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sunshine
True Blue Farmgirl

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Wendy
Utah
USA
4877 Posts

Posted - Nov 22 2008 :  3:17:06 PM  Show Profile  Send sunshine a Yahoo! Message
I was asked to post this so I am

This may sound silly but i sent a letter (email) to Clare after her death knowing she wouldn't respond I just wanted to say bye.

her husband responded and asked me to post. The way I sent the email was through the forum he is receiving her emails

here is my email followed by his

To Clare
I miss you and love you may god be with thee and thee with he and your family

love sunshine

I know you will never read this I just wanted to say bye

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this is the letter from steve
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Dear Sunshine,
I am Clares'(suzyhomemaker) husband. I would like to thank everyone who ever coresponded with Clare through this forum. The support, friendship, information, love, was very important to her and our family throughout our journey down this path.

I can't express to you how much I loved her. She was my life. I lived to make her happy.
I know she is with God now so I'm happy about that.

I'm not very good at this E-Mail stuff so if you could post this so everyone could read it.

If any one wishes to contact me please feel free to do so.
sincerly,
Steve

Cervical cancer stage 1b1 8/05
Radical hysterectomy 9/05
Recurrence to right pelvis 8/07
33 total radiation treatments with 7 weekly cisplatin completed 12/08
recurrence to liver 3/08
Avastin 4/08-present
CT Scan in 7/08 shows stable disease


have a lovely day and may God bless you and keep you safe
Farmgirl Sister #115
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl

22941 Posts

Alee
Worland Wy
USA
22941 Posts

Posted - Nov 22 2008 :  3:22:33 PM  Show Profile  Send Alee a Yahoo! Message
Sunshine- Thank you very much for posting that. It made me cry. My heart goes out to the family.

Alee
Farmgirl Sister #8
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DeepsouthMamma
True Blue Farmgirl

1454 Posts

Autumn
Southwest Louisiana
USA
1454 Posts

Posted - Nov 22 2008 :  3:32:29 PM  Show Profile


What a kind ,sweet hubby he was to our sister!

Blessings,
Autumn
Farmgirl #49
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Isaiah 40:31
But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.

Edited by - DeepsouthMamma on Nov 22 2008 3:32:58 PM
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bohemiangel
True Blue Farmgirl

2087 Posts

Bridget
Ligonier pa
USA
2087 Posts

Posted - Nov 22 2008 :  3:36:23 PM  Show Profile  Send bohemiangel an AOL message  Click to see bohemiangel's MSN Messenger address  Send bohemiangel a Yahoo! Message
awwww, wow....touching

**~~Farmgirl Sister #60~~**
"... to thine ownself be true."

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Nancy Gartenman
True Blue Farmgirl

9093 Posts

Nancy
West Seneca New York
USA
9093 Posts

Posted - Nov 22 2008 :  3:39:36 PM  Show Profile
That was so sweet.

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Ga Girl
True Blue Farmgirl

2355 Posts

Karen
Meansville Ga.
USA
2355 Posts

Posted - Nov 22 2008 :  5:33:21 PM  Show Profile
This made me cry. Bless his heart I just hurt for him and their family.

Create in me a pure heart,O God and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Psalms 51:10 http://farmgirlingastyle.blogspot.com/
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CountryBorn
True Blue Farmgirl

1545 Posts

Mary Jane
New York
USA
1545 Posts

Posted - Nov 22 2008 :  5:52:05 PM  Show Profile
What a wonderful man. To take the time to respond to her farmgirl
sisters was a kind and so thoughtful thing to do. I am sure he was a wonderful husband to Clare. She always seemed so happy. My heartfelt prayers and warm thoughts go out to him, their children and all who love her.

Mary Jane

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LivingWell4You
True Blue Farmgirl

1411 Posts

Karen
Hillsboro MO
USA
1411 Posts

Posted - Nov 22 2008 :  6:56:59 PM  Show Profile  Send LivingWell4You a Yahoo! Message
Oh my, I was in tears just reading the topic line. That he would take this time to share with the sisters speaks so highly of him. It's apparent what a very special relationship they had. The family will be in my thoughts and prayers for a long time.

God bless -
Karen ~ Chickherder & Farmgirl Sister #311

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Marybeth
True Blue Farmgirl

6418 Posts

Mary Beth
Stanwood Wa 98292
USA
6418 Posts

Posted - Nov 22 2008 :  7:14:06 PM  Show Profile
How sad, sweet and even wonderful. Thanks for sharing. MB

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electricdunce
True Blue Farmgirl

2544 Posts

Karin
Belmont ME
USA
2544 Posts

Posted - Nov 23 2008 :  06:46:06 AM  Show Profile
Your post and Clare's husband's response really touched my heart. Thank you for posting this..

Karin

Farmgirl Sister #153

"Give me shelter from the storm" - Bob Dylan
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K-Falls Farmgirl
Chapter Leader

2096 Posts

Cheryl
Klamath Falls Oregon
USA
2096 Posts

Posted - Nov 23 2008 :  09:00:04 AM  Show Profile
Sunshine, Thank you for posting this. I never knew Clare but feel her spirit here in all the friends & sisters posting. God Bless Steve and her family.

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Cheryl #309
Farm girl sister

Enjoy the little things in life....someday you'll look back and realize they were the big things.
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mikesgirl
True Blue Farmgirl

3659 Posts

Sherri
Elma WA
USA
3659 Posts

Posted - Nov 23 2008 :  10:21:23 AM  Show Profile
Thanks Sunshine - Steve sounds like a special guy too.

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jpbluesky
True Blue Farmgirl

6066 Posts

Jeannie
Florida
USA
6066 Posts

Posted - Nov 23 2008 :  10:26:13 AM  Show Profile
I am crying too. Clare was so lucky in this life to have a love like that. I hope the family is coping okay, and my love goes out to them.

Farmgirl Sister # 31

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Psalm 51: 10-13
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abbysshadow
True Blue Farmgirl

224 Posts

Sherry
Dayton Nevada
USA
224 Posts

Posted - Nov 23 2008 :  12:41:58 PM  Show Profile
ditto from me...sniffle...


...I cannot do all the good that the world needs, but the world needs all the good that I can do...
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levisgrammy
True Blue Farmgirl

9327 Posts

Denise
Beavercreek Ohio
USA
9327 Posts

Posted - Nov 23 2008 :  3:00:57 PM  Show Profile
Sunshine,
thank you for sharing his email back to you. They must have had a wonderful life together. She was blessed to have such a loving husband. We will miss her.

Denise
farmgirl sister #43
"Take a lesson from the teakettle, though up to its
neck in hot water...it sings!"

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Tammy Claxton
True Blue Farmgirl

1559 Posts

Tammy
Glen Burnie Maryland
USA
1559 Posts

Posted - Nov 23 2008 :  3:43:31 PM  Show Profile  Send Tammy Claxton an AOL message
Wow, I am at a loss for words right now...

Crafty Bay Farmgirl Chapter

"What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger"

Farmgirl #152

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queenofdreamsz4u
True Blue Farmgirl

3845 Posts

Stephanie Suzanne
Smoky Mountains Tennessee
USA
3845 Posts

Posted - Nov 23 2008 :  9:37:14 PM  Show Profile
My heart aches for how broken hearted he is and will be forevermore...


Stephanie
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Past Blessings
True Blue Farmgirl

1083 Posts

Brenda
Orchard Prairie WA
USA
1083 Posts

Posted - Nov 23 2008 :  10:52:01 PM  Show Profile
My heart breaks for her sweet family, but my tears are a mix of joy and sorrow . . . joy, because she is home with Jesus and out of pain and sorrow for all those she left behind. We will miss her sweet spirit.

Hugs & blessings

Brenda

Past Blessings . . . Celebrating Life as it used to be . . . when people loved God, loved their families and loved their country.
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