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| Shirley |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 12:22:54 AM
My 12 year old GDs father died this morning from a massave heart attack. Today is her Birthday,we had hoped it would not happen on her birthday, but it did.
Our DD is divorced from him, but she was hysterical when she called to tell us,
Of course I had the GD with me taking her to the dr cause she is sick(upper respitory infection) so I had to tell her her father had died. I feel very sad for Payten and hope you all can keep her in your prayers and thoughts.
He was one of the best father I have seen for along time. they were very close
Thanks very much
Shirley |
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| Shirley |
Posted - Mar 09 2008 : 12:34:26 AM
Corinne,
Thats a great idea, thanks for thinking of us to
Shirley |
| Corinnelouise |
Posted - Mar 08 2008 : 11:12:25 AM
Praying for all of you tonight Shirley. Maybe when you can deal with the pain of the loss and the memories, planting a living tree Payten could go to talk to her dad when she is sad would help to deal with the sadness ? It helped me lots to have a living and growing memory of a dear one a long time ago.
Corinne
Sister # 101 |
| farmgirl blessings |
Posted - Mar 07 2008 : 8:55:07 PM
So sorry. Sending up a prayer for sweet Payten.
Blessings, Lea
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| blueroses |
Posted - Mar 07 2008 : 11:19:36 AM
Hugs and love going out to Payten. So sorry to hear about this.
"You cannot find peace...by avoiding life."
Virginia Woolfe |
| frannie |
Posted - Mar 07 2008 : 05:40:01 AM
please tell payten, hugs and prayers are coming her way from texas. i wish there was something more we could do for her.
she will be in my thoughts and prayers, and you too shirley, i know when our little ones hurt, we hurt too.
love
frannie in texas
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| myfairlady636 |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 3:45:44 PM
Thoughts and prayers extended to your loved ones at this sad time
My Fair Lady Farm Girl Sister # 92
"Our lives have meaning, purpose and direction"
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| Firemama |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 11:57:25 AM
I am thinking of Payten
Mama to 2
FarmGirl# 20
Rich or Poor, It Dont matter We're all the same everybodys hungry in a different way....
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| Shirley |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 10:59:41 AM
Thank you everyone.
If you want to sent a card that would be nice. I think she would feel special . She felt so sick going to the dr , then after I told her about her father, she was just sobbing and said this was the worse BD she ever had. Just to much to put on a little 12 year old at one time.
please email me private cause I dont want to put my addy for the world to have.
Thanks again
Shirley |
| Meg |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 08:38:44 AM
Little Payten is in my thoughts.
MaryJane's daughter,
Meg
megan@maryjanesfarm.org |
| KYgurlsrbest |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 08:31:43 AM
That's very sad--will be thinking about this little one. Gosh, I'm hoping that eventually, she can remember good things about him around her birthday.
Farmgirl Sister #80, thanks to a very special farmgirl from the Bluegrass..."She was built like a watch, a study in balance ... with a neck and head so refined, like a drawing by DaVinci"...
NY Newsday sportswriter Bill Nack describing filly, Ruffian.
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| Annika |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 07:55:48 AM
Oh how very sad. My thoughts and a warm farmgirl hug goes to all of you.
I'm so sorry that this has happened on her birthday. Poor child
Prayers of peace to all of you
Annika
Farmgirl sister #13
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| Marcy |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 07:52:47 AM
So very sorry to hear this. I lost my own father when I was only twenty months old and so I know the pain of losing a parent. I like Mima's idea. Is there anything that we can do? Send her a card or a little treat of some sort? Is there anything special that she likes? Maybe we can all help to cheer her up a bit.
Take care and please let us know,
Marcy
It is such a happiness when good people get together-
and they always do-
Jane Austen- Emma
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| Tina Michelle |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 07:49:21 AM
so very sorry for your granddaughter.hugs to you all.
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| mima |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 07:37:38 AM
Is there anything we farmgirls could do for her? A card or some little something to let her know how many people care? As a grandma myself-I know this must break your heart!!!!
"No pessimist ever discovered the secrets of the stars,or sailed to an uncharted land or opened a new heaven to the human spirit." Helen Keller |
| CountryBorn |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 07:07:17 AM
My heart goes out to your granddaughter. It is terrible that she lost her Dad, but to have it happen on her birthday is just so sad. Her birthday will always have a bittersweet ring to it now. This will be a very hard time for her. I am so glad she has a loving Mom and Grandma to help her deal with this. It just breaks my heart to have chlildren lose their parents, it changes your life forever. God Bless her and all your family. The fact that he was such a wonderful Dad will always be with her.
Mary Jane
There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do. Freya Stark |
| Miss Bee Haven |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 06:17:25 AM
I'm so sorry, Shirley. And on her birthday, too. Poor baby. I'll keep her in my thoughts and prayers, for sure. Keep holding her close.
Farmgirl Sister #50
"If you think you've got it nailed down, then what's all that around it?"
'Br.Dave Gardner' |
| Lainey |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 06:16:05 AM
Shirley,
Payten and you all will be in my prayers, please give her a hug for me. How sad for it to happen on her birthday. I hope she feels better soon from her upper respitory infection.
Farmgirl Sister #25
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