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| 82kygal |
Posted - May 15 2012 : 7:58:27 PM
I am having "girl"Problems and a hysterectomy is an option. I have a huge fibroid in my uterus. Just wondering if any of you have had this done and was it a good thing or a bad thing? Thanks for your input.
With God, all things are possible. (Mark 10:27)
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| KanMogirl |
Posted - Oct 30 2012 : 6:59:45 PM
I had one in 2004 and have not regretted it. My periods were becoming predictably unpredictable; one month extremely heavy and the next hardly anything. Plus I had a lot of pain, so I had a complete hysterectomy and I haven't regretted it. My husband really noticed the change in my moods, too.
I would rather wear out than rust out.----Richard Cumberland |
| Katlady93 |
Posted - Oct 14 2012 : 2:12:38 PM
i afree Kennie Lyn, i didn't know how bad i had felt until i felt good!! it was one of hte best things i had done. i just wish i had done it sooner.
Some dreams are worth the risk it takes to make them real.
Don't tell me the sky's the limit when there are footsteps on the moon. |
| westfork woman |
Posted - Oct 11 2012 : 2:49:07 PM
The surgury was the best thing I have ever done. A couple of months later, I told the Dr. I had not known how bad I felt until I felt good after the operation. He told me he didn't know how anyone could have gotten used to the pain I was in, but I did, for aoubt 15 years. After, I didn't have kids at home, and I just didn't do anything for about 6 weeks. I never left the house for 3 weeks. We have 5 miles of really rough road before we get anywhere, so it was a really good excuse. I think I felt so good afterward, because I didn't rush the healing process.
Greetings from the morning side of the hill. |
| 82kygal |
Posted - Oct 02 2012 : 07:55:32 AM
Bonnie, that is awesome you recovered so fast. I feel better than I have in a very long time. Glad to hear you are doing so well too. Nice not to have to worry about periods or cancer in those parts anymore.
With God, all things are possible. (Mark 10:27)
What ever you are, be a good one. (Abe Lincoln) |
| Bonnie Ellis |
Posted - Oct 01 2012 : 8:15:24 PM
Laura: I had one when I was 46 and I am really glad I did. I had a tumor the size of a cantaloupe and there was endemetriosis besides. I was out playing volley ball 2 weeks later. I have two boys and I have never regretted it. I also had Everything removed because my doctor was a cancer doctor also and recommended it. I am 70 now and still feel great.
grandmother and orphan farmgirl |
| 82kygal |
Posted - Oct 01 2012 : 3:30:16 PM
Well, looks like I am all healed. Got the go ahead to go back to work tomorrow. Its been interesting but I haven't felt as good as I do now in years. Best choice I have ever made.!!!!
Hi Lisa, I do remember you and how could I forget that snoring? LOL That was such a fun time. Hope you and your sis are well!
With God, all things are possible. (Mark 10:27)
What ever you are, be a good one. (Abe Lincoln) |
| rough start farmgirl |
Posted - Aug 31 2012 : 03:04:49 AM
Laura,
So glad your story is having a happy ending. Hope you continue to heal quickly. Thanks for sharing, you have so much in common with so many farmgirls.
Marianne |
| JerseyGirl |
Posted - Aug 29 2012 : 02:54:58 AM
Glad to hear you're healing, Laura! I had mine done 4 years ago and it was the BESt decision ever. You'll see how much better you feel in no time...your quality of life will come back and it's soooooo nice to never have to worry about a period again! |
| Annie S |
Posted - Aug 25 2012 : 2:52:38 PM
Laura, so glad to hear your doing well these days. Yes, it does take some time to get back to feeling better, but having the family wait on you for a change will do you good. When the Dr. says not to do anything, he means it. This is your time to recover and build your strength back up. Also time do just sit and catch up on your reading or handywork or just watching movies you've never had time to watch. The angles are watching over you taking care of you. Sending you blessings. |
| Sitnalta |
Posted - Aug 25 2012 : 12:44:22 PM
Laura, I am so happy to hear that your surgery went well. I can't imagine! A soccer ball! Wow!
hugs
Jessie
"Wonder Woman hasn't got a cape, she just turned her apron around"
Farmgirl Sister #235 |
| 82kygal |
Posted - Aug 24 2012 : 11:05:34 AM
Well, here I am four days after surgery and slowly feeling better. Still very sore and slow but I am not allowed to do anything for two weeks. Not a bad deal really:) The Dr. removed my utreus that was about the size of a soccer ball. (no wonder I didn't feel good) glad that is gone.
Jessie, it is a hard decision and only one you can make. But when you are so uncomfortable all the time. I say life is to short. I didn't realize how bad mine was until they got in there. I don't know how long it has been like that either. At least six to 8 months that I know of. I always had cysts so I am sure that was all part of it and will only get worse. I was always just happy about it(the surgery). Of course I am 47yrs old. I can see where you are coming from with no more babies emotions and I feel bad for you. That is a toughy. I did get scared down to the last week or two before. Like what if its worse than they think, what if I don't make it.... I did a lot of praying and found peace with it and comfort with God. I left it all in his hands. So either he didn't want me right now or he has lots of plans for my future I don't know but... Thanks to him and my wonderful Dr. and nurses, I am here shuffling around like a pregnant turtle.:) If you ever need to talk I will be around. Thanks for you all being there for me. :)
With God, all things are possible. (Mark 10:27)
What ever you are, be a good one. (Abe Lincoln) |
| Simple Living |
Posted - Aug 24 2012 : 04:27:32 AM
Laura, you will be feeling better before you know it. Please keep us posted
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| Sitnalta |
Posted - Aug 19 2012 : 7:39:28 PM
Laura! I so needed to read this! I am up for the same thing. I am only 31 and I have no other option. The cyst has taken over my "girly" parts and it is how I can get rid of it. I have read all of these posts and am in awe of how much I needed this! I am so confused, scared, mad, hurt, kind of happy (just think no more periods...ever!) and sad (no more babies...ever)
I have a tentative surgery date and am still in the emotional rollercoaster acceptance stage. Thank you for being so honest and sharing your concerns!
Hugs and Love
Jessie
"Wonder Woman hasn't got a cape, she just turned her apron around"
Farmgirl Sister #235 |
| Annie S |
Posted - Aug 19 2012 : 7:12:51 PM
Laura, good luck tomorrow and hope that you'll be feeling better in no time.
Had mine done 30+ years ago and was down for a month, but when I got back on my feet I felt so much better both physically and mentally. Have never regretted getting it done - was the best thing I ever did for myself.
Take care of yourself and enjoy the pampering for awhile. All the best to you. |
| nubidane |
Posted - Aug 19 2012 : 5:50:06 PM
Praying for you Laura!! Remember me? My sis & I are the ones that snored in the tent next to yours at miss wilma's!
I, too, have had girl part issues, but am still intact. If one more thing happens, I am having them YANK IT ALL OUT! |
| Fiddlehead Farm |
Posted - Aug 19 2012 : 5:02:45 PM
Laura,
I had one when I was 26 years old. I was bleeding for over a year and a half. I had already had two children and my tubes tied. They left my ovaries because I was so young. I have never regretted it! Just take it easy and don't overdue it. I am now 51 and never looked back. I once had a menstral cycle but I traded it in for a motorcycle!
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| marlee |
Posted - Aug 18 2012 : 4:00:39 PM
Hi Laura, I had my hyster about 8 yrs ago. I was happy. In hospital 3 days went home layed on the couch for two and up and going slowly for a few but it was a complete blessing.
Marlee
God is the painter, he paints the picture. And his son builds it, for he is the Master Carpenter! |
| 82kygal |
Posted - Aug 18 2012 : 3:29:27 PM
Well, here I am three months later and going in on Monday for my total hysterectomy. I am a little nervous but excited to get it overwith so I can start living again. I spent last three months getting shots to try and shrink this little monster and it has worked. It is down to about five pounds now and Dr. feels like it is time. So here we go!!! Thanks much for all your comments and helpful hints, tips and info.
With God, all things are possible. (Mark 10:27)
What ever you are, be a good one. (Abe Lincoln) |
| Madelena |
Posted - May 26 2012 : 5:14:59 PM
Hi Laura,
I also had a hyster several years ago. I had fibros pre-menopause, but my doctor told me they would shrink when I became menopausal and the hormone levels dropped. They did. However, I did NOT experience pain with them. Just couldn't leave the house the first day or two of my cycle due to impossible heavy bleeding.
Had 4 pregnancies and my organs were prolapsing. In layman's terms, that means they didn't want to stay where they belonged. My doctor is very conservative, as well as brilliant. He won't recommend surgery unless one NEEDS surgery. He recommended a hysterectomy with reconstructive surgery. I suggested the ovaries needed to go. He didn't object at all.
Perhaps because of the insult done to my bladder I had to cath for several days, which was not difficult at all. I don't think that happens with just a hysterectomy though. I had vaginal surgery, not abdominal. Don't know if that makes a difference.
I told my doctor afterward: "Well, that pretty much takes care of female cancer risks, right." His replay was: "Pretty much." .. not "yes". I was concerned so I did some internet searches and found that there still is slight risk (rare?) of "an ovarian female cancer" after a hyster -- actually an abdominal cancer due to the migration of ovarian cells at some point pre-surgery.
I get a CA 125 test every few years.. It can have a LOT of FALSE positives, but can also be a MINOR diagnostic tool, since it can be influenced to show an elevated number due to other not-so-serious medical conditions, some of which one would want to have checked out anyway.
If the doctor leaves the cervix .. you still will need Pap Tests..
I tend to be VERY conservative and alway err on the side of prevention in my health care needs. My doctors are good and work with me, but I also trust their judgement. ( I do a lot a research and we made informed decisions together on my health care choices.) We actually have a lot of very Christian Doctors at our hospital, and they are very compassionate. Helps.
As far as recovery, because of the need for reconstruction--my doctor told me complete healing would take 100 days.. It did. I went back to work after 8 weeks (an impossible, high stress job with 10+ hour days). I did decided to go to a quilt retreat for 4 days a few weeks before I returned to work to start building up my stamina. I ate really well and tried to have LOTS of fruits and veggies to heal and also to stay regular (important).
Surgery is not really fun.. the pampering part by friends and relatives is nice.. We women often try to do everything for everyone in our lives.. This is the time to enjoy their pampering. And if you get bored.. the farm girl sisters are just a click away. Take care !!
Mary Madelena
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| 82kygal |
Posted - May 26 2012 : 10:21:57 AM
Thanks Annie and Marlee for your input. So glad of all the positive feedback. My main concern now is not turning into a crabby old lady. But everyone I have talked with is so happy it was done. Now I just want to get it over with. I have to wait and start taking shots to shrink the fibroids first. So it will be end of August before surgery. Right now I have to wait for my period to start to get the first shot and wouldn't you know it. Its late!! I guess that would be stress
With God, all things are possible. (Mark 10:27)
What ever you are, be a good one. (Abe Lincoln) |
| Annie S |
Posted - May 25 2012 : 4:12:32 PM
Holy cow, Joan. You're a walking miracle. But so glad everything turned out well and they discovered the cancer and saved your life.
I had mine done about 25 years ago and I wish I had had it done a lot earlier. Like you Laura, I was in a great deal of pain and just finally had enough. My doctor wanted me to take time to think about it and I told him I had been thinking about it for years, so let's get on with it. Was off work a month (was divorced at the time, so didn't have to worry about taking care of a hubby thankgoodness) and just took it easy and rested and it just felt so wonderful. Had teenage kids and knew if I remarried I was not going to want any more kids anyway, so lets do this. It's a big decision and it's only one you can make for the situation you're in, but sounds like everyone here has had good results after their operations. We all know what you're going through and are here for you to talk to and understand. Blessings to you. |
| marlee |
Posted - May 22 2012 : 5:59:29 PM
I had mine 9 years ago. I had Fibroids 3 and one was big as a grapefuit. They took everthing out. And it has been great.
Marlee
God is the painter, he paints the picture. And his son builds it, for he is the Master Carpenter! |
| ModernishHomemaker |
Posted - May 22 2012 : 5:34:39 PM
My mom had one to prevent ovarian cancer after having some genetic testing (my grandmother and great grandmother died of ovarian cancer) and seems to be doing quite well. She was already menopausal, so it wasn't a big change for her. I know it is something I may need to consider at some point - but hopefully my genes hold off until after I have kids of my own.
I'm just a 20-something girl making a home for me (and my dog) and waiting for the family to fill it!
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| Simple Living |
Posted - May 16 2012 : 10:49:25 AM
Hi Laura, I had a total hysterectomy because I was afraid of ovarian cancer. Um, I also had to have a blood transfusion because of my bleeding. My red cell was down to only 6 when it should be I think between 10 and upbove. You have to realize if you are in that much pain and discomfort and screws up your daily life then "yes" go for the operation.... You asked about my lung cancer. Actually I had kidney stones so huge that it was impossible to pass, so I went to the hospital to have them surgically removed. So because of that the hospital needs to do an xray to make sure I didn't have pneumonia or whatever else they look for. After I had the kidney stone surgically removed, my doctor came in the hospital room to tell me there was a spot on my left lung. He seemed a little concerned, but knowing him for many many years, and he knew I never smoked, he didn't make an issue of it. But I had to get a PET SCAN and CAT SCAN to look further into my lung. That's when the doctor said it didn't look good. So I had to go to another hospital in Manhattan, New York where they performed immediate surgery to have my tumor removed. It's really too long of a story lol, I'm sorry I wrote this much lol. But all is well now and just think about yourself and what feels right for you
A Friend is Someone who Reaches for your Hand, But Touches your Heart!
Farmgirl #3842 |
| 82kygal |
Posted - May 16 2012 : 10:24:04 AM
Wow Joan what a lot on your plate that was. So glad everything worked out for you!How did you find out about your lung? My biggest worry is cancer. I had a friend die right out of high school to overian cancer.
I went to Dr. this morning and she wants to do a total hysterectomy. I have fibroids the size of the palm of your hand. I am tired of being in pain all the time. I just think at this time of my life I don't need to try and preserve anything. My friend at work, his mom had a hysterectomy they left in her overies and then ten years later she died of overian cancer. I don't want to have to worry about that.
Marcy, was the bleeding from being on your period or did it just start bleeding? That is scary. I have to wait three months before surgery because they are going to try and shrink the fibroid so I don't bleed to much during surgery. The Dr. said the risk is to high right now. I am just wanting to get it over with. I have to much living to do to keep feeling so bad.
With God, all things are possible. (Mark 10:27)
What ever you are, be a good one. (Abe Lincoln) |
