a few gray hairs doesn't really freak me out. So we shall see what happens!
Hugs & blessings,
Brenda
Past Blessings . . . Celebrating Life as it used to be . . . when people loved God, loved their families and loved their country. |
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