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| Betty J. |
Posted - Nov 16 2008 : 2:54:00 PM
Has anyone here ever had their home broken into by thieves? I have and it isn't pleasant. In fact, it's downright scary. The reason I ask is that my neighbor came over this morning and she was crying saying that her home had been broken into. In fact, I saw the thief (not up close and personal) but the car he was driving. I didn't see him take anything out of the house, but the brazen so-and-so came back twice. He stole everything of value that he could find. Good thing they had the gun safe locked up. They had just gotten a new flat screen TV and, of course, that was gone too. She had gotten out some of her good jewelry to take with her to Mexico and that was missing also. It was all around strange.
Since they have two daughters that are constantly moving in and out, I thought that was what was taking place. Dummy me!
Let me know your experiences.
Betty in Pasco |
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| homemom |
Posted - Dec 18 2008 : 10:55:49 AM
Thomasina~How scary!!!!
I have an alarm system. My husband had it installed when he was traveling alot for work. This year he won a flat screen tv from his job and twice right after we got it the alarm was set off. It is motion and heat activated so it wasn't the curtains moving that did it but that was all the police kept saying it was. I think they gave up trying because of the alarm. I am so glad we have it but it's still scary. We also pulled out all the bushes near the windows. That way there isn't anywhere for them to hide.
Ruth
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| thomasina |
Posted - Dec 17 2008 : 7:49:18 PM
unfortunately my husband and I were robbed last week while we were sleeping. They took money and nothing else. They were in the room next to our bedroom upstairs creeping around. Our house is really big so you can't really hear . Now we have an alarm system and feel fortunate we were not hurt. |
| happymama58 |
Posted - Nov 30 2008 : 06:46:52 AM
Betty, you're not a dummy at all. I remember a television show a few years back in which each week they had professional security people and former criminals show how crimes are committed. I especially remember them breaking into homes in broad daylight and people just watching, doing nothing. For example, the thief would stand and fiddle with the lock on the front door, actually picking it.
Later, when the bystanders were asked why they didn't do anything, they said things like they thought the person was just having trouble with their key or something (I can't remember everything, just the stuff that for some reason stuck in my brain). The witnesses figured nobody would be so brazen as to break in in broad daylight. The security guys and former criminals said that is often the fact that thieves count on.
You just reacted like most other people would. I'm so sorry for your neighbor, but please don't beat yourself up over this.
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| Annab |
Posted - Nov 30 2008 : 03:36:38 AM
It's for these reasons in addition to natural disasters I wish we could afford a gun safe. Wish we could lock the photos up too.
We don't really have much of value, but like some have already said, the crack-heads will steal anything. Hubby has had stuff stolen by his own no good kin. We keep padlocks on one of the barns and store stuff out of sight. I also cover the computer table with a cloth when we are gone.
And luckily I don't own many good pieces of jewlery....yet. mom still has everything.
Our dog is loose in the house when we are gone. She does bark at vehicles she doesn't recognize, and at times has even barked and growled at hubby when he put on a ski mask. I'd feel really badly if anything ever happend to the dog.
I remember when my grandmother's house was broken into. She also had a safe. It was small, but heavy enough so not even 2 people could pick it up very easily.
It's always scary and makes you feel violated.
And no, there are better means of providing for family w/o having to take from others. |
| Lainey |
Posted - Nov 19 2008 : 09:57:11 AM
Our house was broken into this past August. They stole some items of value, especially sentimental like our wedding rings and all my jewelry (some had belonged to my mother and grandmothers). They took several of my husband's cameras that he'd had for some years. But the worst part of it was the loss of the feeling of security I had before. We felt totally invaded, someone was in our house, looking at and touching our stuff without permission. One thing that we were thankful for is that they didn't hurt our dog. I had trouble sleeping for awhile afterwards and sometimes still I have problems with it.
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| LindaEllen |
Posted - Nov 16 2008 : 8:14:34 PM
I'm sorry to hear about all this. So far so good here but I think its b/c my house is a mess and it looks already broken into. At least thats what I tell company that drops in. Its my plan.
But you know what troubles me is when older women and my Mom to will be in the store looking for food and not watching their handbags in their carts. My Mom says she ties the bag to the cart, Oh Mom they can just take the cart and off they go with your purse while your looking at a bag of beans or something.
With job lay offs and things getting tight. It might turn the best into taking. We all need to mindful, and take care of whats ours.
If we had better neighborhood watches,not being alone, and having a dog to let you know aware plus maybe frighting off the would be theif, maybe.
Also stricter laws that favor the victim and not the creeps. But those on drugs have no thought process other then getting their fix. So they would be the most harmful I would think.
Now I'm going to turn this around a bit, what if things did get super bad, would you steal if you did everything that you could to get food for your family and the answers where always NO ? Could a Mom that needed milk for her kids be as bad as the drugy in her quest? I'm just wondering and praying to that that never has to happen.
Linda
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| Amie C. |
Posted - Nov 16 2008 : 7:27:44 PM
I've never had my house broken into, but my car was stolen from right in front of my house at dinner time. I was only inside for an hour, and when I came back out the car was gone. I didn't see or hear a thing.
My husband used to live in a bad neighborhood, and I can tell you for a fact that crackheads will steal anything. They smashed his car window once to get 2 old cassettes and a pair of drugstore sunglasses. And they left a pair of pliers in the driver's seat, so he was actually ahead money in the end.
I'm just glad I've never been robbed by someone with a weapon. My dad had kids point a gun at him, and when it turned out that he only had $4 in his pocket, they beat him within an inch of his life. Fortunately, he knocked the gun away early in the fight and they never got it back into play. I don't like to go out of the house these days. Every time somebody stops me to ask the time or bum change, I expect that my time has come. |
| momshopsalotta |
Posted - Nov 16 2008 : 7:00:20 PM
We had our home broken into about seven years ago. We believe they were young people (or very stupid people) because they took bottles of inexpensive wine and even a twelve pack of beer. They took the majority of jewlery in my jewlery box leaving the real pearls and taking some chunky gold appearing necklaces not worth much at all. I feel blessed that they did not hurt my dog but will forever mourn the loss of my mothers wedding and engagment rings. This was three months after her death. Not something I ever want to experience again. |
| wild daisy |
Posted - Nov 16 2008 : 6:48:52 PM
I have had the misfortune of being robed. This happened about 15 yrs ago down in the Salt Lake area. We were renting a condo at the time. They only broke into the storage area where we parked the car. They stole all of my husband tools and anything of value stored in there. It was about $2,000.00 worth of stuff. The funny part was I heard them drop the tool box late in the night and got up to look outside but forgot to put on my glasses. I could only make out a truck leaving. I then went to bed and later the next morning noticed the door on the storage area by my car was not shut. You feel violated. We never got anything back. We did learn from this and now have renters insurance when we rent.
Madelynne |
| Alee |
Posted - Nov 16 2008 : 4:13:59 PM
Oh no Betty! Are you able to give a description of the car to the police?
Alee
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