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| crafter |
Posted - Sep 06 2012 : 05:41:17 AM
We have a new boss at the clinic I work at..she didn't like me in high school and she doesn't like me now. She has been the boss for 1 1/2 weeks, I've been called in her office twice and she has HR coming today to speak to me about my "behavior" Then after that I go to the hospital for a ct because I have been sick for 12 weeks. So if you have a minute I would so appreciate any and all prayers. It's going to be a rough day. Thank you!!
Lori
Well- today I go and see the surgeon and schedule a scope/egd- and hopefully get some direction from there. As for work- there has been quite a turn around, not sure if has been my communication with the VP and drs...not sure but she has been very nice to me... I don't trust it at all and am still keeping notes and saving each and every email. Will keep you posted...Thank you so much for the prayers!
Lori
Gernerosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need! |
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| Bear5 |
Posted - Apr 09 2013 : 6:49:44 PM
Lori, be positive Sweetie. Don't choose to let them break you down. If you need to chat, I can manage some time to call you. Continued prayers. Hugs.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
| darlenelovesart |
Posted - Apr 09 2013 : 2:08:47 PM
Pray Lori
It will help your anxiety attacks. I am praying there along with you.
Take care and God be with you on a new job soon.
Blessings
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... |
| crafter |
Posted - Apr 09 2013 : 1:14:05 PM
I am having one heck of an anxiety attack right now...too bad I don't work in a health field where someone give two cents!
God has promised strength for the day, rest for the labor, light for the way, grace for the trials, help from above, unfailing sympathy and undying love.
We are here to love each other, serve each other and uplift each other. |
| Bear5 |
Posted - Apr 09 2013 : 10:53:19 AM
Lori, praying for you Sweetie!
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
| Fiddlehead Farm |
Posted - Apr 08 2013 : 03:53:12 AM
Prayers to you Lori. Don't let them win.
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I am trying to be the person my dogs think I am.
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
- E. B. White |
| darlenelovesart |
Posted - Apr 07 2013 : 5:52:32 PM
My prayers are with you Lori. Be strong.
Take care
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... |
| crafter |
Posted - Apr 07 2013 : 4:52:36 PM
These people have become like poison to my life- I just dread going into work tomorrow. I have been hitting the pavement to find something that will hopefully be a better fit for me and my family.
Lord, please grant me peace!
Lori
God has promised strength for the day, rest for the labor, light for the way, grace for the trials, help from above, unfailing sympathy and undying love.
We are here to love each other, serve each other and uplift each other. |
| darlenelovesart |
Posted - Apr 06 2013 : 11:06:10 AM
Lori
I will put you in my prayers for changing jobs. Maybe careers too. I bet you can get a great job and love it better so you can have peace of mind. Did you report her? Go to the labor board for harrassment.
Any way take care, take deep breaths, go sit outside with nature, and listen to the birds and bugs and bee's, and the wind in the trees. It does wonders. God is there for sure
Take care ok
love
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... |
| crafter |
Posted - Apr 06 2013 : 09:55:28 AM
I am asking for some more prayers here...I need to find a new job. I can't take the bulling anymore. It messes with my head and heart and my family life is suffering because this person is cutting me down as much and as often as possible. My depression is kicking in full force and I am exhausted. Any prayers that anyone would like to share, I'm certainly grateful!!
Love to all-
Lori
God has promised strength for the day, rest for the labor, light for the way, grace for the trials, help from above, unfailing sympathy and undying love.
We are here to love each other, serve each other and uplift each other. |
| Bear5 |
Posted - Sep 16 2012 : 5:03:05 PM
Lori, how are you doing? I pray things at work are better for you.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
| darlenelovesart |
Posted - Sep 13 2012 : 9:33:38 PM
My prayers are there for you Lori for your heart and medical problems as well as for your job situation.
You take care and give it to God.
hugs and love
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer |
| ddmashayekhi |
Posted - Sep 12 2012 : 09:11:43 AM
I agree, document everything and don't ever lose your temper! Hard to do, but you will benefit greatly if you can stay in control of your temper.
You are in my prayers. I'm so sorry you are dealing with all of this, especially at the same time. Best of luck to you.
Dawn in IL |
| Bear5 |
Posted - Sep 11 2012 : 9:11:09 PM
I'm smiling at your choice. Great for you. Be calm, bring any notes you took, etc... I'll be praying for you. Sending you lots of hugs.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
| ptroupe |
Posted - Sep 11 2012 : 7:34:56 PM
Good for you! Take things with full force and tell the VP about your illness. Allude to the fact that this boss is not helping your condition---which is true. Get the VP scared. I hate to say it, but if the VP thinks you might pursue a court case, things might change. I hate to sound ugly, but you may have to resort to this tactic. We live in a society that is sue-crazy, but sometimes it works in your favor if they are scared enough. Prayers are with you. Keep us posted. Just remember that the VP doesn't want people to feel ill toward his/her company. Bad reputation=no business!!!
Hugs,
Portia
Wishing for the country life! |
| crafter |
Posted - Sep 11 2012 : 10:13:07 AM
Suzanne- that is exactly what happen here- my first boss, who hired me- always said how great I am with patients and trying to build a team..the new boss has worked here also in a different position and whammy... I have a emailed the VP to see what direction I should go with HR- he gave me a different name in HR and said if I need anything further to contact him directly and we will go over my notes and documentation I have..
Thanks again sisters- thanks doesn't seem enough, but I am truly grateful for your support and help!!
Lori
Gernerosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need! |
| LuckyMommyof5 |
Posted - Sep 11 2012 : 05:45:41 AM
Lori,
I am praying for your health and your work situation to improve. I have experienced a work situation like that before. Years ago I got what I thought was my dream job and was very happy and had a great boss and no problems for the first six months. Only, the boss who hired me left and I was SHOCKED when my new boss was a woman I had worked with in a totally different place previously who HATED me for no reason I could ever figure out. When she became my new boss my dream job was over - she criticized everything I said or did and wrote completely nasty memos about me to HR. She did this to a few others in the office, too, and we all complained to HR, but no one cared. Eventually, we all just quit. I look back and think I should have tried harder to stick up for myself because what she was doing was wrong. You hang in there and don't give up.
I hope you feel better, get plenty of rest and see the doctors you need to see. Don't let what she's doing consume you.
Farmgirl Sister #3243
"The real things haven't changed. It is still best to be honest and truthful; to make the most of what we have; to be happy with simple pleasures; and have courage when things go wrong." - Laura Ingalls Wilder |
| crafter |
Posted - Sep 10 2012 : 5:26:26 PM
Well...I have an appointment scheduled with the pulmonlogist Oct 1st, see the surgeon next Tuesday and after I get results from their testing I will see the cardiologist..was a very scary and hectic day..I know that it is early but I am off to bed..I'm exhausted!! Thanks for all of your support!
Lori
Gernerosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need! |
| Bear5 |
Posted - Sep 10 2012 : 07:16:28 AM
Great questions, Roxanna. Lori, I'm still praying for you. Hold your head up high, do the best you can do. Take care of yourself. Wish I could go to work with you. Hugs.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
| rphelps4 |
Posted - Sep 10 2012 : 06:30:19 AM
Your health right now is the most important thing, does your doctor have a plan of action in place for you, does your work offer time off for illness? I have a friend that just went thur the same thing, she has had her surgery and has come back to work 4 hours a day, but her work in a lot of lifting and also on her feet. My thoughts and prayers are with you, please keep us posted. You have a right to get a copy of your work record before this childish boss came there. Roxanna |
| crafter |
Posted - Sep 10 2012 : 05:21:44 AM
Thank you so much friends- I can't even tell you how much comfort I get from all of you.. I'm in knots right now because is will all start again in 30 minutes! Thank you for your prayers for my health and job!!
Love to you all!!
Lori
Gernerosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need! |
| rough start farmgirl |
Posted - Sep 10 2012 : 02:38:04 AM
Lori, Prayers headed your way in this difficult situation. I hope you can have your side heard and be vindicated.
Marianne |
| forgetmenot |
Posted - Sep 09 2012 : 9:45:22 PM
Lori, I hope this week goes better for you. Prayers for you! and, always a hug.
Farmgirl sister #3926
"Courage is not the absence of fear, but the belief that something is more important than fear." Ambrose Red Moon |
| Penny Wise |
Posted - Sep 09 2012 : 5:45:19 PM
just keep your head up, lori--you can arm yourself with the info from the doctor as far as this "grudge" goes.
meantime, what can be done for the hypertension and how can we help?
what other tests will need to be run and how soon can it all be done?
you know that i am sending prayers and hugs!
Farmgirl # 2139
proud member of the Farmgirls of the Southwest Henhouse
~*~ counting my pennies and biding my time; my dreams are adding up!~*~ |
| crafter |
Posted - Sep 09 2012 : 1:57:27 PM
well- I had a ct of my sinus and chest on Thursday the dr just called me today and told me that I have pulmonary hypertension and there is something wrong with my heart...so I have quite a bit of stress right now and I can't quit- I will need my insurance! I feel like the walls are closing in... :(
Lori
Gernerosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need! |
| Bear5 |
Posted - Sep 09 2012 : 09:28:11 AM
Lori, keep us posted. Still praying for you. Tina was right, this chick thinks she is the Queen. Portia was correct, do not quit.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
