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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up:  Missing My Mama  |
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sherone_13
True Blue Farmgirl
2460 Posts
Sherone
Evanston
WY
USA
2460 Posts |
 Posted - Sep 30 2010 : 08:57:34 AM
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So sorry I haven't been on for awhile. I lost my Mom on September 4th. She had a stroke and we had to take her off the ventilator. this has been the most difficult thing I have ever faced. I've been wondering how one can live without their mama. I seem to be living, but it really hurts.
Farmgirl prayers for my Dad (married for 55 years)and for my family would be sooooo appreciated.
Sherone
Farmgirl Sister #1682
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dutchy
True Blue Farmgirl
4427 Posts
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Posted - Sep 30 2010 : 09:07:53 AM
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Hugs and prayers to you and your family, Sherone. Last Sunday the 26th it was 4 years since my mother passed away. It will hurt for a long time, you can never miss your mama. BUT one day you will notice you are able to laugh again, really you will. And slowly it will become less hurtful to think about her, and then you can talk about her without crying, memories etc. will be shared and laughed about. Asd I said you'll always miss her but the hurt will fade.
Hugs from Marian/Dutchy, a farmgirl from the Netherlands :)
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Fiddlehead Farm
True Blue Farmgirl
4562 Posts
Diane
Waupaca
WI
USA
4562 Posts |
Posted - Sep 30 2010 : 09:13:00 AM
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Sherone, hugs and prayers to you and your family especially your Dad. Losing a parent is a very hard emotion to deal with. Suddenly we are Adults. My Mom is still having a very difficult time since my Dad died almost 7 years ago. I pray that your Father can find some peace.
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farmgirl sister #922
Happy to be a "Raggedy Ann" in a Barbie World!
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl
5602 Posts
Annika
USA
5602 Posts |
Posted - Sep 30 2010 : 09:20:17 AM
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Oh Sherone, my heart goes out to you *Hugs* I lost my mama suddenly when I was 36. It is so hard to go on with out them. Saying a prayer for your entire family to find peace and comfort and bond tighter as a family through this sad time. No one is ever ready to lose a parent. I'm glad you are back with us.
Take care and remember that grieving is natural and give yourself time to adjust (Things I didn't do...)
Love and Light
Annika
Farmgirl & sister #13
Palouse Prairie Girls Chapter
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Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. ~Leonardo DaVinci
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
7577 Posts |
Posted - Sep 30 2010 : 10:11:10 AM
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I'll be praying for you, your Dad and your family, Sherone. My heart is really aching for all of you. She will never leave you, because she is always in your heart. I haven't lost my mother, but I did lose my grandmother, who was like my mother. I still hear her voice, her laughter, her words of wisdom. She was everything to me. Everything. I am who I am today because of her - and my grandfather. She has been gone for about 5 years now, and I still cry for her sometimes because I miss her so. I even talk to her when I can't bear it anymore. Maybe that's silly, but somehow I know that the Lord allows her to hear me and feel my love, because I still feel hers. Memories of her are all around me, she is part of me; she is everywhere, always with me; and that is such a great comfort. I am so grateful to have been graced with such a wonderful blessing as Grandma. No one can ever replace her, nothing can ever fill that achey space in my heart for her. But I know she's alive in Heaven and at her very utmost best... and when my time comes, I will see her again. We'll share a hot cup of tea, a big helping of her apple pie, and have a celebratory dance with the Lord. :) I pray in time these truths of your own mother will help ease your pain. May God bless you with the peace that surpasses all understanding. Hugs - Nini
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
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Edited by - Ninibini on Sep 30 2010 12:42:51 PM |
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jkazar
Farmgirl at Heart
6 Posts
June
Springfield
Massachusetts
USA
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Posted - Sep 30 2010 : 2:51:57 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss Sherone. Today is the 48th anniversary of my mother's death. I was 7 when she passed away.
You will never be without her. I think of and kiss my mom's picture every day and tell her that I love her. The memories will comfort you every step of the way.
God bless and peace to you and your family.
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Simply Ann
True Blue Farmgirl
163 Posts
WI
USA
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Posted - Sep 30 2010 : 4:09:25 PM
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Sherone, I am so sorry for your loss my prayers and heart goes out to you and your Dad. It feels like your world has stopped but everything else is still going on around you. It has been 5 years since my Dad passed and you just never forget or stop missing them. It does get easier as time passes. Know that you have a Guardian Angel looking over you and they will always be with you just not in the physical form.
Remember all the special things she did and it will give you comfort and joy that she was your Mom.
Huggs of support
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kristin sherrill
True Blue Farmgirl
11303 Posts
kristin
chickamauga
ga
USA
11303 Posts |
Posted - Sep 30 2010 : 4:31:05 PM
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Sherone, I am so sorry. I really don't know what I would do. Just hold on to all those wonderful memories you have of your mother. She must have been a very special lady. If you ever need to talk about her, please do. I would love to hear about her. My mom is 78 and I keep telling her she has to be here forever. I know your dad must be missing her awful. I am sending you big hugs and will be thinking of you and your dad.
Hugs, Kris
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debtea2
True Blue Farmgirl
1853 Posts
deborah
nutley
nj
USA
1853 Posts |
Posted - Sep 30 2010 : 5:15:08 PM
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prayers sherone i lost both y parents and m=not a day goes by that i don't think of them
but my feelings are of gratitude and love and i still talk to them
in desperate times.. its a long road but we all go thru it ...
hugs deborah
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inch by inch we find our way
jersey farmgirl
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LindaJo
True Blue Farmgirl
650 Posts
Linda
Fargo
ND
USA
650 Posts |
Posted - Oct 05 2010 : 11:39:10 AM
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Praying for you and your family.
Art cleans the dust of everyday life from the soul. Picasso |
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Especially For You
True Blue Farmgirl
541 Posts
Tina
Watkinsville
GA
541 Posts |
Posted - Oct 06 2010 : 06:41:51 AM
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I am praying for you and your Dad. I lost my Mom 6 years ago. There is not a day that I don't think about her and miss her. The other day my daughter told me something and when we hung up I thought I need to call Mom and tell her. Just be there for your Dad as much as you can.
Blessings,
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
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Posted - Oct 08 2010 : 11:04:36 AM
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Sherone:
So, so sorry for your loss. I lost my mother years ago, and I still think of her. I will say a prayer for you and your mother.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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Cindy Lou
True Blue Farmgirl
2325 Posts
Susan
Lonsdale
MN
USA
2325 Posts |
Posted - Oct 08 2010 : 1:07:38 PM
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Hugs and prayers go out to you. I lost my mom to cancer 4 years ago. Dad had passed away 8 years before. Though I loved and missed them both there was something about losing Mom that was different. Suddenly I was the oldest one in the family before I felt I had the wisdom and strength for it. The pain eases but do your best to keep the memories alive in your daily life.
I think of them often and take comfort in using their round oak table. I learned so much from Mom about being a good mother, finding joy in sewing, crafts and good home cooking. I still have one of Dad's old sweaters in my cedar chest that I pull out once in a while and feel comforted when I put it on. When our oldest daughter was married this summer I thought of them and want to believe they saw it from above.
Death is a part of life. Loving doesn't end there.
Susan
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?"
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Bonnie Ellis
True Blue Farmgirl
2474 Posts
Bonnie
Minneapolis
Minnesota
USA
2474 Posts |
Posted - Oct 09 2010 : 9:04:31 PM
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Hugs are wrapped around you. This is so hard to have your mom die. God bless you and your family. Love Bonnie
grandmother and orphan farmgirl |
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Lainey
True Blue Farmgirl
2401 Posts
Elaine
Waco
Kentucky
USA
2401 Posts |
Posted - Oct 13 2010 : 1:16:12 PM
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Sherone, I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers. I lost my mama last year and it's still very hard for me. I'm sending big hugs to you.
Farmgirl Sister #25
http://countrygirldreams.blogspot.com/
An Angel says, 'Never borrow from the future. If you worry about what may happen tomorrow and it doesn't happen, you have worried in vain. Even if it does happen, you have to worry twice.' |
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Roxy7
True Blue Farmgirl
1083 Posts
Robin
Denver
CO
USA
1083 Posts |
Posted - Oct 18 2010 : 6:56:37 PM
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Prayers sent. Yesterday was my mom's birthday. I lost her 28 years ago.It gets easier, but it never gets easy. I miss her terribly.
I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs offered. |
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highlandviewpantry
True Blue Farmgirl
214 Posts
WV
USA
214 Posts |
Posted - Oct 19 2010 : 1:08:01 PM
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I'll be praying for you. We just lost my Grandma in August and it hasn't really sunk in yet. My mom (her daughter) is trying staying busy. I am so sorry for your loss.
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bellaboo
Farmgirl in Training
19 Posts
christine
millsap
tx
USA
19 Posts |
Posted - Oct 19 2010 : 8:49:45 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. This month will be four years since Moma passed and February will be seven since Daddy passed. It does get easier but no matter how old you are or they are, you are never ready to lose them. I pray that time and memories will ease your pain.
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acairnsmom
True Blue Farmgirl
1319 Posts
audrey
cheyenne
wy
1319 Posts |
Posted - Oct 20 2010 : 10:15:54 PM
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It doesn’t seem to make sense does it? How can the world go on when someone so vital and precious has left it? I still struggle with that and my Momma died in 1995. I still have thoughts that I haven't talked to her in awhile and I need to call her up. Then reality (or is it unreality?) comes in. So I just talk to her like she's there and can hear me. Funny thing is, I think she does hear me and I sometimes feel she's very close. Figure "talking" to her couldn't hurt. If people think I'm bonkers, so be it!
I truly am sorry for your loss. I know my Dad was lost without her for many years. Blessing to you and your family!
Audrey
Toto, we're not in Kansas any more! |
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
7577 Posts |
Posted - Oct 22 2010 : 8:36:02 PM
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Sherone, you and your Dad have been on my mind... How are you doing? Still praying... Hugs - Nini
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
Farmgirl Sister #1974 |
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ceejay48
Farmgirl Legend/Schoolmarm/Sharpshooter
13816 Posts
CeeJay (CJ)
Dolores
Colorado
USA
13816 Posts |
Posted - Oct 23 2010 : 10:13:48 AM
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Sherone,
Hugs . . prayers . . are with you. I know how it feels. I lost my mom 16 1/2 years ago, after a terrible, long battle with a type of leukemia. I MISS HER SOOOO!!!! I lost my dad 3 years later . . . and then my father-in-law just 3 years ago. I was just looking at my mom's first scrapbook a few days ago. She put it together in the early 30s they were married Dec. 7, 1933). WHAT MEMORIES of both of them!!! So, I cherish the memories!!!
Praying for you as you go through this time!!!
CJ
..from the barefoot farmgirl in SW Colorado...sister chick #665
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