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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
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Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
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 Posted - Mar 26 2014 : 7:41:18 PM
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Alyce- I haven't been on for a while, but I do remember the struggles you have had with him in the past. I am so sorry that you had to endure through this. You are so strong for getting away. Do you remember a fellow farmgirl Lisa London? She published a book about her time with her ex husband who was also physically and mentally abusive. I respect you so much for taking care of yourself and protecting yourself. You are so strong and amazing. I hope you give yourself all the time you need to heal. *hugs*
Alee
Farmgirl Sister #8
www.farmgirlalee.blogspot.com
www.allergyjourneys.blogspot.com
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naturemaiden
True Blue Farmgirl
2569 Posts
Connie - Farmgirl #673
Hoosick Falls
NY
USA
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Posted - Apr 15 2014 : 02:35:10 AM
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Alyce,
be strong and believe in yourself. these men dont change, i've been through it. they will cry, apologize, say they will never do it again, but they always do. it's hard to believe that someone we thought we loved could be this way but it's not your fault. it is hard to start over and is sure scary, but you will be better for it.
Connie
http://www.naturemaiden.com/ Handcrafted Soap & Candles
http://saratoga-rose.blogspot.com/ Blog for my published books & other writing.
http://modern-day-laura.blogspot.com/ Filled with everything I love!
http://www.thriftyfarmgirl.com/ Vintage Sewing Machine Parts
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
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Posted - May 01 2014 : 3:55:08 PM
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Alyce: Starting over is a new beginning. Be strong, stay strong.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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Room To Grow
True Blue Farmgirl
974 Posts
Deborah
Kingston
Georgia
USA
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Posted - May 08 2014 : 05:04:29 AM
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Alyce, Dont go back..I know the situation oh so well. He will never change. I have helped young women before because I grew up in a place of abuse. I have a saying."A leopards spots may fade, but they never go away" Saying that..he may say he will change...but he will not...so if you go back in his mind you will take whatever he dishes out and you will come back when ever he wants you to. PLEASE....DONT GO BACK...move forward and take this as something that has made you a stronger woman to leave..
Deborah
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