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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: Gravity and brittle bones Update |
Audra Rose
True Blue Farmgirl
2278 Posts
Vanessa
Brooksville
KY
USA
2278 Posts |
Posted - Sep 24 2023 : 1:07:09 PM
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This afternoon my mother-in-law fell. Luckily she was upstairs in our living room. Unfortunately she has a broken hip. She is 93.
**** The nurse at her nursing home informed us that due to several things Dee is in decline my husband and his older sister decided to allow her to pass away in peace. She will be cared for and we've notified family. We don't know how much time she has left. ************************ December 2nd My mother-in-law is still hanging on. She can walk short distances but the daily care she will need is more than my husband and I can provide and would be expensive. My husband's older sister told her that she would stay in the nursing home but could take day outings and have 2 weeks vacation. I know my husband is relieved that she will be monitored for her chronic leukemia and heart problems. We are fortunate that she's nearby and we'll see her often. God is good. **************
My mother-in-law will be staying in the nursing home. We cannot care for her ourselves and a caregiver would be expensive. She is well cared for there but sometimes she gets funny ideas like she's being abused in the basement or arrested for attacking a nurse. It's hardest for my husband because she leaves pitiful messages on his phone. We never know if she will be lively or apathetic. My a d Churunga's mom also fell and broke her hip. She is now in a nursing home and is in therapy. It's cold and snowy today. The dogs have cabin fever. Thank goodness for crafts and quilting
Vanessa Farmgirl Sister #6754
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Edited by - Audra Rose on Jan 10 2024 05:39:21 AM |
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
7714 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
7714 Posts |
Posted - Sep 24 2023 : 1:11:38 PM
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Oh my gosh Vanessa, I am so sorry! Is she at home or at the hospital? I will put her in my prayers!
Hugs for you too! Darlene
Trust in your faith, not your emotions, when it comes to making life’s decisions. I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment. by Frances Farmer Just. follow God unquestionably Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I TRUST IN YOU JESUS
#4943 - March 2013 FGOTM June 2013 FGOTY 2016
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Audra Rose
True Blue Farmgirl
2278 Posts
Vanessa
Brooksville
KY
USA
2278 Posts |
Posted - Sep 24 2023 : 1:18:48 PM
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She's at the hospital. Surgery is tomorrow, the rehab in a neighboring county.
Vanessa Farmgirl Sister #6754
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Wanda Sue
True Blue Farmgirl
1248 Posts
Wanda
Murrells Inlet
SC
USA
1248 Posts |
Posted - Sep 24 2023 : 1:25:32 PM
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Oh no, sending prayers on her behalf.
A day hemmed in prayer is less likely to unravel.
Farm Girl #3677 FGOTM August 2022 |
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Blessed in Colorado
True Blue Farmgirl
6717 Posts
Debbie L.
Oregon
USA
6717 Posts |
Posted - Sep 24 2023 : 1:37:41 PM
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Sending prayers Vanessa.
Big Hugs, Debbie #1582 Blessed in Oregon With Colorado on My Mind Farmgirl of the Month September 2012, February 2018, September 2022 “My altars are My Mountains and the Ocean.” Lord Byron”
When I am Old I Shall Wear Purple, I am Old now!!
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Dreamer42
True Blue Farmgirl
2694 Posts
April
Central
Oregon
USA
2694 Posts |
Posted - Sep 24 2023 : 2:37:31 PM
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Love and prayers to your mother in law, so sorry to hear she fell.
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ddmashayekhi
True Blue Farmgirl
4759 Posts
Dawn
Naperville
Illinois
USA
4759 Posts |
Posted - Sep 24 2023 : 6:32:45 PM
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Oh no Vanessa! Praying she will heal quickly.
Dawn in IL
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Jokamartell
True Blue Farmgirl
1627 Posts
Karen
Kennewick
WA
USA
1627 Posts |
Posted - Sep 24 2023 : 6:55:58 PM
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Prayers for a successful surety and recovery.
Karen :)
To quote one of my past preschoolers “Not one of those Karens, but a good Karen”! Haha |
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windypines
True Blue Farmgirl
4313 Posts
Michele
Bruce
Wisconsin
USA
4313 Posts |
Posted - Sep 25 2023 : 03:31:54 AM
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Prayers for you all.
Farming in WI
Michele
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Red Tractor Girl
True Blue Farmgirl
6663 Posts
Winnie
Gainesville
Fl
USA
6663 Posts |
Posted - Sep 25 2023 : 3:06:23 PM
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Vanessa, I am sorry to hear about your Mother-in-law's fall and broken hip. It is the problem of so many of our seniors. Sending my prayers that she has a speedy recovery and will be back to being able to do what she loves to do real soon.
Winnie #3109 Red Tractor Girl Farm Sister of the Year 2014-2015 FGOTM- October 2018 |
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Audra Rose
True Blue Farmgirl
2278 Posts
Vanessa
Brooksville
KY
USA
2278 Posts |
Posted - Sep 25 2023 : 5:33:26 PM
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Thank you all! She got through the surgery fine. The doctor said she has good bones for her age. After a few days she's going to be transferred to the nursing home in our county. It's rated above average, but I've been there and it smells. Maybe that will be incentive for her to exercise and come home.
Vanessa Farmgirl Sister #6754
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Jokamartell
True Blue Farmgirl
1627 Posts
Karen
Kennewick
WA
USA
1627 Posts |
Posted - Sep 25 2023 : 7:53:42 PM
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Praises to God for a successful surgery and strong bones! :)
Karen :)
To quote one of my past preschoolers “Not one of those Karens, but a good Karen”! Haha |
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
7714 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
7714 Posts |
Posted - Sep 25 2023 : 9:13:35 PM
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Oh what good news! I am glad she has strong bones!! That does make a whole lot of difference! I will keep her in my prayers and hope she works hard to get out of there. Maybe she will enjoy her physical therapy and get out sooner. Vanessa you take care of yourself too!
Hugs and love Darlene
Trust in your faith, not your emotions, when it comes to making life’s decisions. I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment. by Frances Farmer Just. follow God unquestionably Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I TRUST IN YOU JESUS
#4943 - March 2013 FGOTM June 2013 FGOTY 2016
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criley
True Blue Farmgirl
85 Posts
Connie
Eldon
MO
USA
85 Posts |
Posted - Sep 26 2023 : 3:03:01 PM
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Vanessa, is your M-I-L doing okay? The couple of days after a fall and surgery are always the most painful, I hear.
Coni
Farmgirl Sister #4938 Livin' the Life of Riley |
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levisgrammy
True Blue Farmgirl
9436 Posts
Denise
Beavercreek
Ohio
USA
9436 Posts |
Posted - Sep 26 2023 : 4:25:50 PM
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So glad to hear she came through surgery well and prayers for her road to recovery. My dad had the same when he was 87 but he had to have a rriple bypass before he could have the surgery.
~Denise Sister #43~1/18/2007
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Red Tractor Girl
True Blue Farmgirl
6663 Posts
Winnie
Gainesville
Fl
USA
6663 Posts |
Posted - Sep 26 2023 : 5:01:17 PM
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Vanessa, I am happy to hear that your mother-in-law's surgery went well!! I hope her rehab goes well so she won't have to stay there long.
Winnie #3109 Red Tractor Girl Farm Sister of the Year 2014-2015 FGOTM- October 2018 |
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Audra Rose
True Blue Farmgirl
2278 Posts
Vanessa
Brooksville
KY
USA
2278 Posts |
Posted - Sep 26 2023 : 5:44:21 PM
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She is still a bit absent minded and needs to drink more liquids. My sister-in-law is sitting with her so my husband can have a break.
Vanessa Farmgirl Sister #6754
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
7714 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
7714 Posts |
Posted - Sep 26 2023 : 10:26:39 PM
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Vanessa prayers continuing for you all!
Take care D
Trust in your faith, not your emotions, when it comes to making life’s decisions. I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment. by Frances Farmer Just. follow God unquestionably Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I TRUST IN YOU JESUS
#4943 - March 2013 FGOTM June 2013 FGOTY 2016
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MBurns
True Blue Farmgirl
1857 Posts
Marlene
Swisher
IA
USA
1857 Posts |
Posted - Sep 27 2023 : 11:05:21 AM
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So sorry to hear Vanessa. Hope she is recovering ok.
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katmom
True Blue Farmgirl
17161 Posts
Grace
WACAL Gal
WashCalif.
USA
17161 Posts |
Posted - Sep 27 2023 : 5:04:35 PM
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Oh Vanessa,, hope your M.I.L is doing better... hugs, hugs, hugs...
>^..^< Happiness is being a katmom and Glamping Diva!
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Audra Rose
True Blue Farmgirl
2278 Posts
Vanessa
Brooksville
KY
USA
2278 Posts |
Posted - Sep 28 2023 : 4:20:06 PM
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At her age, 93, the anesthetic is hard to shake off.
Vanessa Farmgirl Sister #6754
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criley
True Blue Farmgirl
85 Posts
Connie
Eldon
MO
USA
85 Posts |
Posted - Sep 29 2023 : 09:44:30 AM
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Vanessa, hugs to you all.
Coni
Farmgirl Sister #4938 Livin' the Life of Riley |
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Audra Rose
True Blue Farmgirl
2278 Posts
Vanessa
Brooksville
KY
USA
2278 Posts |
Posted - Oct 05 2023 : 6:59:48 PM
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Update: she is in our local nursing home and will be going into therapy. We hope to have her home in 3 weeks.
Vanessa Farmgirl Sister #6754
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Jokamartell
True Blue Farmgirl
1627 Posts
Karen
Kennewick
WA
USA
1627 Posts |
Posted - Oct 05 2023 : 7:09:23 PM
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Vanessa, thank you for the update! I will continue to keep her and you and your hubby in my prayers. :)
Karen :)
To quote one of my past preschoolers “Not one of those Karens, but a good Karen”! Haha |
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Blessed in Colorado
True Blue Farmgirl
6717 Posts
Debbie L.
Oregon
USA
6717 Posts |
Posted - Oct 05 2023 : 7:22:26 PM
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Continued prayers Vanessa.
Big Hugs, Debbie #1582 Blessed in Oregon With Colorado on My Mind Farmgirl of the Month September 2012, February 2018, September 2022 “My altars are My Mountains and the Ocean.” Lord Byron”
When I am Old I Shall Wear Purple, I am Old now!!
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
7714 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
7714 Posts |
Posted - Oct 05 2023 : 11:35:05 PM
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Vanessa My prayers continue for you! Also to her getting stronger with physical therapy! Darlene
Trust in your faith, not your emotions, when it comes to making life’s decisions. I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment. by Frances Farmer Just. follow God unquestionably Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I TRUST IN YOU JESUS
#4943 - March 2013 FGOTM June 2013 FGOTY 2016
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Edited by - darlenelovesart on Oct 06 2023 09:39:17 AM |
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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: Gravity and brittle bones Update |
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