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coaloha
True Blue Farmgirl
502 Posts
Pam
USA
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 Posted - Aug 11 2011 : 08:12:59 AM
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Liz, It agree that it sounds like you were hurt by your sister's behavior. It seems like family members can hurt us most of all....they do know where our buttons are. One thing that I have learned the hard way is that I am only responsible for myself and I have adopted a "live and let let" policy with my family. I can't control anyone else's behavior (and trust me, I have tried and failed!), so for my own peace of mind I try to stay out of their business unless they specifically ask me for something.
And that said, I am a homebody too....you are far from alone in your preference for a quieter life. I don't understand how people can stay out and socialize into the wee hours, but then that's just not who I am.
I hope that in time your relationship with your sister can grow to be one of joy and not distress.
Pam
Pam Barnes-Palty
Phoenix, AZ
Farmgirl #1075
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Please tell me I am not the only one
