| T O P I C R E V I E W |
| catscharm74 |
Posted - Oct 06 2008 : 09:33:10 AM
I am just not someone to be so attached to something that I could not give it away freely (other than my hubby, son and my pictures (you can have the frames) and my wedding ring and I love my Jeep) you can have anything else. It is just stuff. My neighbor stopped by to see what all the banging was about (I told you I was tearing this house apart) and she was SHOCKED  at the things I am letting go of...mostly what would be considered heirlooms to some but it is just stuff for me. I let go of my attachment to "things" at a young age, when at 16 I donated 90% of my bedroom "stuff" to a local charity yard sale for the Humane Society. My mother just about flipped but I was peaceful and happy. I know this is all directly in some way related to my mother and father's hoarding tendency but I care truly declare that this is who I am supposed to be. This is where I feel at most ease and happy. Simple, clean, pretty but relaxing feel with a heavy emphasis on great food, friendships and living life and not being held back by "stuff" or worrying if someone stops by, the house isn't clean or organized enough. That was a marking point in my quest for a simple life. Moving around a lot in my later life, my friends loved to help me move because it consisted of loading my car with the small stuff and loading one pick up truck of furniture and awkward stuff like my bike. I have moved out and moved back in less than 4 hours before. After living with a very materialistic and image driven roomate, it reconfirmed my belief in the simple life. Now, I just am able to handle the comments with a non chalant whatever, rather than before when I used to make up excuses or whatever. It is who I am.
Heather
Yee-Haw, I am a cowgirl!!!
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| goneriding |
Posted - Oct 12 2008 : 9:33:30 PM
I don't know what I am...depends on the day of the week or month, I think.
Most of the time, I'm happy with very simple and easy life. I really don't want much. The basics plus a few 'gottahaves' and I'm good.
Then I look around at friends and, especially, hubby's family and they have everything that ever happened in their lives and every present and every everything and kind of want to be that way but then I realize I don't want the commitment or have the time to keep it under control.
I guess I'm an adventurer type, I have to know what's over the hill and am kind of proud, in a way, of beign able to up and go. As long as I have my hubby, kids and grandkids and my horse and dogs and can pay my bills (all cash, no credit), I'm good and happy. Anything more and I get antsy.
Winona ;-)
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| sweetproserpina |
Posted - Oct 12 2008 : 9:12:07 PM
I've moved 16 times in my 25 years, and it's amazing how much stuff you don't need when you have to pack and unpack it so much. Lol :)
I'm guilty of books too though- only the ones I'll read over and over, the others get passed along.
"Isn't it splendid to think of all the things there are to find out about? It just makes me feel glad to be alive--it's such an interesting world."
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| catscharm74 |
Posted - Oct 12 2008 : 06:27:48 AM
Oh fresh greenbeans..my favorite!! I do not like canned or frozed but give me a give fresh green bean with a little bacon and onions and salt and pepper and oh my I am a happy girl.
Anna- sounds like you were cleaning my Mom's house!! HA!!
Heather
Yee-Haw, I am a cowgirl!!!
FARMGIRL #90 |
| Annab |
Posted - Oct 12 2008 : 03:24:20 AM
I used to clean house for a friend.
Oh, they paid me very well, but I couldn't handle the clutter.
I mean knicknaks in EVERY corner on every surface even on the floor in corners that chould have had nothing in them! It was all the tedious dusting that probably broke me.
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| Bellepepper |
Posted - Oct 11 2008 : 1:15:17 PM
Heather and Laurie, What fun we could have!!! And you could go home with sacks of apples, tomatoes and Bellpeppers, of course. Having fresh greenbeans for supper tonight, you might have time to get here. Well, probably not. Shucks! |
| Montrose Girl |
Posted - Oct 11 2008 : 10:45:44 AM
Dang, and I was just in kansas a few weeks ago for my nieces new born son. I'd have stopped over for a good meal. :)
Best Growing |
| catscharm74 |
Posted - Oct 11 2008 : 09:51:55 AM
OH Belle...I will be right there... : )
Heather
Yee-Haw, I am a cowgirl!!!
FARMGIRL #90 |
| Bellepepper |
Posted - Oct 11 2008 : 09:50:19 AM
Books, books, and more books. I have read them all but can't get rid of them. I have given away sets of books several times. Don't seem to mind that but can't get rid of a good mystery novel. I have a few old family pieces in my 4 china cabinets. I treasure them but will be glad to pass them on toson and daughter when they are ready for them. Already sending home a piece or two with my daughter when she is here. I didn't come from a family of horders but Mom never cleaned out a drawer. Never got rid of anything from old bras to 35 year old birth announcements. In the same drawer, I might add. That is where I excell. Every drawer in the house is cleaned out at least every 3 months. And the worst place in the house is usually under the sink. Mine is painted white and every thing is in a neat little basket.
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| catscharm74 |
Posted - Oct 11 2008 : 09:25:30 AM
I am very lucky that hubby is very much like me in keeping things simple. He would also buy me ANYTHING but I just do not desire it. We made a decision, after we stayed at a nice extended stay hotel, that we want something simple and beachy. He did notice that I spent WAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYY to much time cleaning just stuff and was always stressed. He would want to go for a bike ride and I would be stressing over the dust on everything. So we eliminated the problem. I do have a bin in my closet that I keep for if I like things but don't want them out right now or say during the holidays. It keeps me sane.
Heather
Yee-Haw, I am a cowgirl!!!
FARMGIRL #90 |
| K-Falls Farmgirl |
Posted - Oct 11 2008 : 08:53:05 AM
The trouble is... I can't always decide what I can't live with sometimes .. then Dh says "If you want something new or bringing something else you LOVE to have or think You NEED.... Something has to go OUT"
It has made me more picky about what I really DO NOT NEED... * It is his home too and I appreciate the respect he gives me for making it a Home for us... he is right....
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Cheryl #309
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| catscharm74 |
Posted - Oct 11 2008 : 08:43:19 AM
Laurie- please don't be impressed. I grew up in a packrat family that put stuff before family. I learned that lesson VERY early on. : )
Heather
Yee-Haw, I am a cowgirl!!!
FARMGIRL #90 |
| Contrary Wife |
Posted - Oct 11 2008 : 07:28:21 AM
Lol, I too am guilty of books and canning jars. Never can have too many, right, Laurie, : )
Teresa Sue
Farmgirl Sister #316
"Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly." The Dalai Lama |
| Montrose Girl |
Posted - Oct 11 2008 : 07:20:31 AM
I'm guilty of books and canning jars. Heather I am so impressed that at 16 you were bale to see beyond all the stuff. i wish I could pass that down to my Niece and her kids, who must have everything and the shoes! I've been home for a over a week now and too busy canning to work much on the interior of the house. A bit of a spending spree actually buying plants that prove I am staying home and finding a job local. the purge will come by years end. I have some boxes I meant to deal with and have just moved around from house to house and the desk! It drives me crazy to sit down and not find anything because of all the electronic stuff. ugh. You are all an inspiration.
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| Annab |
Posted - Oct 10 2008 : 03:25:51 AM
The only materialistic items I really cling to over the ages would have to be our photos and my stereo system.
Sound odd?. I worked my butt off for 6 very long a painful years for that system. It was a gift from my folks. The speakers are huge and can carry an awesome thump for when I;m in one of those moods.
For the photos, wish we could afford one of those big fireproof gun safes.
A few times a year I purge the house and barns and donate to a Habitat for Hunamity thrift store and cloting to Good Will.
Amazing how it accumulates so quickly.
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| ddmashayekhi |
Posted - Oct 09 2008 : 8:14:05 PM
Clean lines and the simple life sound great to me. Whatever makes you happy, do it!
Dawn in IL |
| Contrary Wife |
Posted - Oct 09 2008 : 12:05:56 PM
simplify,simplify, simplify. Words to live by.
Teresa Sue
Farmgirl Sister #316
"Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly." The Dalai Lama |
| catscharm74 |
Posted - Oct 09 2008 : 09:03:06 AM
I am going through what I have left of my Beanie Babies and honestly, I only want the one's I originally started out with. The collection grew to over 200 when family members became obsessed with getting me a new one. Seriously, I had about 15 bears and a few other I really L O V E D, but people insisted on buying them for me. Last year, I donated almost half to a hospital charity for the kids ward. They were all clean and still had their tags on them (all in their little tag protectors). I was just organizing what I had left and purged about 20 more. I kept a few special, like the Texas one, my Patriotic ones and a few others. The rest can go. I know my family would FREAK out if they knew what was going on, but again, it's my life and I need to be true to me.
Heather
Yee-Haw, I am a cowgirl!!!
FARMGIRL #90 |
| Aunt Jenny |
Posted - Oct 07 2008 : 1:20:40 PM
I think I just don't enjoy change. I like the stuff I have..much of it from my grandma..or friends and I feel sentimental about it all. I am irritated by clutter..but as long as I live in a small house with 4 kids still at home I will have clutter to some extent I guess. I Don't add new items to my farmhouse clutter very often anymore like I did when I was younger. I am content with what I have. My mom sent an antique butter churn (the glass jar kind) for my birthday and I was HAPPY to add that. I love it, but wouldn't have went out looking for another one (I do have one already..a gift from a friend) I just don't go shopping much to add things.
I could let go of alot of stuff I am sure. I am thinking when the kids are grown (the youngets is 11 and 1/2) I could easily pare down and be pleased.
Jenny in Utah
Proud Farmgirl sister #24
Inside me there is a skinny woman crying to get out...but I can usually shut her up with cookies
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| Past Blessings |
Posted - Oct 07 2008 : 12:46:56 PM
I think I am with Paige . . .I love the clutter farm house look, but I am really not strongly attached to anything anymore. I just gave some friends a dining table this weekend, that I know I could have sold, but they needed it and the feelings that come with generousity are so much better than any money could buy. If I know someone really loves something, odds are it will eventually end up being theirs! Having dealt in antiques for a long time, I am now to the point of realizing things are just things, so letting go is easy. But I certainly have a lot of things to let go of! LOL!
Hugs & blessings,
Brenda
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| dutchy |
Posted - Oct 07 2008 : 12:44:57 PM
I am sort of a hoarder :( I have way too much stuff and am trying to sort it out. If I am in a frenzy I throw stuff out easily. But other times I just hoard.
My bedroom still is a mess, and every day I promise myself: today is THE day I am going to sort thru all the stuff etc.
But tomorrow I HAVE to because we will have a junk market this Saturday from church, and they are collecting things tomorrow afternoon. SO HAVE to do sorting and stuffing in boxes so i can put it outside. Will gimme some space, lol
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| catscharm74 |
Posted - Oct 07 2008 : 10:45:50 AM
Ok...I will have to charge my camera and take a pic for all ya'll but I just organized my closet by color...guess what color pops up the most??? P I N K!!! HA!!! I have a lot of white, black,brown, pink and turquoise with some odd colors on the end. HA!!! I swear I don't need to buy another turquoise stretchy thin t shirt for years. : ) I like my closet this way,,,it is fun and different from my usually organized by length and item style of doing things. See...things are changing!!!
Heather
Yee-Haw, I am a cowgirl!!!
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| catscharm74 |
Posted - Oct 07 2008 : 09:33:20 AM
I am just doing this today with my clothes. I fill half a bin with stuff I don't L O V E!!! It might be cute...but for someone else. I rather not look at it each day.
I am almost done with my closet and thought I didn't have any cute, nice clothes but after organizing it and keeping just what I love, I realized all I have to buy is some new jeans and one pair of shoes. YEAH!!!!
Heather
Yee-Haw, I am a cowgirl!!!
FARMGIRL #90 |
| La Patite Ferme |
Posted - Oct 07 2008 : 09:07:18 AM
I don't think you're alone Heather. The older I get the shorter my "must keep" list gets. Somewhere I read that clutter can make people feel uneasy, less settled and discontented. I do think that is true, at least for me. And, when that happens I sweep through the house, garage and outside getting rid of stuff that I haven't used for a long time. I always feel so much freer and relaxed afterwards.
I find myself really thinking about what I bring into my house and life. If it has to be dusted, dry cleaned or maintained in someway or is not useful in my farmgirl pursuits (like canning or livestock equip) I really think twice about it. And, I have certainly grown out of the shopping for entertainment thing - thank GOD! Now shopping bores me, unless it's a farm supply store
I'm with you, I know what is important in my life and "stuff" ain't on the list. |
| JessieMae |
Posted - Oct 06 2008 : 4:34:24 PM
My grandmother was a hoarder and my mom is dangerously close to becoming one, and I think that having to live in their messes made the opposite way. I've got a handful of things that I have an emotional attachment to, but there's not a whole lot in my house that I would grieve over if I lost it tomorrow. My husband and I have moved around fairly regularly, too, and that has helped us to keep the non-necessities to a minimum. |
| one_dog_per_acre |
Posted - Oct 06 2008 : 3:11:01 PM
My childhood home burned down about 4 years ago, and I hold onto everything saved that was mine or my sister's from childhood. One thing that I learned from reading feng shui books, is that it is important to get rid of anything that gives you a bad feeling or memory. Last Christmas I gave away all of the Hallmark Snoopy series ornaments I had collected with my ex-husband, because they made me feel sad and reminded me of all the time I wasted with him. I gave them to my best friend that loves Snoopy, she enjoys them without all the baggage.
Trish
Farmgirl Sister #91
Make cupcakes not war!
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