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jujubee |
Posted - Jun 03 2006 : 12:27:00 PM Hello experienced moms!
I just had my second daughter a couple of months ago and she is having some trouble with colic. I am breastfeeding her and trying to experiment with some natural colic treatments. Does anyone have any suggestions or solutions that worked for them?
I hate to see her in pain! Help!
Thank you! Julia
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_Rebecca_ |
Posted - Jun 25 2006 : 2:07:23 PM Wow, this has all been very interesting. I am getting ready to have my 4th, so I'm reading up on dealing with fussy babies.
My first child had terrible terrible gas. He would scream and cry. Our doctor then, who is (THANK GOD) no longer our doctor told us that babies do not cry about gas. I being the young, naive and ignorant mother at the time rode it out. Years later, my son still has issues with gas and constipation. He is now on Glycolax everyday. That helps him to be regular. If any of you know of herbal remedies that work like Glycolax or Miralax, I'd be interested in knowing. Just because it would be nice to wean him off the stuff. If only I had known then that he really had issues and the doctor was stupid, it would have made such a huge difference in his early years. It's really kind of sad.
With my 3rd child, she would get very upset in the evenings and wouldn't settle down very well. I started to follow a very strict routine with her and nursed her and woke her at the same times each day and that seemed to help. I don't remember how long she was fussy that way in the evenings.
Getting ready to go through it all over again! GULP! Every child is so different. Just like people. ![](icons/icon_smile_blush.gif)
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jujubee |
Posted - Jun 25 2006 : 12:13:28 PM Well, gals, little Hannah is 3 months old now. I think she is starting to turn the corner with her tummy aches. I have stopped milk products and chocolate (oh, the things we do for our kids!) and I do believe that has helped. I am also eating yogurt (thank you, Zahara! I had been on antibiotics recently for mastitis, so your advice was a great help). She doesn't seem to be hurting anymore, which is good.
I think I have figured out that when she cries during a feeding it is because she is full. She is simply not hungry anymore and she is trying to tell me (in a very dramatic way!). Once I quit trying to "make" her eat, she coos and smiles at me as if nothing was wrong. If she does this, I usually end up pumping my milk and storing it. She seems quite happy with this outcome and proceeds to happily coo and smile and then sleep a full nap. I guess this is okay, since she is still gaining weight. I will talk to my pediatrician about it at her 4mos. check-up.
I tell you! Kids are all different aren't they? My first daughter ate like a champ and still does. They are different in just about every way!
Thank you, everyone for your wonderful advice and help. It has sure meant a lot to me, and has helped me get through some tough days!!
Julia
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AnnieT |
Posted - Jun 18 2006 : 12:56:30 PM Ah, the many flavors of advice. There is no set rule of things you must avoid eating to avoid colic. Be aware of what you are eating (you might try a food journal), so you can notice any changes in your daughter's behavior. For example, I learned very early that I could not drink any alchohol while nursing my daughter, until she was about 5 months old. With my son, it doesn't bother him, but it took me a while to figure out he doesn't like it when I eat pickles. Some people say what gives YOU gas will go thru your breastmilk to give your baby gas. Don't know if that's true, but its something else to think about.
Here are the things that helped us: Make sure baby isn't hot: In our home at this time of year that means baby is in a diaper only. Swaddle baby: It took me a while to figure this one out with my daughter. My kids both liked it best when she was swaddled tightly with her hands out. Try a different nursing position: When baby really gets going, I stand up and put baby in an upright position position to nurse, then walk and bounce around the house. It is rather akward at first, but usually the change is enough to get baby latched on and soothed, then I can sit back down after a few minutes. Tummy time: Sometimes putting baby down and patting her back will help get that enormous, elusive burp. The great outdoors: even when its hot, miserable, windy, muggy, etc., a change of scenery and breath of fresh air can do wonders.
Best of luck, Julia. Remember, this too shall pass.
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jamsnbread |
Posted - Jun 18 2006 : 10:47:20 AM Gripe water helped my sons tremendously. You can find it at most health food stores and online. It takes horrible like licorice but it works wonders.
Hope that helps!
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Zahara |
Posted - Jun 07 2006 : 2:03:41 PM Julia, I am not a mom - but I make connections - I posted quite a long one under Fibromyalgia. I wish to add to the above other suggestions.
Your favorite foods are dairy and chocolate. And you live in Florida - I understand it is kind of damp down there. Your baby sometimes cries through a feeding - that is strange - like she is getting something that she does not like. Also was there any antibiotic treatments lately, for you or her? You do need to stop the dairy, except for plain unsweetened yogurt. In fact have lots of yogurt - perferably made from organic milk. And a probiotic - goods ones are always refrigerated - versus just sitting on the shelf In order for anyone to digest foods the enzymes have to be there. Pasturized milk is just plain glob. Whereas yogurt is alive again (and digested by those yogurt cultures). Or cultured buttermilk. If possible (it is not where I live) get some raw milk - you drink it.
And if you got to just have chocolate (it IS a very complicated chemical and does soothe the soul) then buy organic chocolate only.
And of course as you already know - lots of love - yiha :-) from all of us
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jujubee |
Posted - Jun 07 2006 : 12:38:15 PM Thank you all for the honey warnings! I did know not to give honey to babies, but I was glad to read the article on it. I had no idea how bad it could really be! So, no worries, I will not be giving Hannah any honey!
She is doing a little better I think. She has a tough time during the day, and will sometimes cry through a feeding, which I don't understand. I am trying to avoid milk products, which is difficult to totally eliminate! hope this helps some. I am also giving her some natural, organic gripe water. This seems to help some. When she gets going on her crying fits, though, not much will calm her down!
I am going to check with our family chiropractor to see if he does baby adjustments. He has adjusted my older daughter before, though when she was 2 years and only on her neck. Maybe that will help her.
Thank you, everyone!
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LJRphoto |
Posted - Jun 06 2006 : 12:06:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by blueroses
Just one thought - please - no honey for a baby under 1 year of age.
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blueroses |
Posted - Jun 06 2006 : 11:17:37 AM Just one thought - please - no honey for a baby under 1 year of age.
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therusticcottage |
Posted - Jun 06 2006 : 09:14:51 AM Julia -- I can certainly feel for you. My last one was colicky. We tried everything! The doctor finally had to put her on a very special and expensive forumla. Within 24 hours she was like a new child.
I would highly recommend that you stop any cow's milk products if you are breastfeeding and see if that helps.
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FarrarFarmgirl |
Posted - Jun 06 2006 : 07:09:37 AM Hi, Julia
Here is one more suggestion. It is along the same lines as Michele's except I used to make a weak mint tea. If you have spearmint growing or know someone who does, dry a few leaves in the oven and then steep them in hot water. Make a bottle with it and just a touch of something to sweeten it, a little sugar or honey dissolved in the tea while it is steeping. This seemed to work quite well for her, mint will help settle the stomach. Even now if I'm feeling queasy in the stomach I will drink some mint tea, it really does help.
The other thing we would do for out daughter is to wrap her up nice and tight in her blanket, like a cacoon and then hold her close. We spent quite a few hours walking and holding her to get her through the worst of it. And it usually hit about the same time each day - supper and bed time. It only lasted a couple months, which we were fortunate, because I know for some it can be much worse, but maybe it was that way for those who relied only on medication and just couldn't get any relief from it, not realizing there are other alternatives.
My grandmother also told me that babies have a preference as to wheter or not they like to be rocked either on their backs or draped over your arm (lenghtwise) on their stomach. I never knew this, but it sure made a difference when we figured that out with each of our kids. Not just for colic, but just for comfort.
Our daughter was the only one that was colicky. Unfortunately, she got very used to the bottle and then didn't want to nurse any longer, so I was only able to nurse her for 3 months. But I know they make alot of different bottle nipples to choose from these days that are much closer to actually nursing so it might not be too much of a switch and not a problem. For me that was 25 years ago - alot has changed in the baby world since then.
I hope you find a source of relief for your little one and yourself. It may be one or a combination of a couple, but hopefully it will not take too long for something to work a miracle for you both. I remember just how challenging it can be, so my prayers will be with you for peace, patience and strength to get through this temporary condition. This too shall pass. Hang in there, and rest assured it will be okay.
In His hands, Lynda L.
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jujubee |
Posted - Jun 05 2006 : 12:24:07 PM Thank you, everyone, for your helpful suggestions! I will try them!
I sure hope I don't have to give up milk and chocolate (my two favorite foods!) heehee :)
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westernhorse51 |
Posted - Jun 03 2006 : 8:52:05 PM Julia, I don't know if this is ok for everyone, but my daughter was so bad w/ colic and I was at my wits end. Someone told me to make a weak fennel seed tea FOR HER to drink once or twice a day. I didnt do it at first but one night it was so bad I made it & gave it to her. I used it all the time after that. For her it worked. I never made it very strong but it was just enough. The Dr. said it was nonesense but NOTHING he gave her or me ever worked. He also said it wasn't going to hurt her, so I felt better. it was an older woman who told me, she used it and her mom & grandmother used it. Dont do ANYTHING w/out checking w/ your Dr. first of course.
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Horseyrider |
Posted - Jun 03 2006 : 6:52:27 PM Here's one I wish I'd heard of when my kids were little. Have the baby adjusted by someone who is a chiropractor certified for pediatrics.
Through winter boarding my horse, I met someone who is licensed for chiropractic in people and in animals. I'd had my horses worked on before, and I got to know here that way. Over time, I became her patient, and she became my client. One thing she made me understand over time is that the digestive tract is served by many, many nerves. These nerves go through the spine. If one of the vertebrae is subluxated, then the signal traveling to the brain is altered. What could possibly be harder on the human body than to be cramped in a uterus and then extruded with such force at the end of gestation???
I had both of my grandsons adjusted. The oldest got his first adjustment within hours of birth. The younger was a day or two old. Neither ever had any colic episodes, prolonged crying episodes, or illnesses. I wish so much I'd thought of it when my kids were little, because my older daughter screamed until she was four months old.
You will find a great deal of support for organic living and natural treatments in a chiropractor's office. Mine also uses herbs and homeopathy as well as cold laser, percussors, etc. She has quite a few patients who make a trip through her office before taking the new baby home. Both moms and newborns are adjusted, and both get to start those first months more comfortably.
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LJRphoto |
Posted - Jun 03 2006 : 6:09:01 PM Julia, I found that the best cure was prevention and tried paying attention to things I ate corresponding to the bouts of colic my daughter had. I couldn't eat chocolate or drink milk.
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Nancy Gartenman |
Posted - Jun 03 2006 : 1:42:15 PM Sometimes the warmth of a hot water bottle wrapped in a soft blanket can help, lay her on her side so she kind of leans on it,or when holding her , put it between you and her. see then you will be warm too. I say hot water bottle, but anything warm, they have so many new products these days, just be careful that whatever it is, isn't to hot. NANCY JO |
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