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Family Matters:  Let Graditude Be Our Attitude  |
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EnchantedWoodsGirl
True Blue Farmgirl
959 Posts
Kathy
New Jersey
USA
959 Posts |
 Posted - Jan 16 2007 : 4:10:15 PM
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I found this idea a long time ago in a book called Simple Abundance and thought it might be fun and make us more apt to do it. We can list here every day or so five things we are greatful for that happen in our daily lives. I for one, am guilty of not concentrating on the positive things in my life - perhaps this will help us all when times are both rough and smooth going.
What do you all think?
Kathy of the Enchanted Wood
http://enchantedwoodmusings.blogspot.com/
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faithymom
True Blue Farmgirl
360 Posts
Faith
Sandpoint
ID
USA
360 Posts |
Posted - Jan 16 2007 : 4:19:14 PM
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My mom loves that book!
I have implemented this with my son (and it's used with the 2 that came after him, too), who used to complain a lot and I noticed he was letting these small things totally ruin his day. Each night when we pray, he needs to finds at least 2 things to be thankful for.
He still complains, but not so much, and when he does I try to help him see the bigger picture.
Any way, I like this idea! I'm in.
Faith
"All television is educational television. The only question is, what is it teaching?"-Fmr. FCC Commissioner Nicholas Johnson |
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Marybeth
True Blue Farmgirl
6418 Posts
Mary Beth
Stanwood
Wa 98292
USA
6418 Posts |
Posted - Jan 16 2007 : 5:08:48 PM
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I checked your blog, Cathy and found it very interesting or maybe it is you that is interesting. I said hello to Gloria and peeked at one of the minis. I have 2 minis also. Tuffy (Midnight Special Tuff e Nuff) and Bucky. My little guys.
Let gratitude be our attitude. Good news. I always try to have a positive attitude no matter what and have tried to ingrain that in my children. I am grateful for so many things and people in my life that I can grin at unpleasant things. MB
www.strawberryhillsfarm.blogspot.com
www.day4plus.blogspot.com
"Life may not be the party we hoped for...but while we are here we might as well dance!" |
Edited by - Marybeth on Jan 16 2007 8:56:43 PM |
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OregonGal
True Blue Farmgirl
511 Posts
Chris
No. IL
USA
511 Posts |
Posted - Jan 16 2007 : 7:43:05 PM
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| Developing an attitude of gratitude helps alot during rough times in life, I find. There have been nights that I have gone to sleep and thanked God for the pillow under my head. And now, many times I just sit and marvel at how good life is at this moment - and I don't want to waste these wonderful moments because thinking of something crummy ruins the good moments. I watched the movie "Oklahoma" and learned from the old woman, "you put the good things over here, and you put the bad things over there, and you say 'OK' to both." Wonderful things you are teaching your children, very good. |
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Aunt George
True Blue Farmgirl
1476 Posts
Georgann
Midlothian
VA
1476 Posts |
Posted - Jan 16 2007 : 8:08:05 PM
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One thing that has helped my gratitude attitude is leaving a soul sucking job, so I am very grateful for a husband who is now supporting me, my mother, our children and our way of life. I am grateful for having my health. I am grateful for having a wonderful friend...EWG. I am grateful that I am finding a simpler way of life to strive for...simple abundance is becoming my way of life. And I am grateful really for every breath I take because we never how many beats our hearts have. There ya go, five for me. I have so much to be truly grateful for but shall save them and post with the next rounds.
Thank you Kathy for reminding me once again. And yes it is very, very easy to get stuck on the negative rather than focusing on the positive...you know the half empty vs. the half full syndrome. It can just be a matter of how we look at things. You know Kathy, we have both just come through some dark days and there really is light at the end of that tunnel. Thank you for going through that darkness with me my friend! You are TRUE BLUE!!
G
http://auntgeorgeshouse.blogspot.com/
Thanks for checking out my apron musings! |
Edited by - Aunt George on Jan 16 2007 8:18:10 PM |
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cmandle
True Blue Farmgirl
846 Posts
Catherine
Minneapolis
MN
846 Posts |
Posted - Jan 16 2007 : 8:19:10 PM
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I am grateful for my husband.
I am grateful for my son.
I am grateful for good health...which is on its way back to us.
I am grateful for good sleep...which I am off to find right now!
Catherine :)
http://yogurtandgranola.blogspot.com |
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Mumof3
True Blue Farmgirl
3890 Posts
Karin
Ellenwood
GA
USA
3890 Posts |
Posted - Jan 17 2007 : 06:23:08 AM
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Kathy- I try to begin and end each day recounting the things I am grateful for. It isn't always a long list- sometimes it is just small, simple things that I recognized during the day. When you focus on the good things that you find, the negative things just slip away into nothingness. It holds true for any person or situation that may come along. So, here are my 5 for today- the cold air outside, my husband- who every morning (if I'm awake or not) gives me a kiss and tells me he loves me, my children's voices (or my hug from John) when they come home, freshly mopped floors and quiet time for pondering things. What a great thread!
Karin |
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Cindy Lee
True Blue Farmgirl
510 Posts
Cindy
Sparks
Nevada
USA
510 Posts |
Posted - Jan 17 2007 : 07:08:07 AM
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Wow, I love this discussion. I guess we all need to remember our blessings. Let's see....The beautiful winter day, walking my dogs, my hard working husband, my friends at this site, and today my knitting group meets!
Life is good! Cindy
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Nancy Gartenman
True Blue Farmgirl
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Nancy
West Seneca
New York
USA
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Posted - Jan 17 2007 : 08:44:16 AM
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I'am just simply grateful. Like I say,carry happiness where ever you go, its not that heavy.If you drop it pick it up again as fast as you can.
NANCY JO
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EnchantedWoodsGirl
True Blue Farmgirl
959 Posts
Kathy
New Jersey
USA
959 Posts |
Posted - Jan 17 2007 : 12:42:15 PM
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Today I need to be thankful - I am thankful for the bright winter sunshine - for the amazing pansies that are still growing in my yard despite the freezing cold - the daffodils that decided to grow in with the bulbs just sitting around - the garlic that went unused but decided to grow anyways - what a pretty and unusual sight it is potted up!
I am grateful that the tiniest puppy (which I found out today has a slight cleft palate and could not get his tail docked) still has the strength to survive despite the obstacles in his path - and that he will have a forever home with me. I am grateful for my new cocker spaniel puppy, Charlee that kisses me whenever I need it - "buck uck, dog lips touched my lips!" (said of course by the famous Lucy in the Charlie Brown cartoons) but I could not image being kissed by a Prince and having it feel any more special!
The sun is shining on the wineberry canes outside my office window and it brings me the promise of a delicious harvest of berries next summer!
I am forever greatful for the women on this group who have oft times bared their souls and touched my heart with gladness!
Blessed Be!
Kathy of the Enchanted Wood
http://enchantedwoodmusings.blogspot.com/
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Cindy Lee
True Blue Farmgirl
510 Posts
Cindy
Sparks
Nevada
USA
510 Posts |
Posted - Jan 17 2007 : 4:54:58 PM
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| Kathy, Oh...good luck with your puppy! Let us know how he's doing! Cindy |
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therusticcottage
True Blue Farmgirl
4439 Posts
Kay
Vancouver
WA
USA
4439 Posts |
Posted - Jan 17 2007 : 5:29:36 PM
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I am grateful for my two beatiful daughters.
I am grateful for my two wonderful grandsons.
I am grateful for food in the pantry.
I am grateful for a nice warm house to live in -- especially during this cold winter.
I am grateful for the beautiful snow that we received yesterday.
The Rustic Cottage Etsy Shop http://therusticcottage.etsy.com
Picture A Day Blog http://rcpicaday.blogspot.com |
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EnchantedWoodsGirl
True Blue Farmgirl
959 Posts
Kathy
New Jersey
USA
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Phils Ann
True Blue Farmgirl
1095 Posts
Ann
Parsonsburg
Maryland
USA
1095 Posts |
Posted - Jan 18 2007 : 08:13:27 AM
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A great thread, Kathy. I spent my time in the shower recounting so many things I'm grateful for. (somehow the shower is my best thinking place)
Ann
There is a Redeemer. |
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mommom
True Blue Farmgirl
854 Posts
Susan
Lancaster
Pennsylvania
USA
854 Posts |
Posted - Jan 18 2007 : 11:57:50 AM
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| 1. I'm so thankful that today I'm able to get around even though my elbows and feet will not bend. 2. So grateful for my family. 3. Blessed to have my job. 4. Anticipating the snow that's supposed to come here tonight! 5. Looking forward to another grandbaby in July! Susan |
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EnchantedWoodsGirl
True Blue Farmgirl
959 Posts
Kathy
New Jersey
USA
959 Posts |
Posted - Jan 18 2007 : 12:54:01 PM
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Susan - what is wrong that you are having trouble moving? I have fibro and I know some days are really bad - with the snow coming it get worse sometimes. But, I have a friend who says we should be thankful for each day we get up and our feet hit the floor - how true. I have perpetual tennis elbow and have not had surgery on it yet, I do the best I can.
S. Jersey - we had some snow today - a beautiful sight with the snow frosting the trees in the forest. I noticed how green my honeysuckle is on the garden fence and how the snow made the mounds of it almost look like sculptures. I always try to hold on to the beauty of the individual seasons - in case I was not able to see another winter, or spring - I would want to hold those memories dear to me in my heart.
Right now, I am thankful for the hot cup of spicy and exotic Gypsy Chai tea I am drinking and the few moments I have for quiet reflection.
Kathy of the Enchanted Wood
http://enchantedwoodmusings.blogspot.com/
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Aunt George
True Blue Farmgirl
1476 Posts
Georgann
Midlothian
VA
1476 Posts |
Posted - Jan 18 2007 : 6:39:25 PM
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kathy, how is your puppy? I hope he is doing well. I am so sorry that he is having such a rough time of it, but I know you are the best puppy mommy in the whole world.
You and your pupps are in my prayers and my thoughts. Let me know if there is anything I can do...you know I'll do it if I can.
Hugs,
G
http://auntgeorgeshouse.blogspot.com/index.html
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Past Blessings
True Blue Farmgirl
1083 Posts
Brenda
Orchard Prairie
WA
USA
1083 Posts |
Posted - Jan 20 2007 : 11:28:20 AM
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There is so much to be grateful for! God is a good God! I have my health, a family who loves me, great friends, fun pets, a shelter that provides warmth and comfort. Sometimes I get wistful thinking about my "dream farm" but by the standards of most of the world, the life I am living is a dream. We are truly blessed in America and it is so good that threads like this remind us not to take it for granted. God bless each of you!
Brenda
Past Blessings . . . Celebrating Life as it used to be . . . when people loved God, loved their families and loved their country. |
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EnchantedWoodsGirl
True Blue Farmgirl
959 Posts
Kathy
New Jersey
USA
959 Posts |
Posted - Jan 20 2007 : 11:41:57 AM
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Today I am grateful for the warm sunshine that shines on my bed, the warm heat in my house (it is bitterly cold outside)my little puppy who is still alive and seems to be growing - the outside cats who find their way to the cat food and lovingly drink bowls of warm milk - the soothing sound of the wind through the trees - my cat Jodi who loves to lay on top of me and stretch out - so many many things to be thankful for - a good cozy mystery to cuddle up to "Louisa and the Crystal Gazer" - and a hideaway cabin on the hill that seems to be beckoning me to spend some time alone with my thoughts!
I am also grateful for all the prayers you gals are praying for my puppy - they are helping - don't stop!
Kathy of the Enchanted Wood
http://enchantedwoodmusings.blogspot.com/
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brightmeadow
True Blue Farmgirl
2045 Posts
Brenda
Lucas
Ohio
USA
2045 Posts |
Posted - Jan 21 2007 : 8:04:04 PM
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-My husband is home safely from the car show in Detroit!
-We have our first real snow!
-Tonight, the first word out of my daughter's mouth on seeing the scarf I knit her was "Sweet!" not "You shouldn't have"
-Gas is hovering around $2 a gallon!
-Our firewood pile has plenty of wood left.
You shall eat the fruit of the labor of your hands - You shall be happy and it shall be well with you. -Psalm 128.2
Visit my blog at http://brightmeadowfarms.blogspot.com ,web site store at http://www.watkinsonline.com/fish or my homepage at http://home.earthlink.net/~brightmeadow |
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Tina Michelle
True Blue Farmgirl
6948 Posts
Tina
sunshine state
FL
USA
6948 Posts |
Posted - Jan 26 2007 : 3:10:01 PM
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thankful that I have been married to a wonderful sweetheart of a man.(and he's really good looking too..ha...(we celebrate our 17th anniversary tomorrow)
thankful that although dr's said I'd be "lucky" to have anymore children after daughter #1, that now I have 3 lovely children! I'm able to be a stay at home mom, and homeschool them.
Thankful that I have a lovely, warm home and a beautiful fenced yard to grow flowers/trees in ,and get to feed the birds outside my kitchen window.
Thankful for quite alot more actually....but that's just a few things...
I am blessed!
~Seize the Day! Live, Love, Laugh~ |
Edited by - Tina Michelle on Jan 26 2007 3:11:10 PM |
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EnchantedWoodsGirl
True Blue Farmgirl
959 Posts
Kathy
New Jersey
USA
959 Posts |
Posted - Jan 26 2007 : 3:34:08 PM
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I am grateful for the time I got to spend with my little puppy Petey before he passed through the veil to summerland, I am glad I got to show him love. Of course I am greatful for the surviving puppy who is soooo big she waddles like a seal hehehe
I am grateful that my poodle Holly Bush is home from the hospital and seems to be doing better.
I am greatful for the tree full of robins that were here for a few days picking all the berries off the ivy on the tree in the backyard. It gives me eternal hope in the coming spring.
Kathy of the Enchanted Wood
http://enchantedwoodmusings.blogspot.com/
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owwlady
True Blue Farmgirl
899 Posts
Jan
Tomahawk
WI
USA
899 Posts |
Posted - Jan 26 2007 : 11:51:14 PM
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1. I am so grateful for my new house and the fact that I can look out my patio door and see woods.
2. I am grateful that everyone in my family including myself is healthy.
3. I am grateful for my farmgirl friends.
4. I am grateful for my guy, Jim, being in my life.
5. I am grateful that snow and cold temps are coming tomorrow and I have enough food and diet Coke in the house for the weekend so I don't have to go out in it. |
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Tina Michelle
True Blue Farmgirl
6948 Posts
Tina
sunshine state
FL
USA
6948 Posts |
Posted - Feb 09 2007 : 07:12:21 AM
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sunshine, the cuddling of a child on my lap, hugs and butterfly kisses,
birds at the feeder, a husband that calls from work to say "hi, have a nice day",
plus lots more...
~Seize the Day! Live, Love, Laugh~ |
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