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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl

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Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
7577 Posts

Posted - Jan 07 2011 :  6:35:03 PM  Show Profile
Okay - I've seen many "mayonnaise jar" emails in my time, but I had never seen this one until my foster daughter sent it to me today. Maybe you have seen it, too; but I just love it, and wanted to share...just in case you haven't. You are some of my favorite "golf balls," after all! ;) Enjoy! - Nini

The Mayonnaise Jar

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle,
When 24 hours in a day is not enough;
remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him.

When the class began,
wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar
and start to fill it with golf balls.

He then asked the students if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured it into the jar.
He shook the jar lightly.

The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full.
They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full.
The students responded with an unanimous 'yes.'

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table
and poured the entire contents into the jar,
effectively filling the empty space between the sand.
The students laughed.

'Now,' said the professor, as the laughter subsided,
'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.

The golf balls are the important things - God, family,
children, health, friends, and favorite passions;
things that if everything else was lost
and only they remained,
your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the things that matter
like your job, house, and car.

The sand is everything else --
The small stuff.

'If you put the sand into the jar first,' he continued,
'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.

The same goes for life.

If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,
you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

So...

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Play with your children.
Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.

There will always be time to clean the house
and fix the dripping tap.

'Take care of the golf balls first --
the things that really matter.

Set your priorities.

The rest is just sand.'

One of the students raised her hand
and inquired what the coffee represented.

The professor smiled.

'I'm glad you asked'.

It just goes to show you that
no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'

Please share this with other "Golf Balls"

… I just did…

God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!

Farmgirl Sister #1974

natesgirl
True Blue Farmgirl

1735 Posts

angela
martinsville indiana
USA
1735 Posts

Posted - Jan 07 2011 :  8:03:59 PM  Show Profile
Awesome!

Farmgirl Sister #1438

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classygram
True Blue Farmgirl

1812 Posts

Brenda
Pleasant Hill Mo.
USA
1812 Posts

Posted - Jan 07 2011 :  8:12:36 PM  Show Profile
That is great!

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melody
True Blue Farmgirl

3317 Posts

Melody
The Great North Woods in the Land of Hiawatha
USA
3317 Posts

Posted - Jan 07 2011 :  8:51:54 PM  Show Profile
Love, Love, Love it Nini!!!

Thank you for the post---It helps put a LOT in perspective doesn't it?

Mel
Farmgirl #525
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dutchy
True Blue Farmgirl

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Posted - Jan 07 2011 :  10:25:05 PM  Show Profile
That is so lovely Nini, and something to ponder.

Hugs from Marian/Dutchy, a farmgirl from the Netherlands :)

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Fiddlehead Farm
True Blue Farmgirl

4562 Posts

Diane
Waupaca WI
USA
4562 Posts

Posted - Jan 08 2011 :  05:41:23 AM  Show Profile
Thanks Nini, I love it!

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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl

22937 Posts

Alee
Worland Wy
USA
22937 Posts

Posted - Jan 08 2011 :  08:11:37 AM  Show Profile  Send Alee a Yahoo! Message
I love it!

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MaggieMB
True Blue Farmgirl

217 Posts

Mary
western Pa
217 Posts

Posted - Jan 08 2011 :  08:38:20 AM  Show Profile
I absolutely love "The Mayonaise Jar"! Thanks so much for sharing it! Maggie MB
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chicken necker
True Blue Farmgirl

509 Posts

Sherry
Eastern Shore Maryland
USA
509 Posts

Posted - Jan 10 2011 :  1:52:39 PM  Show Profile  Send chicken necker an AOL message
Awesome! I will definitely have to share this! Thanks!

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texdane
Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru

4658 Posts

Nicole
Sandy Hook CT
USA
4658 Posts

Posted - Jan 10 2011 :  2:05:02 PM  Show Profile
Loved it!

Nicole

Farmgirl Sister #1155
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Lindsay C
True Blue Farmgirl

117 Posts

Lindsay
Rogersville AL
USA
117 Posts

Posted - Jan 23 2011 :  09:04:25 AM  Show Profile
What a great illustration! I hadn't heard this before and it made my day :)

Lindsay
Farmgirl Sister #1452
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Colleen Easlon
Farmgirl in Training

49 Posts

Colleen
Port Orford OR
USA
49 Posts

Posted - Jan 23 2011 :  09:48:13 AM  Show Profile
I love it. Thank you so much for sharing, I'll have to pass that on.
Colleen
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl

7577 Posts

Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
7577 Posts

Posted - Jan 23 2011 :  10:55:37 AM  Show Profile
I'm so glad you all enjoy this as much as I do! :) - Nini

God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!

Farmgirl Sister #1974
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Huckelberrywine
True Blue Farmgirl

1607 Posts

Michelle
Rosalia
1607 Posts

Posted - Feb 08 2011 :  4:49:33 PM  Show Profile
I love it. Can't wait to share this story.

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Cherime
True Blue Farmgirl

1222 Posts

Cherime
Wasilla Alaska
USA
1222 Posts

Posted - Feb 09 2011 :  08:26:40 AM  Show Profile
Great one.

CMF
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Arctic Flower
True Blue Farmgirl

85 Posts

Marjorie
Nenana Alaska
USA
85 Posts

Posted - Feb 11 2011 :  12:21:39 PM  Show Profile
I love this and am sharing with everyone I know.

Farmgirl #2416

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Cherime
True Blue Farmgirl

1222 Posts

Cherime
Wasilla Alaska
USA
1222 Posts

Posted - Feb 15 2011 :  09:17:21 AM  Show Profile
Hey Marjorie, how is the weather up there? Not too bad down here in Wasilla. And we are on the downhill side. Cannot wait for spring. Lots I want to do this year.

CMF
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