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Across the Fence:  Mom's passing......  |
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junebug
True Blue Farmgirl
2421 Posts
Sue
West Plains,
Mo.
USA
2421 Posts |
 Posted - Jun 11 2006 : 3:06:26 PM
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As some of you know, my Mom suffered a massive stroke a month ago, she passed away this morning, peacefully in Nevada. I'm thankful I was able to see her last week, her smile will follow me forever. I know she is in a better place, free of pain and discomfort. Her long journey on this planet is over, but she lives on in her three daughters, 12 grandchildren and 4 great grandchildren. I thank you all for the words of comfort under another title here. The gift of letting go is bittersweet, but so right. Blessings to all, I find strength here.
www.sageflowerfarm.blogspot.com
www.herbalfarmstead.blogspot.com
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EnchantedWoodsGirl
True Blue Farmgirl
959 Posts
Kathy
New Jersey
USA
959 Posts |
Posted - Jun 11 2006 : 3:28:37 PM
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Sue - I am so sorry for you on the loss of your mom. If you need anything at all, please let me know. I know this is a terribly hard time to go through. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers as is your mom. I am glad you got to see her and I know how happy you were that she had smiled at you. Bless you!
Kathy of the Enchanted Wood
http://enchantedwoodmusings.blogspot.com/
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Aunt Jenny
True Blue Farmgirl
11381 Posts
Jenny
middle of
Utah
USA
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Posted - Jun 11 2006 : 3:33:57 PM
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Oh Sue...I will sure keep you in my prayers..I know how losing a parent can be. What a blessing to know she is in a better place and that you got to spend that time with her before she passed. My own dad insisted on a visit out here to visit us two weeks before he died. I think he knew and no one else did that his time was close. It was such a comfort to me that I got to see him like that. Of course I didn't know it would be the last time.
I will pray that you have comfort...
Jenny in Utah
Inside me there is a skinny woman crying to get out...but I can usually shut her up with cookies
http://www.auntjennysworld.blogspot.com/ visit my little online shop at www.auntjenny.etsy.com |
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Phils Ann
True Blue Farmgirl
1095 Posts
Ann
Parsonsburg
Maryland
USA
1095 Posts |
Posted - Jun 11 2006 : 4:09:13 PM
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Sue, I pray for your heart to stay at rest. Your mother was fortunate to make her own decisions... and to be able to say good-by to you with her smile.
Blessings,
Ann
There is a Redeemer. |
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Nancy Gartenman
True Blue Farmgirl
9093 Posts
Nancy
West Seneca
New York
USA
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Posted - Jun 11 2006 : 4:12:34 PM
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Sue, thinking of you, and go glad for you that you were able to spend time with her near the end. Remember the good things and as you know there is a season for all things, but that doesn't help alot with the feeling of loss.
NANCY JO |
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westernhorse51
True Blue Farmgirl
1681 Posts
michele
farmingdale
n.j.
USA
1681 Posts |
Posted - Jun 11 2006 : 6:03:43 PM
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Sue, please know you and yours are in my thoughts & prayers. I am glad you were able to see her. Keep the wonderful memories close. God Bless you & your family.
she selects wool and flax and works with eager hands Prov.31:13 |
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therusticcottage
True Blue Farmgirl
4439 Posts
Kay
Vancouver
WA
USA
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Mumof3
True Blue Farmgirl
3890 Posts
Karin
Ellenwood
GA
USA
3890 Posts |
Posted - Jun 11 2006 : 7:48:47 PM
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Sue- I am so sorry to hear about your mom. What a blessing that you were able to spend time with her last week. I will keep you in my prayers.
Karin |
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LisaBee
True Blue Farmgirl
149 Posts
Lisa
Sparta
TN
USA
149 Posts |
Posted - Jun 11 2006 : 9:57:10 PM
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Sue, I am very sure right now that your mom is extremely happy knowing that you are surrounded by so much love and good wishes. You can be at peace, because she is. Lisa
"There is no teacup too large, nor book too long."
BLOG http://lisa222.blogspot.com WEBSITE http://alittlepartasparta.com |
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Libbie
Farmgirl Connection Cultivator
3579 Posts
Anne E.
Elsinore
Utah
USA
3579 Posts |
Posted - Jun 11 2006 : 10:00:01 PM
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Sue - I am thinking about you and sending prayers and good thoughts your way. I
m so sorry to hear about your mother; your words about her smile following you are so touching.
All the best.
XOXO, Libbie
"Nothing is worth more than this day." - Goethe |
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CabinCreek-Kentucky
True Blue Farmgirl
8529 Posts
Frannie
Green County
Kentucky
USA
8529 Posts |
Posted - Jun 12 2006 : 02:09:14 AM
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Sweet Sue .. love and prayers are sent your way. her smile, her spirit will be with you always. hugs, frannie
True Friends, Frannie
My KENTUCKY RAMBLINGS 'blog':
http://cabincreekfarm-kentucky.blogspot.com/ |
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dargaonfly1054
True Blue Farmgirl
257 Posts
Georgette
Nicholville
NY
USA
257 Posts |
Posted - Jun 12 2006 : 02:47:58 AM
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Sue, I am so sorry about your mom. Wish I could say something that could make it feel less hurtful for you. She will always be with you.
peace and blessings, Georgette
"We need the tonic of wildness, to wade sometimes in marshes where the bittern and the meadow-hen lurk..." Thoreau |
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Aunt George
True Blue Farmgirl
1476 Posts
Georgann
Midlothian
VA
1476 Posts |
Posted - Jun 12 2006 : 04:02:38 AM
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| Sue, words seem to fail me at this time, but just know that you and your family are in my prayers. Her smile will be forever with you as are her memories. May peace be with you, Love and kindness to your and yours, Georgann |
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junebug
True Blue Farmgirl
2421 Posts
Sue
West Plains,
Mo.
USA
2421 Posts |
Posted - Jun 12 2006 : 04:40:16 AM
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Bless you all!! No one can say that words aren't powerful, the spirit shared here is overwhelming and comforting. It was her time, she knew it and I believe she took control of it by not eating or taking her meds since she lost control of the rest of her body. It's odd be parent-less, I lost my Dad 6 years ago. But this part of the journey we can't escape. Thank you all!
www.sageflowerfarm.blogspot.com
www.herbalfarmstead.blogspot.com
www.countrypleasures.motime.com |
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TheSoapMaven
True Blue Farmgirl
691 Posts
Susan
LA
USA
691 Posts |
Posted - Jun 12 2006 : 05:29:27 AM
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So so sorry for your loss. My dad passed November 2004. He fought the good fight and deserved peace and rest. So I know what you mean about her knowing it was time. I too will find it odd to be the "older generation" but that day is not far off I fear. Blessings to you and yours. I know you will cherish the time spent with her and rest in the fact she is at peace now.
Susan
Proprietress of Dahlem's Soapworks http://www.thesoapmaven.com
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theherblady
True Blue Farmgirl
510 Posts
Jan
Glasford
Illinois
USA
510 Posts |
Posted - Jun 12 2006 : 05:36:26 AM
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Sue- Keeping you and your family in thought and prayer~~
Jan |
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ThymeForEweFarm
True Blue Farmgirl
705 Posts
Robin
An organic farm in the forest in
Maine
USA
705 Posts |
Posted - Jun 12 2006 : 06:00:30 AM
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I'm sorry, Sue. Life is never quite the same when mothers are gone. ((hugs))
Robin
www.thymeforewe.com
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Tina Michelle
True Blue Farmgirl
6948 Posts
Tina
sunshine state
FL
USA
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Posted - Jun 12 2006 : 06:21:48 AM
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Sue,
Sorry to hear of your loss.Glad though that your mom did not have to suffer and that you were able to see her one last time and get a loving smile to carry with you forever. Hold on to the memories..cherish them. Take care of yourself during this time...as grieving is a process ..and we can know that the person was ready to go and that we wouldn't want them to suffer, etc..but the actual "letting go" and getting the feelings out and coming to grips with it all..does take time..a process of grieving..that we must sometimes just work through all the mix of emotions that come with it. I wish for you strength and peace during this time.
~Seize the Day! Live, Love, Laugh~ |
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blueroses
True Blue Farmgirl
1323 Posts
Debbie
in the Pandhandle of
Idaho
USA
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Posted - Jun 12 2006 : 09:30:52 AM
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Sue,
So sorry for your loss. I'm so glad you went to see your mom when you did. You got to say goodbye and she knew you were there. Remember the happy times with her. Sending you love and hugs.
Debbie
"You cannot find peace...by avoiding life."
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Utahfarmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
1940 Posts
Portland
Oregon
USA
1940 Posts |
Posted - Jun 12 2006 : 11:35:50 AM
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Sweet Sue, just to let you know your Mom is dancing and has a big beautiful smile on her pretty face. She says to tell you the freedom is wonderful (she says you'll know) and that she kissed you last night on your cheek while you were sleeping and will do so again every night. She sends love.
As do I.
Patricia
Come visit my Etsy store at www.chezPatricia.etsy.com
Farmgirls do it organically! |
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junebug
True Blue Farmgirl
2421 Posts
Sue
West Plains,
Mo.
USA
2421 Posts |
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FarrarFarmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
330 Posts
Lynda
Frohna
Missouri
USA
330 Posts |
Posted - Jun 13 2006 : 07:32:51 AM
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HI, Sue,
Just catching up on the last couple of weeks that I have not been on the forum and I'm sorry to read that your mom has passed away. I'm sorry for your loss, but rejoice with you at what she has gained - a renewed body and life in heaven with Jesus. I pray that you will be comforted and have peace knowing she is no longer ailing, but living eternally and watching over you all and waiting for the day you can all be together again. You will be in my thoughts and prayers, Sue. Please take care and know that hugs are being sent your way.
In His hands,
Lynda L.
Pray in faith and you will not live in doubt.
www.pamperedchef.biz/lorenzfamilycooks |
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junebug
True Blue Farmgirl
2421 Posts
Sue
West Plains,
Mo.
USA
2421 Posts |
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Mollie
True Blue Farmgirl
88 Posts
88 Posts |
Posted - Jun 14 2006 : 07:12:24 AM
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| I am so sorry. I was an only child and know when my mother passed it was if a large chunk of me was missing. Over the years I have remembered her dearly, wished I had paid more attention to her teaching me how to knit, how to cook, how to do all the wonderful things she was so good at. It was a blessing you got to see your mother at the last, my prayers are with you. |
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junebug
True Blue Farmgirl
2421 Posts
Sue
West Plains,
Mo.
USA
2421 Posts |
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abbasgurl
True Blue Farmgirl
1262 Posts
Rhonda
USA
1262 Posts |
Posted - Jun 14 2006 : 11:11:59 PM
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Sue-I'm so sorry to hear about your Mom. What a blessing to be able to see her smile one more time, and to know she passed peacfully. Still, I'm sure your heart is broken...we only get one Momma. SAying prayers for you.
Rhonda
...and I will sing at the top of my lungs, and I will dance, even if I'm the only one! |
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Across the Fence: Mom's passing...... |
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Mom's passing......
