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jenbove Posted - Apr 07 2008 : 4:26:32 PM
April 15 is Husband Appreciation Day, so tell us what is wonderful about your hubby - and then tell him too!!

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Hideaway Farmgirl Posted - Apr 25 2008 : 10:11:53 AM
Uh oh, Jonni - sorry your DH pulled himself out of the Great Husband category - I sure hope he apologizes to you, that's an awful thing to say to one's spouse, and even worse to hear.
Do you think he can hear the sound of many farmgirls throwing tomatoes at him right now...(except that you would catch all those tomatoes and then whip up a tasty gourmet meal for him)? Anyway, I hope he comes to his senses.

Jo

"Wish I had time to work with herbs all day!"
ruralfarmgirl Posted - Apr 21 2008 : 11:37:18 AM
what a GREAT thread...I too have a Mr. Wonderful.. he is the kinda hubby that if I were to say, "boy wouldnt it be awesome if we had a trellis for my grapes"..... I would find in his quiet times, designing a trellis for my grapes ( which by the way, the trellis looks awesome)....There is simply NOTHING he cannot do, whether it is plumbing, electical, wood work, welding - His farmboy ways have given me the freedom to be a farm GIRL....he is the quiet type, so I generally just notice that whatever it was, that I thought I wanted.. is now a reality.. we have been married 25 years.. so I have gotten really good at doing much of the "things" for myself.. and I was thinking this weekend as we were building an arbor - how fun it was to both be out in the shop cutting and designing - he also loves to can.. he got that from his dad - who is amazing! Good country "jean's" I guess.

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goneriding Posted - Apr 18 2008 : 9:40:44 PM
"Got a great husband", huh?? Well, what time is it?? I'll let you know!!

Honestly, tho, I do have the best (most of the time) but he can get under my skin in a NY minute!! In June, we'll have been married 2 years and at times...well, I'm tellin' ya, I've thought of some illegal things! but always came back round right! But, I have to say, he tries, goodness, he tries to fix things when things aren't right. He's paid for my ex's mistakes and is still here. He would die for me and I for him. I don't want to be here without him, I'm going to die first so I don't have to live without him. Selfish, you bet but I can't see life without him...even tho at times I could drop him off a pier.

Yep, I'd say I have a great hubby!

Winona ;-)

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gafarmwoman Posted - Apr 15 2008 : 2:13:05 PM
I am so thankful for my hard working husband. We have been married 33 years and still going strong. Some days I wonder if I will make it through some of the projects he thinks up for us to do, but so far, so good.
I think I will tell him when he gets home that I appreciate him. (and when is wife appreciation day??)lol..

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queenofdreamsz4u Posted - Apr 15 2008 : 2:01:29 PM
Thanks Meg! And for husband appreciation day I'm taking him out to dinner to a romantic spot.


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willowtreecreek Posted - Apr 15 2008 : 08:55:18 AM
My husband is so great! I feel like I talk about him all the time but I just love him so much! We spend most of our time together and I wouldn't want it anyother way! We work together (well at the same place) we hang out together and truly enjoy being with eachother. The couple that are our best friends is the same way so we also enjoy being with them. If we are ever apart it is usually because I am doing something with Dee and Richie is off with Randy! Richie is not really the romantic kind and doesn't "suprise" me with gifts but he is always willing to get me what I want and need and also supports me in my quest towards a more self-sustaining lifestyle. He is kind and loving. Although I do wish he would be willing to give me a back rub every once and a while I couldn't ask for anything more! I love you Richie!

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Meg Posted - Apr 15 2008 : 08:42:11 AM
Well, happy anniversary, Stephanie!!

And happy husband appreciation day to all. I decided to make my hubby cookies in honor but realized I would just eat them all, so maybe something special for dinner.

(we visited friends in Seattle this weekend, a 5+ hour drive and decided to head back at Stella's bed time so she could just sleep the whole way. Well, just about 20 miles from Moscow at 100 am, we ran over something and blew out our tire. With no flashlights and 3 attempts to keep the jack from slipping in the gravel, my hubby finally got the spare on! The amazing part: Stella slept the whole time and it was almost kind of romantic to be out in the middle of no where in the middle of night with my knight in shinning armor!! )

MaryJane's daughter,

Meg
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queenofdreamsz4u Posted - Apr 14 2008 : 6:00:55 PM
Well...long story short...took me 30 years but I'm finally married to the "love of my life"...Thomas is just the most handsome, sexy, most wonderful sense of humor,loving, considerate, generous...on and on. Just everything about him is a dream come true.

So now I can celebrate twice this week...tomorrow for the appreciation day and on Friday the 18th for our 2nd wedding anniversary. I'm almost 50 years old but Thomas makes me feel like a young girl again!


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Alee Posted - Apr 11 2008 : 8:00:14 PM
That's awesome Rebekka!!

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Rebekka Mae Posted - Apr 11 2008 : 7:41:43 PM
Erik has really outdone himself today! Last summer I found a pop up laundry dryer for the yard through our local freecycle group- simple, practical and needing a hole to rest in. I could never make up my mind where it ought to go...will there be a hoop house there next summer? a chicken coop perhaps?
SO- since I was breaking my drying rack carrying them in and out he came up with a WONDERFUL solution. He bought me a gorgeous wrought iron umbrella stand and 8 heavy duty tent stakes and voila- my laundry was hung in 10 minutes. It looks great, required no cement or digging and I can move it if that spot doesn't get enough sun. It is sturdy and the kids can't knock it over because of the way the stakes are holding it in place. My hubby is a real honorary backyard farm girl for this one!!!!

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Meg Posted - Apr 10 2008 : 07:35:11 AM
Alee, you are so sweet to say so!

Dawn, a man apron sounds like a great husband appreciation gift...thinking of you.

MaryJane's daughter,

Meg
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4forMe Posted - Apr 10 2008 : 06:01:08 AM
First off, thank you all for your kind words, thoughts and prayers. They mean a lot.

I was thinking of making my husband something for husband appreciation day. He has mentioned wanting a sack or bag (sort of messanger style) that he could take with him back to our garden for his hand garden tools. I think he wants it to wear across his shoulder, I was thinking of maybe making him a waistdown apron with pockets out of a heavier canvas material that he could wear and have his tools in the pockets. I don't know....I'm still trying to decide which way to go with this.

It doesn't have to be fancy by any means, just something to carry back to the garden and it will get dirty but needs to hold up with washing.

Sewing, knitting, gardening mom of 4.
cathy cobblestone Posted - Apr 09 2008 : 9:45:28 PM
First off - Dawn, so sorry for your tragic loss. Prayers are being said for you.

Sounds like so many of us are truly blessed. My Shaun is a quiet and kind man with a tremendous heart. We were best friends for years before we married and have been "hitched" for 11 amazing years. We have one precious son, Casen, who is five - and after his birth is when I "truly" understood how much I loved Shaun. He is an incredible dad.

Shaun is just a good man, extremely hard-working, kind-hearted, God-fearing,and always grinning - I wouldn't trade him for anything.

I'm truly grateful for the blessing of him in my life! Oh, and as for the husband appreciation day - I'm pretty sure we'll be celebrating at the T-ball park - I know he wouldn't want it any other way!

Blessings to you all!!! Cathy

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Alee Posted - Apr 09 2008 : 9:24:34 PM
Meg's Lucas really is a gem! He is a one of a kind man and a really amazing daddy!

Alee
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Meg Posted - Apr 09 2008 : 11:53:28 AM
What a fun thread, to read how lucky so many of us farmgirls are! My Lucas is the very BEST in my book. I just fall more and more in love with him as time goes on. But this week it was catching him and Stella (our one and a half year old) dancing in the living room. Melted my heart...
So, what are you all doing to celebrate Husband Appreciation Day? I would love to take him on date...we'll see if Nanny Jane is up for babysitting.

MaryJane's daughter,

Meg
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Utahfarmgirl Posted - Apr 09 2008 : 11:23:14 AM
Jonni let me know if you are trying to start a family. I can help.

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P

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KYgurlsrbest Posted - Apr 09 2008 : 11:18:00 AM
Edited because, as I was told this morning, I'm a terrible wife and person. So, today, I don't feel he's so fabulous.


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corporatefarmgirl Posted - Apr 09 2008 : 11:17:04 AM
Where do I start. My DH and I have been married 30 years, this year. We married 3 months after we met and everyone said it wouldn't last He is an AMAZING father. Everyone always use to ask how I manage 5 kids and I would point to him. I mean he helped with everything. Even after putting in long days on constructions sites.

He delivered our 4th child in our home, during a snow storm that left us with over 6ft of snow and no phone. Just he and I... TALK ABOUT BEING THERE!

Cards for no reason, flowers out of the blue. He can fix and make anything. But the biggest thing is his commitment to me and our marriage. NO matter what I have his support. I thank God that I have him



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Utahfarmgirl Posted - Apr 09 2008 : 10:58:31 AM
Dawn, I'm surrounding you with peacefulness and healing.

I also have found the perfect choice for me. Stuie's #2 but #1 as far as being a man goes. He is a scientist and sometimes challenges me and my belief system, but he makes me think and grow and that's was one thing I asked for. He's kind and strong and he tells me he loves me a hundred times a day. And he shows it, too, doing things around the house that he knows are hard for me to do, without my having to ask. He just goes ahead and does them quietly. So many things to love about Stuie and so much to be grateful for.

Patricia

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Tammy Claxton Posted - Apr 09 2008 : 09:54:52 AM
Prayers being sent our to you, Dawn....

My husband is the love of my life! Too bad it took 1 rotten marriage and another 12 year crappy relationship to find him! He is always there for me and the kids and never once had second thoughts about being with me. I brought 3 children along with me into the relationship and they all consider him their dad. We now have 2 more children and he treats them all with the same love and devotion. He is such a good man and helps everyone out (sometimes too much..lol) I look forward to sitting on the porch swing growing old together!

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Alee Posted - Apr 08 2008 : 8:09:24 PM
Dawn-

I am so sorry for the loss of your child! My thoughts are with you as well.

My husband can be stubborn and hardheaded, but I think he is wonderful. We have been together for coming on 8 years, though married for less than one. He works hard to support our family, and rarely gets angry with me. He supports me in my endeavors and plans. There is so much I could write an essay- but I must say I have the biggest teddy bear for a husband :D

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blueroses Posted - Apr 08 2008 : 3:01:01 PM
Dawn,
I'm so sorry to hear of your pain. My thoughts are with you.

My dh is wonderful too. I'm always dragging him off on adventures or asking if he would mind if I went off with one of my friends for a day of shopping or beauty. He treats my like a queen but I treat him like a king so it all works out. He complains about traffic, his job, whatever, but he never complains about me. If I'm doing something that might be annoying or he thinks is goofy, he'll just joke about it. I would like to say I don't deserve him, but I do deserve him (especially after my first husband)!


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Mumof3 Posted - Apr 08 2008 : 06:29:38 AM
Dawn, I am so sorry for your loss. I'm glad that you have such a loving husband to care for you right now.

I have always said that I married the best of the best. Poor thing, he has to put up with all of my crazy ideas and whims! I don't think anyone else would, that's for sure! But yet, he does, and you rarely hear him complain. (That's because he mutters to himself!) Still, he plugs along, helping me when I need it and somehow, it all just works.

Karin

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Farm Girl 2 Posted - Apr 08 2008 : 06:10:46 AM
Dawn my heart goes out to you. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going thru right now. You are in my prayers.

I know that there are a lot of women out there who have chosen to give up a career such as nursing to stay at home to be SAHM's and I am so happy for them. However I am the only one in this family to do so but there is one thing different ---My kids are grown and married and out of the house!!!! I kinda/sorta/a little bit feel guilty but not to much!!!

Big farmgirl (((((Hugs))))
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4forMe Posted - Apr 08 2008 : 05:50:48 AM
You ladies have wonderful husbands. I also made the right choice and have a fantastic husband. We have been married for 11 years and have 4 living children. I am suffering terribly right now from the loss of our 5th child born still on Saturday at 18 weeks and my husband is and has been my rock.

He has always been a stand up guy and done whatever it took for our family, even when I wasn't the easiest wife. I am an RN and have been a stay at home mom for the last 7 years thanks to my husband's drive and dedication. He has gone above and beyond on anything I asked him to do for me or the kids.

I truly cannot picture my life without him and hope that I never have to.

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