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sunshine Posted - Nov 22 2008 : 3:17:06 PM
I was asked to post this so I am

This may sound silly but i sent a letter (email) to Clare after her death knowing she wouldn't respond I just wanted to say bye.

her husband responded and asked me to post. The way I sent the email was through the forum he is receiving her emails

here is my email followed by his

To Clare
I miss you and love you may god be with thee and thee with he and your family

love sunshine

I know you will never read this I just wanted to say bye

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this is the letter from steve
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Dear Sunshine,
I am Clares'(suzyhomemaker) husband. I would like to thank everyone who ever coresponded with Clare through this forum. The support, friendship, information, love, was very important to her and our family throughout our journey down this path.

I can't express to you how much I loved her. She was my life. I lived to make her happy.
I know she is with God now so I'm happy about that.

I'm not very good at this E-Mail stuff so if you could post this so everyone could read it.

If any one wishes to contact me please feel free to do so.
sincerly,
Steve

Cervical cancer stage 1b1 8/05
Radical hysterectomy 9/05
Recurrence to right pelvis 8/07
33 total radiation treatments with 7 weekly cisplatin completed 12/08
recurrence to liver 3/08
Avastin 4/08-present
CT Scan in 7/08 shows stable disease


have a lovely day and may God bless you and keep you safe
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Past Blessings Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 10:52:01 PM
My heart breaks for her sweet family, but my tears are a mix of joy and sorrow . . . joy, because she is home with Jesus and out of pain and sorrow for all those she left behind. We will miss her sweet spirit.

Hugs & blessings

Brenda

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queenofdreamsz4u Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 9:37:14 PM
My heart aches for how broken hearted he is and will be forevermore...


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Tammy Claxton Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 3:43:31 PM
Wow, I am at a loss for words right now...

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levisgrammy Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 3:00:57 PM
Sunshine,
thank you for sharing his email back to you. They must have had a wonderful life together. She was blessed to have such a loving husband. We will miss her.

Denise
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abbysshadow Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 12:41:58 PM
ditto from me...sniffle...


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jpbluesky Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 10:26:13 AM
I am crying too. Clare was so lucky in this life to have a love like that. I hope the family is coping okay, and my love goes out to them.

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mikesgirl Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 10:21:23 AM
Thanks Sunshine - Steve sounds like a special guy too.

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K-Falls Farmgirl Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 09:00:04 AM
Sunshine, Thank you for posting this. I never knew Clare but feel her spirit here in all the friends & sisters posting. God Bless Steve and her family.

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electricdunce Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 06:46:06 AM
Your post and Clare's husband's response really touched my heart. Thank you for posting this..

Karin

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Marybeth Posted - Nov 22 2008 : 7:14:06 PM
How sad, sweet and even wonderful. Thanks for sharing. MB

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LivingWell4You Posted - Nov 22 2008 : 6:56:59 PM
Oh my, I was in tears just reading the topic line. That he would take this time to share with the sisters speaks so highly of him. It's apparent what a very special relationship they had. The family will be in my thoughts and prayers for a long time.

God bless -
Karen ~ Chickherder & Farmgirl Sister #311

CountryBorn Posted - Nov 22 2008 : 5:52:05 PM
What a wonderful man. To take the time to respond to her farmgirl
sisters was a kind and so thoughtful thing to do. I am sure he was a wonderful husband to Clare. She always seemed so happy. My heartfelt prayers and warm thoughts go out to him, their children and all who love her.

Mary Jane

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Ga Girl Posted - Nov 22 2008 : 5:33:21 PM
This made me cry. Bless his heart I just hurt for him and their family.

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Nancy Gartenman Posted - Nov 22 2008 : 3:39:36 PM
That was so sweet.

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bohemiangel Posted - Nov 22 2008 : 3:36:23 PM
awwww, wow....touching

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DeepsouthMamma Posted - Nov 22 2008 : 3:32:29 PM


What a kind ,sweet hubby he was to our sister!

Blessings,
Autumn
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Alee Posted - Nov 22 2008 : 3:22:33 PM
Sunshine- Thank you very much for posting that. It made me cry. My heart goes out to the family.

Alee
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