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| FieldsofThyme |
Posted - Mar 22 2012 : 11:23:47 AM
I wise farmgirl told me to see what it would cost for someone to pay another person to do all of my chores etc.
In one quick search, I found this:
"Based on a survey of over 6,500 mothers, Salary.com determined that the time mothers spend performing 10 typical job functions would equate to an annual salary of $115,432 for a stay-at-home mom." (from salary.com)
Another site reported the worth $117,000 (http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,354638,00.html)
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| SpyChicken |
Posted - Mar 27 2012 : 07:31:37 AM
For all of its ups(mostly) and occasional downs, I would not trade being a stay at home mom for anything! There's a big age difference between my kids (19 & 6)...with the older one I did work outside the home on and off but when my son was born we made the decision for me to be at home-worth every sacrifice!!
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| jpbluesky |
Posted - Mar 27 2012 : 05:10:07 AM
SAHM's are priceless!!!! So glad my daughter can be one. I was almost one. I worked the hours my daughter was at school and was home when she was. I wish though that I could have been at home full time. DD also home schools, so her college education is definitely being put to good use! :)
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| Alee |
Posted - Mar 27 2012 : 05:03:47 AM
Man! I wish I had earned that salary when I was a SAHM! I miss those days- being a SAHM is an amazing job-challenging, rewarding, and one of a kind job. It's not something that everyone can do- and I hope that by the time Nora becomes a mom- she will have the choice both inclination wise and financially on whether or not she wants to be a SAHM.
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| lisalisa |
Posted - Mar 24 2012 : 11:30:43 AM
Oh, Nini, it's so great to be appreciated, isn't it? (he's a keeper! )
Reading your post brought tears to my eyes.
Thanks for saying it for all of us! |
| oldbittyhen |
Posted - Mar 24 2012 : 08:50:15 AM
My Mama had a sign in her kitchen that read: " Man works sun to sun, but, a Womens work is NEVER done", and it is oh so true...
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| Ninibini |
Posted - Mar 24 2012 : 08:10:45 AM
AMEN, Lisa! AMEN!!!
Kristina - thank you for sharing this information and these websites with us! 'Makes me feel a lot better about not bringing home the six-figure salary that my sister does! LOL! I just think that there are so many aspects to what we do - one honestly cannot put a price tag on it. To have people devalue what we stay-at-homers do and to be told we "don't work" is not only an insult, it's heartbreaking. To think that people have such low esteem for everything a person does to keep his or her home running and family healthy physically, emotionally and spiritually... it's no wonder the world is as it is today!
One time, my husband and I were discussing college for our son. I expressed how bad I felt that we had invested so much money on college for me, and that I never did anything with it - what a waste. I told him I felt bad that I let him down. He said, "What in the WORLD are you talking about?! You take care of us and everything else around here - you shop, cook, clean, garden, budget, cut coupons, pay bills, do the taxes, play chauffeur - we have whatever we need; you PRAY...you keep on top of things! You keep us healthy, you keep us grounded, and you homeschool our son, for Heaven's sake! He's the smartest, most well-rounded, healthiest kid I know! Don't be silly - your education was not a waste at all, and what you do is more than most people do in a work week! You hold us together - you're the heart of this family. Don't ever think otherwise!" I think it was the first time I saw myself and what I do as being of great value. Suddenly whatever anyone else thought or said didn't mean a thing to me. My husband's acknowledgment and the satisfaction I received from this new perspective of my role in our family really made all the difference. Did I "need" him to tell me that? No... Deep down, I knew it was important! But to have him actually express his appreciation was priceless, and whenever I start feeling "second class" to anyone, I just remember to see myself as he sees me - he's the most beautiful mirror I have! :)
Hugs -
Nini
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| lisalisa |
Posted - Mar 24 2012 : 08:01:32 AM
Way to go, Tina! I'm with you!
Y'know, people just don't appreciate us! |
| oldbittyhen |
Posted - Mar 23 2012 : 6:22:44 PM
My thought was no one would be able to afford us, 4 kids and a small farm/ranch, I think we are all priceless...
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| lisalisa |
Posted - Mar 23 2012 : 4:29:31 PM
I saw you posting and thought -"Her weight in gold!!!" |
| kristin sherrill |
Posted - Mar 23 2012 : 12:56:32 PM
So where do we go pick up our checks? I just figured out how much I am owed for 20 years. $2,340,000.00. What about taxes? I guess we would have had to pay taxes on all that. Even half that is $1,170,000.00. I'll take that. Then there are a few years I raised the grandkids. But then there should be a cost of living raise and all. That's some good money.
Kris
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| Farmtopia |
Posted - Mar 23 2012 : 11:09:55 AM
I agree with whomever mentioned the "job" of a stay at home mother is priceless. How can you measure how much it is to instill character and motivation in small children that should last a lifetimes? Along with being nanny, maid, cook, chauffeur, and teacher?
I'll hand it to those ladies who have taken the plunge: I respect those who dare to adventure into motherhood! What energy you must have f
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| laurentany |
Posted - Mar 22 2012 : 1:41:23 PM
I was (and still am) a stay at home mom. I stayed home full time until my children were both in Elementary School. When my youngest started kindergarten, I was lucky enough to find a job just minutes from home, with flexible hours that allowed me to go to work after I dropped them at school and leave work in time to pick them up from school. My boss allows me to set my own hours and leave for bookfairs, special events etc. My kids are now in 6th and 8th grade, and I still have that same wonderful schedule. I suppose in a few years they will be old enough to stay home "by themselves" if they are off from school etc, but boy, I am so very lucky to have such a wonderful job, which treats me like family and realizes that FAMILY COMES FIRST!
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| ruthie218 |
Posted - Mar 22 2012 : 12:56:42 PM
I was a stay at home for years and loved every minute of it . No amount of money is worth the memories.Then when my dd went to school I taught preschool so I was always home by the time got home,I was off for all the breaks and summer so just like stay at home mom. Now my dd is in college and talks about the things we did when she was growing up. She talks often if has to work about having grammy aka me take care of her children and building memories with them like she had.
Ruthie Ann
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| Bear5 |
Posted - Mar 22 2012 : 11:44:27 AM
Wow! Thanks for sharing that with us. Interesting. I know having a stay at home mom for me was priceless. I wish she could have been paid because she and the other lady who helped raise us deserved every penny.
Marly
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