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| dutchy |
Posted - Sep 24 2008 : 12:50:00 PM
For me this time. My mom will be gone 2 years on the 26th of September.
I still miss her, esp. the way she was before the dementia hit. I cry and just am sad. Logic, I know. But since my brother lives so far away and my other brother passed away 4 months after our momma, this is a difficult time.
I just wish my brother lived closer you know, just need a hug and a shoulder to cry on I guess.
Thanks gals.:(
Hugs from Marian/Dutchy, a farmgirl from the Netherlands :)
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| oldfashioned girl |
Posted - Sep 28 2008 : 7:18:08 PM
Marian, I am sorry I didn't catch this sooner! I will be praying for you! ((((((((long distance hugs!))))))))
Monica
farmgirls rule!
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| dutchy |
Posted - Sep 27 2008 : 12:38:35 AM
Thanks gals for all the sweet replies.
You know, I wasn't as sad as I was afraid I would be!
I have talked with my brother and he too told me mom is happy now, she is doing better than when she was on this earth, esp. the last couple of years with the dementia.
So I have read a little, watched some tv in the eve. Prayed and went to sleep.
So it wasn't a real bad day after all, thanks to all the prayers.
Hugs from Marian/Dutchy, a farmgirl from the Netherlands :)
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my new BLOG.
I have added "new" creations, take a look :)
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| steph0264 |
Posted - Sep 26 2008 : 3:45:20 PM
Marian/Dutchy,
My prayers are with you. Oh, it is so hard to lose your mother! My mom passed away three years ago from breast cancer. I still miss her so much! Oh how I would love to see her again. She was so young when she passed. You know, I still go out on my back porch at night, and have a talk with her. One day, I hope to see her again. Hugs and prayers being sent your way from North Georgia.
Steph
For what does the Lord require of you, but to do justice, to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?
-The book of Micah, chapter 6, verse 8 |
| Tapestry |
Posted - Sep 26 2008 : 12:14:06 PM
Sendng you special huggzz to raise your spirits Marian and please know my thoughts are with you. Is there something you can do right now to honor the memory of your mother and brother? I planted a tree one year in honor of my ex husband's grandmother. It always brought a smile to my face with warm and loving thoughts of her. Maybe something similar would help bring you some measure of peace and happiness.
Huggzz
Cheryl
Happy farmgirl sister #353
Look for rainbows instead of mud puddles 
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| dkelewae |
Posted - Sep 26 2008 : 06:52:37 AM
Dutchy- Just wanted to let you know that I'm praying extra hard for you today.
Diana
Farmgirl Sister #272
St. Peters MO
Country Girl trapped in the city! |
| Corinnelouise |
Posted - Sep 25 2008 : 11:21:07 PM
Dear Marian, thinking of you and of your mom today, will say a prayer for you to find solace through the day.
Hugs,
Corinne
Sister # 101 |
| Kelly Girl |
Posted - Sep 25 2008 : 10:25:30 PM
My dear Dutch Friend
My heart, my prayers, and friendship goes out to you. Know you are not alone, but are in many thoughts right now.
Bless you always~Kelly
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| berryhill |
Posted - Sep 25 2008 : 8:59:30 PM
Hugs and more hugs. I cannot stand the thought of losing my parents. I know you are so lonely for her, and for your brother too. Even more hugs to you, friend.
Linda |
| Alee |
Posted - Sep 25 2008 : 2:56:39 PM
*Hugs* Oh Dutchy! *hugs*
Alee
Farmgirl Sister #8
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| Lainey |
Posted - Sep 25 2008 : 12:14:19 PM
Marian, I'll be praying for you at this time. I know it must be very hard for you just now. Sometimes remembering the happy times you and your mom had together might help. Sending hugs and warm thoughts your way.
Farmgirl Sister #25
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| dutchy |
Posted - Sep 25 2008 : 11:40:02 AM
Thanks for the prayers.
My brother in Thailand and I will talk on SKYPE tomorrow, so we will be a little closer in this.
We also have put an "in memoriam" add in the paper today, so that is good too.
Hugs from Marian/Dutchy, a farmgirl from the Netherlands :)
http://princess-of-pink-creations.blogspot.com/
my new BLOG.
I have added "new" creations, take a look :)
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| Tammy Claxton |
Posted - Sep 25 2008 : 11:04:00 AM
Big Hugs coming your way. I hope you find comfort from all of your farmgirl friends.
Crafty Bay Farmgirl Chapter
"What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger"
Farmgirl #152
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| Georgiann |
Posted - Sep 25 2008 : 04:45:41 AM
Sending you big hugs and wishing you lots of peace. I still miss my mom every day, and she has been gone 11 years.
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| bushelnpeck |
Posted - Sep 24 2008 : 7:15:23 PM
We have big shoulders just right for crying on and lots of hugs to come your way, add mine to you ~HUGS for the giving~ here's a keenex too...hurting is real and I don't think it ever gets any easier, what a tribute to your Mum and brother to miss them so, you are rich to have had them...will be praying and wishing you a special comfort...Debbie
Farmgirl Sister #324
duty makes us do things, but love, makes us do things beautifully... |
| SusieQue |
Posted - Sep 24 2008 : 6:00:40 PM
A big hug and prayer sent to you.
"A mother is someone you never outgrow your need for"
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| ddmashayekhi |
Posted - Sep 24 2008 : 5:02:00 PM
I big hug to you Marian. Maybe you and your brother can have a long talk on the phone. I'm sure he misses her and you too. I'll say a prayer for you both.
Dawn in IL |
| soapmommy60543 |
Posted - Sep 24 2008 : 4:26:44 PM
I'll be praying and sending hugs. Lost my mom 5 years ago to pancreatic cancer. You never get over it, you just get used to it. I was the same way on 9/11 (her birthday) this year. It's so hard. You;re never too old to need your mama.
(((HUGS))))
Ann |
| dkelewae |
Posted - Sep 24 2008 : 3:10:53 PM
(((((Hugs)))))) Dutchy. I'll be thinking of you and praying that God gives you peace and comfort.
Diana
Farmgirl Sister #272
St. Peters MO
Country Girl trapped in the city! |
| kristin sherrill |
Posted - Sep 24 2008 : 1:44:56 PM
Sending warm thoughts and hugs your way, too, Dutchy. There's nothing like a mother, is there? |
| Contrary Wife |
Posted - Sep 24 2008 : 1:11:45 PM
I am so sorry you are feeling blue Marian. My mom is gone also and I know it can be very hard. Sometimes a girl just gets lonely. I'll be thinking of you and sending you my hugs. Hang in there girl.
Teresa Sue
Farmgirl Sister #316
"Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly." The Dalai Lama |
| Annika |
Posted - Sep 24 2008 : 1:06:16 PM
Hugs to you Marian. My mama is gone too and I miss her a lot. I know how hard it can be
Extra hugs girl!
Annika
Farmgirl sister #13
Mud Hen Queen
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