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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: grandaughter prayers |
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Shirley
True Blue Farmgirl
734 Posts
Shirley
Olympia
Wa
USA
734 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 12:22:54 AM
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My 12 year old GDs father died this morning from a massave heart attack. Today is her Birthday,we had hoped it would not happen on her birthday, but it did. Our DD is divorced from him, but she was hysterical when she called to tell us, Of course I had the GD with me taking her to the dr cause she is sick(upper respitory infection) so I had to tell her her father had died. I feel very sad for Payten and hope you all can keep her in your prayers and thoughts. He was one of the best father I have seen for along time. they were very close Thanks very much Shirley |
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Lainey
True Blue Farmgirl
2401 Posts
Elaine
Waco
Kentucky
USA
2401 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 06:16:05 AM
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Shirley,
Payten and you all will be in my prayers, please give her a hug for me. How sad for it to happen on her birthday. I hope she feels better soon from her upper respitory infection.
Farmgirl Sister #25
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Miss Bee Haven
True Blue Farmgirl
4331 Posts
Janice
Louisville/Irvington
Kentucky
USA
4331 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 06:17:25 AM
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I'm so sorry, Shirley. And on her birthday, too. Poor baby. I'll keep her in my thoughts and prayers, for sure. Keep holding her close.
Farmgirl Sister #50
"If you think you've got it nailed down, then what's all that around it?" 'Br.Dave Gardner' |
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CountryBorn
True Blue Farmgirl
1545 Posts
Mary Jane
New York
USA
1545 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 07:07:17 AM
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My heart goes out to your granddaughter. It is terrible that she lost her Dad, but to have it happen on her birthday is just so sad. Her birthday will always have a bittersweet ring to it now. This will be a very hard time for her. I am so glad she has a loving Mom and Grandma to help her deal with this. It just breaks my heart to have chlildren lose their parents, it changes your life forever. God Bless her and all your family. The fact that he was such a wonderful Dad will always be with her.
Mary Jane
There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do. Freya Stark |
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mima
True Blue Farmgirl
1573 Posts
1573 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 07:37:38 AM
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Is there anything we farmgirls could do for her? A card or some little something to let her know how many people care? As a grandma myself-I know this must break your heart!!!!
"No pessimist ever discovered the secrets of the stars,or sailed to an uncharted land or opened a new heaven to the human spirit." Helen Keller |
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Tina Michelle
True Blue Farmgirl
6948 Posts
Tina
sunshine state
FL
USA
6948 Posts |
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Marcy
True Blue Farmgirl
2701 Posts
Marcy
Tiverton
Rhode Island
USA
2701 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 07:52:47 AM
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So very sorry to hear this. I lost my own father when I was only twenty months old and so I know the pain of losing a parent. I like Mima's idea. Is there anything that we can do? Send her a card or a little treat of some sort? Is there anything special that she likes? Maybe we can all help to cheer her up a bit. Take care and please let us know, Marcy
It is such a happiness when good people get together- and they always do- Jane Austen- Emma
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl
5602 Posts
Annika
USA
5602 Posts |
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KYgurlsrbest
True Blue Farmgirl
4853 Posts
Jonni
Elsmere
Kentucky
USA
4853 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 08:31:43 AM
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That's very sad--will be thinking about this little one. Gosh, I'm hoping that eventually, she can remember good things about him around her birthday.
Farmgirl Sister #80, thanks to a very special farmgirl from the Bluegrass..."She was built like a watch, a study in balance ... with a neck and head so refined, like a drawing by DaVinci"... NY Newsday sportswriter Bill Nack describing filly, Ruffian. http://www.buyhandmade.org/ |
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Meg
Moderator/Farmgirl True
974 Posts
Meg
Idaho
USA
974 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 08:38:44 AM
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Little Payten is in my thoughts.
MaryJane's daughter,
Meg megan@maryjanesfarm.org |
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Shirley
True Blue Farmgirl
734 Posts
Shirley
Olympia
Wa
USA
734 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 10:59:41 AM
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Thank you everyone. If you want to sent a card that would be nice. I think she would feel special . She felt so sick going to the dr , then after I told her about her father, she was just sobbing and said this was the worse BD she ever had. Just to much to put on a little 12 year old at one time. please email me private cause I dont want to put my addy for the world to have. Thanks again Shirley |
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Firemama
True Blue Farmgirl
1731 Posts
Amanda
Medical Lake
WA
USA
1731 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2008 : 11:57:25 AM
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I am thinking of Payten
Mama to 2 FarmGirl# 20
Rich or Poor, It Dont matter We're all the same everybodys hungry in a different way....
http://myfarmdreams.blogspot.com/
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myfairlady636
True Blue Farmgirl
226 Posts
Janice
Fort Bridger
WY
USA
226 Posts |
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frannie
True Blue Farmgirl
2246 Posts
fran
bonham
texas
USA
2246 Posts |
Posted - Mar 07 2008 : 05:40:01 AM
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please tell payten, hugs and prayers are coming her way from texas. i wish there was something more we could do for her. she will be in my thoughts and prayers, and you too shirley, i know when our little ones hurt, we hurt too.
love frannie in texas
(http://farmfolks-frannie.blogspot.com/) (http://abunnystale.blogspot.com/) |
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blueroses
True Blue Farmgirl
1323 Posts
Debbie
in the Pandhandle of
Idaho
USA
1323 Posts |
Posted - Mar 07 2008 : 11:19:36 AM
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Hugs and love going out to Payten. So sorry to hear about this.
"You cannot find peace...by avoiding life." Virginia Woolfe |
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farmgirl blessings
True Blue Farmgirl
777 Posts
Lea
TN
777 Posts |
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Corinnelouise
True Blue Farmgirl
957 Posts
Corinne
France
957 Posts |
Posted - Mar 08 2008 : 11:12:25 AM
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Praying for all of you tonight Shirley. Maybe when you can deal with the pain of the loss and the memories, planting a living tree Payten could go to talk to her dad when she is sad would help to deal with the sadness ? It helped me lots to have a living and growing memory of a dear one a long time ago. Corinne
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Shirley
True Blue Farmgirl
734 Posts
Shirley
Olympia
Wa
USA
734 Posts |
Posted - Mar 09 2008 : 12:34:26 AM
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Corinne, Thats a great idea, thanks for thinking of us to Shirley |
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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: grandaughter prayers |
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