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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
22941 Posts |
Posted - Apr 02 2009 : 07:49:09 AM
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The last couple of weeks have been less than grand and the last couple of days have been SUPER stressful and I was starting to get pretty down about it. Last night I was really depressed and Doug was really great about listening to be vent and giving me lots of hugs.
Today I feel better!
Doug has his days where we both get frustrated with each other, but last night he really was exactly what I needed!
Alee Farmgirl Sister #8 www.awarmheart.com Please come visit Nora and me on our blog: www.farmgirlalee.blogspot.com Put your pin on the farmgirl map! www.farmgirlmap.blogspot.com |
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bertha
True Blue Farmgirl
234 Posts
Bertha
St Joseph
Mi
USA
234 Posts |
Posted - Apr 02 2009 : 07:53:36 AM
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Alee You are so neat HUGS Bert Bush |
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City Chick
True Blue Farmgirl
1402 Posts
Deb
Chattanooga
TN
USA
1402 Posts |
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Nancy Gartenman
True Blue Farmgirl
9094 Posts
Nancy
West Seneca
New York
USA
9094 Posts |
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junkjunkie
True Blue Farmgirl
1306 Posts
Judy
Lawrenceville
NJ
USA
1306 Posts |
Posted - Apr 03 2009 : 07:03:50 AM
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Sometimes a good vent needs a good listener (and hugger) to really clear the air. I'm glad you're feeling better and you're lucky to have Doug...and he, you!
"To have life in focus, we must have death in our field of vision." Benedictine monk John Main |
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
22941 Posts |
Posted - Apr 03 2009 : 08:57:12 AM
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One of the things that was great was that he really understood where I was coming from and was pretty upset to. Sometimes a little validation goes a long way!
I really feel lucky. My husband really cares for me. He misses me when I go away to visit friends or family, and he is supporting me in my dream to own and breed horses even though horses scare him to death. He worries about me and even though sometimes he can be a royal pain in the tucas- he is a sweet guy.
I can be ornery and he puts up with my mood swings and while we can have some blow up fights if we both get our dander up. But we have been together now for coming on 9 years so I think we make a good pair over all :D
Alee Farmgirl Sister #8 www.awarmheart.com Please come visit Nora and me on our blog: www.farmgirlalee.blogspot.com Put your pin on the farmgirl map! www.farmgirlmap.blogspot.com |
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NudeFoodFarm
True Blue Farmgirl
433 Posts
Heide
Benton City
WA
433 Posts |
Posted - Apr 03 2009 : 09:06:08 AM
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You two sound like a great couple. I wish y'all lived closer. My hubby is having a hard time finding men he can relate to out here. He is so happy I found this forum, he wishes there was one for him. He is so smart and scientfic (he is way into alternative energy). Well we live next to Hanford (one of the worlds largest nuclear waste sites) and not too many people around us care about health or alternatives. They think Nuclear is the way to go and people like my husband and I are "Hippies". Which anywhere else we are normal but here. . . anyhow Alee it is awesome to read your postings and I am sure your husband compliments your fabulousness. Maybe we will all meet at Mary Janes 4th of July. I look forward to it. h
Nude Food Farm ~Grown so good, Dressing is Optional. |
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
22941 Posts |
Posted - Apr 03 2009 : 12:33:37 PM
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Hi Heide!
I will be there for sure! Farm Fair or Bust! However, my husband won't be coming along I don't think. He has the week off, but I doubt he will come. My mom and at least 2 of my sisters and my dad will be there though!
Alee Farmgirl Sister #8 www.awarmheart.com Please come visit Nora and me on our blog: www.farmgirlalee.blogspot.com Put your pin on the farmgirl map! www.farmgirlmap.blogspot.com |
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5 acre Farmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
1007 Posts
~~~*Terri*~~~
WA.
USA
1007 Posts |
Posted - Apr 16 2009 : 10:12:57 PM
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alee. I too, have a GREAT HUSBAND..............I cannot complain, He takes great care of me. Sounds like their are 2 Great Husbands on this forum..anyone else?
Farmgirl Sister #368 "It is most common for man to value most what has least worth." My Farm and Garden blog.... http://blogonthefarmandgarden.blogspot.com
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lisamarie508
True Blue Farmgirl
2648 Posts
Lisa
Idaho City
ID
USA
2648 Posts |
Posted - Apr 17 2009 : 05:21:34 AM
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I'm so glad you guys have each other and that you can vent like that! That is very cool. Now, I'm even more excited about the BBB that your mom and dad and sisters are coming, too! I'm sooooo looking forward to this trip!
Farmgirl Sister #35
"If you can not do great things, do small things in a great way." Napoleon Hill (1883-1970)
my blog: http://lisamariesbasketry.blogspot.com/
My apron website: http://lisamariesaprons.bravehost.com |
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
22941 Posts |
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glendagoldenbp
True Blue Farmgirl
196 Posts
glenda
cleburne
tx
USA
196 Posts |
Posted - Apr 17 2009 : 6:54:43 PM
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Oh yes! I have one too. I get so tired of women complaining about the things their men do. We need to be more grateful for them in the time we are allowed to be with them. I try to work real hard at giving as good as I get and it keeps getting better and better the more we both give. Thanks for a positive post.
Sunrises are wonderous things, nobody should ever miss one. |
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
22941 Posts |
Posted - Apr 17 2009 : 7:43:32 PM
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Thanks Glenda! We have our moments where we both have to go to our seperate corners- but overall I feel really lucky! I have to admit that has "not been my month". I have been pretty short tempered around the house lately and he has been a trooper. I appologize when I snap at him, but that still doesn't make up for it. :( Gotta love him for putting up with me in good humors and bad!!
Alee Farmgirl Sister #8 www.awarmheart.com www.farmgirlalee.blogspot.com www.allergyjourneys.blogspot.com Put your pin on the farmgirl map! www.farmgirlmap.blogspot.com |
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mikesgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
3659 Posts
Sherri
Elma
WA
USA
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Posted - Apr 17 2009 : 10:13:01 PM
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Me too! The older I get the more I realize how lucky I am to have dh. I know when I was younger I put him through a living H*** when I was premenstral. I had terrible terrible pms, but he put up with me and now thank goodness we share the same dream of moving to our cabin for what our kids call "mom and dad's big science experiment."! We've been together since 1967 and married since '71. Alee - it's great that you recognize Doug for his good points already - it took me many more years than that before I wised up!
Farmgirl Sister #98
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