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Across the Fence:  heart break  |
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bohemiangel
True Blue Farmgirl
2087 Posts
Bridget
Ligonier
pa
USA
2087 Posts |
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CabinCreek-Kentucky
True Blue Farmgirl
8529 Posts
Frannie
Green County
Kentucky
USA
8529 Posts |
 Posted - Apr 21 2008 : 10:07:23 AM
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bridget .. any time you are feelin' extra sad and wanna' jus' talk about it .. we are here for you. lotsa' hugs to you sweet friend! xo
p.s. come visit me here in kentucky .. i promise a fun time where you will forget all your sorrows .. surely for awhile anyway! xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
True Friends * Frannie
adopt a 'rag-chile'
http://sistermercysfoundlinhome.blogspot.com
treasures .. new and olde .. http://mudpiemanormercantile.blogspot.com
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KYgurlsrbest
True Blue Farmgirl
4853 Posts
Jonni
Elsmere
Kentucky
USA
4853 Posts |
Posted - Apr 21 2008 : 10:08:56 AM
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Do you have a dog? I know this sounds crazy, but when I divorced, I was in the worst possible place I could be...and when I got a little better, when those times came around, I grabbed up my pup and we went out to Big Bone State Park (rain or shine) and went hiking up the steepest hills we could find. Being with her, seeing deer and other wildlife, laughing at her, hugging her, walking up those big ole' hills reminded me that I didn't need anyone BUT her and ME and we'd get along just fine. It will get better, you just have to let it ride. My friend Jess put it superbly at that time in my life, "Jon, some days are just gonna suck.". How right she was, but it does get better.
Farmgirl Sister #80, thanks to a very special farmgirl from the Bluegrass..."She was built like a watch, a study in balance ... with a neck and head so refined, like a drawing by DaVinci"...
NY Newsday sportswriter Bill Nack describing filly, Ruffian.
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bohemiangel
True Blue Farmgirl
2087 Posts
Bridget
Ligonier
pa
USA
2087 Posts |
Posted - Apr 21 2008 : 10:25:27 AM
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Thank you dear Frannie and Jonni. I wish I could visit you Frannie!!! $ and time are the only things holding me back. Jonni I do I have the sweetest little man ever named Louis and is a mini schnauzer. I talk to him all the time and groom him and walk and tell him how stupid men are and all I want is one like him. hahha He is my saving grace. I appreciate it ladies I just am trying to plug through and today saw the ex's truck and my stomach dropped out.
**~~Farmgirl Sister #60~~**
"... to thine ownself be true."
http://ligonierfarmgirl.blogspot.com/
http://liggygirl.blogspot.com/
http://liggygirlslonggreen.blogspot.com/
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Lainey
True Blue Farmgirl
2401 Posts
Elaine
Waco
Kentucky
USA
2401 Posts |
Posted - Apr 21 2008 : 10:28:00 AM
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Bridget, I'm thinking of you and sending a big hug. I hope you're feeling better soon and I agree with Jonni. When I'm down my dog usually sits right beside me and will try her best to cheer me up. (She did this most of this past weekend.)
(((Hugs)))
Farmgirl Sister #25
http://countrygirldreams.blogspot.com/ |
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nashbabe
True Blue Farmgirl
687 Posts
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bboopster
True Blue Farmgirl
1140 Posts
Betty Jo
West Bend
Wisconsin
USA
1140 Posts |
Posted - Apr 21 2008 : 10:57:43 AM
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Bridget, it will get better but some days will suck. When the going gets bad get yourself involved in something. I've had many times during my single mom years when all I wanted to do was take my X out for good and I'm not afraid to admit it. When those times hit I would involve myself in something very time consuming. Refinish furniture, make something above my talent level in cooking, baking, sewing, gardening, learn to handle a new tool anything that would immerse my whole thought train. I did it yesterday when my oldest left for his deployment in Korea. His last call, and text set me off big time so I went into my garage and took out this old many layered painted wood table and started to stripe it well before I knew it it was hours later and the progress I had made was impressive. Funny how much energy a sad mind and body can conjure up. My prayers are with you it will get better and some day he will understand what he lost. Then it will be your turn to laugh. The right man is out there, he is just hiding because he's been hurt too. I know because I found one of those men and he was worth the pain of losing the old one. I promise! 
http://www.bboopster.blogspot.com
3 Blue Star Mother and Proud of it!
Pray for our troops to come home safe and soon.
Enjoying the road to the simple life :>) |
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4forMe
True Blue Farmgirl
166 Posts
Dawn
Easton
MD
166 Posts |
Posted - Apr 21 2008 : 11:48:44 AM
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Bridget, I hope you are feeling better soon. I am thinking of you.
Sewing, knitting, gardening mom of 4. |
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bohemiangel
True Blue Farmgirl
2087 Posts
Bridget
Ligonier
pa
USA
2087 Posts |
Posted - Apr 21 2008 : 12:45:32 PM
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Thanks girls again, sometimes I just need the good energy. I have been trying to be busy and just enjoy each day. I've been getting involved in my town and posting on this blog http://ligonierliving.blogspot.com/ but I think Betty Jo I will take you up on what you have done. I think I'll just do more things and even when they are "above" my talent as you put it! haha
Thanks Lainey and Nashbabe for the hugs and thanks to 4forme for the thoughts it means worlds. I hate complaining on here but you gals help me through my darker hours. THANK YOU AGAIN for the MILLIONTH time hehe. I swear I have to have a better attitude about guys too so the right one comes along.
**~~Farmgirl Sister #60~~**
"... to thine ownself be true."
http://ligonierfarmgirl.blogspot.com/
http://liggygirl.blogspot.com/
http://liggygirlslonggreen.blogspot.com/
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Farmtopia
True Blue Farmgirl
1465 Posts
Zan
New York
New York
USA
1465 Posts |
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CabinCreek-Kentucky
True Blue Farmgirl
8529 Posts
Frannie
Green County
Kentucky
USA
8529 Posts |
Posted - Apr 21 2008 : 5:11:43 PM
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bridget .. next time i come to d.c. i'm going to build in a WEEK to gather with farmgirls that are not too far from the Annapolis, Maryland area! don't know when that will be. STILL waiting to hear back from daughter, Kristen about her med tests!!!!!!
HEY .. isn't the Moscow Gathering happening real soon? everyone getting real excited? xo
True Friends * Frannie
adopt a 'rag-chile'
http://sistermercysfoundlinhome.blogspot.com
treasures .. new and olde .. http://mudpiemanormercantile.blogspot.com
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Farmtopia
True Blue Farmgirl
1465 Posts
Zan
New York
New York
USA
1465 Posts |
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Tina Michelle
True Blue Farmgirl
6948 Posts
Tina
sunshine state
FL
USA
6948 Posts |
Posted - Apr 21 2008 : 11:52:42 PM
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ya know Bridge back when I was oh..about 21 I had swore off men too cause gosh they could be plumb aggravating..and wouldn't ya know..at the time I swore them off..into my life strutted the handsomest/sweetest guy ever..and stole my heart away.we;ve been married 18 yrs now..so honey..just hang in there..your knight in shining armor will be there for you...when you least expect it.
hugs to you..and yes..keeping yourself busy,busy helps.
hugs!
~Seize the Day! Live, Love, Laugh~
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