Maybe give her a pretty handkerchief with your perfume on it so it smells like you? You could write or embroider a little message on it and she would be able to hold it when she feels nervous.
Farmgirl Sister # 3810
Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly. - Dalai Lama
April is Autism Awareness month. Autism affects 1 in 88 children (1 in 54 boys, including my son). Go to http://www.autismspeaks.org/ to learn more and help Light It Up Blue on April 2nd!
My daughter always slept in an unwashed teeshirt from my Mom because it smelled like her. I went away for a week when she was 4 and I left her a checkbook and checks. She knew my checkbook was IMPORTANT and that of course I would come back for it. MY mother made sure she didn't write any checks. She also had a picture of us in her school lunchbox so she could see it everyday. Joey