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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: Need Farm Girl Hugs and Comforting Words |
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marjean
True Blue Farmgirl
3851 Posts
Marsha
Deltona
FL
USA
3851 Posts |
Posted - Nov 21 2018 : 10:37:21 AM
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Well this month has been a series of shocks. I received a message on FB about a friendship I developed with a woman on my Etsy team years ago. I helped her through her Mother's passing of cancer.
The message just said she passed away over the weekend. Who sends messages of a death on FB?
Then I received a message from one of my siblings that my Father was in the hospital on life support and I needed to sign a paper to take him off the ventilator.
I didn't have much to do with my Dad or siblings. Just a very painful past experience. So, to be needed at his death was very unsettling.
He was taken off the life support on Sunday and is now at peace.
I could really use some uplifting cards and words of comfort.
I did not know how his death would affect me until now. I just want to go on with my life and be at peace again.
Thanks for your kindness.
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loribeck
True Blue Farmgirl
588 Posts
Lori
Alvordton
36
USA
588 Posts |
Posted - Nov 21 2018 : 6:12:39 PM
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Marjean- I'm sorry for your loss and for all you are going through right now. I will be praying for you during this hard time and sending hugs and warm thoughts your way. God bless you.
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
7583 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
7583 Posts |
Posted - Nov 21 2018 : 7:37:34 PM
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Oh Marjean, I am so sorry to hear, Death is hard no matter who it is. You will be in my prayers, You take care of yourself too.
Blessings darlene
Trust in your faith, not your emotions, when it comes to making life’s decisions.
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment. by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly. Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... FGOTM Nov 2017 |
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ddmashayekhi
True Blue Farmgirl
4737 Posts
Dawn
Naperville
Illinois
USA
4737 Posts |
Posted - Nov 21 2018 : 7:46:20 PM
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Hugs to you Marjean. I'm so sorry for your losses. Please know we are all here for you.
Dawn in IL
"I cannot endure to waste anything so precious as autumnal sunshine by staying in the house. So I have spent almost all the daylight hours in the open air." Nathaniel Hawthorne |
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craftingram
True Blue Farmgirl
526 Posts
Karin
Nashville
In
USA
526 Posts |
Posted - Nov 24 2018 : 04:34:43 AM
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Marjean, I am so sorry for your losses, and also for the way you were informed. We never know how things are going to affect us until they occur. Sending prayers and hugs and hoping that you will heal in the days to come.
Karin Sister #2708
Romans 8: 38,39 |
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Audra Rose
True Blue Farmgirl
2246 Posts
Vanessa
Brooksville
KY
USA
2246 Posts |
Posted - Nov 24 2018 : 05:46:39 AM
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Marsha, I am so sorry to hear of the sad news that hit you so suddenly. Praying for your peace.
Farmgirl Sister #6754 Doxie Mom - Everyone loves a Weiner!
Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs just need to relax and accept it.
Write it on your heart that every day is the best day of the year. NPR Reader's Almanac |
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Tumbleweed
True Blue Farmgirl
1029 Posts
Nancy
Texas
USA
1029 Posts |
Posted - Nov 24 2018 : 06:57:06 AM
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Hi Marsha Sending you hugs and prayers.
TW
The fun begins where the sidewalk ends. Shel Silverstein |
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Joey
True Blue Farmgirl
1868 Posts
Joey
Gulf Coast
FL
USA
1868 Posts |
Posted - Nov 24 2018 : 07:22:07 AM
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SO sorry to hear this. I am sorry for your loses. Death and grief are hard. Sending hugs and prayers to you.
Well behaved women rarely make history. Farmgirl #5554 |
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HollerGirl56
True Blue Farmgirl
1334 Posts
Barbara
Flat Top
WV
USA
1334 Posts |
Posted - Nov 24 2018 : 08:45:37 AM
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Marsha---I really do understand what you are going through. I loved my mom so much but she was always mean to me. When she committed suicide in 1997 it really threw me for a loop. I think losing a parent is so hard when we did not get along is because we realize that there is no more hope that things will mend and be OK. Also it makes us think of our own deaths and how close that is. My best friend died of cancer five years ago and I did not get to say a proper good-bye. I talked to her husband as we could not bear to speak of it. My car broke down and I could not travel to see her and she did not answer my letters---hurt me so bad. I did go to the funeral and her husband put me in the front seat by his son as we went to the cemetery. How she hurt me by no response and how my mom hurt me by her suicide. Life is sure hard and people are mean at times. All we can do is do our best and live good kind and caring lives. God bless you and HE will see you through. As you age you will understand there is nothing we can do about certain things. Time hardens your heart a little bit and gives you strength. God bless you---you are in HIS care.
Old Age Ain't No Place For Sissies!------Bette Davis |
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Red Tractor Girl
True Blue Farmgirl
6592 Posts
Winnie
Gainesville
Fl
USA
6592 Posts |
Posted - Nov 25 2018 : 04:52:10 AM
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Marsha, I am sorry to hear about the death of your special friend and father all in the same month. Sending prayers of comfort and peace in your heart.
Winnie #3109 Red Tractor Girl Farm Sister of the Year 2014-2015 FGOTM- October 2018 |
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Marcy
True Blue Farmgirl
2701 Posts
Marcy
Tiverton
Rhode Island
USA
2701 Posts |
Posted - Nov 26 2018 : 09:27:19 AM
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I am so very sorry for your loss. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Please know that you are thought of.
hugs, Marcy
Farmgirl #170
FGOTM August 2012
Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give...Eleanor Roosevelt
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Edited by - Marcy on Nov 26 2018 09:28:09 AM |
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windypines
True Blue Farmgirl
4178 Posts
Michele
Bruce
Wisconsin
USA
4178 Posts |
Posted - Nov 27 2018 : 02:12:00 AM
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Sending prayers for this difficult time of life.
Farming in WI
Michele |
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levisgrammy
True Blue Farmgirl
9323 Posts
Denise
Beavercreek
Ohio
USA
9323 Posts |
Posted - Nov 27 2018 : 4:36:11 PM
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So very sorry for the loss of your friend and your father. It is difficult to go through and grieving takes time. Sending you hugs and prayers.
~Denise Sister #43~1/18/2007
"Home is where we find comfort, security, memories, friendship, hospitality, and above all, family. It is the place that deserves our commitment and loyalty." William J. Bennett
"Thy Word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path." Psalm 119:105
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marjean
True Blue Farmgirl
3851 Posts
Marsha
Deltona
FL
USA
3851 Posts |
Posted - Dec 04 2018 : 10:09:14 AM
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Thank you so much for all of your kind and uplifting words of encouragement. They all mean the world to me.
An extra special Thank You to Winnie and Vanessa for the cards and tea. They were the perfect way to help me get through this rough patch in my life. Keeping you all in my prayers.
Farmgirl sister #308 Wallets & Travel Accessories, Tea Wallets, and Hankie Envelopes http://www.marketsofsunshine.online
Card Making Circle of Friends www.marshajaramillo.stampinup.net Tea Lover's www.tealightfultea.net/sweetretreats FGOM 5/2018 |
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texdane
Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru
4658 Posts
Nicole
Sandy Hook
CT
USA
4658 Posts |
Posted - Dec 05 2018 : 6:56:32 PM
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Oh Marjean, I am just seeing this. I am so very sorry to hear all you have been through. Hugs, prayers, and warm thoughts to you my farmgirl friend, May 2019 be a better year.
Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole Farmgirl Sister #1155 Suburban Farmgirl Blogger Chapter Leader, CT Simpler Life Sisters Farmgirl of the Month, Jan. 2013
Suburban Farmgirl Blog http://sfgblog.maryjanesfarm.org/
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marjean
True Blue Farmgirl
3851 Posts
Marsha
Deltona
FL
USA
3851 Posts |
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ceejay48
Farmgirl Legend/Schoolmarm/Sharpshooter
13618 Posts
CeeJay (CJ)
Dolores
Colorado
USA
13618 Posts |
Posted - Dec 11 2018 : 12:57:03 PM
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Marsha, I am just now seeing this as well and I'm sorry for being so late in being able to encourage and pray for you. However, I do now send you encouragement and will be praying! Life can throw us for such a loop sometimes!! HUGS and PRAYERS! CJ
..from the barefoot farmgirl in SW Colorado...sister chick #665. 2010 Farmgirl Sister of the Year
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marjean
True Blue Farmgirl
3851 Posts
Marsha
Deltona
FL
USA
3851 Posts |
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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: Need Farm Girl Hugs and Comforting Words |
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