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thehouseminder |
Posted - Jun 04 2007 : 09:39:52 AM What do you think? |
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MagnoliaWhisper |
Posted - Jun 08 2007 : 3:10:53 PM I know with my diabetes, I don't always have time to go seek a bathroom out else where. Kidney disease really doesn't "wait".
However, a true story I seen in Wichita, Kansas. Walmart at the time was fairly new in our area (about 20 years ago). And at the time they locked the bathrooms but you could still use them....if you asked. Well, one day on my way home from school we seen a bunch of police and ambulances in the Walmart parking lot, along with news crews! I said I wonder what's happening? We turned the radio on to the country news station (KFDI), and they were saying that some man was holding the electronic dept hostage (now there seems to always be more then one way out of electronics, but not back then!). Finally they asked the man what he wanted. He wanted to pee! Just let me go to the bathroom he asked. And that was all the man wanted. From that day forward that walmart no longer "locked" their bathroom, and then I seen the bathrooms at Walmart get larger and larger, and often even more then one! (back then there was only one and it was by fabrics!). And never again have I seen a Walmart bathroom locked. At the time we lauged and laughed about the whole ordeal! But, this whole thing reminded me of it! I sure hope it doesn't happen again! lol |
happymama58 |
Posted - Jun 07 2007 : 10:24:46 PM I've read this entire thread and found it really interesting. I see both sides of the issue -- that providing a bathroom is important, but it is a service, not always or everywhere a required one. I tried to put myself in the position of the business owner and can see that, in light of some of them having restrooms in out of the way places there could be some liability, but as a person who drives about 2 hrs to get to the store, I truly understand the need to have restroom access. Also, if everyone goes to the place next door, whatever that may be, that really isn't fair to that business, either. Particularly if I'm spending money at Joann's and not at the place with the bathroom.
So I sent a letter to Joann's, politely stating that this is a problem for me. I told them I would, due to the physical situation, be forced to utilize stores such as Michaels and other fabric stores that do have public restrooms and that I'd only be able to stop at Joanns after I had shopped at a store that had *everything* I needed as a shopper, which includes a bathroom. I pointed out that, of course, if I found the items I needed at the first stores (the ones with the bathrooms) that I visited, I'd no longer have a need to stop at Joann's on my way back home.
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FlipFlopFarmer |
Posted - Jun 07 2007 : 12:47:50 PM This was the email reply I rec'd today from JoAnns........
Date: Thu, 7 Jun 2007 11:53:15 -0700 From: REGION1@jo-annstores.com Add to Address Book Add Mobile Alert CC: "Bob Icsman" <Bob.Icsman@jo-annstores.com> Subject: Re: Store Experience - OR
Thank you for your recent letter concerning the issue of closing our store restrooms. We sincerely apologize for any inconvenience this has caused. The closings in our Traditional stores were the result of legal and liability concerns - primarily to those stores that have a restroom in the stock/office area. For the stores that may have a restroom located on the sales floor, it is important that they meet standards as appropriate for a public restroom, and that may not always be the case. It is never our intention to disappoint our valued guest during their shopping visits and we appreciate your understanding while we continue to address the restrooms in our stores. Thank you again for bringing your concerns to our attention. We look forward to the continued opportunity to inspire your creativity! Sincerely, Shannon Jo-Ann Fabric & Crafts
This was the email I sent them yesterday......
topic : Store Experience store location : OR comments : I am writing today to express my dissatisfaction with your new store policy regarding restrooms for your customers. As a Mother with children a restroom is a necessity. Please keep in mind a great majority of your customers are women, often with children or elderly women that often need to make frequent trips to the restroom. I shop at the Oregon City, OR store and my little boy needed to use the restroom but the bathroom door was locked. I thought someone was in there until I read the sign that said employees only. I sought out an employee and explained to her the my little boy REALLY needed to use the restroom and they directed me to use the bathroom at the Burgerville next door as the restroom was now for employee use only. Meanwhile, my son is clearly about to pee his pants. I haven't shopped there since. Pawning your customers off on another business isn't right. If the Burgerville manager knew that everyone at JoAnn's was being directed to their store, they'd probably lock their bathrooms too.
Since clearly everyone has to use the restroom and sometimes unexpectedly, I think it's just good business to offer one to your customers. -----------------
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candismom |
Posted - Jun 07 2007 : 09:16:40 AM One reason for this is because of shoplifting. many stores are going to this policy along with a few other changes. My krogers now has one way in and another way out. To get out you have to go through a checker. I was told by my state that stores don't have to provide bathrooms if they chose not too. It is a service not a right they said. My right is to chose not to shop there I was told. I agree with Sunshine. The goverment need to stay out of this. Hugs, Elizabeth
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thehouseminder |
Posted - Jun 07 2007 : 09:05:47 AM Sunshine, I am so sorry that you felt attacked. I don't think that was anyone's intention. I do see that everyone has passionate feelings on the subject I appreciate both sides of the argument. I think the capital letters you saw had to do with Joann's, not you.
We DO truly value your feelings an opinions and PLEASE never hesitate to give us your two cents.
Lucinda
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ashcordes |
Posted - Jun 07 2007 : 05:47:37 AM Speaking from a health standpoint here....when I was diagnosed with diabetes I was told that NO ONE could refuse to let me use their restroom in a public place, and that if I showed them my medical ID bracelet and they still refused that I could actually call the police on them!!!! I have never had to call the police, but I have had to use my bracelet, and make some threats before. No one can deny you this "basic right".
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Vintage Redhead |
Posted - Jun 07 2007 : 05:32:14 AM Sunshine:
I'll assume it's my post (because I quoted you) that hurt you, and I will apologize up front to say that *I AM SO SORRY* that you felt attacked. *WOW*...that certainly was not my intention and I apologize that my posting left you feeling: a) that your opinion was in any way invalid -- because *EVERY* opinion is personal to the holder and therefore *VALID*; and/or b) personally attacked, as I was only responding to a *very small* portion of your entire piece.
I just wanted to point out (exampling Illinois -- every state / county / municipality is *wayyy* different) there are specific laws which may not make Joann's "corporate" decision legal. Further, I think this corporate decision has not given weight to individual occupancy contracts where they exist (e.g. shopping mall stores versus stand-alone stores.) When companies make these "corporate-wide" decisions, they often do so with admirable intentions but with blind ambition, failing to see rippling ramifications or without taking into consideration *who* the customer base is that they are affecting. This has left *me* feeling personally devalued as a customer...and in my reading on this thread, it appears to have left others feeling devalued as well. Does Joann's understand that while they have a website where women can shop that some would actually *prefer* to drive up to 100 miles to visit one of their stores? And possibly not even a small population of women?
But I was also trying to concede that in no way am I an "expert" - just someone with a strong opinion! Yeah - to me it makes more sense to part with the toilet paper than a sale. But apparently there is something behind the scenes, as Carol indicated, that we are not privy to may make this a worthy venture for corporate. Liability Insurance? Loss prevention? Soap & TP prices? ADA considerations? One too many lawsuits for a wet floor? Who knows...I certainly don't!!
I haven't even had a chance to review my post yet because I was so alarmed that I may have hurt you I just dove right in. MEA CULPA!! Regardless of my intention, the outcome was that you were hurt and felt attacked. For that I am *TRULY SORRY*!! I'll try to do a better job in my posts to make certain that my "passion" comes through without leaving anyone feeling the way you do.
*PLEASE* don't let my ineptitude keep you from expressing your opinion. I (for one!) always like reading what you have to say, Sunshine! There have been *DOZENS* of times that I have read a thread, getting to your post and rethinking an issue because you presented a different view. I really am *SO SORRY* to have left you feeling bad. ~ Kaylyn
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Shirley |
Posted - Jun 07 2007 : 12:04:25 AM Gosh, I have been rereading the 3 pages, and I cant see where anyone was attacked. each one was giving thier opinion. shirley |
Aunt Jenny |
Posted - Jun 06 2007 : 9:52:14 PM Well said Carol.
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Carol |
Posted - Jun 06 2007 : 7:43:54 PM Hello girls. Remember, we need to keep arguments off this forum. It's all too easy to take (or make) things personal when expressing your frustrations with a situation. I don't think anyone here wants to get in a fight over whether Joann's is providing restrooms for the public. Try to remember, also, that there might be reasons behind this decision that you don't know. Even corporations can be overwhelmed by the increasing costs and regulations in today's society, and they might be forced into a decision like this rather than close entire stores. Or maybe it's not even a decision, it's isolated incidents with particular stores. We just don't know the reasons behind the decisions. But maybe we should find out. I think what could help, since most of you feel strongly about needing to have access to public restrooms in one of your favorite stores, is to write the corporate headquarters and tell them how you feel. I would caution you, though, to be thoughtful and kind when you write to them. Remember that there are people just like you and me behind this (and every) corporation name. Farmgirl plowin' through ... Carol
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Terre |
Posted - Jun 06 2007 : 7:30:46 PM Hi Sunshine! You are absolutely right---no one in any of MJF's discussions should have to feel at ease, just because they don't agree with what the majority is posting. So far, I have found the postings on MJF's site to serve the purpose of sharing information, friendly neighbors (though we're far spread), and here to help and uplift each other. Everyone is entitled to ongoing speech with agreement to have gentle, respectful discourse. Differing views can be valuable in giving food for thought for everyone, so thank-you! It's hard to believe that we've had all this over pee. Do you all know what the strongest letter in the alphabet is? "P" not even superman can hold it back :) Take care and I plan to continue to have happy sewing regardless.
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sunshine |
Posted - Jun 06 2007 : 4:57:51 PM Just curious if you are mad at Joann's why am I being attacked here I attacked no one I didn't agree with either side I saw problems on both and agreed boycotting was good please explain this to me. I am not mad I just see aggression being placed tword me instead of tword Joann's.
I have been singled out as bad here. Just because I don't agree with what every one else has said word for word doesn't mean I should be attacked verbally and bold print is screaming in cyberspace so I have now even been screamed out now.
Where has the farm girl mentality of respect others and their opinions gone. I attacked no one I even agreed with you on some points. I don't think what Joann's has done is smart it will loose them clients. But go after them and not me.
Thank you for your time with this sunshine
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thehouseminder |
Posted - Jun 06 2007 : 4:31:23 PM I don't wish to make everyone hopping mad at Joann's, I just think we should let them know what our needs are.
Someone mentioned it was probably a man who made this decision. The first thing that popped into my head was, yeah, the same sadist who invented the "you only get one square of paper" tissue dispenser.
Anyway, yes they are probably violating city code in most areas and just don't realize it. So, in true Farmgirl form, I aim to tell 'em!
Lucinda
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Vintage Redhead |
Posted - Jun 06 2007 : 2:11:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by sunshine
...I am a little confused. Are we talking about making private industries force to have public restrooms. Am I understanding correctly. If that is the case I agree it is an inconvenience but it is still private land and they should be aloud [sic] to say how and for what purposes that land is used for and how.
...NOT NECESSARILY.
See, out here in Illinois, we have these different entities: the IL Department of Public Health, the Kane County Health Department, the CITY OF Geneva (charged with enforcing municipal codes) and other governmental entities who make and enforce laws regarding building and zoning codes and creative financing for blighted areas. [Using my local JoAnn's as an example.] In order for my local Joann's to get building and zoning permits (that is *PERMISSION*) they had to agree to state/county/municipal laws to build their local store and then pass a building inspection to verify that those building laws were integrated into the structure. Some laws (such as public restroom facilities) are dictated and/or affected by *total square footage* of retail space; other are affected by scope of business. My local Joann's is affected by both due to the size of the store and the fact that they offer classes and crops. That means that it is *AGAINST THE LAW* if my local Joann's tries to deny restroom facilities to the general public, regardless of their *RIDICULOUSLY STUPID* corporate policy.
While "...mom & pop..." places don't always have public facilities, they frequently don't have to based upon their square footage and/or scope of business. (Though frequently, they value their customer base so much they will gladly share their facilities. I find this the case if/when asked, particularly when I have child in tow, or someone with me explains a medical condition, or is clearly elderly.)
Many times Joann's are located in shopping centers and operated by REITs. *THEY* are the owners of the land. The contracts dictate how it is used, not a change in Joann's corporate policy.
So, fine. Let Joann's, being a "...private industry..." and all close off their restrooms to the public. Clearly they do not value their customer base. But as e-tailers pick up steam, that may not have been the smartest thing they could have done. Women driving 35, 50, *90* miles to shop at one who may now forego their trips for lack of a public restroom? I would personally stay home and shop online from elsewhere.
Sounds to me like Joann's missed the mark. Hmmmm...ten squares of toilet paper in trade for a sale. Seems like a no-brainer to me. But then what do *I* know? I think it's easier to keep a customer happy and *KEEP* them than try to get them back after they've gone elsewhere. ~ K
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FlipFlopFarmer |
Posted - Jun 06 2007 : 12:27:37 PM I know what you mean ladies. We live about 35 minutes from the JoAnn's I go to and by the time me and my little boy arrive and shop for another 30 minutes or so....it's potty time!!! I went to the bathroom and it was locked. I thought someone was in there until I read the sign that said employees only. They suggested that I use the bathroom at the Burgerville next door. Meanwhile, my son is clearly about to pee his pants. I haven't shopped there since.
I understand the need to control the bathrooms a bit but this is a bit ridiculous! Pawning your customers off on another business isn't right either. If the Burgerville manager new that everyone at JoAnn's was being directed to their store to pee, they'd probably lock their bathrooms too.
Since clearly everyone has to use the restroom and sometimes unexpectedly, I think it's just good business to offer one to your customers.
*Edited to note that I just went on their site to express my dissatisfaction with their new store policy. I think we all should!*
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Kathie |
Posted - Jun 06 2007 : 09:21:52 AM for me.. Joann's isn'tlike most other stores.. & i don't treat it as such.. i know when i plan on going.. & yes..it's a PLAN.. I will be there for quite some time.. & will ponder over quite a few things.. in ALL areas of the store.. Crafts.. paining.. floral.. garden.. & YIPPEE!! Fabric & notions!! i can't recal ever being there when there hasn't been some activity going on.. a class or some sort of even.. sewing.. picture framing.. beads.. SOMETHING.. & alomost always an impromto gathering of ladies.. ( usualy always ladies that find themselves gathered over the pattren books for extended lengths of time.. comparing pattrens.. or another area of the store wher you find yet another group of new friends discussing scrapbooking.. or bead details.. these woman may have never met until just this day.. but will end up spending the rest of their time shopping together here at Joann's! I have made more then a few friends while shopping here! Because it is the store it is.. & allows for us to spend the time we do there.. But the thought that we'd have to leave to go in search of a public rest room.. at possibly a seedy nasty gas station or something.. rather then stay.. & shop comfortably here at Joann's seems amazing to me.. no.. not something illegal.. or newsworthy.. just unbelievable.. from what they have become.. to now what they are expecting of us.. i have written to joann's..& have not had a response yet.. I have three Joann's near enough to me to shop at.. One i don't go to due to traffic.. The one most close to me is the smallest.. & least favorite of mine.. bug will do in a pinch.. My favorite one I manage to get to at least once a week.. So yes.. i do spend quite a bit on money here.. we all do.. Just look at our Aprons alone.. not even any other crafts to see what we do.. So.. We'll see what happens.. & if any changes are made.. Fingers crossed hey girls?
Kathie
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Jana |
Posted - Jun 05 2007 : 7:09:51 PM One other thing occured to me after reading another post. When you build a business it, although it is your private business, it is serving the public as well. Various states and communities have their own laws and ordinances regarding the providing of restrooms to the public. It is a public health issue and here it is determined by the size of the business. Our Hancock was originally built without public access to restrooms but that changed and, altough you have to walk through their stockroom to get there, they do have a public restroom now. And it is handicap accessible. Same with the Mill End Textiles here. You need a key to get in the bathroom (like you can somehow discreetly shoplift a bolt of fabric) but it is available. Heck, I can't think of even the smallest fabric or sewing machine shop that doesn't have a bathroom. Sorry to disagree, but I do think that it is one of the functions of government to provide the public with safe, sanitary conditions while shopping or doing any number of things.
Jana |
mommatracy |
Posted - Jun 05 2007 : 6:33:02 PM First thing this morning when I read this report about Joanns bathroom situation I emailed them to let them know that we really need access to the ladies room or else we may have to take our business elsewhere. I drive 35 miles to JoAnns and good grief I need to know that the ladies room is availble. Anyway I let them know that we need to have access to their facilities. Tracy. |
sunshine |
Posted - Jun 05 2007 : 6:29:49 PM I am a little confused. Are we talking about making private industries force to have public restrooms. Am I understanding correctly. If that is the case I agree it is an inconvenience but it is still private land and they should be aloud to say how and for what purposes that land is used for and how.
It is everyones right to shop some place else in boycott. But I don't think there should be laws enforcing this public restroom that seems a little to much government in peoples lives.
I have been to plenty of mom and pop stores that don't have bathrooms I still frequent them and yes I have 3 children all on the small side of life. I understand the inconvenience.
But if we ask for laws forcing this who is to say what other rights we are forcing people to give up. I don't agree with either side of this issue as it stands.
I would have to know more details. It sounds like it is a temporary thing while they upgrade. If the bathrooms are not good healthy places and they think they should be closed I wouldn't want to use it any way for health concerns.
Not sure how I stand but I don't see Joanns as all wrong and the customer as all right I see both having valid arguments for and against.
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Vintage Redhead |
Posted - Jun 05 2007 : 5:59:13 PM This really irritates me - and I don't even know if my local store is affected or not! Closing restrooms is just *wrong* - and when someone is standing there or seeks out an employee to ask for a restroom because they need go, who *turns away another human being?*
Call me extremist, but I feel like taking my business elsewhere. *Women* spend most of their dollars at Joann's. It is mostly women (not to turn a blind eye to your father, but men in Joann's tend to be an aberration) who shop there and *women* who are most affected with children, bladder control, and menstruation. What - if one of y'all take a class there and Bubba comes to visit, you can't even go tend to the matter? That's total garbage on Joann's part. Shame on their corporate policy!! ~ K
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bramble |
Posted - Jun 05 2007 : 5:17:35 PM Hey Lucinda! I wondered about you, I am sorry to hear you were away recovering and not doing something outrageous instead! Nice to see you back and that you are feeling better!
As for this STUPID policy...don't they know that the only people who still sew are women with bladders the size of thimbles?!!! And we are usually accompanied by children who do not know the meaning of "in a minute"? What is wrong with a corporation who does not want women to be extended the courtesy of a restroom? Good grief! I will most certainly email ( and quite possibly call) the "boneheads". How much do you want to bet the policy was made by MEN?!!! Thanks for the heads up Lucinda!
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blueroses |
Posted - Jun 05 2007 : 4:34:18 PM Ours have been closed for about two years. Hancock has a restroom. I go there now. After driving aways to get to a store I always have to head to the restroom first. Joann's hardly has any fabric anyway. It's all craft and junky yard stuff.
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Jana |
Posted - Jun 04 2007 : 11:31:33 PM Wow, I was in a Joann's in Woodbury, MN today and didn't use the restrooms. I had gone to a Michael's first, since I had made a 90 mile drive to get there. I really don't even like to go to stores that don't have access to a restroom, for personal health reasons. I get nervous about it and that ruins my shopping. I won't go if they close the potties!
Jana |
therusticcottage |
Posted - Jun 04 2007 : 10:44:08 PM Before Joann's was a super store here there was not public restroom. You had to go to Target next door. It always irked me -- a public restroom is just something that should be offered. To me it's part of customer service. The new superstore has a public restroom -- hope it stays that way.
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smoothiejuice |
Posted - Jun 04 2007 : 7:22:50 PM Good evening everyone, just thought I would let you know that I went to my JoAnn's this evening with 3 of my kids, and we all peed in their bathroom....3 times!!! Ours are still oopen here in Bloomington, and our staff is very friendly. Cheers...jess |
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