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| knittingmom |
Posted - Dec 12 2009 : 09:29:48 AM
I'm expecting baby #4 this summer and this little one was definitely unplanned, in fact I thought we were done at #3. I am having mixed feelings. The timing is not good and I know God has sees how the future unfolds and I'm trying to trust that. My husband is still out of work and I'm the only one working full time. I just began a new job and I'm not certain how they'll react, I'm waiting until I being the second trimester to break the news. I won't be taking any form of mat leave, we need somebody to work and my husband will just continue to be Mr. Mom (which he's doing a very good job at).
I'm just feeling a lot of worry right now. Just a quick prayer would be appreciated, just for things to work out.
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| caro |
Posted - Jan 07 2010 : 09:44:12 AM
Mary, that was a great post! Knittingmom, the best to you. Sometimes the unexpected turns out to be the best thing that ever happened! |
| knittingmom |
Posted - Jan 02 2010 : 12:10:48 PM
Thank you Mary, I am certainly trying to take care of myself (body and soul).
"There is no foot so small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world" |
| MaryLD |
Posted - Jan 02 2010 : 05:57:53 AM
Dear Knitting Mom,
I am a midwife, and I have seen families adjust to unexpected pregnancies over and over again. Babies bring a certain amount of grace with them! The problems occur when families try to sweep everything under the rug, ignoring the stress and strain, staying in the denial stage of the grief that comes along with knowing the sacrafices that are going to be made in the times ahead. Odd as it sounds, there is grief that goes along with pregnancy and birth, always. There is always a loss of identity, and almost always a failed meeting of expectaions. This is because birth is a part of life, and life is imperfect. Depression is common in pregnancy and the postpartum period, so take good care of yourself and follow the steps to recovery if you are feeling symptoms.
Try to do one nice little thing for yourself each day- time in prayer, a walk, a bath, a cup of tea without work or family pressure. A little joy can go a long way.
I wish you the very best. Your wisdom in contacting the group for support is a really good indication that you are watching out for your personal needs, and your family's wellbeing.
My Best,
Mary LD
Texas
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| knittingmom |
Posted - Dec 25 2009 : 11:40:41 AM
Thank you all. I know it's silly to worry so much ( but I am a self-admitted worrywart). I know in my core that all will work out somehow, it's just getting there.
"There is no foot so small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world" |
| 5 acre Farmgirl |
Posted - Dec 22 2009 : 10:33:31 AM
My prayers and thoughts are with you...
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| Beverley |
Posted - Dec 20 2009 : 6:58:07 PM
Relax and enjoy this time. if your husband is being a good mr. mom and in these trying times at least one of you has the job, you are blessed. God does know what he is doing so take a big deep breath and let it out slow and please have fun with this new baby. It is a blessing, they all are unplanned or planned. God planned it so there really are none that are unplanned....
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| Claude09647 |
Posted - Dec 16 2009 : 6:43:49 PM
Congrats! I have always wanted a big family. I hope you have a merry Christmas and i'm sure everything will work out just fine in the end. Babies are blessings :)
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| ruralfarmgirl |
Posted - Dec 16 2009 : 08:59:59 AM
Congrats.. I am a mom of 4 and I really love it!
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| FebruaryViolet |
Posted - Dec 16 2009 : 06:50:43 AM
Anne-Marie, some good friends are experiencing this very same thing...and you know what? Maybe I have on Rose Coloured Glasses since having Violet, but I think this really IS an unexpected blessing for you and your family. You will make it, your dh will continue to be Mr. Mom, just like mine is and you will cherish every single second of this new life. The universe picked you to be this baby's mother for a reason!
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| simplyflowers |
Posted - Dec 14 2009 : 06:47:24 AM
This gift from God is wonderful news!!! Babies are a blessing and bring unexpected light into your life that with it will bring clarity. How exciting!!!
Jamie
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| Ga Girl |
Posted - Dec 13 2009 : 07:43:19 AM
Praying for you and your family, congrats on a new little one! Blessings,Karen
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| Lessie Louise |
Posted - Dec 13 2009 : 03:38:11 AM
Blessings to your family. God knows what he is doing. Prayers your way, Carol
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| Bear5 |
Posted - Dec 12 2009 : 7:33:56 PM
Congrats on the new coming baby! God makes all things right. Trust in Him. God Bless.
Marly
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| Roxy7 |
Posted - Dec 12 2009 : 7:33:54 PM
Prayers and hugs offered. |
| jinia |
Posted - Dec 12 2009 : 7:13:23 PM
Sending my good thoughts your way to deal with your unexpected blessing! |
| tea_lady_tammy |
Posted - Dec 12 2009 : 10:15:47 AM
I am lifting you up in prayer. Know that God is right there with you and your family.
blessings
Tammy
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| Niamh |
Posted - Dec 12 2009 : 10:14:54 AM
I'll be thinking of you. Unplanned pregnancies can be a challenge for sure. Things will work out for you. Big hugs.
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