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GaiasRose
True Blue Farmgirl
2552 Posts
Tasha-Rose
St. Paul
Minnesota
2552 Posts |
 Posted - Sep 28 2006 : 6:25:23 PM
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I have discovered a love of sock darning. Just wanted to share because it is so weird. This week I have darned three pair. Last week I darned four of mine and one of RObs. Mine were re-enforcement Rob's was a mend.
Sheesh!
~*~Brightest Blessings~*~
Tasha-Rose
blog: http://gaiarose.wordpress.com |
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CabinCreek-Kentucky
True Blue Farmgirl
8529 Posts
Frannie
Green County
Kentucky
USA
8529 Posts |
Posted - Sep 28 2006 : 6:27:02 PM
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tasha .. are you using those wonderful olde sock darner molds? i haven't tried that .. but have a collection of them .. so .. i'm gonna' cut a hole in my socks just so i can try it! xo
True Friends, Frannie
CABIN CREEK FARM
KENTUCKY
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GaiasRose
True Blue Farmgirl
2552 Posts
Tasha-Rose
St. Paul
Minnesota
2552 Posts |
Posted - Sep 28 2006 : 6:34:53 PM
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nah just an incandescent left over from when we moved here and replaced them all....I want to get one of them though...
~*~Brightest Blessings~*~
Tasha-Rose
blog: http://gaiarose.wordpress.com |
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Clothcraze
Farmgirl in Training
42 Posts
Kristina
CT
USA
42 Posts |
Posted - Sep 28 2006 : 7:05:47 PM
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Strangely, I find stuffing diapers (I use pocket dipes) very relaxing.
Maybe there is something so innate about a mother assuring her baby's comfort that makes it feel so good to do. I know that making sure I do it meticulously insures her comfort. 
I know. Strange.
Kristina
Mama of 5
Seeker of a simpler life
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GaiasRose
True Blue Farmgirl
2552 Posts
Tasha-Rose
St. Paul
Minnesota
2552 Posts |
Posted - Sep 28 2006 : 7:22:14 PM
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Kristina, I get that too....I love washing and folding Z's dipes. I get a strange satisfaction out of most of my chores around the house...
~*~Brightest Blessings~*~
Tasha-Rose
blog: http://gaiarose.wordpress.com |
Edited by - GaiasRose on Sep 28 2006 7:22:38 PM |
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jpbluesky
True Blue Farmgirl
6066 Posts
Jeannie
Florida
USA
6066 Posts |
Posted - Sep 28 2006 : 8:53:47 PM
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I get a lot of satisfaction from household chores, too. I love straightening the house and sweeping the porch and cooking and folding clothes. Washing windows and changing the sheets.....even opening the curtains in the morning. Sometimes I walk through the house and just luxuriate in the feeling that being home gives me. And to be in the garden early in the morning...it is so quiet, and I love the breeze and cutting back things, and tying up plants. Stuffing diapers....that I never did, but I love to fold my grandaughter's burp cloths, which are really cloth diapers. And holding the babies....now there is real love for domesticity!
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Libbie
Farmgirl Connection Cultivator
3579 Posts
Anne E.
Elsinore
Utah
USA
3579 Posts |
Posted - Sep 28 2006 : 10:51:13 PM
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What lucky friends and families you all must have to benefit from you doing what you love to do! It IS strange what can give a farmgirl some satisfaction and pleasure, isn't it? I get it from hanging clothes out on the line and also from ironing - there's something wonderful to me about transforming a wrinkled piece of fabric into a crisp shirt or skirt or whatever...
As for darning socks, I've always just used a lightbulb --- and really wanted a darning "thing" - what are they actually called?
XOXO, Libbie
"Nothing is worth more than this day." - Goethe |
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abbasgurl
True Blue Farmgirl
1262 Posts
Rhonda
USA
1262 Posts |
Posted - Sep 28 2006 : 11:26:35 PM
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I have always loved doing laundry for my family.
And Libbe that's not a lightbulb...in the primitive world that's called a "make-do". Makin' do with what you have! :)
Rhonda
I'm a one girl revolution. |
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katie-ell
True Blue Farmgirl
1818 Posts
Katie
Illinois
1818 Posts |
Posted - Sep 29 2006 : 03:51:30 AM
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| Think the darning 'thing' is called a darning egg? We get them in the consignment shop from time to time. |
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junebug
True Blue Farmgirl
2421 Posts
Sue
West Plains,
Mo.
USA
2421 Posts |
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sunshine
True Blue Farmgirl
4877 Posts
Wendy
Utah
USA
4877 Posts |
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Redhen
Farmgirl in Training
33 Posts
Moe
Illinois
USA
33 Posts |
Posted - Sep 29 2006 : 08:10:11 AM
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I know what you mean! I so enjoy my weekends at home since I am employed full time in an office during the week.I love to "nest".
Not to be coy, but did anybody see the original Stepford Wives movie? Not the remake with Nicole Kidman, but the original with Susan St James? I was preteen then and I envied those women and their domesticity....strange
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Nancy Gartenman
True Blue Farmgirl
9094 Posts
Nancy
West Seneca
New York
USA
9094 Posts |
Posted - Sep 29 2006 : 08:16:14 AM
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I love being home, I have friends that just don't get it. I show them something I made or the way I changed something around, or what I got at a garage sale or thrift shop, they look at me like my lights aren't on. I have always loved playing house.
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bybiddie
True Blue Farmgirl
267 Posts
susan
upstate
ny
USA
267 Posts |
Posted - Sep 29 2006 : 09:29:34 AM
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Yes, as Katie-ell said, it's a darning egg. My mom's got one that she has promised to give me when she quits darning. I am tempted to offer to do all her darning along with mine! If you ever get one again in your consignment - give me a holler! I would love one of my own and would be happy to buy it!
Susan
Lovin' my life |
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CabinCreek-Kentucky
True Blue Farmgirl
8529 Posts
Frannie
Green County
Kentucky
USA
8529 Posts |
Posted - Sep 29 2006 : 09:40:10 AM
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i love watching my daughter tenderly take care of the baby's 'domestic duties' .. i travel back in time to when she was a wee one in diapers. xo
True Friends, Frannie
CABIN CREEK FARM
KENTUCKY
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jpbluesky
True Blue Farmgirl
6066 Posts
Jeannie
Florida
USA
6066 Posts |
Posted - Sep 29 2006 : 12:18:35 PM
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Moe - Yes, I saw the original Stepford Wives and I have to admit I thought their life was just what I would want, except I have always wanted to be more rural. I have not thought of that in years! :)
Peace |
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GaiasRose
True Blue Farmgirl
2552 Posts
Tasha-Rose
St. Paul
Minnesota
2552 Posts |
Posted - Sep 29 2006 : 12:38:21 PM
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Stepford without the subserviance, however....at least for me. Rob knows he can't tell me what to do and when to do it....I just don't operate that way. He does his jobs and I do mine, and when I cater to him I do it because it is what I want to do, not what he wants me to do...plus, he can't clean. :)
~*~Brightest Blessings~*~
Tasha-Rose
blog: http://gaiarose.wordpress.com |
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DaisyFarm
True Blue Farmgirl
1646 Posts
Diane
Victoria
BC
Canada
1646 Posts |
Posted - Sep 29 2006 : 1:24:49 PM
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It is the same here in our house Tasha. I try to have a decent, healthy meal each night because I feel it's my duty to do so when dh has been at work all day and I have been home. Which isn't to say running a farm on my own is not work too and there have been nights when dinner isn't ready until late. We do have a mutual respect for what we each do every day however.
I believe (okay, maybe I better duck)..that overall, traditional roles are what help folks stay united as a family and MY role is to care for my home and family. Which isn't to say that dh hasn't on occasion made dinner while I mowed a field...frankly I like my cooking better..haha.
The feeling I've gotten in all of the forums here is that farmgirls take pride in doing a job well, being it caring for children, cooking, laundry, raising livestock or growing a garden... and we love our roles.
There are days when my life is busy, frustrating, physically grueling and dirty...balanced with those that are relaxing, fulfilling and rewarding. I feel so very blessed and wouldn't change a thing.
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katiedid
True Blue Farmgirl
601 Posts
Kate
West Jordan
Utah
USA
601 Posts |
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Clothcraze
Farmgirl in Training
42 Posts
Kristina
CT
USA
42 Posts |
Posted - Sep 29 2006 : 1:40:28 PM
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I agree with both of you ladies, whole heartedly!!
My husband will try and complain on the nights there is no dinner ready but I put HIM in HIS place!
IF there is any of my "chores" that are not completed, he well knows it's for a darn good reason.
Usually it's because I was up all night with the baby, I myself was sick AND I didn't get any sleep during the day.
He's learned not to complain often about what it is I *don't* do by being not so kindly reminded of the things I *do* do even when I'm not feeling well. 
Kristina
Mama of 5
Seeker of a simpler life
www.clothcraze.com |
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mommom
True Blue Farmgirl
854 Posts
Susan
Lancaster
Pennsylvania
USA
854 Posts |
Posted - Oct 01 2006 : 12:13:10 PM
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| I love the original Stepford Wives movie and have it on DVD! I don't think any of us are strange for enjoying working in our homes to make them nice. It's called appreciation and contentment. Susan |
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katiedid
True Blue Farmgirl
601 Posts
Kate
West Jordan
Utah
USA
601 Posts |
Posted - Oct 01 2006 : 9:38:24 PM
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Tasha,
I bought a darning egg at a local antiques store...I love it. I will keep my eyes open for one for you.
I love certain household chores too. I think it is the feeling of accomplishment, or maybe the zenlike peace that comes from a repetative task, like knitting, or hanging out laundry...either way, I understand your love for it.
Now, if I could learn to love scrubbing the bathrooms....EEWW
Kate
my new blog http/www.theknifemakerswife.wordpress.com |
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GaiasRose
True Blue Farmgirl
2552 Posts
Tasha-Rose
St. Paul
Minnesota
2552 Posts |
Posted - Oct 02 2006 : 06:39:47 AM
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I don't mind cleaning bathrooms so much EXCEPT, I WILL NOT clean Rob's bathroom in the basement 1)he is really messy in the bathroom 2)he is a boy and they are icky 3) there are spiders down there.
~*~Brightest Blessings~*~
Tasha-Rose
blog: http://gaiarose.wordpress.com |
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katie-ell
True Blue Farmgirl
1818 Posts
Katie
Illinois
1818 Posts |
Posted - Oct 02 2006 : 07:07:45 AM
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| After just scrubbing the cats' litter box, I will put that task into the 'I DO MIND DOING THIS' category! Am enjoying hanging up jeans on the line this morning as the migrating birds are all atwitter in the trees. |
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GaiasRose
True Blue Farmgirl
2552 Posts
Tasha-Rose
St. Paul
Minnesota
2552 Posts |
Posted - Oct 02 2006 : 07:44:13 AM
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Rob clean kitty litter because I am still nursing Zoe.....yucky!
~*~Brightest Blessings~*~
Tasha-Rose
blog: http://gaiarose.wordpress.com |
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theoanne
True Blue Farmgirl
282 Posts
teddie
CARROLLTON
GA
282 Posts |
Posted - Oct 04 2006 : 7:19:58 PM
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Back to Darning.... I don't darn but remember my grandma and great grandma darning socks. They used darning floss thread and a shot glass. They pulled the hole over the open end then wove the thread to make the patch. I was in college before I knew what the shot glass was really used for! My FIL used to darn over a fresh egg. Only once do I remember the egg breaking. I've sewen for years but always thought it would be easier over the glass. I only tried it a few times. Now I like to sew ,but I do not like to darn. I just watch for socks on sale and then when they wear out I use them to dust,polish shoes or as rags.
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