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Parenting & Farm Kids:  What do you love about being a Mom?  |
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HDA
True Blue Farmgirl
59 Posts
Heidi
Hood River
OR
USA
59 Posts |
 Posted - Dec 08 2010 : 10:30:52 PM
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What is your favorite thing about being a parent? I think that your stories could help me out  I did not originally plan on having children, but lately I think I have changed my mind. I'm 30 years old, have been married to a loving husband for 3 1/2 years, and a year ago bought a house big enough to think it needs someone else in it! I'm feeling nervous since this is such a big decision for me! I don't think my family will quite understand my change of heart, so I am not telling them until it is a for sure thing. I'd love to hear your stories though on the best aspects of parenting (to distract me from the worries!) |
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Fiddlehead Farm
True Blue Farmgirl
4562 Posts
Diane
Waupaca
WI
USA
4562 Posts |
Posted - Dec 09 2010 : 04:47:31 AM
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Children are a blessing from God. I love everything about being a Mom. My son and daughter are grown now, but there is still so much pride and joy I feel for them. The love you feel for your children is a very hard thing to describe until you feel it yourself. Your heart is telling you something...listen to it.
http://studiodiphotosite.shutterfly.com/
farmgirl sister #922
Happy to be a "Raggedy Ann" in a Barbie World!
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
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Marcy
True Blue Farmgirl
2701 Posts
Marcy
Tiverton
Rhode Island
USA
2701 Posts |
Posted - Dec 09 2010 : 05:29:43 AM
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I love absolutely everything! I agree with Diane, it's so hard to describe unless you experiance it yourself. My two son's are teenagers now, and every single stage they have gone through has been a blessing. Frome having them wake me up at all hours of the night, to watching their first steps, to hearing them tell me they love me for the first time, to their 'I know it all' teenage attitudes. They truly are the biggest blessings in my life and I know that no one else or anything else will ever top the fact that they call me 'mom'
Farmgirl #170
Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give...Eleanor Roosevelt
http://marcysworldofcreativity.blogspot.com/ |
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Prairie Gypsy
True Blue Farmgirl
823 Posts
Tammy
Wolford
North Dakota
USA
823 Posts |
Posted - Dec 09 2010 : 05:45:31 AM
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Heidi - totally understand. I never wanted kids myself and ended up with 4 - life takes funny turns :O) Once my mommy hormones kicked in after I had my first daughter I knew she wouldn't be my last. The joy of watching that little person you carried smile at you the first time is intoxicating. Watching them learn to crawl and then walk - all those milestones. Watching their personality form and grow. Yes there are the frustrations to; long nights walking a crying baby, the child being sick, and stages where you just want to strangle them BUT for me in the end it was totally worth it. There's nothing that would cause me to willingly give up my memories of cuddling on the couch or in bed with my tribe or the fun we've had as they've grown into adulthood.
Farmgirl Sister # 2363
http://twilightburrough.blogspot.com/
Warren, MI
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MrsRooster
True Blue Farmgirl
1168 Posts
Amy
Seabrook
TX
USA
1168 Posts |
Posted - Dec 09 2010 : 07:07:56 AM
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My hubby and I were married for 7 years before my daughter came. I was excited and scared. We were happy as a couple, but this made it so much better. I was 34 when I had Bri. It brings so many blessings.
You don't need to tell people that you think will say negitive things. Go somewhere quiet, sit, and think about what you want, what hubby wants, and pray about what God thinks.
I was terrified to tell my parents that I was pregnant. My Mom can be a drama queen. I was never good enough and she said many times that her life was somehow lacking since she had kids. She was upset at first. Then ended up at the sonogram and spent lots of time with my daughter.
If it is something that you want, go for it.
www.mrsrooster.blogspot.com
Farmgirl #1259
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classygram
True Blue Farmgirl
1812 Posts
Brenda
Pleasant Hill
Mo.
USA
1812 Posts |
Posted - Dec 09 2010 : 07:08:55 AM
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The joy they bring you is amazing. My daughter and son are grown and married themselves with a family. The love you feel through your children is unexplainable. The love and bond is something you can't feel with any other. Now they are helping me to feel younger than I am. I just can't imagine my life without them. And Diane is correct about if the heart is calling, do listen to it. Praying for you sweetie. Hugs, Brenda
http:///www.scatteredlittleblessings.blogspot.com
Seek reasons to Love..In every sigment of everyday-look for something that brings forth within you a feeling of Love-Abraham Hicks |
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Mama Jewel
True Blue Farmgirl
435 Posts
Jewel
Sweet Peas Farmette,
Bend, OR
USA
435 Posts |
Posted - Dec 09 2010 : 07:10:53 AM
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Oh my, I hope I can type this without crying  The love a mama has for her children is so deep and indescribable. All of our 4 children are adopted and even though I didn't birth any of them, the depth of love I feel for them is deep. My memory's not the best, but thankfully God has locked in some precious ones that I carry with me, like when they were placed in my arms for the first time or seeing the surprise and shock of them rolling for first time or walking for first time and boom, down they go & they look at you like, was that okay? (lol) Fast forward to teen-hood and you see them talking about boys with that coy, uncertain smile. I could go on & on (can ya tell? lol). Being a mama is why I get up in the mornings. It all goes so quickly, too quickly. Enjoy every precious moment
Farm Girl Sister #1683 Living Simply & Naturally on our lil Sweet Peas Farmette
"Do Everything in Love." 1 Cor 14
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MTNSunshine
True Blue Farmgirl
111 Posts
Sunny
Tollhouse
CA
USA
111 Posts |
Posted - Dec 18 2010 : 12:05:36 PM
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I love when my kids don't think I'm watching and they hug each other or say "I love you". Makes my heart smile.
Proud FarmGirl #914 ;o) |
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CountryBorn
True Blue Farmgirl
1545 Posts
Mary Jane
New York
USA
1545 Posts |
Posted - Dec 21 2010 : 6:52:46 PM
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First, I would have a real heart to heart with your husband. Talk realistically about what you both want out of life and how having or not having children will effect this. For me it was a choice I had made when I was a kid myself lol! I always knew I wanted kids. It is not always easy and it does change your life completely there is no denying that. If you decide to have a child make sure that you are really ready and and willing to make some major changes. Sometimes the whole idea of being a Mommy gets romanticized, daydreaming about it being all so perfect. It's not perfect and it can be really hard at times. Ask any honest Mom!! But, that said, I have to say it has been the most rewarding and wonderful experience of my life. I have been a Mom since 2 weeks before I was 18. Been one now for over 44 years. A grandma to 2(been a big part of raising them too) and I wouldn't trade one single moment of it for anything. But, go into it with your eyes open honey. For your own good and a baby's. I'm not trying to be a downer here, believe me, I just believe in telling things the way they really are. Going in with your eyes wide open makes it a lot easier.
MJ
There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do. Freya Stark |
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Aunt Jenny
True Blue Farmgirl
11381 Posts
Jenny
middle of
Utah
USA
11381 Posts |
Posted - Dec 21 2010 : 11:33:09 PM
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I love being a Mom. I have 7 kids....2 birth kids...born when I was pretty young...19 when I had the first one...and 5 adopted...the youngest is 13 and 1/2 now. I have 4 teenagers still at home. I can't imagine my life without kids in it. I do daycare for a living as well! I won't say it is always easy, but the joy, blessings and love that comes from being a mom is just so wonderful. I always knew I wanted to be a Mom. and always wanted alot of kids. There is always someone around to talk to, work with, play a game with or eat with. I don't mind being alone sometimes but I sure don't have to be alone unless I want to be. It is so rewarding to teach a skill to one of your children and find out they have a real talent for something you love as well. It is just plain fun to be a Mom. I love it.
Jenny in Utah
Proud Farmgirl sister #24
Inside me there is a skinny woman crying to get out...but I can usually shut her up with cookies
http://www.auntjennysworld.blogspot.com/ visit my little online shop at www.auntjenny.etsy.com |
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FebruaryViolet
True Blue Farmgirl
4810 Posts
Jonni
Elsmere
Kentucky
USA
4810 Posts |
Posted - Dec 27 2010 : 09:31:59 AM
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I really love it...and I'm 37--had my first, and probably my only baby 22 months ago. My husband and I stated for 8 years of our marriage that we were "quite" happy without the distraction of children...and then, at 35, we changed our minds. We'd done a lot of wonderful things in our married life, and having a baby seemed to fit right in to where we were headed. And boy, howdy, does she fit! Best decision we've ever made, besides getting married. Now, we'll be celebrating our 10 year wedding anniversary with our 2 and 1/2 year old in August :)
I was never much of a "newborn" gal, though I loved her baby phase. What I love most is who she grows into, each and every day. Seeing the world through her eyes is like reliving my childhood all over again. I forget just how cool a sit and spin can be! A few weeks back, we watched a flock of Canadian geese fly over and though she knew "bird", I taught her "sky" and now she points at the sky constantly and says, "un sky" and it melts my heart completely.
We don't have much money, we have a tiny little house and 4 dogs and 2 cats, but this child is more than I could ever ask for in my lifetime--I constantly wonder "how" we got picked out of all the other parents in the universe to show this little one the gifts that life has to offer.
I hope this helps make your decision a little less scary. It can be...don't get me wrong. There were several times (when I was about 6 months along) that I'd lie in bed next to my sleeping-so-sound-not-a-care-in-the-world husband and think, "WHAT were you thinking???I'll just get in the car and drive west. That's it. I'll just run away!" But after I held her for the first time, all those thoughts were miles away.
Whatever you decide, it's the right decision for you and your husband...
Musings from our family in the Bluegrass http://sweetvioletmae.blogspot.com/ |
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mamaofcuties
Farmgirl at Heart
9 Posts
Tammy
Mechanicsville
Iowa
USA
9 Posts |
Posted - Jan 10 2011 : 07:53:19 AM
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| I love being a mom for many reasons but mostly because no matter how tough a day seems a cuddle from one of my little ones make it all better, every day is a new adventure to play and teach and love- I wouldnt trade it for anything! |
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texdane
Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru
4658 Posts
Nicole
Sandy Hook
CT
USA
4658 Posts |
Posted - Jan 10 2011 : 3:10:49 PM
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I love being a mom for so many reasons! It is a privilege and a blessing to be a mom, and my daughter is my best friend, my best little buddy. There is no greater joy than hugs and kisses from your child! I agree with Jonni, seeing the world through your child's eyes is amazing, and I love sharing things I loved as a child with her. I have so enjoyed every stage of my daughter growing up, now she is eight, and I am looking forward to seeing the person she grows up to be. We were married ten years before we had her, and I was your age when I had her. She is the best blessing God ever gave us! Don't worry about what your family will say with your "change of heart", babies are a happy blessing anytime! Good luck!
Nicole
Farmgirl Sister #1155
KNITTER, JAM-MAKER AND MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE |
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kluckingbear
True Blue Farmgirl
52 Posts
Tabitha
Ellensburg
WA
USA
52 Posts |
Posted - Jan 10 2011 : 5:17:56 PM
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Being a mother is all-encompassing. You'll get frustrated, they WILL embarrass you terribly at some point, they won't turn out EXACTLY you'd planned, and you'll doubt yourself sometimes, too, but it's all worth it. I have a 10, 17 and 20 year old and I can't even begin to tell you how lucky I feel to know such wonderful young women. It's so neat seeing another person develop who has a few different ideas than you, some different perspectives, yet they're loosely based on your ideas and perspectives. My goals for them have always been just for them to be good people, don't hurt other or yourself, and be happy. They are good people and I really feel like I've added something of value to life...that's pretty great.
P.S. We slam doors, yell and do all those wonderful teenage things too!
~Come visit me at my blog www.kluckingbear.blogspot.com |
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cajungal
True Blue Farmgirl
2349 Posts
Catherine Farmgirl Sister #76
Houston Area
Texas
2349 Posts |
Posted - Jan 13 2011 : 9:06:10 PM
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I love absolutely everything about being a mom....ups, downs, smiles, cries, hugs, bruises...everything. I don't even have a favorite age because as they've grown I've loved each of the ages as they've passed through the years.
Although my relationship with God has made me complete and my marriage has made me complete, I have felt most complete after having children.
As with all other things, a girl is allowed to change her mind.....so, if you've changed your mind about not having kids then you're entitled (ha ha)
One of the best compliments from one of my daughters: "Moma, you smell good...like dirt." |
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alterationsbyemily
True Blue Farmgirl
697 Posts
Emily
Chambersburg
PA
USA
697 Posts |
Posted - Jan 14 2011 : 05:43:48 AM
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The most wonderful thing about being a mom....
Everymorning my baby girl gets up and goes into her "sleeping mommy" climbes up onto the bed and gives me a hug and a kiss to wake me up. I wouldn't give that for anything in the world.
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See my custom costumes, download free patterns, and hear some spook EVPs from Gettysburg, PA on my site, www.alterationsbyemily.com |
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countrymommy85
True Blue Farmgirl
898 Posts
Krystle
MT
USA
898 Posts |
Posted - Jan 27 2011 : 08:48:58 AM
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I love how, at the end of the day, no matter how good or hard I can put my kids to bed with a hug and kiss and see my love for them reflecting back at me! My daughter said " I love you" for the first time last week! It was so sweet! After I left the kids room I cried! I love being a mom and I can't wait to have more kids some day! I wouldn't change my life for a minute! I thought my life was full of love after I got married. Then I had kids, now it's overflowing with love and every minute is precious!
~We can make the world a better place for our kids and future generations by what we do today!~ |
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Heartbroken farmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
604 Posts
Annette
rio vista
Ca
USA
604 Posts |
Posted - Feb 02 2011 : 8:39:25 PM
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There is nothing about being a mommy I don't love. There are hard and not so pleasant things involved with being a mother, but honestly, is there anything worth having if you dont have to work at it? Each of my four children are beautiful, unique, little miracles in my life. At night, as the hug each other, and then head off to their room, I get to tuck in each child. As they sleep, I know they grew inside me. I protected them from conception on. Their first breath is magic, and when I can hear the steady breaths as they dream, or their riotious laughter when they play, my soul leaps. I live for my children, and my children are my life.
I pray you and hubby can make the perfect choice for YOU. Good luck with this very big choice. (((hugs)))
The tears I shed then, watered the flowers I harvest now.
www.broken908.blogspot.com |
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countrymommy85
True Blue Farmgirl
898 Posts
Krystle
MT
USA
898 Posts |
Posted - Feb 03 2011 : 08:33:49 AM
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Annette: I LOVE what you said at the bottom of your post, is that something you came up with? Its beautiful and such a fabulous way of looking at things!
~We can make the world a better place for our kids and future generations by what we do today!~ |
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Heartbroken farmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
604 Posts
Annette
rio vista
Ca
USA
604 Posts |
Posted - Feb 04 2011 : 11:22:56 PM
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Krystle, the *tears* part of my signature? I came up with it about a year ago. It was going to be the title of my blog, but it is way too long. No one would type in that much, just to hear me ramble. LOL
Thanks for the compliment. I've been accused all my life of being an optimist. Hope its a good way to look at life.
The tears I shed then, watered the flowers I harvest now.
www.broken908.blogspot.com
http://forums.familyfriendpoems.com/broken908
"The aim of education is the knowledge not of facts but of values."-Dean William Ralph Inge |
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knittingmom
True Blue Farmgirl
665 Posts
AnneMarie
Edmonton
Alberta
Canada
665 Posts |
Posted - Feb 05 2011 : 11:13:42 AM
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There are so many things from their sweet smell when they're little tiny tinies, thier laughter and hugs, as they grow and their personalities emerge, how curious they are and how clearly they see the world sometimes, their generous little hearts. To when they become teens and young adults and are finding thier way in the world.
It's hard to explain but when you have a child you will know and you will love like you have never loved before.
I have a 7 month old, 4 year old, 8 year old and 18 year old. Sometimes it's frustrating and they don't listen, it's not all sunshine and roses but the bumps are far outweighed by the good things that happen.
"There is no foot so small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world" |
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yasmine
True Blue Farmgirl
173 Posts
yasmine
wappingers falls
ny
USA
173 Posts |
Posted - Feb 06 2011 : 05:05:55 AM
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| I LOVE EVERYTHING! I love nursing, sleeping with them, snuggling, watching them play outside, feeding them yummy healthy food....we have 6 and i want more.if the Lord is willing... |
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HDA
True Blue Farmgirl
59 Posts
Heidi
Hood River
OR
USA
59 Posts |
Posted - Feb 07 2011 : 4:34:18 PM
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| Wow, thank you for all the great posts, they sure give me a boost! |
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AimeeC
Farmgirl at Heart
3 Posts
Aimee
Selah
Washington
USA
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Posted - Feb 14 2011 : 09:05:51 AM
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I love watching all 3 of my kids grow and learn. The joy as my 6 year old came to me to declare she can tie her shoes is incredible. The knowledge that my teen-a complete opposite of me- is forcing me to grow as person, too. Watching my son learn to hunt alongside his father. Everything they do everyday, will grow your wonder, too.
And, I have more pictures of my kids sleeping than anyone I know! I just want to enjoy that precious dream a little longer... |
Edited by - AimeeC on Feb 14 2011 09:06:50 AM |
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