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kysheeplady
True Blue Farmgirl

168 Posts

Teri
KY
USA
168 Posts

Posted - Sep 10 2013 :  3:07:31 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Well, as most of you have seen (if you got the updated list) I am now in the inactive pile. Although it was NOT suppose to be until the end of September, I guess someone felt the need to move me out quicker.

Anyway, I will miss so many of you girls, but I feel as though I need to focus on getting what is important in my life, and that being that my home be finished and complete. I also need to find my center again, to realize that giving your all may mean giving only 25% and not 100% (I may never get there tho):)

and not really certain that I want to.

For those of you that I am partners with I DO plan on honoring my commitment of the swaps I signed on for. Please don't think that I would ever be one of those ...

Anyway, you all have been wonderful friends, and please stop by the farm and let me know you came. Please keep in touch ...




Teri

"There are black sheep in every flock"

White Sheep Farm
www.whitesheepfarm.com
https://www.etsy.com/shop/whitesheepprimitive

Edited by - kysheeplady on Sep 10 2013 3:12:33 PM

treelady
True Blue Farmgirl

1305 Posts

Julie
medina ND
USA
1305 Posts

Posted - Sep 10 2013 :  3:18:49 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Oh Teri,
I will miss you so much on here, but I will stop by the farm to see you. Please come back soon!

Hugs
Julie

A little rain can straighten a flower stem. A little love can change a life.

Max Lucado
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Rain K
True Blue Farmgirl

150 Posts

Rain
Paonia CO
150 Posts

Posted - Sep 10 2013 :  4:13:06 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Teri,
I totally understand life taking over...and seriously, would you rather not do the Fall swap with me? I could just take one of Debbie's two swap partners, and you are off the hook. Let me know, and obviously no hurt feelings, I just want you to have space for your life!
take good care,
Rain

Farmgirl #3381
The Ninth Wave
Earth Meat farms
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Blessed in Colorado
True Blue Farmgirl

5769 Posts

Debbie Fischer
Coos Bay OR
5769 Posts

Posted - Sep 10 2013 :  4:36:59 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Teri,I am sorry I did not see the September 30th date,there is so much going on in my life as well and I am trying to juggle it all. I knew you wanted to be inactive as you told me a week or so ago, so that is why I did it now. Did not mean to jump the gun seriously thought that is what you wanted. Just because you choose to be inactive does not mean you are not part of the HH, you can continue as always reading and posting posts until you no longer want too.
Rain, just let me know if you need another partner.
Hugs,
Debbie

Proud Mama Hen of SPG

"LIFE IS 10% WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU AND 90% WHAT YOU DO WITH WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU." ~ANONYMOUS"

www.etsy.com/shop/CollectThisTreasures

http://debbielynnf.blogspot.com

http://myworld.ebay.com/debbt
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Killarney
True Blue Farmgirl

2115 Posts

Connie
Arlington TN
USA
2115 Posts

Posted - Sep 10 2013 :  5:06:02 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Teri, I will be taking my weekly walk thru the White Sheep Farm as usual! It brings so much Peace and Joy to my rattled nerves!

Imagine....#3392
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violetrose
True Blue Farmgirl

871 Posts

Ruth
Epworth GA
USA
871 Posts

Posted - Sep 10 2013 :  5:07:06 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Teri, I will miss your "smiling face", on the HH. I totally understand, but that doesn't mean I won't miss you!
I will be checking in with you on the Farm from time to time.
Big Hugs,
Ruth

Farmgirl Sister # 1738

God loves each one of us as if there were only one of us!

St. Augustine
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levisgrammy
Scattered Prairie Hen Honcho

10938 Posts

Denise
Ohio
USA
10938 Posts

Posted - Sep 10 2013 :  9:44:59 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Teri,
I will miss you but I will keep up with you through my "visits" to the farm.
Hope all goes well and you do what you need to.
Even though you have to leave for a time you will always be part of the HH.


hugs,
Denise~~
Farmgirl sister#43

"Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path"
Psalm 119:105

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www.torisgram.etsy.com
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl

6194 Posts

darlene
Loleta California
USA
6194 Posts

Posted - Sep 10 2013 :  10:28:22 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Teri I will miss you in the HH but will still be out there on the farm, email me any time.
hugs and blessings.
darlene

Farmgirl # 4943

Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything.
Tell God what you need, and thank him for what he has done.
Philippians 4:6

Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
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Simple Living
True Blue Farmgirl

211 Posts

Joan
Staten Island NY
USA
211 Posts

Posted - Sep 11 2013 :  05:22:19 AM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Please keep in touch Teri, whenever possible :)

A Life Without a Friend is a Life Without Sun.
Farmgirl 3842
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ceridwen
True Blue Farmgirl

2087 Posts

Carole
Champlain New York
USA
2087 Posts

Posted - Sep 11 2013 :  10:09:17 AM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
I too find it difficult to balance it all, motherhood, business owner, quilter, teacher...etc...! Although I have not asked to become inactive, I do not feel the need to be 100% here. Perhaps that is wrong of me. Is that something I too should ask, to become an "inactive member"? After reading this post by Teri, I'm really not sure what is expected of me on this forum.

Carole
Farmgirl Sister 3610
http://www.carolesquiltingetc.com
http://www.fibrejunction.com

Edited by - ceridwen on Sep 11 2013 10:14:48 AM
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marlee
True Blue Farmgirl

871 Posts

Marlene
DeRidder Louisiana
871 Posts

Posted - Sep 11 2013 :  4:56:45 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
AWWWWW! Just because your inactive doesn't mean we stop thinking of you! Hugs Marlee
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tammyc
True Blue Farmgirl

481 Posts

Tammy
Danville California
USA
481 Posts

Posted - Sep 11 2013 :  7:04:10 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Okay, here goes....Mama Hen asked me to post for her (as her computer is down) regarding the active vs. inactive subject in the Henhouse.

All of us girls should be here because we want to be here and have fun...not because we feel we have to be. We do not have to post every single day, post on every single thread, participate in every swap, etc., etc., etc. We all know this. The Henhouse should be a place of fun and friendship.

That being said, there is and should be a level of participation for anyone who is an "active" member of the Henhouse. That level would be participating in a swap once in awhile, maybe sending a birthday card or posting a wish for a birthday, a post here and there just to say hi, or comment on a thread, or do one of the crafts. Most all of us do that, and do it happily. Every single one of us has a busy personal life outside MJF...be it jobs, family, health issues, running a farm, you name it. Yet, almost all of us still find the time to be active, happy members of the henhouse that our Mama Hen is so proud of. The consensus is that if you are too busy to participate, you should probably step back, go on an "inactive" status and see if your situation changes and you feel more able to participate. If you don't ever post or participate, there is really not much of a reason to be in the Henhouse, especially if you are very active on the other MJF forum. Bottom line is that anyone who wants to be "active" can find the time to post even once a week to say "hi, have a great weekend" or some such thing. Hope that clears up any questions on what is "expected" of an active member.

Thanks girls!!

"Be who you are and say what you like because the people who mind don't matter and the people who matter don't mind" - Dr. Seuss
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Rain K
True Blue Farmgirl

150 Posts

Rain
Paonia CO
150 Posts

Posted - Sep 11 2013 :  7:14:02 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Teri and I are still going to be fall swap partners...we exchanged a private email and I will do my best to make sure Teri feels totally loved on the way into inactive status mode.
hugs to all,
Rain

Farmgirl #3381
The Ninth Wave
Earth Meat farms
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Killarney
True Blue Farmgirl

2115 Posts

Connie
Arlington TN
USA
2115 Posts

Posted - Sep 11 2013 :  7:27:32 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Tammy, Well stated! Makes it clear for me!


Connie Imagine....#3392
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LadyInRed
True Blue Farmgirl

296 Posts

PeggyAnn
Vancouver WA
USA
296 Posts

Posted - Sep 11 2013 :  11:57:20 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Tammy...thanks for that post. I get the same thing all the time as The Mail Art Hostess.
People are always asking to take a break and that is just fine. I put them back in when
they want to. I had already put Teri in an Inactive Status when Mama Hen first told us
that she needed a break. But I too love to check in on her Farm Blog and such. We don't
write her off in our hearts and minds. Unless she later decides to no longer participate
(which I hope she won't but it's up to her). Seems Simple To Me!

blessings and hugs,
Peggy

Farmgirl #1326
http://ladyinredsite.blogspot.com

"Leave Your Cares Behind...Join Us On The Porch"

"I'm only as strong as the caffeine I drink, the hair-spray I use and the Girlfriends that I have."

When I was a lonely wallflower, Jesus asked me to dance. Then he asked me to be His!
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl

6194 Posts

darlene
Loleta California
USA
6194 Posts

Posted - Sep 13 2013 :  12:18:29 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Thanks Tammy it makes sense to me now.
hugs to you all,
darlene

Farmgirl # 4943

Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything.
Tell God what you need, and thank him for what he has done.
Philippians 4:6

Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
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