Well, it's been very interesting to be going back to marriage counseling. I was very nervous, but I did it. I am married to a man who asked if we could go to counseling. I have to admit I was ready to leave this man. For two and a half years. He's been very angry. I didn't think I could handle it. I had already been in a marriage years ago. That didn't work out. Oh, we did do lots of marriage counseling through our church and other options too. I just wanted to not be in the same life I've been in before. I married this husband because he said and acted at the time that he was a believer in Yeshua. But after his momma died. He became so angry and attacked my son emotionally and me too. It became too hard to live in. So here we are in marriage counseling. It was his suggestion. I said OK let's give it a try. Like I said before it's been interesting. He's not as angry anymore. But I lost total trust. I am trusting Yeshua/Jesus all the way. And I don't want to give up. I am still very Leary. I will keep praying and trusting my savior every step. As I walk in the counseling sessions. I cast all my care to Yeshua.
Carmen, I am so sorry for all you have endured and nd the betrayal you feel. I will pray for you and your family. And remember - For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Stay faithful.
Sending prayers your way, Carmen, that you both find your way back together and that he finds a positive and helpful way to manage his grief. Grief can be so ugly and so painful. Hugs.