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musicmommy
True Blue Farmgirl
430 Posts
Wendy
Oregon
USA
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 Posted - Jun 09 2012 : 5:46:57 PM
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Thank you for the wonderful words of wisdom I received here when I asked for help regarding quitting teaching private lessons. I've finally made the decision to let my students know that I won't be resuming lessons in the fall. So, as of the end of June, I will be done.
The final in the decision making was dh coming home from an appointment and telling me that he had the most interesting conversation with his client. That client's wife is transitioning to being home. His client said that now that he makes a certain amount of money, he finally convinced his wife that they make enough that she doesn't need to work. Yeah, that amount of money is less than hubby makes. (not by much) Dh said he just thought that was an interesting statement to make because it was what his been trying to communicate to me.
So, dh wants me to be able to focus on my own music for a change, to be here for the boys as needed and do more of what I love: cooking, baking, crafting.
I did it. I sent out the emails yesterday sharing my plans. I will miss it, but I'm really excited to have time to practice and improve my own skills and maybe write a bit. Now I have to just get through the next couple of weeks! 
One good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain.
Bob Marley
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
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Posted - Jun 09 2012 : 8:17:15 PM
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Wow! Good for you, Wendy! I'm so happy for you! - Nini
Farmgirl Sister #1974
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
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Joey
True Blue Farmgirl
1868 Posts
Joey
Gulf Coast
FL
USA
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Posted - Jun 09 2012 : 8:20:52 PM
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SOOOOOOOOOO happy for you. Years ago we agreed that I would be the primary breadwinner in our house and it has worked out well for us, but every summer I'm itching to be home crafting, reading, sewing, etc. I am excited for you to have the time to invest in yourself and your family. We're almost settled, Wendy. I think of you often and promise to write SOON. Hugs, Joey
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musicmommy
True Blue Farmgirl
430 Posts
Wendy
Oregon
USA
430 Posts |
Posted - Jun 09 2012 : 8:30:02 PM
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Nini...thank you. I'm starting to get excited and itching for the end of the month to get her.
Joey...you crack me up. All the traveling you are doing and you keep me on your mind. :) Now I'm working on schedules and stuff. Maybe I'll be able to catch back up with my penpals and that includes you.
One good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain.
Bob Marley
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ceejay48
Farmgirl Legend/Schoolmarm/Sharpshooter
13627 Posts
CeeJay (CJ)
Dolores
Colorado
USA
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rough start farmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
3331 Posts
marianne
The Beautiful Pacific NW
Washington State
USA
3331 Posts |
Posted - Jun 11 2012 : 03:24:11 AM
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Wendy,
As a mom who stayed home and got by on dh's salary I am so happy to see you take the plunge. I don't think you will regret it. I know you will enjoy being pulled in fewer directions. Be happy!
Marianne |
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
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Posted - Jun 11 2012 : 05:29:13 AM
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That sounds great! And the wonderful thing about teaching music is that if you ever decided you want to start again, I am sure you could fid new students fairly quickly! :) I hope you enjoy having more time to yourself! :)
Alee
Farmgirl Sister #8
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crafter
True Blue Farmgirl
2313 Posts
lori
Fort Atkinson
Wisconsin
USA
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Posted - Jun 11 2012 : 05:44:51 AM
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Congrats!! That.. I am sure was a hard decision to make...good for you for making it! It will be wonderful- and your family will love having you more to themselves! Enjoy the moment!
Lori
Gernerosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need! |
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goneriding
True Blue Farmgirl
1599 Posts
Winona
Central Oregon
USA
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