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NotQuiteJuneCleaver
True Blue Farmgirl

222 Posts

Susan
Shreveport LA
USA
222 Posts

Posted - Oct 07 2007 :  06:19:53 AM  Show Profile
My mom passed this evening at 7:21. She went peacefully and is no longer suffering. I am so grateful for this. Thanks for all your kindness and well wishes. Much love to you all. She cherished each and every card and mini apron from my farmgirl friends.

Blessings to you all.


Please forgive this cross post from my blog but I dont have time to write two posts this morning. Many have kept up with what all is going on with my family so I wanted to share that I have blogged about the latest happening and appreciate all your well wishes and kindnesses more than you will know.
My blog is in my signature...love to you all. See you soon.


http://www.notquitejunecleaver.com
There is immeasurable value in what I do. I won't ever believe otherwise.

Edited by - NotQuiteJuneCleaver on Oct 08 2007 9:56:22 PM

Nancy Gartenman
True Blue Farmgirl

9093 Posts

Nancy
West Seneca New York
USA
9093 Posts

Posted - Oct 07 2007 :  06:35:33 AM  Show Profile
What a nice writting on your blog, all those good and not so good memories. You are doing a great job, not sure I could do as I could hold up as well as well as you. Bless your heart.
NANCY JO

www.Nancy-Jo.blogspot.com
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Marybeth
True Blue Farmgirl

6418 Posts

Mary Beth
Stanwood Wa 98292
USA
6418 Posts

Posted - Oct 07 2007 :  07:08:44 AM  Show Profile
Ahh Susan---A toil of love, for sure. You are a wonderful daughter and your Mother knows that. You take care of yourself too. MB

www.strawberryhillsfarm.blogspot.com
www.day4plus.blogspot.com www.holyhouses-day4plus.blogspot.com
"Life may not be the party we hoped for...but while we are here we might as well dance!"
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Phils Ann
True Blue Farmgirl

1095 Posts

Ann
Parsonsburg Maryland
USA
1095 Posts

Posted - Oct 07 2007 :  07:37:20 AM  Show Profile
Susan, Your up-dates are so important to us. We love you.

Ann
Sairy Hill Thicket
There is a Redeemer.
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl

22941 Posts

Alee
Worland Wy
USA
22941 Posts

Posted - Oct 07 2007 :  08:25:04 AM  Show Profile  Send Alee a Yahoo! Message
Susan-

I am thinking about you and your mom! I am so sorry to hear that she had a stroke. Oh and YOU GO GIRL! Let those "People Handlers" know what you think! They shouldn't give you the run around!

You are an amazing daughter and wonderful person! I am glad you are getting some help and some sleep.

*hugs*

Alee
The amazing one handed typist! One hand for typing, one hand to hold Nora!
http://home.test-afl.tulix.com/aleeandnora/
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Carol Sue
True Blue Farmgirl

4033 Posts

Carol Sue
Washingtonian
USA
4033 Posts

Posted - Oct 07 2007 :  8:23:05 PM  Show Profile
Been keeping up on your blog and keeping you and your family and mom in prayers. (((((HUGS)))))
Carol Sue

listening to the quiet moments
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cinnamongirl
True Blue Farmgirl

1682 Posts

Carrie

Canada
1682 Posts

Posted - Oct 08 2007 :  9:42:57 PM  Show Profile
Been reading your blog too. Love the photos. Your Mother is a beautiful lady. May she find peace soon.
Know you are doing all you can and have every right to rest no woman can do it alone. You need your rest girl as it sounds like you are the strength the rest of your family will need later.Give your Mom a big farmgirl hug from us and tell her it is time to think of herself and perhaps she will find the peace she needs. Love you bless you and your family. Carrie

Edited by - cinnamongirl on Oct 08 2007 10:12:17 PM
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cinnamongirl
True Blue Farmgirl

1682 Posts

Carrie

Canada
1682 Posts

Posted - Oct 08 2007 :  10:14:31 PM  Show Profile
I am so sorry for yor loss but I too am glad she went peacefully Susan. My condolences to you and your family. God Bless
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl

22941 Posts

Alee
Worland Wy
USA
22941 Posts

Posted - Oct 08 2007 :  10:22:39 PM  Show Profile  Send Alee a Yahoo! Message
Susan-

I am so glad your mom is not suffering any more, and at the same time, I am saddened for your loss. I am at a loss of words, but please know you are in my heart and thoughts. I wish you all comfort possible.

Alee
The amazing one handed typist! One hand for typing, one hand to hold Nora!
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CabinCreek-Kentucky
True Blue Farmgirl

8529 Posts

Frannie
Green County Kentucky
USA
8529 Posts

Posted - Oct 08 2007 :  10:31:16 PM  Show Profile
prayers and thoughts are with you dear susan. xo, frannie

True Friends, Frannie

FREEDOM VALLEY FARM
KENTUCKY

http://freedomvalleyfarm.blogspot.com/

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Marybeth
True Blue Farmgirl

6418 Posts

Mary Beth
Stanwood Wa 98292
USA
6418 Posts

Posted - Oct 08 2007 :  10:46:08 PM  Show Profile
I am sad for your loss but glad the suffering is gone. God bless you all. MB

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"Life may not be the party we hoped for...but while we are here we might as well dance!"
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therusticcottage
True Blue Farmgirl

4439 Posts

Kay
Vancouver WA
USA
4439 Posts

Posted - Oct 08 2007 :  11:14:02 PM  Show Profile
Susan -- I am so sorry for your loss. I'm glad that her passing was peaceful and that she is no long suffering. Now it's time for you to get some rest. Sending hugs and prayers your way!

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Carol Sue
True Blue Farmgirl

4033 Posts

Carol Sue
Washingtonian
USA
4033 Posts

Posted - Oct 08 2007 :  11:23:35 PM  Show Profile
Susan, ((((HUGS))))
I am sure for your there is relief that she is not longer in pain and yet your heart breaks because she was your mom. I am glad for every moment that you and your family got to pour your love out on her.
Peace to you and your household.
Carol Sue

listening to the quiet moments
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl

5602 Posts

Annika

USA
5602 Posts

Posted - Oct 08 2007 :  11:50:29 PM  Show Profile
Susan ~ I went back and read through your blog some to understand what was going on before i posted. First I know that you very likely feel a mixture of numb/relieved/exhausted and grieving. I am sorry that your mom has passed, but having been down the cancer path with both my beloved grandmother and equally beloved great aunt, knowing that they are out of pain and that the end of the horrible thing has arrived, oddly is a comfort that you will return to again and again. Going through the aftermath of a family member passing is grueling. Try to get as much rest as you can. You are a brave a wonderful woman for seeing to your mom in her last months. So many would just pawn them off on a care facility of some kind. I admire you greatly.

Please take care of you and your family.
peace and blessings



Annika
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katie-ell
True Blue Farmgirl

1818 Posts

Katie
Illinois
1818 Posts

Posted - Oct 09 2007 :  04:58:46 AM  Show Profile
Susan -- I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. Her peaceful passing is a gift to her and to you. And as you mourn, I hope that you can now celebrate her life; as difficult a life as it was, it was fraught with lessons and love for you. Do get some rest and I'm sending hugs to you and your family.

www.youaretoocreative.blogspot.com
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KYgurlsrbest
True Blue Farmgirl

4853 Posts

Jonni
Elsmere Kentucky
USA
4853 Posts

Posted - Oct 09 2007 :  06:15:25 AM  Show Profile
Susan, I am so sorry, but she is in a better place, isn't she. I am glad she no longer suffers, nor her family suffering beside her.

Take the time you need to grieve her, and know that you gave all that a daughter could.

J

"She was built like a watch, a study in balance ... with a neck and head so refined, like a drawing by DaVinci"...
NY Newsday sportswriter Bill Nack describing filly, Ruffian.
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mima
True Blue Farmgirl

1573 Posts



1573 Posts

Posted - Oct 09 2007 :  06:44:43 AM  Show Profile
I'm soo sorry Susan! You were a wonderful daughter to her! Huge hug!!!!
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Luzy
True Blue Farmgirl

922 Posts

Luanne
Pueblo Colorado
USA
922 Posts

Posted - Oct 09 2007 :  09:00:45 AM  Show Profile
Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Love and hugs, Lu

--
May I always be the kind of person my dog thinks I am.
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JudyBlueEyes
True Blue Farmgirl

657 Posts

Judith
Spokane Washington
USA
657 Posts

Posted - Oct 09 2007 :  09:33:25 AM  Show Profile
(((((Susan and Family))))) Blessings to you for being such a good and caring daughter. FarmGirl Hugs!

We come from the earth, we go back to the earth, and in between, we garden!
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Tina Michelle
True Blue Farmgirl

6948 Posts

Tina
sunshine state FL
USA
6948 Posts

Posted - Oct 09 2007 :  10:44:25 AM  Show Profile
a big hug being sent out to you.

~Seize the Day! Live, Love, Laugh~
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Corinnelouise
True Blue Farmgirl

957 Posts

Corinne
France
957 Posts

Posted - Oct 09 2007 :  10:49:13 AM  Show Profile
Susan, you have been an ispiration for all of us having sick or aged parents, thanks for sharing with us.
And peace to you, you family and YOUR DEAR MOM. I am sorry for all the pain involved, all my sympathy to you and you family.
Corinne
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mkmomus
True Blue Farmgirl

248 Posts

Merle
Greensboro NC
248 Posts

Posted - Oct 09 2007 :  2:40:53 PM  Show Profile
Susan,
I am so sorry to hear about your Mom but glad she is not suffering. I will keep you in my prayers. I always loved the following and hope it will bring you some comfort.
Merle

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
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willowtreecreek
True Blue Farmgirl

4813 Posts

Julie
Russell AR
USA
4813 Posts

Posted - Oct 09 2007 :  3:02:23 PM  Show Profile
Susan my prayers are with you.

Felt and Fabric Crafts
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Aunt Jenny
True Blue Farmgirl

11381 Posts

Jenny
middle of Utah
USA
11381 Posts

Posted - Oct 09 2007 :  3:04:03 PM  Show Profile
I agree with Corrine..you have sure been an inspriration to us all through this! You are the best daughter I have known of. I hope I can handle things and be so good when I am faced with that sort of situation. I know your Mom felt your love. (((((HUGS)))))))) take care of YOU now!

Jenny in Utah
Inside me there is a skinny woman crying to get out...but I can usually shut her up with cookies
http://www.auntjennysworld.blogspot.com/ visit my little online shop at www.auntjenny.etsy.com
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Mumof3
True Blue Farmgirl

3890 Posts

Karin
Ellenwood GA
USA
3890 Posts

Posted - Oct 09 2007 :  4:14:46 PM  Show Profile
Susan- You have been a source of strength for your mom throughout her illness. You are such an example of grace and compassion in times of trial and I will still keep you in my prayers.
(((hugs)))

Karin

Wherever you go, there you are.

Come visit me at:
www.madrekarin.etsy.com

www.madrekarin.blogspot.com
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Cheryl
True Blue Farmgirl

919 Posts

Cheryl
Magalia CA
USA
919 Posts

Posted - Oct 09 2007 :  5:46:06 PM  Show Profile
Susan, I am so sorry. What a blessing you were to your Mom.
Cheryl

I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13
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