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MrsTracy
True Blue Farmgirl
145 Posts
Tracy
Beaufort
South Carolina
USA
145 Posts |
 Posted - Mar 17 2014 : 1:27:46 PM
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Hey y'all!
God has been good! You may remember the drama involving our bi-polar daughter and the hot mess they were living in? Well, I did call social services and got his command involved. That was back in October. Since then its been a complete turn around. Their marriage is stronger, the kids are now in a happy place emotionally. They are expecting number 5 in August. He will be getting out of the Marine Corp and has a job with the FAA lined up. They will be moving to Indiana.
Best of all is that she is now on medication and is being weened off the medication!!! She is or will be in a substance abuse program because "I just can't do this anymore, I want a better life for me and my family." 
Her life won't be easy but she has learned that its better to make changes on your own than to have an outside agency to come in and make changes for you. Thank God it didn't have to go that far. She is still scarred from what is seen as my betrayal but in time she will get over it and deal with it. I'm not worried. It was the wake up call she needed, THEY needed.
Just wanted to share the wonderful news with you all!
Aspiring Titus II and Proverbs 31 Lady. |
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hudsonsinaf
True Blue Farmgirl
3162 Posts
Shannon
Rozet
Wyoming
USA
3162 Posts |
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MrsTracy
True Blue Farmgirl
145 Posts
Tracy
Beaufort
South Carolina
USA
145 Posts |
Posted - Mar 17 2014 : 2:55:59 PM
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Thank you Shannon! It really is. I'm in awe!
Aspiring Titus II and Proverbs 31 Lady. |
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marlee
True Blue Farmgirl
1650 Posts
Marlene
DeRidder
Louisiana
1650 Posts |
Posted - Mar 17 2014 : 4:09:43 PM
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Thank you Jesus. That is wonderful news!
Marlee
God is the painter, he paints the picture. And his son builds it, for he is the Master Carpenter!
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churunga
True Blue Farmgirl
3930 Posts
Marie
Minneapolis
MN
USA
3930 Posts |
Posted - Mar 17 2014 : 5:50:00 PM
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Good for you and your family Tracy. I am so glad it has all worked out so well and in such a short time.
Marie, Sister #5142
Try everything once and the fun things twice. |
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LaLa
True Blue Farmgirl
233 Posts
Laura
Hickory
North Carolina
USA
233 Posts |
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wooliespinner
True Blue Farmgirl
1311 Posts
Linda
Manchester
Ohio
1311 Posts |
Posted - Mar 18 2014 : 07:38:21 AM
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Glad the family situation is improving and their life is moving in a good and positive direction. So happy for all of you. I know its been so hard. Keep the faith Tracy.Hugs.
Linda
Raspberry Run Farm
Nubian Dairy Goats |
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
7577 Posts |
Posted - Mar 18 2014 : 08:18:57 AM
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God is so good, Tracy... I'm so glad things have turned around. He will make all things new and even better - and even heal the wound your daughter feels. I'm so, so, SO happy for you! God love and bless you all! Hugs - Nini
Farmgirl Sister #1974
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
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MrsTracy
True Blue Farmgirl
145 Posts
Tracy
Beaufort
South Carolina
USA
145 Posts |
Posted - Mar 18 2014 : 1:40:11 PM
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Thank you ladies for your encouragement and prayers! The prayers of the righteous...
On another front, we are seriously considering removing the oldest from school. He's had some emotional upheaval that is being addressed but he's been labeled already. They don't take into account that all they are doing is busywork. He's bored out of his mind. He wants to be home. The fact that he wants to be home, with his parents or with us tells us that school is not the environment he needs to be in. He's really bright and sensitive and performed all the little jumping through the educational hoops and tests but he will be labeled as a problem child and for Black American boys, its a sentence for educational failure. So please pray that God's will be revealed and we are (as a complete family unit) open to his will. We've homeschooled before so its not a problem but with this new pregnancy and 4 kids and hubby's work schedule being so flexible (not in their favor) and me trying to find employment, a way needs to be made.
Aspiring Titus II and Proverbs 31 Lady. |
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
7583 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
7583 Posts |
Posted - Mar 18 2014 : 9:28:03 PM
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My prayers go with your family, and I pray that they will become better soon, and your daughter will realize that her situation was bad and you love her is why you did what you did.
Blessings
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... |
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MrsTracy
True Blue Farmgirl
145 Posts
Tracy
Beaufort
South Carolina
USA
145 Posts |
Posted - Mar 19 2014 : 09:36:15 AM
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Thank you Darlene! I believe in time, she will.
Just found out we're having another girl! !
Aspiring Titus II and Proverbs 31 Lady. |
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
7583 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
7583 Posts |
Posted - Mar 20 2014 : 11:55:46 AM
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Oh how exciting, Take care
God Bless
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... |
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MrsTracy
True Blue Farmgirl
145 Posts
Tracy
Beaufort
South Carolina
USA
145 Posts |
Posted - Oct 01 2014 : 09:12:24 AM
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New update.
We have all five kids right now. DSS came in and removed the newborn. Two weeks after she gave birth her husband assaulted her. That was on a Sunday, that Monday the police report came across the desk at DSS so they paid a visit. She was not at her best, having been assaulted and having a bunch of things coming home to roost at one time. She was in shock. She didn't cooperate with the worker who then felt the need to remove the baby (three days later) on Friday. My granddaughter spent the week with a foster family. We had the older four children with us already so they didn't do an emergency order for them.
Now we have five children 6, 4, 2, 18 months and 5 weeks. I'm 46 and hubby is 54. In the midst of all this, we moved for the first time in 18 years.
The merits hearing is on 21 October and then they will decide if the kids will stay with us or go back. Honestly, they just need to stay with us.
I'll be posting in other forums because I need to get back into this "homemaking with littles mode!"
Aspiring Titus II and Proverbs 31 Lady. |
Edited by - MrsTracy on Oct 03 2014 05:44:35 AM |
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hudsonsinaf
True Blue Farmgirl
3162 Posts
Shannon
Rozet
Wyoming
USA
3162 Posts |
Posted - Oct 01 2014 : 09:39:46 AM
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Oh Tracy! Most definitely praying that's God's Hand is on this situation and His will is done! I cannot even begin to imagine how stressful it must be! And those poor kiddos! I can somewhat understand the craziness of your life with all the kids (ours are 11, 8.5, 7, 5, 3, and 15 mo), but oy! Will definitely be lifting all of you, including your daughter, up to our faithful Father!
~ Shannon
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notathreatinsight
True Blue Farmgirl
626 Posts
Erin
Monroeville
IN
USA
626 Posts |
Posted - Oct 03 2014 : 06:03:32 AM
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Tracy I'm praying for you and your husband as you make the transition back into parenting very little children. I can't say I have any idea what you're going through, but my husband works in mental health, actually with bi-polars and schizophrenics so I know it must be very difficult. The situation is anything but ideal, but it's so good that the 2 of you are able to take your grandchildren! It's the saddest thing when children are placed with strangers. I'm praying that at the hearing they decide to leave the children with you. It sounds like the best thing for them.
Erin
Farmgirl #3762
"I'm so glad I live in a world where there are Octobers." - Anne Shirley
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ddmashayekhi
True Blue Farmgirl
4737 Posts
Dawn
Naperville
Illinois
USA
4737 Posts |
Posted - Oct 03 2014 : 07:03:48 AM
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Oh Tracy, you and your husband certainly have your hands & house full. I pray everything will work out for the best for all of you.
Dawn in IL |
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
7583 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
7583 Posts |
Posted - Oct 03 2014 : 08:49:35 AM
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Tracey,
My prayers go up for you and your little group of grandbabies, God will ease you through it.
blessings
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... |
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levisgrammy
True Blue Farmgirl
9323 Posts
Denise
Beavercreek
Ohio
USA
9323 Posts |
Posted - Oct 03 2014 : 09:38:45 AM
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Glad to hear the good news Tracy and praying for God's will to be done concerning all that is happening.
hugs,
Denise
Farmgirl Sister #43
"Thy Word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path." Psalm 119:105
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Edited by - levisgrammy on Oct 03 2014 09:39:29 AM |
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Cindy Lou
True Blue Farmgirl
2325 Posts
Susan
Lonsdale
MN
USA
2325 Posts |
Posted - Oct 06 2014 : 11:09:19 AM
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Tracy,
I have remembered your situation and wondered how things were going since March. I'm praying for you and the whole family. Thanks to God you are there for the little ones. I'm also praying for your daughter that she can get things together, but for now the kids need you! Try to rest when you can, a brood of little ones is a big responsibility! But I believe God is watching out for them by putting them in your care.
Hugs,
Susan
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?"
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