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Lavender Rose
True Blue Farmgirl
1979 Posts
Brenda
Jackson
MI
USA
1979 Posts |
Posted - Oct 01 2016 : 11:02:00 AM
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Hi Ladies, Just want you to know I will be back, but at this time my Mom needs me. She was signed on to Hospice Home Health Care yesterday. She needs 24/7 care now. My sisters and brothers are all pitching in together. Also, some of the grandchildren are helping. It's going to be a big job, so we feel very fortunate to have lots of help.
Mom has Congestive Heart Failure and has had for years. Finally it's to a point that there isn't any more Doctors can do for her. It's been a long haul.
There isn't any internet service at her house making it very difficult to keep up with Mary Jane activities right now. Hope everyone has a Happy Fall and Great Holidays. I will be thinking of all of you.
Just wanted to let everyone know we had Mom's funeral yesterday. It was a beautiful sunny day. One of the nicest and most pleasant funerals with only her immediate family.
God was so gracious to us and worked it out for our family members to be with her or call her while she was still able to visit with each of us. It was so nice to be given the time to say Good-bye for now. She no longer is suffering and missing Dad. She sure missed him. He went to be with God 6 years ago. We are happy for her since we know for sure she is in Heaven with Jesus and Dad. What a Great day of rejoicing in Heaven it was for Mom and Dad and all that have gone on before them.
Farm Girl Hugs, Brenda #6218
Each day we add to our legacy-good or bad. Our Daily Bread |
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Blessed in Colorado
True Blue Farmgirl
6726 Posts
Debbie L.
Oregon
USA
6726 Posts |
Posted - Oct 01 2016 : 11:16:35 AM
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We will miss you Brenda and I will keep your mom, you and your family in my heart and thoughts. We are here if you need us.
Hugs, Deb #1582 Blessed in Colorado
FGOTM, Septembe, 2012
"You must do the thing you think you can not do." Eleanor Roosevelt
Women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings We simply continue to fly on our Broomsticks. We're flexible like that!
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lovinRchickens
True Blue Farmgirl
3493 Posts
Kelly
Pipe Creek
Texas
USA
3493 Posts |
Posted - Oct 01 2016 : 12:24:23 PM
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Brenda I too will be praying for you and your whole family. What a blessing to have that many helpers. We will miss you bunches here on the farm.
Farmgirl #5111 Farmgirl of the month October 2014 Blessings ~Kelly~ |
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
7718 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
7718 Posts |
Posted - Oct 01 2016 : 2:48:39 PM
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You take care Brenda you will be missed while you are off the Farm.
I sent you an email. Blessings darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment. by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly. Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
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forgetmenot
True Blue Farmgirl
3602 Posts
Judith
Nora Springs
IA
USA
3602 Posts |
Posted - Oct 01 2016 : 3:02:07 PM
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Brenda, you will be missed; but, in our thoughts and prayers.
I kind of understand where you are coming from. My sister and I did the 24/7 care for our mother. Its not easy. However, we will not regret spending that time with her.
I'm glad you will have others stepping up to help. Take good care of yourself. Hugs!
Farmgirl sister #3926
"Courage is not the absence of fear, but the belief that something is more important than fear." Ambrose Red Moon |
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HealingTouch
True Blue Farmgirl
3448 Posts
Darlene
Kunkletown
Pa
USA
3448 Posts |
Posted - Oct 01 2016 : 3:38:49 PM
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Brenda, prayers for your mother and all of you. You are lucky to have a family that helps. You are all blessed. Take care and love each other through this difficult time. Rest in the arms of Jesus. He has you in the palm of His hands.
Be Blessed and Be a Blessing, Darlene Sister 1922
God first, everything else after!
When Satan's knocking at your door, just say "Jesus will you get that for me?"
When it gets to hard to stand, Kneel!
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Madelena
True Blue Farmgirl
1919 Posts
Mary
Central
TX
USA
1919 Posts |
Posted - Oct 01 2016 : 4:56:50 PM
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So sorry Brenda, our prayers are with you. I took care of both mom and dad,. It's precious time together. Hugs and sprayers, Mary
"There is no unbelief: Whoever plants a seed beneath the sod and waits to see it push away the clod, he trusts in God." (Kate Douglas Wiggin) |
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Dreamer42
True Blue Farmgirl
2694 Posts
April
Central
Oregon
USA
2694 Posts |
Posted - Oct 01 2016 : 8:41:52 PM
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Brenda, My love, thoughts and prayers to you and your family. All my positive thoughts for your mother... Love, April
Dreamer42 Farmgirl Sister #7038 |
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ceejay48
Farmgirl Legend/Schoolmarm/Sharpshooter
13666 Posts
CeeJay (CJ)
Dolores
Colorado
USA
13666 Posts |
Posted - Oct 01 2016 : 8:56:09 PM
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Brenda, I'm sorry that your mom is so ill, but glad you have help. My mom was a Hospice patient before she passed away . . . Hospice was the BEST thing for her and our family. I will be praying for you, your mom and your family. Hope you'll have opportunity now and then to let us know how things are going! HUGS and PRAYERS! CJ
..from the barefoot farmgirl in SW Colorado...sister chick #665. 2010 Farmgirl Sister of the Year Mother Hen: FARMGIRLS SOUTHWEST HENHOUSE
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Bluedog355
True Blue Farmgirl
127 Posts
Diana
Alstead
New Hampshire
USA
127 Posts |
Posted - Oct 01 2016 : 9:48:49 PM
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Keeping you in my thoughts Brenda
Diana |
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Farmgirlquilting
True Blue Farmgirl
79 Posts
Angie
Ft Meade
FL
79 Posts |
Posted - Oct 02 2016 : 02:35:27 AM
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Praying for you and your family-peace and strength for the days ahead. Angie
Angie Gordon #6966 FGOTM June 2016 farmgirlquilting@gmail.com http://farmgirlquilting.blogspot.com |
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churunga
True Blue Farmgirl
3957 Posts
Marie
Minneapolis
MN
USA
3957 Posts |
Posted - Oct 02 2016 : 07:09:29 AM
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Remember to take care of yourself too.
Marie, Sister #5142 Farmgirl of the Month May 2014
Try everything once and the fun things twice. |
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Denise Ann
True Blue Farmgirl
831 Posts
Denise
Shoreview
MN
USA
831 Posts |
Posted - Oct 02 2016 : 3:12:47 PM
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Brenda, Sorry to see this take care prayers for your mom and your family.
Denise Ann |
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marlee
True Blue Farmgirl
1650 Posts
Marlene
DeRidder
Louisiana
1650 Posts |
Posted - Oct 02 2016 : 6:50:18 PM
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Brenda I will keep everyone in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs Marlee
God is the painter, he paints the picture. And his son builds it, for he is the Master Carpenter!
Silly Boys Trucks Are For Girls
Hugs: Heaven's Ultimate Good Sign |
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Nana Shirl
True Blue Farmgirl
352 Posts
Shirley
Kit Carson
Colorado
USA
352 Posts |
Posted - Oct 02 2016 : 9:44:36 PM
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In my prayers...so sorry..
You can't get a cup of tea big enough or a book long enough to suit me. ~C.S. Lewis |
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mrssarahhall
True Blue Farmgirl
1272 Posts
Sarah
Longmont
Colorado
USA
1272 Posts |
Posted - Oct 03 2016 : 05:36:58 AM
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We will miss you Brenda, but it is wonderful that you are taking this time to take care of her and nice that you have help. Don't forget to take care of you too and let us know if there is anything we can do. You are all in my thoughts. <3 <3
Sarah Farmgirl # 5223
"For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone." - Audrey Hepburn
All good things are wild and free- Henry David Thoreau
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janamarieje
True Blue Farmgirl
1022 Posts
Jana
Southern California
USA
1022 Posts |
Posted - Oct 03 2016 : 07:13:35 AM
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I am so sorry for this difficult time for you Brenda, take care of yourself and your family!
Jana #7110 http://www.emhardt.com
Gardening is cheaper than therapy and you get tomatoes. ~Author Unknown All I really need is love, but a little chocolate now and then doesn't hurt! ~Charles Schulz
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MBurns
True Blue Farmgirl
1859 Posts
Marlene
Swisher
IA
USA
1859 Posts |
Posted - Oct 03 2016 : 09:30:01 AM
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Prayers for you and your family
Farmgirl friends are fun. |
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MaryJanesNiece
True Blue Farmgirl
7243 Posts
Krista
Utah
USA
7243 Posts |
Posted - Oct 03 2016 : 09:44:06 AM
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I am so sorry Brenda. You and your family will be in my thoughts. Please take care and enjoy the upcoming holidays and seasons with your family.
Krista |
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Beth Jones
True Blue Farmgirl
3196 Posts
beth
tallassee
alabama
3196 Posts |
Posted - Oct 04 2016 : 2:35:16 PM
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Dear Brenda!! You will be in my thoughts and prayers!! Hugs, Beth
You can never be too kind!
FOTM June, 2014..I have been so blessed! |
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texdane
Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru
4658 Posts
Nicole
Sandy Hook
CT
USA
4658 Posts |
Posted - Oct 04 2016 : 4:58:44 PM
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Brenda,
Will be keeping you and your mom in my prayers. I am sorry to hear this.
Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Farmgirl Sister #1155 KNITTER, JAM-MAKER AND MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE Chapter Leader, Connecticut Simpler Life Sisters Farmgirl of the Month, January 2013
Suburban Farmgirl Blogger http://sfgblog.maryjanesfarm.org/
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tboatwright
Farmgirl in Training
18 Posts
Tina
Gatesville
Texas
USA
18 Posts |
Posted - Oct 04 2016 : 8:20:57 PM
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I am so sorry to hear about your Mother. I will be praying for you all.
Tina Farmgirl Sisterhood #6289 |
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Christy925
True Blue Farmgirl
476 Posts
Christy
Midland
Michigan
USA
476 Posts |
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sassystyle
True Blue Farmgirl
101 Posts
Audra
Aumsville
Oregon
USA
101 Posts |
Posted - Oct 05 2016 : 4:08:59 PM
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You will be missed, and I'm praying this is a precious time for your family. Also praying for peace and strength.
Audra Marie ~ sometimes quirky, sometimes serious, always real Farmgirl Sister #7132 |
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Lavender Rose
True Blue Farmgirl
1979 Posts
Brenda
Jackson
MI
USA
1979 Posts |
Posted - Oct 09 2016 : 6:26:48 PM
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Hi Everyone, Mom has been with Hospice for a week and two days. At the beginning she could still use her walker. Now she has all she can do to get up and on the commode by the bed and back into bed. She is failing fast. Feel so sorry for her. I'm hanging in there. Had a chance to come home for a few hours and thought I would update all of you. So glad I can sleep in my own bed for tonight.
Farm Girl Hugs, Brenda #6218
Each day we add to our legacy-good or bad. Our Daily Bread |
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LadyInRed
True Blue Farmgirl
6740 Posts
PeggyAnn
Vancouver
WA
USA
6740 Posts |
Posted - Oct 11 2016 : 01:10:06 AM
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Brenda...Praying for your mom and you! Hang in there ... and just know we care!
hugs, Peggy
Farmgirl #1326 Dec 2011-Farmgirl of the Month http://ladyinredsite.blogspot.com
Don't allow others to steal the Glitz from your *SPARKLE*
Life is too short to knit with ugly yarn!
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