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Penny Dyke Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 6:42:13 PM
has anyone had someone with lungcancer thats has survived? my father has it and getting chemo and radiation, they cant' operate he is in week four of a six week treatment radiation five days and chemo one.I just don't know what to do for him.
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mickib Posted - Jun 20 2012 : 2:10:04 PM
Penny, I'm so sorry that you lost your dad. You and your mom are in my prayers.
delicia Posted - Jun 17 2012 : 07:21:26 AM
Penny, I am sorry for your loss.
rough start farmgirl Posted - Jun 15 2012 : 7:47:14 PM
Penny, I am so sorry for your loss. How wonderful you were with him through it all. He must have been very proud to be your father and grateful. I know you will show the same love to your mother at this difficult time. You are in my prayers. The pain and loss does lessen, but it takes a lot of time.
Marianne
rksmith Posted - Jun 15 2012 : 3:54:46 PM
My condolences for your loss, Penny. At least now he is at rest and not in any pain. Keep your heart full of love and memories and he will always be with you.

Rachel
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delicia Posted - Jun 15 2012 : 3:00:30 PM
Penny, I am so sorry about your Dad. My Mammaw had lung cancer and lived for many more years after being diagnosed. She was always active and happy. I hope that your Dad has that same out come. I will Pray for you and him. He is already Blessed to have such a loving Daughter.
GirlwithHook Posted - Jun 15 2012 : 2:08:39 PM
Penny, I am so sorry.



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marlee Posted - Jun 15 2012 : 11:55:38 AM
Penny so sorry for the loss of your Dad.I will keep you and your family in my prayers at this different time.
Marlee

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jan49829 Posted - Jun 15 2012 : 05:13:37 AM
Penny, so sorry for your loss, I agree with you, cancer is the cruelest thing for anyone to have to go through it. You and your family are in my prayers.

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Penny Dyke Posted - Jun 15 2012 : 03:35:38 AM
We lost the battle Dad passed Sunday june 10th it was a 18 month battle I never want to see anyone go through that again.Mom and I were both with him when he passed. cancer is the cruelest thing that there is.October was to be their 50th anniversary.Thank you everyone for your prayers.
laurentany Posted - Jan 17 2012 : 5:44:23 PM
Oh Penny,
I am so happy to read about your Dads progress! That is just fantastic! I am so happy for you. Thanks for keeping us posted! Continued prayers are coming your/his way!
Smiles,


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GirlwithHook Posted - Jan 17 2012 : 08:01:37 AM
That is wonderful to hear!



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tangledthreads Posted - Jan 17 2012 : 06:25:28 AM
What absolutely great news!! I am soo happy for you!!! xoxo


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crafter Posted - Jan 17 2012 : 05:46:44 AM
Penny-
What great news- thank you for sharing. I believe there is a higher power and when HE wants someone home HE will call. The power of prayer is amazing!! I'm so glad that he is feeling a tad bit better and has goals for the summer!! Take care and we will keep praying!
Lori
Penny Dyke Posted - Jan 17 2012 : 05:36:48 AM
we finally have some GOOD NEWS Dad got kicked out of Hospice because he has Improved to much for them to keep coming back, he has gained some weight back and strength he is even looking forward to ride his motorcycle this summer, he has an appointment with the docter this week to see whats going on they can't believe hes doing so well. I hope we get more good news. Thank You everyone for Your Prayers and Support Hugs Penny
rksmith Posted - Dec 04 2011 : 2:14:25 PM
Thanks ladies. Penny you are definitely in my thoughts. If there is anything else I can do please let me know.

Rachel
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forgetmenot Posted - Dec 04 2011 : 07:01:55 AM
Penny, you and your family are in my prayers. Farmgirl hugs.

Rachel, I am so sorry for your loss. Wrap your good sweet memories around you for comfort. You are in my prayers also. Hugs.

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Penny Dyke Posted - Dec 04 2011 : 06:15:48 AM
Rachel
I'm so sorry for your loss!
Penny
rksmith Posted - Dec 01 2011 : 7:21:38 PM
Penny, I am so sorry for what you are going through. No one should ever have to deal with this. My mom just passed away on Sunday and was buried yesterday due to lung cancer. Not trying to depress you more but I do know what you're going through, although she opted to not do the chemo/radiation as the MD told her it would not do any good (and I doubt she would've done it had he said it'll help). We were fortunate to have hospice come out as well, they are so awesome. Keep him as comfortable as possible, keep him as happy as possible. Enjoy all the seconds that you do have together and cherish every breath. I will keep you in my thoughts.

Rachel
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musicmommy Posted - Nov 30 2011 : 06:51:31 AM
I am so sorry! I absolutely hate cancer. It's affected so many families including my own. My heart breaks for you as I know the intense grief that comes from losing someone you love at this time of the year.

Your family is in my prayers this day.

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jessabelluh Posted - Nov 30 2011 : 05:49:27 AM
I am so sorry that the chemo and radiation didn't shrink it! Your family is in my thoughts. *hugs*

~jess
Penny Dyke Posted - Nov 30 2011 : 05:34:54 AM
Dad finally made it home from the hospital after two weeks,he had his scan to see the results of the chemo and radiation it did not shrink the cancer there is no change.he is recovering from the radiation and can eat good now, but they said there is nothing more than can do and the cancer will spread more than likely to his brain and blood all we can do now is keep him comfortable they have no idea how long hes got.hospice has come in to help as we are keeping him home.thankfully I live right next door I,m their only child. Mom is really having a hard time.Dad will be turning 70 in January.Thanks everyone for your prayers and hugs!Penny
classygram Posted - Oct 06 2011 : 06:41:51 AM
Penny I'm crying along with you sweetheart! I lost my daddy 5 yrs. ago from brain cancer. They wanted us to put him in a nursing home but he wanted to stay home. I just pretty much moved in to help mom with him. If I had it to do over, I'd do the same. The little talks and looks and smiles were such blessings to me. And when you couldn't understand what he was saying, I could make out the "I love you too". We knew that the Lord was with us at all times. And after all his suffering, I finally told the Lord that we know its time he go home with him. And it was so peaceful, knowing there was no more pain. And as you said, I hate Cancer, but its a uncontrolling illness, you never know, there are many!!!!! who can survive it. Just try to keep a postive mind. I hope that you can hug on to all the love and prayers coming your way, and that you are in our hearts and minds and prayers. Hug, Brenda

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Penny Dyke Posted - Oct 06 2011 : 05:21:11 AM
Dad is still in the hospital hes now has a bacterial infection in is intestines they can't get it under control, he will no longer eat, blood presure is extreamly low. hes says he just wants to die! he wants mom and I to bring him home so he can,what do you do this is tearing us up! I hate seeing him suffer so much.I've cryed so much i don't have any tears left.
rksmith Posted - Oct 03 2011 : 5:58:03 PM
Over the years, I have had several residents in the nursing homes where I worked (as a nurse) live way longer than expected by the MDs with lung cancer (and other cancers). My mom was just told on Wednesday that she has cancer in her lung and around her kidney. We go for the biopsy results on Thursday. We have already started a holistic treatment for her (I'm also an herbalist among other "things") and she is feeling better over all. She's already said that she doesn't want to do the chemo/radiation due to the nasty side effects. Hopefully her doctor will honor her wishes (if he doesn't he'll have some serious issues) should she change her mind, I'll support her 100% although in all honestly I feel deep in my bones that a holistic approach is better. Hopefully your dad will pull through, I do wish him well and you also. Remain strong and confident in your love for him. Think positive thoughts. It really does help. Try to have him drink even if he doesn't want to eat anything, you can give him healthy smoothies, ensure, boost, etc.

Rachel
Farmgirl Sister #2753

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Annika Posted - Oct 03 2011 : 08:47:08 AM
Cancer is evil. Praying for your dad and your family.



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